 But I've dated like people where I'm like, ah, I'm just dating them. But I don't think they're like the total one where like if they were to marry you like you love them but if they got down on one knee, you're thinking, ah, there's totally someone else out there better. Yes. Not that you have to date to marry, but like if you're in a serious committed relationship like I was living with someone and you totally aren't 100% on a future, what is the point? Okay, it's one thing not knowing the person well enough to know if you wanna marry them. That's totally fine. That's just the getting to know you stage. But at some point you gotta make that determination. Hey, could I see myself with this person? If they're not at the place right now for to be in that kind of committed relationship if we're not looking towards marriages like the goal ultimately, then why are we doing this? Be intentional. It's way better than being in limbo and just being like, I don't know. Maybe I'll commit, maybe I won't. No, make this a goal. And if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. It's way better than just kind of meandering around purposelessly where you're afraid of commitment or awkwardly avoiding fundamental differences.