 you are a man permission to cheat if you think he's cheating sound crazy to y'all at first but listen if you think your man is cheating but he hasn't admitted it and you don't have any evidence but you just think he's cheating and you kind of know it because you know that it's it's too obvious and if you do have proof even better okay so if you want to keep your man and you want him to stop cheating on you and you already decided you're gonna take him back because blah blah blah blah are the reasons okay whatever I mean a lot of people are married and tied financially sometimes they're the child's father and they don't want to break up the family whatever your reason is for wanting to stay with this man even though he's cheating on you I'm gonna tell you how to do it give him permission to cheat and if you've been on his back about oh I know you're cheating on me and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah and all of a sudden you say hey you know what go ahead and cheat you can have a girlfriend don't worry about me so you're gonna be getting all your six from your girlfriend you're gonna be you know make sure you go to her house after work for dinner blah blah blah because I'm your sexual privileges are cut off with me so I do give you permission to cheat now you do that he's gonna stop real quick and he's gonna be like cut her off quick one because when a woman is crazy enough to allow her man to cheat after being crazy about him cheating this is a red flag for him he's like oh my god she's serious she's getting ready to go cheat as well and replace me probably with a better man and she's just allowing me to cheat so I don't have to come to her for sex because now she's gonna start looking for some other man she's probably gonna start sleeping with some other man and she don't want to sleep with me and him at the same time and oh my gosh what have I done so then he's gonna straighten out he's gonna be like okay well I don't want I don't I'm not cheating and and da da da da and you're gonna say well I already know you're cheating I feel like you're cheating so you might as well go cheat I feel like you're playing me for a fool so I'm just gonna get go ahead and give you the permission to go cheat you know what do what you want do what you want because you know why I want you to be happy okay so when he hears this he's like oh shoot she's gonna break up with me she's gonna leave me she probably already got it my replacement I mean what if he's better than me what if he's a better man than me what if he has more money than me what if his penis is bigger than mine what if what if what he's gonna start thinking about all of this so he's not gonna cheat or he's gonna cut that off quick so like like I said give him a permission to cheat and the only way this is gonna backfire ladies is if you married him for his looks and he married you for your help stability and money and if you take care of this don't work for y'all this works for either a 50-50 partnership where both people want to be together this does not want this not this does not work for if your man is just using you while he sleeps without it with this don't work for those type of women and I'm saying that because it just doesn't because those women know that those men are cheating but they're just so hard-up and desperate for a man they won't say nothing okay and and if they do the guy will be like and you know I've seen it so this only works for women who who's a man does not want them to know that they're cheating or it's an it's not in a situation where they can cheat and get away with it just because the woman is desperate this is for a 50-50 or you know one-sided woman one-sided woman relationship like when I say one-sided woman relationship I mean like if he's a if he's your provider and he's sleeping with somebody else and you don't work and he's paying all the bills and he's sleeping with another woman and if you give him permission still to cheat but you you be a very sarcastic about it he's gonna think you have found somebody with more money he's gonna think you find replacement as well and men with more money have bigger egos so even though you know he's rich and takes care of you or he has money it takes care of you you don't even have to be rich he could just work a regular job and be your provider even if he's just that he's gonna say well if she's giving me permission that means she really didn't love me in the first place or does she now now he's gonna have to figure out if you love him for him or his money and and you're still gonna be reaping the benefits because if y'all are married or together you're still gonna be reaping the benefits of being the girlfriend and wife but you're not gonna have to be putting out and giving and giving him sex because you know he has a girlfriend and he can get it from there so now he's cut off from you so now he's gonna be like oh man she now she's just using me now I have to spend money on two women so then he's gonna be like oh shoot so he's gonna he's gonna have to let one go and it's probably gonna be the one that costs him less to let go basically and it's you know especially if he has a lot invested with you if y'all are married if you know stuff about him so you know it's all depends on the situation but yeah giving a man permission to cheat first of all it takes a thrill out of it because like if he doesn't come home late and if he comes home late or stays after work late you don't he doesn't even have to call to make up a lie anymore he's just you know you you already know what he's doing so when he comes home there's already gonna be a thick atmosphere and he's gonna make his home uncomfortable to come home to um like if he's been out late he can't lie and say oh I had to work later or I had a business meeting or oh I had to do this because it doesn't matter anymore you gave him the permission so now he has to walk in looking dumb like oh yeah I just cheated and and he'll try to make up a lie but all you can say is like you know what it doesn't matter you know you do what you want to do you know I just sat here and shopped online and ordered pizza I had a good time I drank my wine I had a great time I hope you did too um being like some sloppy pajamas like you know I don't have to turn you on and while you got a girlfriend for that uh but the funny thing is it works and you don't have to do it very long maybe like in less than a month your your situation your situation will be resolved okay and a lot of women find out oh my man has been cheating on me for all these years or are they just finding oh my man cheated on me and I don't know what to do I'm so lost should I leave should I stay I don't know what to do he betrayed me blah blah blah blah and they're acting like the victim but you gotta take the power back into your own hand you gotta you gotta let you gotta give him that permission to see what he does with it you say okay you want to cheat okay here go ahead you're going to spend double money because I'm still gonna live the same lifestyle I'm gonna be wearing online I'm not gonna be cooking because you should have already eaten at your girlfriend's house you know all of that he's gonna be like oh shoot uh and then he's gonna think you know once you get your thoughts together now since he has permission to cheat you know so do you now you have an open marriage and once he hears those words like if you find out your man is cheating suggest an open marriage that you know what yeah you cheated I'm not even gonna be mad at you you know I'm not gonna be mad at you you know let's just have an open marriage you know you like to date outside the marriage let's just have an open marriage don't ever say I'm gonna go date me and I'm gonna go do this come on keep it all on him let's say let's just have an open marriage and so I don't want no open marriage you'll be like I don't want to open marriage and and you'll be like oh are you sure because you're acting like you want an open marriage I just thought you wanted open marriage you know I can I can I can deal with an open marriage keep quitting it on him don't ever say I'm gonna go be with another man as long as you don't say those words you have him in the palm of your hand so say okay well you've opened the marriage up on your own so it's open now and just walk away oh my god he's gonna be like giving your man permission to cheat giving your husband permission to cheat giving your loved one spouse lover permission to cheat is basically using reverse psychology and it usually works if the the relationship is not two one sided it usually works so y'all try that because until like somebody I know they actually did this and uh because they weren't they weren't gonna they weren't gonna give up their man their their man was like a ex-athlete and he had money right sorry y'all their man was an ex-athlete and he had a lot of money so he was he she was not gonna get that okay so what she did is just she just gave him permission she's like you know what honey go ahead I am going to I'm gonna be at the I'm gonna be at the mall and the more he cheats the more money she gonna spend of his and and if they're married oops so he he learned quick he was like oh my god she was spending all the money she's gonna be buying shopping uh therapy uh she already knows I have a girlfriend it's not as fun anymore because I can't sneak around and when I come home she know where I've been uh she probably out meeting another man maybe another athlete who has more money than me and all this starts going on in their brain and then they're like oh shoot let me just cut this side piece off and focus on her because obviously she's making plans then he's gonna try to make it all lovey-dovey again and blah blah blah and if you if he's smart he'll never try to do that again and he'll understand you know just like he can do you can do but with his money okay and if you're not married and you don't have access to his money it's still an eco trip because like he can't call in line to you anymore because it doesn't matter because you gave him permission you'd be like oh honey you don't have to lie it's okay just go have fun like whenever they say oh i'm gonna be late i'm gonna be like it's like oh you don't have to call me anymore don't worry about it just come home whenever you're done then they're gonna be like oh man feel stupid now you know because they're not tricking you anymore it's not a thrill they're not seeking they're not having fun with it because you already know and they know you know and they have to come home to you and it's like look so spoil it for them spoil it don't hang it over their head if once you realize they're stopped cheating like y'all don't even have to be married for this tour and once you realize they have stopped cheating then you don't punish them for it over and over and over again and don't ever close the marriage back up or close the relationship back up always leave it open because then you don't have to go through this again you know then you don't have to worry about you know stuff like that the less you pay attention to him the less you care what he's doing where he's at if he calls him the more he's gonna be worried about you okay so keep that in mind um and if y'all haven't seen my video ladies about always have that backup plan that backup man hey it just depends on who you are you mean black backup plan or a backup man doesn't matter always have one of those as well just in case or have both shoot you know what have the best of both worlds have a backup plan and a backup man um this way if something goes wrong and you and you just not gonna take it anymore because you give him another chance you tried this trick and blah blah blah blah now you can say you know what i tried i gave you a chance you didn't do right you know i i just i don't think i deserve this i gotta go let me get up let me pack my stuff i got money saved i'm gonna go if you're married my lawyers will be contacting you if you're not married peace um and just go get your own place you know you got a friend on backup you know y'all get closer help each other out whenever now and then and move on you know so i the reason i made this video it's because i have so many women with this problem and they don't know what to do they oh i think my man is cheating oh this oh that if you think he's cheating he probably is and you need to then you need to um do something about it quick and this is a quick step that you can do without much preparation it's just a few words to make him think and to also make him feel guilty and also make him accountable for what he's doing he'll stop calling you and trying to lie to you to get more time out wherever he is because you don't care because that marriage is open now or the relationship is open so now he feels dumb and kind of stupid okay so um for you ladies out there that are going through that try it and tell me how it works okay bye