 Hi y'all. I'm Laugh. I came live at night because I know a lot of you guys have been requesting me to come live at night. So here I am. I'll just straighten this camera up. So I'm trying to get this on my computer screen so I can read you guys comments on my computer. So let's see if it pops up. If not, I'm just... I have to touch the phone for the first little while. Yeah, it's not coming up, so... Sorry. Okay, so hey, how y'all doing? How are you? I'm a lot of few people come on before I start, but as you can see by the title, what the video is about. Too pretty to pay bills. I'm not talking about me, but yeah, I mean, I am talking about me and other women too. There are some women who walk around that look beautiful and they're paying bills and paying other people bills. They don't make no sense. You don't have to do that. What made me talk about this subject today is because I posted something on my Facebook page. And something about women don't need to bring that to the table, except their high expectations and then all the guys went crazy and mad and upset. Then there's one woman. You all know there's always one woman. There's always this one woman come in talking about I want to do, I go 50-50. I'm not going to say her name, but I'm going 50-50. She was actually attracted and I'm like, you don't have to go 50-50. If you go 50-50, you're not smart. You have the look, but you don't have the brains to go with it. Because anybody knows you don't use your own money. Even people in business know that you don't use your own money. You know, you get investors. So you can't get wealthy that way. You can't get wealthy that way. You can't benefit that way. Even in business, people don't use their own money. Even the presidents, except the dumb ones, don't use their own money. They get investors. They get people, they get donators. People that donate, they get sponsors and things like that. If you're smart, you don't use your own money. And especially if you're an attractive woman and guys think you're attractive, but you insist on paying. Yeah, you might be attractive, but you're not that smart. Because for me, a business woman, a business-minded woman, would understand that you don't have to go 50-50. Use what you got to get what you want. Use other people's money to invest to start your own business. You know, and things like that. You don't have to go 50-50 with them. Unless you don't feel like you deserve that man, or you can get him if you, you can't get him if you, you know, expect him to pay. So that's what I'm talking about. You know, people call those type of women pickies, mammies. Oh, I'm going to build a man. As soon as she's finished building this man, he's going to walk off to another woman who is not going to go 50-50. And she's going to be like, you got to pay everything. And he's going to have the money, the clout, the money, because you paid half of everything for so many years. He got to save up. And then he's going to go and say, hey, this lady over here thinks I'm all that. And, you know, this little trinket here and this gift here and paying her bills here and there. Now that's nothing to me. And look how she treats me. She doesn't treat me like her son or her project or someone that she helped build. Oh my God, this feels so good. It turns me on so much. You know, and he's going to go over there. Okay? So y'all can keep help. You can keep help building a man and go 50-50 if you want. But don't be mad when another woman sweeps him up and don't have what you have. Or it doesn't have to pay for anything because you did that to yourself. So when I say, you know, when I say too pretty to pay bills, too pretty to build a man, too pretty, too smart, you know, you don't even have to be pretty. You just got to be smart, too smart to pay bills and too smart to build a man. Okay? If you're doing any of those things right now, you should use your business mind to figure out how to get investors, sponsors, so you don't have to use your own money. You can use your money, save it, let it grow in an account. And prosper. You know what I'm saying? If you're married, ladies, if you're married, you should have a big savings because your man should be contributing more than you. Okay? So make sure you're not moving backwards in life and that you're moving forward and you're making wise business decisions and you're using what you have to push you further. Okay? Do it. You'll thank me later. You'll thank me later when you're able to live the lifestyle that you deserve. Okay? The woman that probably pays 50-50 is not living half as good because her man is not motivated. You know, if he can depend on her, he doesn't have to have as much ambition. You know what I mean? It's like, oh, I don't need overtime today. Oh, I don't need to go for that promotion. You know, I don't need to work extra. I don't need to stay up later figuring out how to start a business. I got her. She's going to pay everything if I fall off because that's just the kind of girl she is. She's a writer. Oh, you know, she's got half of everything. I don't even have to do anything but just go to work, come home, go to sleep, and go back to work. I don't have to either strive for more. I don't even need to look for a better job. I don't need to go back to school. I don't need a career. He's not motivated because you're taking care of half of his duties. So why would he be more successful? Why would he be pushed to the next level? You know, and the little that he is pushed, somebody else is going to appreciate it a lot more than you. And they're going to show him that and they're not going to take any credit for it either. And he's going to be like, oh, this feels good. You know, so be careful. Stop, stop being silly. Know your value and start demanding more of the grown man living in your house that you're paying half for. Like, seriously, don't do that. How can you live in a house with a grown man and pay half? Like, and have sex. That's gross. Like, that would turn me off. I would just be like, I'm so turned off. Like, don't even come back. You know, you might as well have, you know, that's just a major turn off. You can't do that. You know, and expect the woman to be turned on. She might fake it. She might pretend she respects you. But as soon as y'all get in an argument, she's going to throw it out. Oh, I pay half this stuff anyway. You know, without me, you couldn't live like this. And then where's your masculinity? Where's your manhood? Where's your ego? Can't say nothing. She has the, you know, she can kick you out of the house anytime. Because, you know, she has the kids. It's easier for you to go to a motel. She gets pissed off at you. Now, you're living in a motel. Or, like, when she gets mad at you. You know. She won't, she might not pay the bills this month and then what you gonna do? She's like, well, see how you, you know, see how you can go without me. I'm not paying anything. Now you're stuck because you can't, you got to make a decision. Do I want internet or a car? Don't want to pay my car note this month? Or the light bill? See? So, that's what I'm saying. If men are trying to go half and go 50-50 women, I'm going to pull rank. We just are. That's just how we are. We're going to pull rank. Because we know you as a grown man need us. And we don't see you as a man. We see you as something we can control, dominate over and treat like a child. So, if you're trying to ask us to pay 50-50, you're also asking us to be your manager, your boss, your instructor, your, what else? Your critic. You're asking us to do all that when you ask us to pay anything. You're asking for our two cents, four cents, three cents, instruction on how to do everything. Not even constructive criticism, but straight up criticism. That's what you're asking for. So, men, don't be so quick to think you want a 50-50 woman. Because as soon as you get one, you're going to be running away from her, looking for somebody who you can pay their bills for. And that's why a lot of times, these 50-50 women get left for ratchets because that's the only type of woman that type of man can impress, pay their bills, you know, their little apartment bill, their your studio apartment bill, and get their bills done. That's a man to them. So that's why they leave you for ratchets and women lower than you, because they can't impress you. And you pull rank on them, because you are working just as hard as they are. You're just another man to them, after a while, or a mother. So ladies, you're too pretty to be doing that. Then you wonder why you're upset and being cheated on and lonely because you tried to build a man, you tried to finish raising somebody's son. And you didn't realize what you were doing until it was too late. And now, you're upset and you're too pretty to be paying bills and you were too pretty to be paying bills in the first place. You didn't know your value. So, do you pick me to look decent? It's not too late. I promise you, you know, it's not too late. You can get help now. All you gotta do is know your value and say, look, I'm not paying this no more. This is on you. I don't look too good to pay bills. And they're gonna say, you know you're right. You do look too good to pay bills. And they're gonna say, I don't know how you got over on me this long. Guess I better find a way to make money or you better find a man who can pay you. It's not, you know, I see these beautiful women with these like men and they're working just as hard. Look at them 10 years, 5 years later, they look old. They look older than they should look because they're working like a man to help a man. And that's not right, you know. If I was a 50-50 chick, I would probably look older than my age. I would probably look like 5 years, 10 years older than what I am. You know, so all of the years are working, getting up every day, doing all that stuff and you live in a house with a grown man. And kids, they ain't gotta do all that other stuff. No, you shouldn't be doing that. If you're doing that, you're being cheated out of your life force, out of your life energy, out of your femininity. You're being cheated. It's being stolen from you. From a grown man that you supposedly love. You know, if he loved you, he wouldn't let you do that. He wouldn't let you suffer. He wouldn't let you wake up early in the morning, drag yourself to go work like a man, four-man for 8 to 10, 12 hours a day, come home, take care of him and the kids, cooking all that stuff. He wouldn't let you do that if he loved you, you know what I'm saying? And if he lets you do it, then have his hand out to you. That's a child, that's not a man. And I can't respect someone like that because you shouldn't either. If you do, you've been brainwashed to do that. And then you wonder why the man ages so good and looks so good, but then you start to look haggard, tired. You know, stuff starting to sag, bags starting to come, hair starting to fall, graves coming, popping up. You know, you start to wonder why because you're not supposed to be doing his job. That's why. And then he starts looking at you over with it because you're always at work. You know, you gotta take care of your career. You gotta take care of that man at work, that boss. That makes sure everything is done at work before you can even get home to take care of him. And you're too tired all the time. You gotta do all this and that. So, you know, as soon as he gets home from work, he can go stop at half an hour. You know, find a new girlfriend. You know, blah, blah, blah. He has time to do all that because you're doing the other half of his job. So, trying to tell you. Then you turn around, oh, I spent 20 years and I sacrificed all this. And he left me. Yeah, of course he left you because he didn't need you anymore. Once he got to where he wanted to get because you helped him. You know. If you're with a man and, you know, he's asking you to do stuff and you feel proud that you can do it because you have a good job and you feel accomplished, it's a trick. You know, he's playing on your ego to get your money so he don't have to pay for it. You know, it's a trick. You shouldn't offer nothing to him. He should be offering to you. All your money should be yours to save or towards something in your future that's going to benefit you. So, I don't care what any of the guys say. If a grown man is approaching a woman and saying that it's not right. That's like a father approaching his daughter and saying, can I have some money? That's what it's like. Why? Why is it the father and the daughter? Because that's someone's daughter. Okay? And how would her dad feel if he knew that his daughter was giving some grown man money? He would be mad. He would be like, oh, no. Don't do that. If he can't take care of himself or you, you're too good for that. You know? And I know a lot of women will do this just so they can have a man and keep a man and the type of man it is, this is the type of man they could never get in the first place. So, basically, you're just paying for that man. And he knows that and he's playing you and the real woman that he wants, the type that he really wants because you're not his type. If you're going 50-50, you're not his type. His type he has not met yet. His type has not recognized him yet. His type is coming after you build him up. Then he's going to have a type. Then he's going to be like, oh, yeah. This type of woman. I bet you I could get one now because I'm the man. So, be careful. Don't build a man. If you build a man, remember, just like you built him up, he became this great thing. He might not be great to you, but he's great to some ratchet after you helped him. He's great to a ratchet now because now he's established, he's got a good job, he goes back to school while you paid the bills. You guys go 50-50 so he can have a nice home and this, this, and that. So now the ratchet is seeing his nice car because he don't have to pay half the bills so he can have a nice car. The ratchets are seeing his nice car, his nice clothes because of course he can shop good because half his check is not going to everything. So he got money to spend on other women. And also he has nice shoes so he can get his hair cut. All that. Meanwhile, are you sitting over here, thinking, oh, I got the perfect life, the perfect man, the perfect husband, and we're building up together. But remember, there's other women with their eye on your man who you help look like that, who you allow to look like that, to drive that nice car, to attract other women. And when those other women see him, they're going to be like, oh my God, he's got it all, he's got a nice car, nice house, but he's married, but he's saying he's not happy because she's never there, she always bossing around, she's always telling them what to do and he don't like her, he's going to leave her any day. He told me. So we're just hanging out right now. He comes over sometimes. So it's very easy for those type of men to cheat who have 50-50 women. I'm going to tell you one more thing before I get off this. Y'all can think all day long that you're helping somebody, that you're only hurting yourself. You don't help grown men. You just don't. If they ain't got it when you met them, pass by that. Why? Because they're not complete. They're not complete, and if they're not complete, they're still looking for more. You don't complete them. You can't complete them. Another person cannot complete another person. They have to feel complete within themselves. And if you think you can help him build and complete him and make this fabulous life, if he doesn't already have that, then once he gets there with you, he's going to go. Because it's in women's nature to nurture and to try to build and create the life that they want. But sometimes they forget that you can't do that to people. You know what I'm saying? So that's usually how it goes. And if you ever notice, they don't have any problem leaving you because they think, oh, she got it. She got a good career. She made good money. Oh, yeah, she don't need me. She can have the house. She can pay for it. She can afford it. She don't need me. I don't. Translation. She's not going to miss me. She can pay all these bills. I'm going to go and have fun with this ratchet chick who thinks I'm all that. Thanks for helping me. Thanks for helping me get this nice car, these nice suits. Thanks for helping me, you know, build my credit. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Now, peace out. Hold me. I'm going to chill with this ratchet chick over here. And we're going on vacation. I'll see you later. Have fun at work. Tell the kids I said, hey. And, you know, we can still be friends. What? Oh, I'm so hurt. I'm so devastated. I gave him my all. That's what your first mistake was. You gave a grown man a yo-all dummy. Big dummy. Big fat dummy. And I don't know. Like, that's the stupidest thing you can ever do. And a lot of women are lining up to do it in the comments. Oh, I go 50-60 with a man. I support a man. I hold a man down. I'm going to do this. I'm going to do that. I'm this. I'm that. I'll support you. Okay. That's fine. Good. Help him get up there. Help him get up there. Help him climb that ladder. And so he can climb up the ladder and push it down so you can't climb it. And he can go on without you. Don't listen to me. Go read all the stories. Probably floating around online about how they may have left them after they done did ABCD, GFG, HIJK, LMPQRSTV, HIJK, LMPQRSTV, WFYZ. Okay? After you done done all them steps, then he gone. So, what I'm saying is, expect more, give less. That's it. That's the answer. It's not harsh. It's reality. That's just how it is. How it has to be. You know, how they always say, nice women finish last and men love bitches. It's true. They, the man will say it's not true because they, first they have to go through a woman being their manager, boss, credit, credit repairer, mother, sister. And then when they've lived that life, they're done. They want it now. The ones that say they want that have not, are not built up yet. So you don't want them anyway. The men who are saying, oh, I want a woman that could go 50-50 means I need help to reach the next level so I can get a better woman in the future because, you know, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. They might not realize it until it's too late. They might not realize it until in the middle of the relationship when they feel like they have a mother, a curfew, and a boss and a manager at their home. They might not realize it until then because as soon as you ask a woman for money, you have just asked for a manager. Okay. You have just asked for a supervisor. That's what you've just asked for. You know, you can't be the head of household if you pay in half the bills. There ain't no way you can do that. You cannot be head of household if you pay in half. You know, you can be up down here. You can't be, you can't be a head of household. Okay. You just can't. If your woman paying in half, she's head because women are naturally dominant over the domestic areas. Now, if you want to be head of household barely, then you have to pay all the bills. You know, if you barely want to make a head of household, you got to pay the bills because y'all already know when we're in the household. If the man pays the bills, she let him think he won at least. At least his ego is still in place. But you, you asked for that 50-50. Oh, no, you're asking for another boss. Okay. So don't settle little pick me women. Stop it. You look desperate in the comments. You look like, oh, come in my inbox. I'm so lonely. I'm going to say the thing that all these guys want to hear. I'm a pain. I will pay. I will hold you down. I will do this. Look in their background. See why they're so picnic. Go to a background. Check on them. See why they're so picnic. Half of them pick me. Can't, you know, can't get a man. And there's something in their background that you don't know. Am I saying what it is? Because it's a different for everyone of us. Like you've probably been to jail before. They probably can't get a good job. They probably, you know, have a bunch of kids. They probably, you know, have, um, I don't know. But they got something in their background as to why they're so desperate. Or they've been brainwashed to think, oh, I can be strong. I can be this. I can be that. And it's going to get me far in life. Except it's not going to get you far in a relationship. You know, it's going to get you about 15 to 20 good years. And then it's going to fall off. That's what's going to get you. It's going to get you. It's going to get his credit built. You know, think about what you're doing. This is not even your child. This is a grown man. If you're going to put that much effort into a person, let it be your child. You know what I'm saying? If you're going to put that much, if you're going to give, you know, 50, 50, put it in a saving account for your child and let a grown man be a grown man and pay these bills. You know, if you look better than me or decent or halfway decent, you shouldn't be paying bills. Why? Because there's ugly men out there that would get paychecks. Okay. And to them, you look beautiful. So stop. It's not worth it. And you're just walking backwards and you're taking your generations backwards. So meanwhile, you know, we're building wealth. We'll build, we're building up our generations. This isn't that. Y'all are falling apart. Your man's leaving you for shark-isha. Your kids are upset. You know, now your, your daughter's out there paying for some, some dues. Y'all are moving backwards. Moving backwards. Okay. Shoot. I might not be, I might not be the best looking thing in the world, but I ain't paying no man's bills. Period. Okay. If you look better than me and you paying bills, something wrong with you. I'm serious. If you're younger than me, skinnier than me, better teeth than me, better hair than me, better weave. Well, I don't care what you got on your head. If you look better than this and you paying bills, something wrong. Hi. Hi, Mom. Are you going live? Yeah. I'm live. Hi, Mom. Hi, baby. All right. I'm live so y'all gotta stick out. Y'all go watch TV. Oh, wow. Is the air on? Can y'all make sure the air is on? My baby's looking so much. Um, yeah. So I was saying, yeah, I already told them when they, when they get to teenagers, don't, don't pay nothing on note for no man or no kid, no boy, no nothing. You know, if they can't pay, buy a pass because they can't afford to date. And don't make it easy for them. Okay. If you make it too easy for them, then the next, the next woman that challenges them and piques their interest and it makes them chase, they're going to be intrigued with that. Okay. You make everything too easy, effortless, you know, men are competitors. They like sport. They like challenge. And if you're not that, they're not interested in you after a while. You're just their mom, their sister, their manager, their boss, their credit repair. Okay. So remember that. Yeah. So I don't care what the guys are saying. The reason they're upset because they know this is true. They know it's true. That's why they're mad because we know this now and we're not going to. Well, there's going to be a lot of women lining up to help you. And there are plenty of them guys. Don't even get mad at me. I'm just saying there are plenty of women lining up to help you right now. There's plenty of women like this. Come take my money. Come get my money. Let me help you. Let me help you. Hi. Can you see me? I'll pay half the rent. Yeah. Pick me. You know, teacher, pick me. Come pick me. Come pick. What else? What else have to write in these comments? I will hold you down. Put clean. What else I can do? Wash your clothes. Pay half the bills. Pick me. Please. I'm begging you. I look good too. That's an added bonus. I will work just as hard as you. I promise. Even when I'm nine months pregnant, I will go to work. I will get a daycare to raise my newborn. I don't care. I'm going to work. I'm going to help you. I'm going to help build you up. You're the king. I'm going to give you a false sense of masculinity. I'm going to make you head a household, even though when I get mad at you, I'm going to call you out your name and tell you you can't do nothing because I got to have this bill. But no, wait, scratch that last part. Pick me. Oh, and then the ones that have the man who are halfway through the process. Oh, me and my man, we're building up. We got a house. We're doing this. We're doing that. Wait, give it five more years. Give it five more years. Y'all going to be in my image. Can you door reading for me? Is my man cheating on me? Give it five more years. I'm telling you. Give it five more years. He left me. He's seeing this other girl. You know, give it five more years. Y'all, you in the good spot right now. The credit's good. Y'all got a new house. He got a new car. He's balling. You balling. The chartesia's looking. Ooh, look at him. So, you know, if he wasn't like that when you met him, if he wasn't balling when you met him and he starts balling, oh, a man who gets, you know, a little nice car, a little something, something after he's been driving a Honda Accord for a little while, he gets a Porsche or something or some type of luxury vehicle. Oh, he's going to go see what he can drag in with that. He's going to go see what women or he can pull with that. Because he pulled you with a Honda Accord. You easy. Now he going to try to go top you or find someone who is going to do, you know, make, who's going to think he did that by himself. Okay? Don't do it. Y'all know it's true. Look at y'all. Look at y'all in the comments. Y'all know it's true. Men know it's true too. Like, oh, yes. And they even say it. Well, that's why you're going to get dumped for a younger version. Well, because that's what you plan to do, right? Isn't it? You plan to use that 50-50 woman and dump her for a younger version when you get on. You said it at your own mouth, guys. Y'all say it in every video. That's why women get old and then the guy dumps them and leaves them for a younger woman. Why would they say that? Because they plan to do it to you. And once you give them your 50-50, help them save, get that Porsche, got a good 401k, got some good credit, oh, got some real estate investments. Now he got a house, another house, a rental property. Oh, y'all are doing really good. So, you know, that rental house, that real estate that's in his name because, y'all, he had so much money saved up, he started investing. Oh, you know, that can be his girlfriend's new house. He can rent it out to her. He can leave and move in there anytime. When it's vacant, he can use it to meet up with other chicks. So what are you doing? Why are you doing this? He never had this kind of money and lifestyle before. He don't know what type of women he could pool like that. When you get married to your man, it should be he wants you because he wants you and he has everything he already needs. He don't need you to help him. Okay, that means you're the one he chose to be with, not the one he settled with, not the one he helped build his credit with, but the one he chose after he already had the Porsche, the rental properties, the cars, the house, the 401, the savings, the good credit. If you're that woman, then you're smart and you're good. If you're the 50-50 woman, I'm sorry for you. And if you're a Charquisha, I'm giving you a high five because you did that with little effort. Okay, so what I'm saying is, ladies, stop being picky, stop trying to give men money. If you that desperate, go get you an ugly man and they will pay for your bills and you ain't got to help build them and you can keep you a little money. Okay? I'm just saying it's real. And sometimes they don't even have to be ugly. They're just real men or gentlemen or men who know how to treat women or men who got themselves together or financially stable. They don't have to be rich. They just have to be able to take care of you so that you're their choice or who they chose to help build them up so they can go get a higher caliber woman after you help build their credit and stuff. I'm going to take questions down. We don't ask me. I'm just, you know, where do you go to find a financially secure man? Google most wealthiest zip codes in your city. That's where you go. Those restaurants go to happy hour. Go to lunch at nice restaurants in the bar area. Okay? I don't know. I went a little harsh today but they needed to hear that. They really need to hear that because nobody is telling them this. They're not telling them that. Their mama not telling them. Their aunts not telling them. Their sisters not telling them. Their brothers aren't telling them. Their daddies aren't telling them. So I've got to tell them. I've got to tell them the truth. I have a client work. I have consultations. I hear these stories daily. Every day somebody kind of, my man left me. Well, why? Did you make more money than I? That's why I left you. My man left me. Why? Because his ex-girlfriend came back and this, this and that. Oh, okay. He moved out. So he lived with you? Okay. So every time somebody gets broken up with, usually it's because the man is moving forward or moving on away from the picnic. You know? Because somebody challenged him and they're chasing that challenge. So don't get caught up like that, ladies. I'm trying to tell you. And I've been getting these stories for years. Same story. Back story, over and over. Just different people, different names, different situations. But basically, the builder man, when he feels like he's done being built, moves on and leaves you by yourself with the kids and don't look back. You know? So don't even try. And then you feel bad because you've invested in this man. You thought y'all was building stuff together with Jay-Z, Beyoncé relationship and then all of a sudden he goes and bounces. He's gone. Now you just Beyoncé by yourself and you don't know what to do. Okay? So, if this has happened to you, I'm going to give you some advice. Don't repeat it. The next person you start dating, they're paying for everything. Vacations, shopping, get spoiled. You spent your life being a 50-50 pygmy. It's time to get spoiled. You know what I'm saying? You still look good enough. You can do it. I promise. You know? I see women out here, 50, 45, getting stuff done for them all day long. And, you know, change your mentality. Stop trying to be a pygmy. Stop trying to get the attention of the men who aren't complete. That's low self-esteem. If you don't think you deserve a man who's already made it, you done. And you feel like you don't deserve it. And that's your fault. I knew I deserved a man who was already done, complete, had some money, bought me this, this, and that. I knew I deserved that. That's why I didn't go for no 50-50. Because I'm not a 50-50 chick and I never will be, never was, don't want to be, don't ever want to be in a future life or a past life. Okay? I'll kill myself. I'll be like, this is the wrong life. You know? So, that's the harm-saving. You know how a lot of people say, ooh, if I was born in the time of slavery, I would kill myself. That's how I feel about paying bills. That's how I feel about 50-50. Nope, ain't gonna happen. I can't sit across the room from some wrong man with his hand out. I was just, mm-mm. I slap him five and say, high-five. That's about it. Mm-hmm. So, something about a 60-year-old woman. Hold on. I'm being schooled by a 60-year-old woman. She is mentoring me to get a man to feel good for her. She knows she's talking about. Okay, someone says, I'm 19. Most guys my age want 50-50. They're older. Go get the man that's already been built up. You go be Sharkisha. You get it. 19-year-old you can go get the man who's got good credit because this woman helped him. Don't be the 50-50. Go take the guy who benefited from a 50-50 chick. You know what I'm saying? Or go get someone who's already made it on their own who didn't use the woman to get there. Those are even better. Okay. Yeah, you can't like... And the guys that have used women, this is what they're going to tell you. Oh, my ex... They're not going to talk about their ex-wife bad. Or their ex bad. They're going to say, oh, my ex was great. She was independent. She did this, this, and that. But we just grew apart. We didn't have time for each other anymore. Or it just died out. I wasn't excited anymore. They're going to tell you something like that. They're not going to have no drama, baby mama drama or nothing. They're going to have a good situation, a good ex situation. Basically, he made it and he left. And she couldn't do nothing about it. So, okay, how do you get an older man? Be young. Shoot. This is the ideal woman for most men are between the ages of 18 and 25. And if you're older than that, you're for older men. Old men like young women. That's it. That's like, ask any man. They like younger women. That's just how it is. That's why it's easy to get them. Hmm. Like, if you're 21, you can get a 40-year-old. 40-year-olds still look good. They're still in shape. Most of them, they still look good. They still got their hair. They got gray or just a little bit gray coming out. They got a good career. They write up in there when they start making the good money. They can spoil you. They can go on vacation. They got vacation days. 401. Savings. Freakin' flyer miles. They're doing good. So, 40 is a good age. You know, if you're in your 20s. Now, if you're in your 30s, you got to go for the 50s. They getting ready. They got stuff saved. They got houses. Cars. Stop. Bonds. Investments. You know. Vacation home. Time share or something. They got that. Grown kids. No baby mama drama. Now, if you're 40, you have to go up to the 60. Unless you look young. You can kind of play with that age range. I'm not saying you have to go this over the same. It just depends on how you look. So, some women don't age. Some women do. The women that work a lot and work themselves to the bone like a man, they're probably a little bit more aged. The women that have been doing this all their life getting men to pay for them, they don't look as aged. So, it just depends on what you look like. What the men like. But I think 60 is a good age for a 40-something year old. They're about to retire. Y'all can vacation. Y'all can travel to world without having to worry about working. But if you want someone your own age, make sure you go. Make sure you look way better than that. That way, you're the prize always. Okay? Always. That's the dynamic. It's looks. You've got to look way better than them. If you want someone your own age that can financially support you or go older. Either way, it helps. You can't be equal. You can't look just as good. They can't look better than you or anything like that because they're going to be with the hand out look. I look good. I can go get a woman. I don't need you, so pay half. You know? You want somebody that looks so bad when they look at you every morning and they're like, oh my God, am I dreaming? Let me get up and go pay all these bills. And buy this girl the gift and plan this vacation. Oh, yeah. He's in the office showing all his co-workers and boss the picture of his woman. Oh, look at my woman. Oh, yeah. That's what I got at home. Wait a minute. Looking like Forrest Whitaker. Slave to slave combined. He's paying. And he's showing you off and he's bragging on you and he's bringing you gifts. Okay, so what's it going to be? As long as you can pay all the bills to some women, that's good. That's great. Like, if you're paying all the bills and you can get her a good gift for her birthday and go on vacation at least once a year to some women, that's beautiful. If you can do that, that should be your goal. You know, if your woman can brag on you, you're there. You're there. If they can brag on you taking care of them, you're there. If they're proud of you and tell everybody, oh, my man, take care of me. He's got to meet you. If their neck starts shaking when they talk about you, you're in. Okay. If you got to make excuses for your man, it's a bad economy. Oh, well, you know the system is messed up. Oh, well, you know, he didn't get paid this week, so he got to get my birthday present next week. Oh, you know, his baby mama tripping over child support, so he couldn't buy me no presents. Oh, well, he lost his job. If you got to make a thousand excuses for somebody, you don't. You're in the wrong relationship You should be bragging. They should be bragging on you and you should be bragging on them. You know, they should be bragging on you because you're so wonderful and great and they're lucky to be with you. And you should be bragging on them because they're taking care of you. They're accomplished and you're proud of them and they're generous to you and they make you feel special. That's how it should be. If you're not in that type of relationship, that should be your relationship goals. I see these stupid dumb things talking about relationship goals. It's like, dumb. Dumb and stupid. It's not relationship goals. That's relationship nightmares. Sneaking food into the movies in a baby basket. Relationship goals. I know y'all have seen that one. Okay, so. And bragging on someone bragging on a man because of the size of his penis it's not it does not count, okay? Because they sell those in the store. So bragging on the man because of the size of his penis or how he does in bed it's not bragging on a man. That's almost like that's almost like, okay, is that all he can do? That's good in high school, that's good in college, but like you're a grown kid, you got like four kids that's all you bragging on your man about I mean, show me some vacation pictures okay? What did he buy you for your birthday? Oh he he did me real real on my oh okay, that's good present okay? So if you got a brag on that that's stupid. That's like that's not even worth mentioning because all you're doing is advertising him to your girlfriend who don't got a man and now she know how big your man stuff is and how good he is and you know he can't cheat on you. You don't expect yourself up. So don't do that either. You don't brag on that that's not something to brag on and if you're bragging on that on social media you know and stuff like that because you can't brag on something else like oh look at this nice thing he bought me or look at the nice car he bought me or look at the nice house we're getting ready to move in or look what the new business he started or look at this you know if you can't brag on anything besides what he can do but naked with nothing then that's not bragging for me it's like a waste of time and I feel like a lot of women do this like that's not nothing to brag about everybody can do anybody can walk out on the street and get some sex you know what I'm saying it's super easy so if you got to brag on that that does not count at all for nothing it doesn't make you look done because you're giving it away free and don't have nothing in return that's why I hold my man down I hate that saying I hate that saying and then the other saying well what if your man loses everything what if Donald Trump loses everything what if Barack Obama loses everything what if who are some other people what if Jay-Z loses everything how can they lose everything they had a plan they have financial advisors they have savings they have money market accounts they have overseas accounts how can they lose everything when you ask someone that question who has a wealthy or a financially stable well established partner that question is stupid and it shows you a financial IQ is very low you can't lose everything once you are established that well unless you're scamming, scheming or investing all your money in one place okay so that right there lets me know you don't know nothing about no money and you're like asking the stupidest question ever so men stop asking that question because it makes you look dumb financially and any woman who sees that is going to know you broke see most wealthy people that have a little something going on they have more than one stream of income so one fails they got a bunch more that's how they invest they make a lot of money here they save then they invest in it over here they get some real estate over here they save they got money coming in while they sleep they get they're getting paid one thing goes wrong okay and I got five more of the things coming in until this one is doing better you know what I'm saying so they can't lose everything if they have a plan they're smart and they know what they're doing you know if you're dumb and you don't have any financial knowledge and you just work a nine to five and pay get up eat go to sleep let's eat drink come home do the same thing over and over of course you can lose everything if you're living paycheck to paycheck of course you can lose everything of course the woman that's with that type of man will hold him down of course because they don't know any better I'm trying to help y'all figure it out and the first step is don't enable that man okay you holding him down you're enabling him so stop enabling these dudes they're too old to be enabled by someone okay they need to be trying to figure out how to get to the next level okay most people do live paycheck to paycheck in America and that's not even I mean that's very common okay that's what I'm saying ladies be smart go get you a man that don't live paycheck to paycheck so that your generations can thrive you know don't matter what you look like you ain't got to live paycheck to paycheck you ain't got to hold him down anybody yes take you places cars so why I don't know it seems like it's easy to do these things you know and most of the men that are complaining they're not even a target the only thing that they risk losing is the 50-50 chick that's first in line there's a bunch of them waiting behind her that will help you out my little videos are not going to take away your 50-50 chicks man okay because you can be a 50-50 chick half your life and then you can wake up and the other half you're not okay just because you are a 50-50 chick now doesn't mean you have to be one tomorrow just because you are a 50-50 chick for 20 years doesn't mean you have to stay a 50-50 chick you know after that one do leave you should be done you shouldn't even try to repeat what you just did okay don't try again try a different way okay try a different way flip the script go get you a man who's going to pay 100% or at least 80% you know the number one excuse that I hear about why women and men have to go 50-50 excuse okay if y'all have heard this or seen it or read it on facebook I want y'all to put a skeleton emoji on the screen well you must not have been awake since the clinton administration this economy is bad we need 50-50 to survive how many times y'all heard that put a skull emoji if y'all have read it or heard it because word for word I have seen it it's like they copy and pasted it you know I've seen it I've heard it since 2009 you know so I know it's something that circles around the whole tip conscious you know dusty community because most people don't even know what the clinton administration is you know until they saw somebody else talk about it in a meeting about paying half the bills okay MGTO dusty whole tip favorite administration is the clinton administration because it gives them an excuse to ask a woman for some money and to ask her to go half living with a grown man they love that administration because now they don't have to strive it hard because oh my god let's use that as an excuse you know the clinton administration didn't hold a lot of people back it held you back you didn't even know it existed but it was holding you back why because you had no ambition it doesn't matter who was in office people gonna get rich regardless of who's in office if they have ambition and they smart and they have drive and they don't have nobody enabling them they're gonna still get rich don't matter who's the president okay how many people got rich since that administration millions look at sharp tank you think them people up there creating stupid gadgets is worried about the clinton administration no they gonna do what they gotta do to get where they need to get their mind is on the prize not on the past okay these guys here have zero ambition because they've been enabled by women who gonna hold them down you gonna hold them down and they will never make it to the top either keep holding them down hold them down long enough to where they drown in your security and they never amount to nothing and then you gonna come on here other people's channels and be like how can I get my man to be more ambitious dump on kick him out throw him on the street that sound don't come up here asking me how you can get your man to be more ambitious if you live in a ill house and you pay and have the bills you know the answer tell him to get a second job and pay all these bills that's step number one responsibility and purpose man don't have no responsibility or no purpose what does he have to strive for you ever heard of a situation where a guy was with some girl and you know he might have been cheating on her with you and then he won't leave her because she needs him because he pay everything and if I left they would be homeless and I can't leave her because you know ABC and D because she gave him purpose made him responsible for her therefore he's gonna stay with her even though he's sleeping with you but he's not gonna leave her for you because he has purpose and responsibility there and he feels like a man there he's just you know sleeping with you because he can you know and she ain't gonna say that because he paying all the bills taking care of business coming home yeah he might be you know creeping in whatever over here with you but he he told you at his own all I can't leave her because she would be homeless and I can't do that to my baby and her purpose he's gonna keep a job too you know he's gonna keep a job he's gonna keep going he's gonna keep striving so if you don't have a purpose if you don't have if your man don't have a purpose and you keep enabling him and you want him to be more ambitious ambitious tell him he gotta pay all the bills see what he can do with that okay okay and then you know a lot of guys are talking about go to these foreign countries to find these women are watching this channel too y'all and prostitution is legal in Brazil okay they just mess with y'all man they might like you they might treat you good cause you have you know American accent or whatever but at the end of the day they're about their money too they got their money too where are my brazil girls at tell them I got a lot of viewers from brazil so y'all know so y'all go try to open up over there they know better they're gonna get you to spend your little change your little American change your little money they gonna tell you they gonna they gonna get you some good rice they gonna call you daddy poppy whatever rub it on your back make sure you buy them a cup of drinks spend some cash on them they gonna do all of that you ain't gonna get nothing free though they spot y'all at the bars they're like okay I'm gonna get my hair done by him he gonna give me this I'm gonna get free drinks from him all night that's the point and then after they leave you they go and prostitute themselves because it's legal there and they go get the other but they real money after they got drunk off of you for free or they working on the American citizenship okay so I'm about to go in like so if y'all have anything to ask go ahead and put it in there oh these lights like I have these bright lights on because it's dark outside and I don't get no natural light in the window I'm probably getting a tan right now I feel like I'm on the beach so the original title of this was Too Pretty to Pay Veals that's true and you look good you paying 50-50 you just get scammed and your beauty and your youth go to waste and you're working hard just like a man and in about five years it's gonna show on your face and your man's still gonna look young because they're made to work they're built to work so they don't age as fast as you do while you working like them go ahead keep working like a man see how old you look and see how young he still looks because that's what he's supposed to be doing he's supposed to work he's stronger than you he's bigger than you he has more muscle than you he has more stamina than you you know and plus when he gets home he ain't got he don't gotta comb no kids hair he don't gotta cook he don't gotta go grocery store hardly unless he chooses to it's an option for him so I don't know what you're doing lady you're running yourself into the ground just so you're gonna be picked he's gonna look better than you in five years watch if you working just as hard as your man in five years he's gonna look better than you I promise you how to handle rich man's arrogant attitudes just sit up and listen just like play dumb play dumb, play dumb, get their money play dumb it's like black china did then cuss them out after you got the money play dumb till you get what you want that's how most women do you know why it's so easy to play dumb because men already think women are stupid so we just gotta play the role act dumb they believe it then you get what you want let me tell you something when I was in the mortuary business you know the question I got asked the most or the statement that I was told the most you are too pretty to be working in a funeral home you are too pretty to be a mortician okay at least I tried to have a career at least I tried to go make some money at least I tried to do something in my life but every time someone would see me you are too pretty to be here men, not women men you know you don't need to work this was back when I was 21, 2021 I'm like maybe they're right I'm gonna find me a rich man I'm tired, I'm done with this, forget y'all you know two weeks later found one listen to people when they tell you stuff they're not just trying to gas you up sometimes it's true even grown men know that other men will support pretty women, smart women that know how to make a man feel like he's the king of the world without paying you know the guys at the funerals just lost their wife you know guys at the funeral other funeral directors they'd be like oh you work here oh you're too pretty to be a mortician let me take you to lunch you know what I'm saying all pastors from churches too child pastors from churches oh hi you know let me take you to lunch I'll show you the church and they married I'm like oh I don't want to do church so that's why I'm telling you so a man doesn't like a man will tell you too once a woman tells you you should understand that it's true you should not be paying bills if you sleep with a grown man and he's asking you for half the money and you look good you shouldn't be paying bills that's just it if you're paying bills you're the wrong man you'll be getting married guys there's still plenty of 50 women out there that's sure they're all on facebook go look under a post of a woman who is tired of y'all chicks and them comments looking for poverty pn okay they're everywhere go to any conscious post go to any post that a woman is talking bad about these broke men you're gonna find at least two or three but then pick me chicks in the comments waiting on you to inbox them with quickness and they're very easy to get very easy and they're free super free like they're gonna give you money it's like gold digging in reverse y'all know it's true y'all know it's true and then they these guys know because they've been in those inboxes before hey how you doing I like what you said in that post well you know I think it's important for women to support they men and those women okay and then as soon as they hear about all the men and as soon as they hear about okay well tell me about yourself oh okay well I got $18,000 worth of student loans my car in the shop my baby daddy ain't paying my child support I got four kids that's why you're gonna comment making an uncomment okay well I'm glad there's still women out there like you but um um I'm glad there's still women out there that think like you hope you find a good man I'm out peace I told you they pick me for a reason you ain't gonna find you're not gonna find a single young dead free with no kids pick me I'm gonna do it then to make that Facebook group love all the pick me and all the dusties together whoo can you imagine a dating site for dusties and pick me oh my god where will y'all go McDonald's that's all I'm gonna name it dusties and pick me a place where we don't have to feel like we're not welcome then you know what they're gonna start doing if I just start that group it's gonna be it because now they don't have no competition now they just look desperate and then they're gonna expose themselves and like dang do you see how desperate I sound oh my god let me delete this I don't even have nobody to argue with you know I just put myself out there hey I pay y'all bills then they're gonna see themselves for what they are they're not gonna have anybody to come and talk about hi Sasha you hot go downstairs okay okay go fill it take it we'll fill it up peace out homie she just want to be on camera so bad thank you anyways y'all I'm serious if there was a dusty and pick me group I think the pick me would see how they really look and they would just stop they really stop them like dang I do look with that thank you how to be more feminine and get a man to want to pay you expect it but also make sure you're you act like you're used to it like it's expected like where are we going for dinner which restaurant would you like to go to you feel like Italian lots of wine and I expect it tell them like before your date I love surprises I love men who show up and surprise me with little gifts it turns me on you know and if they're like oh okay what would you like they're gonna ask what you like name something not too expensive but expensive enough I love perfume jewelry what most women like flowers they come with one flowers okay they come with the perfume they come with jewelry they come with all three keeper what are you looking for that's when you say it I'm looking for a man who wants to spoil me in every way who likes to surprise me who buys me little gifts every now and then because just because someone who can impress me it's kind of blah blah blah blah blah wait I was talking about you looking for a relationship no I'm looking for what you can do for me so you know he's gonna be like oh what are you like hello perfume flowers gift cards jewelry wine you're gonna bring you all three if he's trying to impress you he's trying to sleep with you you're gonna bring you something you're gonna get something plus food but you just already act like you expected you're telling what you like you know he's already there he knows that you're out of his league he's gonna have to do something right so it's best to do it first and like right in the beginning of dating because that's when they're trying to impress you the most so that's when you can get it at least a little bit and then when they see how excited you are to get it oh my god I love this thank you I love this this is so beautiful they're gonna feel all good inside and like oh my god and you're like rubbing his shoulder and giving him a kiss on the cheek you smell so good oh my gosh the next time they see you they're gonna bring you something better because all that's how you just react you just make them feel like a million dollars so that's how you get it you act and you don't have to worry about these guys and hearing all of this because these aren't the type of men who are gonna do this anyway period so it's not really exposing the secrets it's just that they're not the target so don't matter but they know or not it's just like telling a gay guy it doesn't matter however you do apply it to your life how you apply it benefit from it this is here for you because you're not going to be the target you are not the target okay so I don't care if you hear it there's no men there's no millionaires out there watching this video I promise you there's no six figure high six figure salary dude out here watching this why because they've been at work they're at home and already or they're probably looking they're probably taking some beautiful woman out shopping for gifts somebody they got their life together they're probably on their yacht going on vacation they're not on youtube trolling videos I promise you okay because if they were it wouldn't be my video it would be y'all's video they'd be laughing at MGTOW dudes who can't get women they would go on youtube to laugh and find comedy and watch broke men talk about how they can't get women but here's the old 63 old dude sitting up here with two women talking about you just need some money dude it's easy to get women you know so they ain't going to be on my channel they already know our games they don't care because it's not anything to them dinner, drinks, gifts paying few bills is nothing now if I made a video and titled it calling all sugar daddy oh yeah I can get some on here quick because they're looking for women to support they're looking they're not avoiding they're not running away from they're looking yeah I can get some on here calling all sugar daddy some of them going to pop up watch and if the trolls pop up at the same time they're just going to be laughing at y'all in the comments anyways I know the truth hurts sometimes but someone has to say it I don't have nothing to lose at this point I have nothing to lose I'm already married so I can tell the truth I never will be either don't plan on raising none either some constructive criticism to men who do expect or think women are supposed to pay 50-50 if the woman says I will pay 50-50 and help you and build this she wants you to stay with her forever 10 years not 5 years but forever because she's contributing to you she's doing what you're supposed to do just to have a man but when you see that you say oh she's supposed to do that if we break up then she's going to be good she should be okay but that's not the case that's why women get evil after that man breaks up with them and a child support alimony and drag his name through the dirt and put curses and hexes on him after he leaves because if a woman is going to stoop that low to put money in a grown man's pocket and towards bills in that same house that he's living in and she's giving him sex she's going to feel real dumb and stupid after she's done all the stuff that he's still left because she thought that going 50-50 is supposed to keep him but it didn't so when you enter into that 50-50 relationship man, you better stay there or you better prepare to meet the scorn of a woman after you leave her because it's not going to be easy she's going to do everything she's going to throw everything against you behind your back even if she's smiling in your face okay? they don't do it, it's not worth it so I'm sure people are telling their stories and these comments about the same thing happening to me living to where it's true the group is a secret group I don't I don't have it open because too many pickies come trying to get in and then they get offended when they see what I post and then I have to kick them out they don't know their pickies they don't know their pickies until they see a post and they defend them you will pick me you got kicked out because some of y'all ain't ready for this y'all think y'all won't fit y'all think y'all are ready but y'all aren't ready y'all aren't ready if you feel any type of guilt towards getting what you deserve then you're not ready for this group if you're trying to pay for anything if you're ready for this group if you are if you still believe that every man is going to be your knight in shining armor broke if you still believe that broke man don't cheat, this group ain't for you so that's why it's secret because too many people think this group is for them and it's not for them because they just they're still not all the way there you got to be brutal for getting this group how much can I get from this one how much can I get from that one what can I get out of this one look at all these gifts this dude just sent me and I haven't even talked to him or met him yet look how much money this dude sent me over the internet and I haven't even met him yet you got to be like that to get in this group because you know what if you're trying to still but you want out and to do better and improve and stuff like that you need to leave him first so that you ready to move on for real that's what I'm saying this group is for women who are about that life yes it's not about finding true love it's not about finding your soul mates it's not about your twin flame it's not about getting what you want it's about beating in with the means to give you what you want that's it it's not about love it's not about any of that it's not about relationships and how to make this and that work I do private consultations for that it's about getting paid getting what you deserve meeting rich guys landing somebody that's going to take care of you that's what the group is about it's not about the other stuff I might start a group for that too and call it pick knees and dusties or or maybe I'll be nicer and name it something like you know relationships I don't know I can't even think about it because I don't even believe in that kind of stuff anymore I should name it before I should name the group before the truth before you learn the truth group you still are striving for this this and that the 50-50 group the 50-50 club like Jay-Z got the 40 club people go in there to get roommates basically okay someone says host they win yeah they do they win it they don't lose and you know a lot of people think that by calling women gold diggers whores and stuff like that that's an insult that's not an insult no more it's not an insult calling a broke worn out haggard is an insult and most of them gold diggers and stuff like that they ain't got to do a man's day work that's why I didn't even do it still and they you know it's not you know you see a hard working good woman who will hold their men down hold them up next to a hoe let's see which one looks better I'm waiting yep that's what I thought no makeup hair all over the place basic clothes on bags because she out there working like a man for a man that's why don't have time to take care of herself don't have time to go to the spa don't have to get no facials don't have time to do anything but go to work come on cook clean pay the bills look at the man she thinks she's lucky to have and then go to bed that's all she did and it's not right she shouldn't be doing that so much as a guy tried to invite me on a coffee date I'll hope you turn him on I think this is how this whole thing got started my coffee date video when a man asks you on a coffee date it means you're only worth $4.75 you're not worth a full meal you ain't even worth lunch you ain't even worth a drink but you ain't worth you're worth a $4 cup of coffee that's all you worth and the reason they like coffee dates is because they don't have to pay they get to see how you look they get to see the chemistry they get to be seen in public with you oh no you can't be seen in public with me unless you buy some some dinner you can't be seen in public with me I'm sorry I have to draw the line that's before I was married but yeah it's kind of like it's kind of like getting because you know it's kind of like this guy is like oh I can't wait to be seen in public with a beautiful woman but I don't want to spend the money yet because I don't know if she likes me for me but I'm going to use her you know I know she looks I've seen her profile pictures we did FaceTime so I know what she looked let me ask her for coffee because I want to see if she likes me for me and she's not just using me for dinner so when she walks up looking beautiful and all of her nice hair and makeup and nails and flawless people are looking at you like dang he got a good one that right there is worth more $1.75 if you get to be seen in public with a woman who looks good you better be taking her somewhere so she can look good and you can look good too because if you just taking her to coffee that's like you're getting free a free date it's like no you can't do that if you're going to be with someone go show her off don't just take her to no stupid Starbucks after Starbucks she going to leave okay don't do it it's not worth it and she ain't ever going to call you back she probably got a Starbucks gift card in her pocket and in her purse you know how they always give people Starbucks coffee I got one of my purse right now a Starbucks gift card thank you this is great this is impressive my kids and I go to Starbucks every other day they get the cake popped somebody said oh look they got Starbucks again that's like me and McDonald's to some people hey Jay I'm alive so you can't I'm alive okay y'all go hear some peace I thought he can go in there but if you look good your kids will look good that's all there is to it you got your shoes are good you know make up anybody can wear you can take a drag queen ugly drag queen and transform into the most beautiful thing you've ever seen okay so ain't no such thing as ugly cause you got makeup and wigs and all that stuff okay curic I have at home please I got a Starbucks at home to my curic I'm drinking some right now so what else can we got or meet them at the Starbucks in the mall cause we all go shop he's only spent four dollars on me he's gonna buy me something for real you know that a hundred dollars you could have spent on dinner you can buy me something else I take gift cards gifts okay someone asked how old I am I'll tell you one of my secrets to looking young liquid gold you know how Jay-Z say on that song wife in the kitchen eating my baby's liquid gold I prepared a healthy snack for you oh my baby so sweet look what she brought me I brought you two carrots three grapes one pineapple and two that's a watermelon two and some water thank you so much I have a lot of water in them I give you a little bit more thank you okay this is great kids you put some of that dip too are y'all eating that I just made it for you oh that's so nice I'll put some of this in my water what is that oh it says you're an animal you know I give it to you all the time you just don't know you want some it just tastes like water okay let me take it okay I can't taste it it's just like water thank you I just thought you said strawberry really can I say something you're welcome thank you I also love you mama I love you too baby oh my baby so sweet I'll take care of you I'll take care of you so if y'all have questions ask eat these fruits until I see a question should you check your man's phone if you have a reason to I only if you plan to do something if you plan to do something maybe not, don't even do it you're just going to be miserable and stay in the same place say 26 that way you look young for your age that you look but you're older smarter and they'll treat you dumb but you're really smart because you have that experience and you'll know when they're trying to take advantage of you what happens to being independent they got old right jane should I text a guy first after a date you just know that already I'm going to be 40 and 2 weeks and half 22 years old most people think that's my man he won't go out with me as he needs to look single oh your son 30 plus is cool what happens to being independent they got old I told you I won't do that when I don't have to what about dates that involve activities like bowling skating should first dates always be like lunch or dinner I don't know it depends on how old you are if you're over the age of like 25 or somebody trying to get you to do that kind of stuff that's going to set the tone for the future dates and stuff like that when you start off cheap you will end up cheap are you in there age dropping on me age is a fact I'm a 27 year old cousin a man she loves and she's been working like a dog ever since with two children and now she looks 35 I'm sorry for her stay woke I need to do because men my age still playing around in a cold or you can't go wrong with an old I am 19 I need to join this group before I end up being a 50-50 yup are you age dropping I'm live on my YouTube you know you would be age dropping you would be in there quiet I'll tell you I'll say whatever I want to say he's a little protective if he thinks I'll talk to a man he'll be like age dropping through the door but then he's doing this live video trying to help other women so he's tired of sitting in here okay how old should I go if I'm 23 at least 40s but that's when they have the money or start getting the money or when they start leaving they pick me how do you get comfortable being out with a much older man get drunk get gifts how do I go about how do I go I'm only 9 and should I be hearing bad words by you know get out of here by listening to you get your own thing ain't nothing like a boss to do oh don't know men on a boss because they're gonna boss him too believe me you married to me you trapped don't matter don't worry the women who suggest our books as first dates they don't know any better I just can't where they want to go or they just they're not sure they like you and they don't want to be seen in public with you in a nice restaurant if that's what they if the woman suggested like oh I don't want nobody to see me in here I don't feel like putting on my good dress my heels I'm just gonna go in there with this bun jeans scarf and shirt on my sunglasses get this coffee see what he's about see what kind of car he drives because Starbucks Starbucks coffee place is small so anybody who's there you can see that car you drive up in a hoop and she's gonna see it so that's why I'm saying don't invite people to Starbucks they're gonna see a car they're gonna see what year it is how many scratches you got on it if you can afford to fix it if it looks pretty if it looks like you it's still got the new license plate on it but it's 10 years old she's gonna know all of that doing that oh what do you drive a Benz oh okay she's gonna see it's like a 93 but it got a new license plate on it like still waiting on the tags don't don't invite these people to Starbucks don't don't invite these people to Starbucks good night waffle house waffle house the last two guys I talked to had a new death in a family after we hit it off it started getting closer is that a sign that always used to happen to me too it's a sign it's like I don't know okay I don't need a man when it's hard to find me in my age in public places I mean if it's hard then go on I wish my mom had told me all this I watched her be a pick me for a long time that's why a lot of people aren't pick me because their moms were a pick me and that's what they were taught and they think that's right and it's not and that's why they're very passionate about it because that's what they were told and that's what wasn't instilled into them and they might look good they might look like a catch and somebody's gonna catch them and then throw them away and then that's gonna be then they're gonna learn and they're gonna be like oh dang maybe I shouldn't have did all that this guy's saying in order to get what I'm talking about you gotta be a superstar no you just have to go for an ugly man you ain't got to be the superstar you are a superstar compared to somebody who's ugly okay so don't let him deter you that's just easy that's common sense everybody knows that you don't got to be a superstar you're gonna be average and still look good compared to the other person and the person who's got money usually guys who don't have all this going on have this going on and they have strong work ethics and they strive harder in life because they ain't got no choice and they're doing all that because at school they couldn't get no women none not even the ugly ones so they bubble down they get their edge of vocation they go to school, they get their degrees they get all their money, they start their business they get their little nice car, little house little side businesses real estate and then they come find average to pretty girl that they think they're beautiful and that's true so don't listen to these broke guys they don't know nothing about it nothing they only know that they can't have the type of woman they want because they broke and when they see a guy who got it all got the nice house, got the nice woman they can hear his keys oh he's a stamp you wish you was a stamp you wish you was one too so don't listen to them if you want if you want to have something good you know you don't have to be no Kim Kardashian you don't have to be, no Beyonce you don't have to be none of that all you have to do is be smart, know your worth and deal with guys who are going to appreciate you and who like you more than the average dude that's looking for 50-50 right I wouldn't even pay 50-50 if I was like a male supermodel walked up to me and say hey do you want to be my man and I'd pay you down a million you can just phone walk it I ain't doing that I'll trick him and say okay I'm gonna call 50-50 and I'm gonna dump him just like that oh it's mine I changed my mind I don't know how much they've been drunk when I was in the grass hmm alright y'all if you have any more questions put them down before I go I used to have an older man take me out and pay for everything when I was 21 but I didn't want to be with him back then because I was too after being looked in age can I get him to date me now well how old are you now you might not want to know more um you can try and be like hey you remember me I missed you I've been looking all over for you what happened he gonna be like okay unless he got somebody in um I was trying to read the comments and that person's voice how to not get tricked into a 50-50 situationship yeah don't get if you don't don't do it it's not worth it how do you play hard to get with a celebrity oh god they can have any they can pretty much have anybody they want unless you're wanted by another celebrity that's how you play hard to get unless you're wanted and you dated other celebrities and things like that that's the only way you're gonna play that card if you're just normal on average there's a thousand of you a million of you you have to make it seem like you're seeing another celebrity you're gonna have to lie it's like oh no I'm kind of I have a friend right now and really can't I would I don't know what this is going so I'm talking to someone right now you know if they know you and so I don't know if it will be wise if they see me with you you know like who is it then they're gonna want you more pretend you're already dating one that's how you do that okay how does a successful woman get a man to take care of her a lot about income get a more successful man if you make a lot of money get one that makes more money and say all my assets are tied up I haven't missed it I have to lie all my assets are tied up this is in my money market account I don't have trouble I had to pay the RIS back could you help me I'm still gonna be making money but like right now I need your help that's what you really make for him to feel like the man like that yeah I'm done yeah so make sure you don't tell him how much you make oh let me turn to how would you ask a man how to make how much he makes or works you could just google him that's easy cool but if you have to ask him just ask him what he does for a living and you can get a kind of a clue by researching how much the average whatever whatever he is makes or you can just google right I went on a date with a successful man but I was being kind of cold and different by accident he hinted on going out again but I avoided answering it's been one week should I message him or leave it don't message him if he didn't message you then he's not interested anymore right well I would you don't give that off if he's got that and you're acting like that it's not really an accident it's like you're doing it but it's not an accident because if your mind and your eye was on the prize you would have been on your A game I just think that if you're new to this you're gonna have to adjust okay okay how do I get out of the friend zone with a long term friend you don't if you're a woman you don't get out the friend zone if you've been friend zone they don't want you especially if it's a guy that friend zone that means you're not the one you don't turn them on you don't want you that means he waiting on better so it's not that bad to get friend zone by a woman but when you get friend zone by a man that's bad that means move on quick don't like get out of that whole situation and move on you know what I'm saying because if you like someone that's friend zone you that's like especially for a woman men don't won't friends only you unless they have no desire for you at all they'll always keep you here right in the middle between I will do this with you or you're my friend they'll keep you right here if they straight up friends on you then you just over get up get up move on it's like that means if you had a wife and a girlfriend that she would trust him around you overnight because he has no desire for you when you get friends on by a man like that that means don't even think about it they'll always keep you right in the middle and you know your spot you know women do the friends on it until you win the lottery okay but I'm just being honest it doesn't matter morally correct or not it's just honest the truth is not always moral or politically correct it just is what it is that's all it is that's all it can be you know I could sit up here and say oh do the right thing and only do this and be with someone for this reason and not that reason and then your life is going to go down the garbage but if I tell you the truth you can have what you want which one would you rather you want the pretty wrapped up in a bow politically correct moral advice or you want to get somewhere that you want to be you know that's the problem with people they know that this is what society says they know that's not what it really is it's like okay follow the rules play nice be good and you're going to win then they get out in the real world and they see cheaters thieves cheaters killers, murderers scammers living really good and then they sit up here looking crazy but I followed every rule I did the right thing I went 50-50 I gave to the church I never cheated on a test I never lied at work to get ahead I never slept with my boss I never did this, I never scammed I never did this and I'm still where I was when I started exactly because the world is not fair if you want to get ahead you can't play nice you can't follow the rules and you have to follow what's real okay? can't do all that good stuff that don't work it might work for very few people but for the majority it does not work that phrase cheaters never wins is a lie ask anybody at the top 90% of them 99.9% of them cheated their way to the top or there's nobody that can say I did everything the correct way followed every law and every rule was a nice person there's nobody that can say that none so y'all are some good girls some good guys, some pygmies some whatever and you wonder why sharkisha has stolen your man that's why because the world is not fair and you play it fair and everybody else is playing dirty that's why that's why you walk out of your house every day thinking everything is fair the world is just if you do good, good's gonna come okay it's like Jay-Z said okay I'm not black I told Jay like seriously okay I'm gonna let you figure that one out right why are you dirty who did you dirty nobody did me dirty I got them first before they got me there's someone dirty who's already peaked other people getting done dirty I learned by watching other people and I've seen people get done dirty I can see it coming a mile away I don't play that like I know what you want you ain't gonna need it bypass, try her so are you spot what? Beyoncé just posted the twins alright congrats I hope I follow the damn rules and had an aneurysm I don't know everybody thinks I'm but I'm happily married I'm just trying to help y'all because y'all are the ones upset people because you did everything right and nothing happened good you're sitting there puzzled I did everything right that was the first mistake I did everything right that's why you're in this situation you did everything right that's why a lot of women who are considered bad dirty whores they're not ashamed of how they got to where they got because while you over here being good, following every rule working yourself to death they're over here driving ferraris wearing the best clothes living in mansions all over the news and the internet and you still sitting here struggling but you did everything right what I'm trying to say is doing everything right does not guarantee you anything in fact it probably will hinder you that gets your hands dirty in this world and I'm not talking about working I'm talking about doing what you need to do to get what you want you know men do it all the time think about it men do it all the time they're not afraid to do it they congratulate each other for doing it for getting what they want you know by cheating lying doing all those things and they're proud of it but when you try to go do it oh it's a problem it's a problem that you are not good it's a problem that you lie it's a problem that you get ahead by deceiving it's a problem but when they do it oh yeah you know I took this girl out and she paid for everything and then we did it and then I left her she let me drive her car and then I wrecked it and then I left ha ha ha onto the next year then you have the next he's like yeah yeah I dated this girl she you know she gave me a bunch of money to pay this off and that off then I disappear ha ha ha then doing that for ages I got a lot of women who tell me these stories okay and they're like I just want him to pay me back he said he was gonna be with me and I loaned him some money you don't loan men money women if you loan anybody some money it's better be your mama or your child don't loan a raw man no money you are not the bank you are not supposed to be doing that and then they're gonna post on Instagram laughing at you with your cash and they hang it up to their ear like the Jay-Z song and you gotta look at that so make sure you understand to get ahead in the world you can't do alright because they okay how did they get ahead they got your money they lied to you they got over a year probably put a down payment on some new car and now they're rolling with some new girl okay it was all a scheme to begin with see somebody get that to me the best I'm gonna tell y'all the best way to get what you want expect it don't ask don't wait patiently expect it make sure that the person you are with knows your expectations and if they can't meet them they can't be with you that's how you do it you can't be afraid to lose it's like gambling you cannot be afraid to lose they're not gonna call your bluff they're gonna be like look if I don't do it somebody else will if I don't give her what she wants some other dude will and then I'm gonna look real stupid and if they can't do it remember somebody else will there's always somebody else that will so don't ever think that's your only option like are you serious that's not your only option there's guys waiting in line for him to leave you just don't, you haven't met him yet they're waiting on somebody like you they're just like oh I wish you had me a nice woman I could do this and that with they're not gonna ask you to pay their bills and loan them money so they can take their real girl for now they ain't gonna do that mm-hmm good girls finish last all time can do it can always find another man to do it I'm 37 he's 47 say homeboy a homebody and loner so third time we spent time together but only at his place how to get him to take me out she says wants to show me his sincere by getting to know me because he's cheap and he can't afford to hate you okay or he don't want to be seen at you seen with you in public places you know what I'm saying I mean that's worse than Starbucks unless he's in this big giant mansion and he's invite you over his house to chill unless he's got a big mansion then no if you in somebody's apartment you don't believe if you in somebody's little house one little little house 47 year old dude in his house that says you not good enough to take out get up and leave tell him you know what I'm not coming over your house just tell him off it's like you know what you cheap I am not coming over your house anymore you know why don't you call one of them other girls then pick me because it's not me baby I will go out I have three men waiting to take me out to see you later do that stop being desperate you know you not even I'm older than you I'm older than you if somebody did that to me I would laugh and think it's a joke so no don't do it if you go over that house if you go over that old man if you go over that man house you deserve everything that's getting ready to happen to you tell him and it's your fault after that you already know you know better you go over there everything after that is your fault right nice high rise condo we co-workers he's not broke six figures then why can't he take you out why he can't be seen in public with you and y'all live in the same condo like you already know what his place looks like you can talk and get to know someone on a date at dinner you know doing other things you work with him he should know you he should know you well enough by now you know if a man got money and he's still cheap that's worse than dating a broke man seriously and you're like nah I'm a pass let me know when you want to go out I feel like getting out I don't feel like sitting down on the couch all night getting on Netflix and chill you two over that tell him you two over Netflix and chill you might have arthritis thinking he'd walk away from you I don't know 47 is not even worth it I don't know why someone would do that though if they're trying he's not even trying to impress you that should tell you that's clue number one he's not even trying to impress you by taking you out if a man is not going to do that he's already used to you and you're no big deal and you're expendable how I already said that don't lie about your income even my niece got a picture but her mama's still sleeping back what is it about it made me more successful so you don't have to lie about your income isn't it midnight in Houston oh I stay up late I'm a vampire you can stay up late like in the summertime my kids don't have school I don't have to work I can stay up late if I want I don't wake up as late as I want unless I have something to do but maybe I'm not trying to be mean like if I could say this in a sweet nice way like the best way to do ABC and D nobody would listen to me because it's boring I'm not trying to be mean I'm just trying to tell you the best way to get what you want in this world is not being desperate following rules and living by what someone says is the right way that's wrong the reason those rules are given to you is so that they can get a head start while you're sitting here walking in a circle I'm like okay I'm going to keep walking in that circle I'm going to be over here I'm going to be over here the nice place the nice area that paying bills don't have to work because stay up as late as I want go live get room service from my kids I can do all of that so what kind of life do you want do you want to work like a man or are you going to figure out your work sooner or later before you lose all it is most women don't wake up till this is gone then they be trying to find a man and the men looking for somebody other and you wasted your youth paying 50-50 to build up a man who left you for charaketia stop wasting this this is here for a reason if you were not beautiful if you didn't have a good body at a young age it's for a reason you don't get more attractive when you get super old you should already have your stuff by the end you should already got clues houses and stuff by the end you try to start over and it's not you doing it the wrong way avoid all of that a lot of women won't believe it until it happens to them and they're going to say oh it'll never happen to me until one day that phone goes off at 2 o'clock in the morning because his side chick looks at it or stranded or needs a hug or something like that he didn't feel asleep or something and you see it oh my god oh shoot who is that? do I want to check it? do I? no I trust him he would never wait he do got that new nice car he do then you go through his phone and find something you don't want to see and then you be like I didn't work paid for him to go to school I passed up good job and let him finish school and he's like uh huh your heart is going to be broke and he's going to wake up probably with a shoot to his head and he's just going to start telling you everything you did long that's what you're going to do you don't make me feel like a man you keep criticizing me you don't tell me nothing you tell me what to do all the time everything I do is not good enough for you is Sharkisha over here love me for who I am no she loves you for what you got that you'll pick me up to get don't do it it's not worth it and even if you do forgive him he ain't going to give up Sharkisha I'm going to be like Sharkisha let it go Sharkisha let it go I'm going to fix this I promise Sharkisha he's going to get a divorce even though he might not he's just going to play both of them he's going to be like ok Sharkisha over here got my wife over here I could have the best of over now he's sleeping with two women at the same time Sharkisha happy because oh he's getting divorced wife happy because he supposedly left Sharkisha but he's getting it in good now oh yes best of both worlds and then when they find out both of them that's when the wife files for divorce and frees him and then that's when Sharkisha says I finally got my man and then that's how the story goes and then the wife is over here mad bitter upset don't know what to do gotta go to work gotta work that nine to five take care of the kids and the house by herself now she's not going to file child support on him because her mentality is still stupid and picnic and she thinks he's coming back what do I think of Black child I think she's a genius very strategic yes love her ok yeah like she this is the year of the gold digger I'm sorry I posted this a month earlier and Janet Jackson got that big settlement, divorce settlement then we had Rihanna dating a millionaire a billionaire excuse me and Black child got all that you know all that money out of rock got even more famous it's the year of the gold digger face it and people aren't ashamed of it anymore why do you know why women aren't ashamed of it anymore because it's like why not why not why should we be y'all are ashamed of doing what y'all do to women so why should we be ashamed of what we do to men it's no different there's zero difference so I don't know why y'all are ashamed why you think that we should be ashamed because women should not be ashamed of any kind of come up if you came up however you did it good for you she went from stripper in what New Jersey to Calabasas, California and a mansion ok most men couldn't accomplish that in the amount of time that she did that's smart it doesn't matter how you got your fortune it's just you have a fortune it doesn't matter how you got it and it's hot in here you can see my hood is still inch dropping Jane are you still out there you want to get in on my video you been hearing what I'm saying I was talking about gold diggers gold diggers gold diggers how was the year of the gold digger Janet Jackson black china he said don't dig for silver at least they weren't digging for silver if you if you gonna dig you might as well dig for gold right dig for peace dig for peace within you that is so spiritual thank you for your input you have anything else to add goodnight goodnight bye look for peace within you don't dig for peace within you I might use it on my other channel he says better than digging for silver that's true tell me do you keep a man's interest in the beginning stages of dating promise promise promise this this this but say like I can't wait till this this now when you turn me on I can't wait till we get to the point where I would want to just you know blah blah blah you make me like so but I gotta go because you know it's too soon I don't want you to think this let's not with it on two dates we always spent $500 I mean I need a lot more to do make sure they're investing in you spending time with you don't give it up until you've had a lot of money spent or a lot of time and money spent because he can't walk away from that because he's too invested if he's not invested enough it's easy to walk away okay I think I'm trying to read ebt is not gold piece of gold okay try to read these comments some of y'all are crazy is there any pygmies here all the pygmies are they still here are they like trolling I like I don't know I don't think they would be on my channel but is there anybody in there any female here that disagrees with what I said comment I'm not gonna say I'm not gonna be bad I'm just gonna ask you why okay why are we bringing bad karma no I don't believe in karma okay are men bringing bad karma upon themselves by making you work like a man that's the true question okay yeah I can say that I was a pygmy but seeing now how I went wrong making the changes in my life to do better good like I say it's never too late it's not their fault because they've been taught that way and then after they see that that does not work then they wake up either they repeat it or they wake up from it so most people find my videos when they're upset okay that's how they find me they go on Google and type in broke man worse date ever and try to get my man to be more ambitious or something like that you know they've had it and then they pop up so you know hopefully after so long of being pygmies they'll understand their true value and even if they don't you know even if they don't find somebody to do all of that stuff for them at least they're not doing it for them for that guy you want they're investing more in their children and themselves and things like that and not a man who's gonna be gone so if it's too late it's already happening don't go around looking for another man focus on yourself get yourself together build yourself up get your kids then you know once you're stable you're good then go find somebody who can bring you higher not at the same level not lower but higher go for somebody that can bring you up you know otherwise you wasted time tell my husband to give me a bigger diamond well he got me a house in the car so I guess I was the dominant next okay bring all my hands I don't know what to call them you're probably gonna get your woman a chip a dust diamond they call that dusty dusty diamonds for dusty secret arrangement is over saturated I don't know why y'all thought they was honest when I like will you go into it know this all my life don't go in there thinking oh I finally got the good one no stay on your strategy stay on your game get what you came for don't think oh he's different no he's acting different that's just about it stay on your game don't stray eye on the prime I think by nature women worry about karma if I do this this and that's gonna happen to me but that's the only reason you're not doing what you need to do to get what you need to get because of fear that right there should tell you that it was instilled in you for a reason why why was that instilled into you who instilled that into you who created that was it a man or a woman you know those rules to keep certain people alive okay but yet the makers of those rules don't even follow the rules okay so why do you follow them if the people that make the laws and the rules and all that stuff don't even follow oh I'm above that you know think about it really think hard why there are mass murderers that get away with murder karma never got them why because they don't believe in it why because they weren't it wasn't instilled into them therefore they're not vibrating on a level of guilt that karma is gonna come get them and therefore they don't attract karma because they don't feel the guilt and they don't attract a punishment that's why all these guys out here can go do what they want because they don't feel the guilt behind doing these things but you haven't even done them yet and you already feel guilty that is what I'm talking about you can't do that you can't live like that if you're living like that it's because you were trained to live like that trained that's not in you you weren't born with that you were taught that it's like a bad kid you know they might go and do something but they don't know it's wrong they don't feel guilty about it because they have not been taught that it's wrong you have to unlearn that old way of thinking in order to get ahead some people call transmuting that guilt or that karma into something else profit you don't feel it because it's not it's up to you you have free will and if you have free will and someone told you a set of rules and you break the rules and you feel guilt you're automatically attracting your punishment right there if you break the rules because you know that they're there to hold you back you don't feel no guilt you'd be like that's the rules I'm getting ahead and you get ahead don't do it it's not worth it don't stay locked up don't stay in this box get out of the box come teach my mom she plays nice but I try to get her sometimes you can't teach older people they just set new ways they're just like one day it's gonna happen I just know it one day they're gonna be old and gray and they ain't ever coming okay true doing a lot how do you respond when a guy says that he is a good catch I'm a good catch I was like oh really you know you're really I was like oh really well how are you a good catch ask him how is he a good catch if he starts naming some stupid stuff they don't have nothing to do with a house car property then he ain't a good catch I'm an artist okay now we know that's a lie I'm thoughtful yeah when you want some I'm a good cook good microwave and I'm clean okay good but that's still not a catch catch is funny like the catch is funny you ain't a good catch unless you own something you got some money that's not a good catch it's a good catch but you gonna throw that back real quick like take a picture with it throw it back that's what you are so yeah when they say oh I'm a good catch that means I'm not really a good catch but I have to say I am so you know you can ask me why I'm a good catch so I can distract you from my brokeness and tell you all the other stuff that's good about me that's what that means that's what that means I'm so sorry she's asking all to subscribe to her facebook or something something I don't know a guy that is 24 year old just told me that his mom told him never let a female use you so in a relationship should be 50-50 I agree with you that it is taught yeah but the funny thing is a guy like that if he finds a woman out of his league that said I'm not going 50-50 50-50 with you baby you can go live with your mama he's gonna go 100 believe me he's gonna tell his mom but mom it's my life I can do what I want I can afford it she's not using me it takes a certain type of woman to get a 50-50 man to stop going 50-50 she gotta be way out of his league believe me he'd be like oh my god I wanna date her so bad but I know if I tell her to pay for half the date she gonna turn me down so I'm going 100% I would never tell if I had a son I would never tell him you better go make some money because you ain't gonna be able to get the type of woman you want you're gonna get the pick-me's and the scraps you're gonna get that money and then so you can take care of me too you know that's what I would tell my son I'm like no okay no I'm not doing ASMR I'm not lazy it take a lot to get this hair done, this face, this makeup this outfit this camera setup these lights I don't have to work I don't have to work I don't look like you I don't look tired from just leaving away all day that's what I do I work a lot like doing consultations and reading YouTube actually that is my job I do have a job it's YouTube, it's social media it's reading consultation can I please have a shout out okay Amber, shout out been here for only a few minutes but I see that there is an equivalent time of okay well too much words to say yeah there are a lot of you know why you know online they are you get one of these in real life mm-hmm you would be good at ASMR thank you I have an ASMR channel mm-hmm it's called ashira star no it's not it's called she was seven one and it's me with curly hair yeah if you want to work you should work and he should still pay all the bills and you save your money mm-hmm mm-hmm oh that's nice that's nice can we talk about that I think most men like attractive women just like most women like men who can provide it's just the same thing no men out there talking about I want an ugly woman never heard it, never will if you see somebody with an ugly woman they've had all the if you see a rich man with an ugly woman and he chose her it's because he's had all the beautiful women and this ugly woman is like gets him and if he wanted to cheat anytime he's super hit a pretty woman because he's got that much money but what I'm saying is he's had it all it doesn't matter to him everybody looks the same and you know it's a novelty it's like having an abstract art after you've had all the beautiful monies and things like that then you go get this ugly Picasso that looks crazy and possessed and it's your favorite mm-hmm but to the average normal guy they like beauty that's what they're attracted to um that's it so it's to lure them in get them interested distract them make them do what you want to do that's what it's for what else would you have it to decorate the world right it's like what else would you use it for what it's for what's yours you don't know no Pisces by now one Pisces the perfume well it's sold out and the manufacturer is in Europe and so the order has to be placed as a whole for a certain amount of bottles and then they have to make it and then they have to ship it so it takes like 12 weeks pre-orders to like get some we have to wait until the order is placed again so I don't know how long but the other bottle the lobby jus with the jewels in that's still for sale and my alchemy bath set is also for sale there's like bath bombs and it's soap and stuff like that so that's up there but the other probably gonna be I don't even know because it has to be ordered and created it's already been created but it has to be manufactured and bottled and all that stuff so whenever the company purchases you know the new lot then I'll let you guys know but it's sold out in two days thank y'all for buying it it's like one o'clock in the morning over here so I'm gonna go these lights are like so I'm gonna go I'll see y'all later thanks for tuning in if y'all just scrolling by and clicked on here and y'all are not subscribed subscribe to my channel if you know some pygmies and you think that they would love this video post it on their Facebook or whatever I'll see y'all later goodnight bye