 How to make the narcissist happy if you are with a narcissist You will give everything you have You will lose yourself They will do horrible things to you But you will still forgive them You will still give them another chance, but it will never be enough Nothing you do will ever satisfy the narcissist It will never make them happy Because no matter what you do They will always move the goalpost They will always change their rules or requirements In a way that makes it an hospital game that approval There will always be something else that makes the narcissist happy Something that you haven't done Something that you don't have So even if you do something That makes the narcissist happy It won't last long They will forget about it very quickly And it won't work the next time you do it You have to keep exploring ideas That are creative and unusual To make the narcissist happy But by doing that It will cause damage to you You will lose your identity By trying to please this toxic face But even when you do that They're still not going to appreciate it They will say that you didn't have to do that They will say that they didn't ask you to do it Because you can never really make the narcissist happy Nothing you do for them will ever be enough Many victims try to make the narcissist happy They build them up To give the narcissist a better life They help them to get a job Or to start a business They made their lives better But in the end the narcissist still leaves their victims Because nothing you do will ever be enough for the narcissist Because they're not enough for themselves They're not doing enough So they depend on you for that They need that from you They expect it from you But nothing you do will ever be enough No matter how many of their goals you help them to accomplish Even if you fulfill all of their goals and dreams They might seem happy in that moment But the next day it's not enough They're not happy anymore Because they move the goalposts Now they want something else So now you have to help them with something else You have to do something even more impressive When you are dealing with a narcissist They're always going to want something more They're always going to want something else They're never going to be truly happy With anything you're doing for them You have to keep trying harder To make them happy Whatever you did the day before It's not going to be enough the next day Which then causes you to lose yourself It causes you to lose your identity Because you're giving too much to the narcissist You're trying to do everything for them You're trying to improve their lives You're trying to make them happy And when you've managed to turn them Into everything you thought they could be They're just going to forget about you They're going to use their freedom of choice They're going to use their power and rights To choose someone Who they believe to be better than you Because now that you've built them up You no longer fit with them They think they're better than you Because now you've created a monster You've built them up into being someone Who is now too big for you They've stopped having an interest in you As they've matured But it has nothing to do with you It's not your fault that the narcissist isn't happy It's not that you're not enough It's not that you should have done more You already did everything you could do You've already tried very hard to help and please them You've only got to look at how they're treating you To realize that you can't make them happy Because if you loved someone You would never treat them the way the narcissist treats you The narcissist can only be happy in the moment They can only be happy for a short period of time It doesn't last It goes away very quickly Because it's not consistent happiness So however they're treating you right now This is as good as it gets It's not going to get any better than this Because you cannot make the narcissist happy And there's no point giving anything to them Because they're never going to appreciate anything you do Their happiness isn't going to last Trying to make the narcissist happy Is just going to drive you crazy It's going to make you miserable So instead of trying to do that Start focusing on yourself Focus on making yourself happy For watching I hope this video resonate with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate By paypal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching.maxfivert.uk Thank you for watching And I'll talk to you soon