 Hi y'all, okay, so I just finished a live Google Hangout with MA 2.0 and y'all can check the video out on his channel when it's uploaded, probably upload it sometime today, but now I think I wanted to go live with you guys today Just to say hi, maybe answer some questions So if you have any questions Put them in the comments or the group chat or whatever I don't know if anyone's watching this. This is a five viewer. So so far I'm gonna type hi So y'all can get started. So if y'all have any questions or you know need some advice or relationship advice I'll be on for the next hour or so And I'll be here So if y'all have anything you want to ask type it in the comments if not then I'll just start talking Okay, so I feel like a lot of women these days We were talking about this on the Google Hangout with MA 2.0 and he was saying that too many women are led by their emotion and they overreact for everything And it pushes men away because they think they're crazy. So I always say, you know Use logic use logic when making decisions in your relationship do not go by emotion Emotion will have you making some dumb decisions that you would have never done if you are in your right mind, you know what I'm saying? So I would suggest, you know going somewhere to calm down writing in a journal talking to your friend about it or a stranger about it and getting all the anger out first and then approaching the issue with you know Your partner and solving it with logic, you know Some people break up and they really didn't want to break up because they were just over Emotional and they thought that oh if I break up, it's gonna hurt you But really what it ended up doing was hurting the person that broke up with them So, you know, and then you're like, oh, I want him back, but he's not coming back Because a lot of the things that we say when we're upset and mad Are very hurtful and you can't take words back. You just can't take them back and a lot of women reveal stuff when they're angry like oh, that's why I cheated on you and You know once a man hears that they probably aren't coming back You know I'm saying and if they do it's only to use you up and then leave you again. You know I'm saying so don't Speak out of emotion be strategic as MA 2.0 says in his video be strategic on how you do things and Calculating and you know if I say this in five years, is this gonna haunt me? You know what I'm saying because it will you know men cheating on a Cheating on a man and him finding out it's like 10 times worse than him cheating on you and you find out because it hurts them way more hurts their ego their pride you know, it's Like women are very forgiving when it comes to cheaters Some of them not all of them, but some of them are very forgiving when it comes to cheaters So I feel like Men are not that forgiving when their woman is cheating. You know what I'm saying so if you if you cheat it don't ever tell her because It's It's a risk you're gonna have to take for him not coming back, okay Um, I don't I don't see any comments or anyone asking questions. So I guess there's no question. So I just keep talking Um, or I don't see them like I don't see any questions. I Think you have to go to Google Hangouts or Google or something. I don't know. Let me put the link There a link Make it with a link Come put my youtube page. Yeah, I don't know how to walk this. I'm just I'm still trying Let's see and put the other link in there too. There's two links So y'all figured out But um, I just keep talking But anyway I have a lot of people writing me who are dating Successful men and they just can't get the ring. They can't get married. They what am I doing law? A lot of advice a lot of the advice some women are getting from other women is very wrong. Okay And You know putting oh you have this many days if you want to marry me and and then I'm off and then I'm gone I'm not I'm not entertaining you anymore. You don't you'll know, you know You got to play reverse psychology. Okay First of all life is not All peaches and cream, you know You have to play chess. Okay, so if you if you see a man that you want to marry What the first thing you do is treat him like he is not husband material, you know Make him prove himself because first of all he might not even want to get married But if he feels like the whole offer is off the table and you don't even see him As potential husband material and that he's not even good enough for you. He's gonna start asking himself Well, dang. Why am I not husband material and then he's going to start to try to prove himself to you Like I am husband material. I can be a good husband. I can do this. I can do that And then subconsciously he's training his own mind to be a husband And you know, the all you're probably the only one or the one in the last few years that he's been trying to prove himself as a husband too And so the logical next step is today. Let me just let's just get married, you know So you got to use reverse psychology To get husbands you can't Say, oh, I want you to be my husband You make a good blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, because most men are not trying to get married. They they're not But if you say, oh, I love this relationship is so fun Um, in a couple years, I'm gonna want to get married and blah, and have kids and stuff And he's gonna be like, oh, I don't know about that. He's like, oh, I wasn't talking about you. I wasn't talking about you, you know You weren't gonna be the husband. That's so cute. Ah, you thought you was gonna be my husband And then we're like, why not? You're not husband material. You are someone that I would not marry. Oh my gosh, you know, you're just for fun And then he'll be like, what? Why am I not husband material? Oh, you know why don't be silly, you know what? So at that point you're gonna be like, dang She's not even taking me seriously. Is everything she's saying to me, uh, not true I wonder what type of guy she wants to marry and then so he's gonna be like, well, what is husband material? Okay, and this is where you this is how you get him. What is husband material? What is husband material husband material? Oh You really want to know what what I want in my future husband? Like why are you asking me, you know? um And don't tell him the first time around make him keep asking and then You know, he'll say, okay. Well, you know husband material and just start naming the exact opposite of him Or the things that you want him to do that he's not currently doing, you know what I mean? Well, husband material, you know, they they call and text back. They, you know, they want to spend more time with you They want to go on vacation. They want to chill. They want to stay at home They want to whine and dine you on special case. They want to do all that kind of stuff, you know husband stuff um You know, they're they're they can't wait for you to have kids and they want to be like this great dad and stuff like that And you know, just someone who's really interested in You know diving deep into that, you know That marriage and family life, you know, I don't see you doing that. Okay um And then so he's gonna be like, well Um, when do you plan on, you know finding that person who you're gonna marry and you know husband material? And you said, oh maybe in a couple years from now That way he has time to kind of either become husband material start talking about being your husband Subconsciously turning into husband material because now that you know, when a man tries to please you and impress you And he knows that you've already dismissed him in two years and that you're going to be looking for something totally different He is then going to start taking on the traits of husband material and trying to prove himself and Please you and impress you with being Husband material and then the logical next step is to ask you to marry them Ask you to marry them. Okay. And so when the when the few years are almost getting ready to end he's gonna be like so You're gonna be like, so yeah, I'm you know, I'm ready to go move on to the next part of my life You know, it's been so, you know, I love you so much. I will never forget time that we spent together and you know You'll always be a great friend and blah blah blah blah blah blah But now I think it's time for me to move on to that next chapter of my life And he's gonna be so used to you by there. He's gonna be like so used to trying to impress you and being husband material He's gonna be like, well Have you ever considered that, you know, maybe I've changed my mind. Maybe I've changed. Maybe I am I can be a husband Blah blah blah blah blah blah and then you'll say, you know, I thought about it, but I'm not very sure I mean, do you really want to get married? I mean, look, you're having so much fun, you know I don't I wouldn't want to tie you down. You know what I'm saying? You're Are you sure this is what you want? And now it's their idea and not even yours. You know what I'm saying? So When you um When you get That urge to get married you have to use reverse psychology Or you have to say, you know, I'm getting ready to leave and you know, go explore some other options because You don't even ask them to marry you. You're just like, you know, I'm getting I'm getting to that point in life where I want to start You know getting married and having kids and stuff like that. So I'm just gonna have to go, you know And if that man really loves you and he can't imagine his life without you, he'll marry you Okay, but if you putting pressure on him, he's gonna feel like it's a trap. You're trying to, you know, uh put some You know pressure on him. You're trying to be the boss. You're trying to call all the shots You're gonna take his role away from him, you know So what you got to do is trick him to make him think it was his idea, you know A lot of women will be like, well, how do I get him to propose and You know, I always say make up a fake job in a different state that you're you've been offered and you know When you feel like it's time to get married and say, you know what I've been offered this really great opportunity in this other state And I'm really thinking about take it say it's a state where you're one of your ex-boyfriends with you Just make it up if it's not even true I'm gonna be I'm gonna be moving to this different city and I've been offered a new job It pays about the same but I feel like I need to change in my life right now Um, you know, I'm kind of ready to start on a new chapter, you know Um new job The next person that I probably get involved with I want, you know to get married and have a relationship with But you know, I'm I'm really in love with you and I'm very torn But I know that I don't I don't know if you're ready for that next step You know, I don't know if you're ready for marriage. I don't know if you're ready to commit And do all those things that I want and I would not ever want to put that pressure on you But you know, this opportunity is great. You know, I know a few people in that city, um, you know Name a couple girls in the name of guy don't guys name And he was like, well, who's that? I said, oh, it's one of my ex, you know, my ex-boyfriends or whatever But um, you know, I kind of um You know, that's not a big deal. I'm pretty sure he's married or I have a girlfriend or whatever But um, that was the only people I know there um, so If he lets you go he says, okay. Good luck. That means he was never gonna marry you anyway But if he says, well, I want you to stay. Why do you have to go? You know, I love you But he's gonna start thinking about marrying you and moving on and getting engaged and stuff like that because now He's he's gonna have to imagine his life without you. You know what I'm saying? So, um, yeah So I just wanted to pop on for a minute. I don't see any questions. Um, I don't think this google hangout thing It's like working great for my youtube channel But I'm gonna I'm gonna go ahead and go live from my youtube channel without the google hangouts I'm gonna go ahead and go live on my own Like I normally do So you guys can ask me questions and I can see them There's no questions being asked and I don't know even though if you guys know how to do it I sure don't know how to do this and plus the webcam. It's not as good as On camera I'm gonna go ahead and sign off and if you got any information out of this video, I'm very thankful and If you can comment on this after it's downloaded on youtube if it downloads on youtube because I don't even know if we can do that Then you know Thumbs up. All right, so I'm gonna go ahead and stop this broadcast And I will see y'all on my live video