 I thought, is it something I've done as a parent? And you're sort of blaming yourself for the struggles that I had. Huge girls, I know you doubted as well thinking that actually something was wrong. I didn't do something. I wasn't loving enough. I wasn't actually, I knew I was a loving parent and I know that we were warm parents. Is that all that whole stigma around like the refrigerator mother hypothesis? I can't bear that, it's total nonsense. If you don't know of refrigerator parents, it's like, I think it was like a hypothesis that someone came up with that that someone that people ran with whereby autism was not like, as we know, like a neurodevelopmental thing. It was more if your parents didn't show you love or interact with you or, you know, engaging like physical contact and stuff with you that it would cause children to become withdrawn and more autistic. It's complete, it's complete ball like sport.