 but we're so hyper focused on the superficial aspects, no wonder it is an absolute cluster F out there when it comes to the dating marketplace. So I wanna lean into something that's really important that I shared a moment ago regarding this 90 day period. I've observed that most men within 90 days of getting to know a woman, he knows whether or not he wants to progress it forward or if he wants to end it, okay? Most men know this, the challenge is because we have a lot of broken and wounded men out there, they will stay in a, from their perspective, and I'm just saying it's a perspective, I'm not saying this is a fact, they'll stay in a mediocre relationship because it's better to stay in a mediocre relationship than it is to be alone.