 Why do narcissists treat you this way? The narcissist depended on you. They needed you for support. They relied on you, but they always find a way to mess it up because they have trouble controlling their emotions and behaviors, which causes them to become very unstable and unpredictable, where they will do anything to regain their emotional stability because they're completely out of control. They're disorderly and disruptive. They're unmanageable. They're not amenable to discipline or control, but they're trying to give the appearance that they are in control. They're trying to give the appearance that they can behave appropriately, but you cannot reason with them because they have poor cognitive reasoning skills. So there's no way to stop them from damaging the very source that they depend on because they also hate and resent anyone that they are depended on because deep down they understand that they need you, but they want to entertain their delusions of grandiosity where they are superior and greater than other people. So even though you may be doing everything they want you to do, their delusional state triggers a sudden and unreflective urge or desire to act, and it's very difficult for them to control, but it leads them to lie, cheat or steal from you because they're not strong enough to suppress the development action or expression of a feeling impulse idea. They cannot delay gratification. So they expect their wants, needs and desires to be considered as being more important than someone else or something. They expect to have priority in a pawn's order or rank. They expect to prevail over any moral or ethical agreements that you may have had with them because they don't know how to stop. They can't control their impulses. So they try to control the world around them by engaging in acts that may be considered inappropriate or unfair. They lie to you. They stole from you. They cheated on you. They did all of these things to you because they were never loyal to you. It was all about them, but they even broke their own rules and regulations. They couldn't even be committed to themselves. Everything that they said they valued and believed in, they went against that. So if they couldn't even be loyal or committed to themselves, you should know that you don't have anything coming because a person must first have their own values and beliefs before they can value and believe in you. They must first be committed to themselves before they can commit to you, but sometimes there is no logical explanation or reason for why they do what they do. It's just their inherent and unchangeable character. They operate within their disorder, which eventually destroys them as well because they're heedless of danger from the consequences of their own actions. They're out of control just so they can try to maintain their supply so that they're not exposed and so that they don't lose their supply. Why do narcissists treat you this way? They treat you this way because they're out of control. They're very dangerous, but they managed to convince you that they were normal and sane when in reality they are not normal at all. They were at war with themselves and you got caught in the crossfire. They did everything they could to make it seem like it was safe, but then you soon discovered that they are not normal and they are actually very dangerous. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. If you would like to donate, my PayPal link is in the video description. Coaching inquiries. You can email me at coaching.org survivor at the Co-UK. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.