 it's got its staples I had to um I had to make a couple of copies of stuff uh first of all the one the main reason was for me to fax over documentation to the plastic surgeon office because I don't know if I mentioned in my previous video yeah I'm all over the place because I'm not I'm not weekly this is not weekly vlogging this is like monthly girl so I may excuse me if I'm repeating stuff I guess is what I'm trying to say so um what is that the hell my plastic surgeon my my surgery was basically denied they were like we you don't qualify I think I've mentioned it like basically is not medical necessary I'm like girl uh y'all that I was from a certain type of way when I got that letter but there isn't a pill process and I'm going through that right now so go get to the point so what I have here all of this right here is close to 40 pages of documentation everywhere from my chiropractic visits my doctor visits and I also went to my gym and asked them for a report of when I have been going to the gym I'm like dang I was going to the gym this much I still didn't lost any weight I'm proud of myself especially in May I was hitting up the gym almost every day but all of this is to show that I've I've tried to do as much as possible to uh lose the titty fat oh god to basically you know strengthen my back and not have as much injury now I was saved for the past week or so I've been having short pains in my blade um but they wanted me to fax this over girl no ma'am no ma'am I calculated actually I you know you can see how much it's going to cost before you pay for it because I'm at staples $145 so I'm about to call miss Ynet I call her Ynet and her name is Ynet I'm going to call um the plastic surgeon and be like I'm going to drop this stuff off but I make copies of the stuff that I want copies of that I need to keep um so I'm like I'm just going to drop all this paperwork off because we're talking about close to 40 pages $145 just came back from a second school tour of JV school y'all I'm feeling a certain type of way with my son going into kindergarten I need to stop calling him my baby because I really do think that he's my child he will always be my baby but he's not a baby I think that we need to get out of that habit and I mean we as and black people uh given our children especially boys uh nicknames like I don't refer to JBS my little man he's not a little man he ain't my man um and I know people for girls they say little mama and I heard of someone who was calling her little boy daddy I was in one girl I was in one of those ratchet Facebook groups and someone said that they know someone who calls their little boy daddy I don't even call my husband daddy I only have one father besides the holy father no yes so anyway I want to get away from calling him my baby or a baby because he's not it was an assistant principal who gave us the tour and she uh let us know that they have a summer camp so I don't have to include him on the in the camp that the school that he's in excuse me he just he could just go ahead and go to the summer camp at the kindergarten then go to the kindergarten boot camp and then start kindergarten so that's what we're gonna do excuse me I just got finished eating some turkey not turkey some chicken lettuce wraps so good I'm trying to watch my carbs because it is that time of the year hold on do you see do you see these trayfolis why do you know why they call trayfols trayfols I say trayfolis girl scott cookies one of the hell they girl scott cookies go up to five dollars a box four dollars 350 something like that and then um I even said that y'all y'all I'm animated the person that you see right here is the person is who you see in person so when he said five dollars a box I said five dollars a box and he started laughing I'm like these crack cookies are worth it though so here's my five dollars and give me these trayfolis I can't even see I'll probably make us some appetizers this is for Valentine's Day child he's had a cataract surgery on Valentine's Day you probably didn't notice me like the day afterwards I went to Walmart this stuff was on sale for 70% off 98 cents for a lot of these Valentine's Day so I'm gonna put together Valentine's Day packages literally everything probably cost me less than eight bucks seven eight bucks because I got it on clearance even his um his Valentine's and they're they're they're they're taste change so just because I get power patrol this year doesn't mean he's gonna like power patrol next year so I'm not gonna waste my coins getting it Ninja Turtles he likes Ninja Turtles right Mubu I do not like Ninja Turtles child okay baby this is not my post baptism meal y'all I have to give them my testimony help health wise I got um a wing who am I showing y'all this let me tell you a wing chicken thigh biscuit and I had a taste for mashed potatoes you're supposed to eat eat it like this you're gonna cut bite into the jalapeno mm I mean let that juice go over your chicken that's how we're eating the country here baby this church has grown y'all I mean I will get to that book on mm this is the church that a lot of people stop going to because the preacher is a long lines of prosperity preacher but when I went in there today I haven't been there the last time I was there I was pregnant with JB and how I feel about it I feel that churches should be growing um yeah so I don't know and daddy's sick we'll get to that too bubble you like the lemonade don't drink all my lemonade child anyway so I hadn't been to this church since let me zoom in so I haven't been to this church since um I was pregnant with him okay baby they painted the inside I mean there are certain parts of the church I recognize and then certain parts I'm like oh it's very different they had like six LED hold on baby LED TV screens I mean they've dropped several thousands of dollars into this church I'm like wow um they've always had a Starbucks yes girl they have a Starbucks but now they're serving hot food uh every Saturday they have a grill that you can buy tacos and stuff I'm like wow they have a bookstore I mean so the baptism went great they did a little telling me about baptism and all that I'm not a babe in Christ so I understand all the importance of it but it was good to cover it for those of us for those who just needed to hear it again or the first time hearing it I dropped JB off at the kingdom kids area while when I went to go pick pick him up some old crotchety lady was like I had to speak to him a couple of times she was giving me miss cam tease miss Kim was the old older teacher from his from his previous school who kept saying that JB was was giving her a hard time so this woman had that same demeanor she's like I had to speak to him a few times he wasn't listening I said okay he's fine and she looked at me she went on and on she's like you and telling me what he was doing basically when they sit down to eat um he wouldn't he wouldn't sit there and eat with them I said he doesn't eat pizza she said but yeah you gotta follow the rules I saw understand I said but this is his first time coming one no I'm not making excuses but this is his first time coming one it's late it's almost eight o'clock he usually goes to bed at eight he's over tired she said well yeah I know and there's 50 kids here I'm like well I said you know well which is I just came here to get baptized more than likely I won't be coming down here again and I didn't say that that's what I wanted to say he was excited I told her hold on baby I told her I said I'll let you speak I'm sorry I told us that he's super excited he has not been around kids in three days she's like doesn't he go to school I said he's in pre-care she's like oh this school this class is for five and six years old I said that I'm thinking okay well I don't know why they put him in this classroom go ahead baby here is my baptism certificate I'm touching it with her yeah y'all so excited look water went into my nose and ears and I like got like a brain freeze feeling type I was like oh my god so I should have closed my nose but this chicken not even spicy mm-hmm look it back there like I'm really gonna go back and like you know it's not spicy ain't gonna do that I'm eating it my husband used to live I mean not live my husband used to work around here speaking of he is sick well he came to bed yesterday he was coughing and hacking I was telling JB don't you go near him I'm not trying to have everybody sick so anyway he was like I don't know I don't think it's my allergies I'm like no this is too much body fluids JB they're not trying to see your leapfrog they're trying to see my mashed potatoes I'm like no player that's too it's too many body fluids for it to be when he woke up sneezing and tissues but I was like why is my lifestyle spring I brought out the lifestyle spray I sprayed some elderberry elderberry elderberry I poured all the elderberry juice in a cup and this is a concentrated kind so you have to deal with water yeah I need to buy some more actually I need to make some you can buy you can make it as long as you buy the berries anyway so I said oh no I gave him all my vitamin C packs I said you are not not only are you not about to get a sick but I don't want to hear you sick for a week yeah there's nothing that gets on my that works my nerves and a man that's sick oh baby call off work don't take off don't do nothing else but but hear me moan and groan about being sick child because they can't multitask when they sick they can multitask anyway but when they sick and that's no that's no offense though there's no offense to any of my my gentlemen that watch my channel because I know that's a few men that watch my channel shout out to Mike Mike these mashed potatoes are weak now Jabby is so name on silly hey y'all what's the date I gotta start giving y'all dates because I feel like these vlogs that are longer these monthly vlogs and more than likely the February will be broken into two videos because at this point it's a mess you all my transitioners um um hold on congratulations oh what girl I just noted up a hair video how many other ideas for hair video hair related videos until I start doing reviews again um and I want to do some I want to have new content weekly anyway I'm putting a certain type of way you guys lately um let me start off by saying hey how y'all doing it is February 7th it's my mama's birthday oh love wonder why she ignoring me I think it's her birthday it's her birthday hold on y'all let me call my mama hold on y'all my days are all messed up yeah did you get my message you get my message on Facebook yeah okay y'all got my mama's birthday wrong y'all it's me too many people birthdays I got too many family members and in my my sister's birthdays and a few more weeks look that's my excuse um but y'all y'all just hurt me I'm trying to I'm going to try to convince my husband to move back to Texas my husband does not like Texas y'all what the hell what's going on with this light sorry y'all there we go my husband doesn't like Texas he's complains about the weather he said their immunity made his head hurt um he doesn't like the politics I'm like Arizona is conservative too so what are you talking about um but and I don't I don't want to nag him about it but I woke up last night I was just so homesick I started crying because I was I'm so homesick um and just thinking about I don't know getting older I'm gonna be 40 in a couple more years and the reality is it is I'm gonna be losing family members especially on my mom and dad side because my parents are getting older they're not old but they're getting older um people don't live forever I missed my grandmother's funeral I missed my grandfather's funeral because literally when I for my grandmother for my big mama I went to go see her I went to Texas and three days later she suddenly died I just couldn't afford to pay for another round ticket to go back to Texas and I just couldn't do it um and it's anything with my grandfather like literally a few days later he passed away after I visited so I wouldn't have we wouldn't have this problem if we were living in Dallas or living in Houston um but anyway my mom you know was you know well maybe you could move to Oklahoma girl the main reason why we are staying out here is because my husband's job was paying for his student loans well I found out this girl didn't tell me they stopped paying for his student loans last year I'm like well what's the point of us staying out here again like there's no reason for us to live out here y'all the education sucks and what I found is that a lot of black people move here black families move here um to start another start a better life a lot of people are coming from here from areas that are not so great like there's a lot of people from here from Chicago so many in fact there's a Facebook group specifically for a black people moving from Chicago to Arizona a lot of folks here from Chicago in general but especially a lot of black people here from Chicago in the east coast um I was so excited when my girlfriend moved out Ms. Wanda you guys saw me cook for her she was the one out for her birthday she came over I was really excited for her to come back down but I've only seen her three times in two years that she's been back here um she travels a lot she's single she travels a lot um she's busy with work I don't have a lot of close friends out here my best friend is back in forney texas which is a little bit past mesquite or um garland I also was feeling a kind of certain kind of way because I dropped off JB and I've been struggling trying to get him here at 845 because if it was earlier like it's funny if it was seven o'clock I could get him at seven o'clock because I'm not busy trying to do other stuff but it's almost 9 30 now it is it's past 9 30 dropped him off and the teacher told me that he's struggling to write his name and I think one of the reasons why and again I'm not making any excuses for him and I told her this too is that he's used to writing j a b b y well here he's been writing his fault and this is my mama y'all hold on what was I talking about so anyway yeah his teacher is saying that she's he's struggling with writing his name so he knows how to write JB j a b b y and JB the letter JB he will write that in a minute child but his full traditional name is what he's struggling with it's a long ass name too looking at my job y'all I need to go ahead and get home real quick um that was my stomach I'm gaining weight I'm short you guys so any type of weight it's going to show up and I can feel it so I'm at 176 now 176 and I know what it is it's carbs whether it's comes in sugar whatever it is it's carbs it's the carbs I've been eating a lot more carbs lately I need to cut it out I really do there's no excuses and I have been working out as often doing a 10 minute hit exercise every two or three days does not make up for for the 40 minutes of cardio I used to do almost on a daily basis so I need to get on it and as an incentive since I was boo-hooing last night over being homesick I just decided I'm gonna tell my husband this that I'm going to go back home in September for my 20 year high school reunion look y'all at first I was like I'm not going to that shit but I'm gonna go and I'm gonna lose some weight so I can be cute in my dress I already purchased a dress I got this dress y'all I want to decide for people to wear tell me if you like this if you're not okay I'll be I like to do a lot of browse online shopping just browsing but if I see a deal I will buy it I don't care what it is I will buy it um so I saw a dress on asos and I loved it was so pretty navy blue cocktail dress $20 sold $20 originally was $60 $20 I bought it I got in a size 14 and it's it fits in the hips because I'm hippie it fits in the hips but in a waist it needs to be taken in so I'm gonna wait I'm gonna get myself 12 to 14 weeks to lose 20 pounds 12 to 14 weeks to lose 20 pounds and then I'm gonna have the dress taken around camped up a little bit y'all the best thing you could do if you a curvy girl if you a plus size girl hello if you mean if you not spend a little bit of money and get your dress all your your clothes altered I've been getting my clothes altered since I was I was safe for the past eight or nine years my friend will take in my clothes for me and take them out sometimes but mostly she's been taking that I'm not spending no more money on clothes y'all uh-uh I will my lips are peeling what do y'all tell me I'm a pretty looking like a fat crackhead y'all I'm in my office multitasking let me adjust this I just saw a video of me I edited all that out girl I mean stomach is out of control but you know what you have to dress for your body type I am a rectangle no matter how big these breasts are I am a rectangle body type now and my waist was about four inches smaller than yourself in our glass but right now no anyway um I literally deleted all that footage because I was so upset of how I looked y'all I'm organizing JB's um supplies I have at home for supplemental homeschooling which has fallen way off the radar just because I've been so busy but we still do things at home and I actually just sent I need to get a printer I just did a couple of things to staples a couple of things which were site words and his name so that we could start practicing his name at home since that's what he's dealing with he has my husband was saying we need to have a designated area for him so he could sit down and actually study he has like a table and chair outside in the sand I'm going to wash that off dry it off and bring it inside the house and that's where he's going to just have a designated area for him to sit down no TV no no disruptions let the color go in there we go what is up with these youtubers going to stylus who are not experienced with their hair didn't we learn last year from overall the one that had the waist length long hair and the stylus reached out there and I was like hey sis I want to cut your hair for you I want to do your hair and she agreed to it um I was watching a few days ago a vlog by journey vlogs journey to wasteland that's her natural hair but then she has a blogging channel I guess her natural needsy were invited out by q dad is that you pronounce the name you guys to um they have a new liner collection I guess it's a cute ad y'all no it's not I'm I'm so sorry I'm thinking about that q dad detain you and call him because that's what I want to buy soon it was ogx y'all know the expensive past shampoo and little bitty like oval container um or product jar ogx invited them out to try a new collection and they agreed to do it all three uh vloggers agreed to do it right and so they all have different hair types and one thing they have in common is their hair at least from what I've seen um pretty dense okay so when um I can't think of her name I don't know her name journey to wasteland she said that she showed up with dirty hair because she assumed that they were gonna wash her hair but then the stylist was like no I'm just gonna style your hair but then she asked him to wash and he was like sure I'll wash your hair for you he did not detangle her hair before and I literally she showed clips of him detangling her hair and I'm sure her hair I'm sure some of you have seen the video by now because by the time I looked this up it would have been up um you would have seen it so he's detangling her hair and this lightly combing her hair at the ends he's not even bothered baby I was done hey well he didn't even bother to detangle her hair before shampooing neither after then she said he put mousse on her hair right so sure enough I guess he was trying to do a wash and go and then she showed natural niece to get her niece to get her hair done and she was actually um given her stylist step by step I want to do her hair I'm like hell no I don't give a damn how many free products you give me I'm not gonna if you are a stylist for curly hair I'm not gonna tell you how to do my own hair so needless to say the girl said when she got home and her hair later dried it became really really matted and tangled let me tell you something I don't care if but that also soon himself god rest his soul came down and said Vivian sis I want to do your hair we got some new products I'm I'm gonna be like Vidal do you have any experience with natural hair matter of fact do you have any experience with or textured hair if you don't I'm sorry Vidal you not touch your but y'all know what I'm saying you have to be careful who touch your hair it takes only one one mess of we've seen it happen time and time and time again luckily they all didn't you know didn't suffer anything horrible but it could have gone that way I'm sorry you ain't touching my hair no man and this is not shading anyone this is just oh what is she talking about Rhonda what are you talking about mr. life will just send me a she just commented what are you saying helpful girl show some of that hair Rhonda look I'm mr. life will just comment it on my video to share some of my hair you can have it sis y'all you see what my hair looks like I'm over it shout out to Linda girl look y'all laughing because she went she went a little in on her video she did a video stuff that she's tied up for natural hair youtubers girl you baby that accent came out full of effect if there was no doubt that your ass is from Louisiana yeah I'm so cute all right let me find some shorts for you whoo excuse me they can't see you which is a good thing we don't want people to see you in your underwear oh you have some new shorts right sorry y'all you have some new shorts right here that might be got you want to wear these uh-huh y'all the children's place had 60% off so I went and got a bunch of clothes for him give me some sugar here really am I doing a hair it's gonna come over yeah Thomas and you guys gonna be real good right you gonna be good good boys I'm gonna let Thomas know about the rules here because he's a little bad right he's not too bad we're not too bad I think it's when he gets with with uh what's her name Taryn yeah when he gets with Taryn too bad yummy white um uh it's a camera you like your donut Thomas oh yeah cars he's one car my new car you want to wipe your hand off here you go oh so as y'all saw we have I guess this week um well not this week today um hold on y'all my neighbor across the street sent me a message last night and was basically like did you hear about miss Lori I'm like no miss Lori is the lady that runs the indoor day care here in the neighborhood she's like well she has pneumonia and she's been in the hospital for a few days I'm like oh my god so she asked me if I keep her son I'm like absolutely so I kept JB home from school and first thing in the morning I ran them tired so it's noon like literally because JB had an appointment 7 30 at the dentist so we literally were out from 7 to 10 o'clock oh yes baby I will run your child tired so it's noon and they're laying in bed watching TV did start crying I had to make myself stop my breast reduction was approved isn't god good I was feeling I told you I was feeling a certain type of way but I said Vivian get it together send them the documentation give them what they asked for breast reduction approved I just got a voice message she said go ahead and call the scheduler I called my husband he said go ahead schedule it as soon as you can I'll take off uh I'm happy y'all two years I've been doing this for two years going to the chiropractor sometimes up to three times a week I've been on gabapit and I'm on another drug and my breasts are so large y'all can't see because I were minimizers but I will still be a full C slash D is what he's telling me I'm so happy so look y'all I'm ecstatic I want them to call me back now so I can schedule it but give me some advice those of you who's had breast reductions I want some tips on care afterwards I'm a G when it comes to pain I can really handle I think my pain management being okay but things like tips that help me to recover thankfully I work from home so I don't have to go into an office suddenly uh I'll probably take like the first three or four days off from work probably take a week off girl who am I kidding I'll take a week off guys we just came back um loved play this play area can I put this thing right here try to close this if it'll make it better I need to clean my closet um I'm fixing my dress because um we're going to church in the morning show y'all this dress real quick it's real cute but it's too big can you see this this big bow here so I'm fixing this bow of safety pins so that it can lay flat isn't that cute and I have a cute corner to go with it it's way too big look how wide it is and it's the 14 but I'm not this big and don't waste any more my waist is probably a 1012 my bust is a 16 my waist is a 1012 and then my butt is like a 14 anyway y'all let me tell you something don't mistake this southern accent and this cute face for weakness because I'm a type of person you really don't want to get on my bad side one and two don't don't come at me with anything minor peter anyway and I lately I just haven't been in the mood um while we're at the play area the kids are you know they run around playing it's a it's a big play area there's probably 50 plus children in this play area right and we've been here before this is we've been here before so anyway um they're playing around and when they leave after coming up to me for the 1500 times the day doing the day I saw one behind them about four or five feet behind them looking at me and smiling and I was okay when they left she finally came up to me she's like yeah she's like yeah um I had to tell them that they can't play over there in the baby area toddler area and I said yes they can she said well no they can't the areas for babies I said we have been here 10 plus times they no one no worker has ever came up to me to say that my child cannot play in that area she turned bright red and I like I turned back around she turned bright red and walked off first of all don't tell my children my child and I'm gonna say the other the other kid um Thomas don't tell my children because at this point if I'm caring for you you're my child too don't tell my children what they can't do or can't do you need to come to me first ask the mother you don't go to somebody else's kids are you out of your child well she's like you can't tell them that so I wonder why they stop playing over them like you can't do that so come to find out that that's actually a toddler area and you have to be very ify when it comes to the word toddler with their rules there it says foreign under so granted JB can't play over there he missed the cutoff girl by four weeks but Thomas his friend is only four years old so you telling the babies they came if you don't go sit your fluffy ass down child don't just assume anything you know even when JB was was four years old he always got mistaken for being bigger always girl just like when we left the um the when I got my baptism and the teacher there that was keeping the kids she was getting irritated saying that you know JB wasn't listening her following the rules she did not realize how young he was she assumed he was six years old I said my baby just barely barely turned five ma'am no she's like well why is he in this class I'm like I don't know why he's in this classroom he was supposed to be he was supposed to have been with the pre-k but they placed him with the kindergarten slash first grade you know he's he's almost there so anyway y'all that is it I feel like I need to organize my makeup that calms me does that calm anyone to put all my makeup out and organize it I think I may do that all right y'all I will see y'all in a couple of more weeks I think I will go ahead and upload this video in February and then I'll have a second February video closer to March because February ain't that long oh Black History Month happy Black History Month everybody except tomorrow so so damn pretty