 During intercourse we have tried using condoms but somehow the condom is not sticking it just keeps coming off again and again. We have tried using different sizes but the problem remains the same. Can you help us please? Hi Seema, that is an interesting question. Thank you so much. So I have thought about a few options in this situation. So one could be that they are not dripping the condom correctly. Though it sounds as a very simple thing many people actually struggle with being able to drip a condom correctly. The second thing is they probably are getting soft after penetrating with a condom. So let's say they are erect and they wear a condom and after the penetration the penis gets really soft. So whether they are wearing a smaller condom or a larger condom it doesn't matter because the penis is getting soft after penetration. Well if it is a monogamous relationship I could easily tell people that well then let's not use a condom let's try some other form of contraception. However if you are not in a monogamous relationship or are having casual sex it gets tricky because using condoms becomes very important in order to prevent yourself from STIs. In that case I guess we can try to use female condoms both for vaginal sex or for anal sex and see if that works for you. I hope this was helpful and I'll talk to you again.