 Hey, how are you? What do you got for me? Okay? I have um, I need some I haven't need some advice I'm a 30 I'm a 37 year old woman two children Okay, I do not have a problem getting the man It's just I attract weak men. Okay. I am Celeb and I've been celibate for two years. What I've been celibate for two years Where the where that comes from is I'm gonna know is that the reason why? Oh You just you two people that came out of you. What you talking about? I'm sorry, I'm trying to say what's what's the what's the philosophy you're on a virgin you got two people came out of you What's what's going on? Oh, no, you did not. Oh, no, you did not have the nerve to bring Vagina out here and close it up at 37 years old with two kids And I'm gonna tell you the reason behind that it's because when I do open my legs they the men begin they get crazy Do you want me to be blunt for you when you know, I want you to be keep it classy, but you're trying to say they get p-wiped Yes, I so the resolution is so let me get this right. So let me get this right. So you meet a man That's a high value man a D a good guy. You think you're gonna be celibate for what what do you marry? Yes You got your goddamn eye I wish I wish I would meet a 37 year old with two kids and think you don't shit separate checks Check please. No, no, listen. Listen. Listen, man. I'm making light of it because it is crazy You're almost 40 years old with two kids talking about celibate You need to be trying to get that shit away to secure a man No, no, no, no, no, no, no Listen, no, no, no You're talking about okay. What you said if you attract Lower value men not really Okay, not to right me and crazy me and whatever not not good guys Weak, let's okay lower value is weak. Okay Okay So when I said if you attracted a higher value man, you think you're going to make him wait until marriage How do you think that's sweetheart? I'm gonna tell you like this. My cookies is worth the wait Well first off check that sweet No, your cookies ain't worth the wait because you ain't made nobody wait. You got two kids without a marriage I was married. Okay both times He's from they're from the same person. Okay. You were married Okay, fine. Your cookies are worth the wait. So are you telling me you only have sex with one man? I mean, no everybody. No, I'm 30. All right. So you're virgin on your wedding night I was not. All right. So let's get let's get back to the let's get back to Listen, no, you're going to okay. You want answers? I'ma give you the answer Okay, you are older. Name me the product That gains value with age and use Our product that gains value with age and use. Yeah I want to say I'm gonna say your mind, but I may be different. I may not say the product can where can you go buy a mind a product a product a product I don't know, but I'm pretty sure you're gonna tell me Uh, yeah, nothing Oh, I am Nothing And let's just talk about your cookies. They're getting older and they've been used That don't mean nothing You're right. They don't Oh, you are already you are. No, I'm honest. I'm honest, ma'am Ma'am, what you're saying is I'm going out to the market And I'm going to require The next man To pay more than the other guys I'm going to require you to marry me before I have sex with you No, you can get no higher than your bd Wow You chose to make you chose you Okay, ma'am. Listen, you can disagree but I don't have 15,000 people over here just because I got lights You ladies often overvalue yourself ma'am. You're almost 40 How tall are you? I'm tall. Are you? I didn't hear you. How tall are you? I'm about five four five four dress Dress size uh size 10 How much did you weigh the last time you weighed yourself 180 As you can tell I'm heavy chested. Yes, but I'm but ma'am but listen mm-hmm five four 180 You weigh more than a man No, I do that just because I weigh more than the man does not mean that First off, which one first listen listen first off. Is it true or not? I said you weigh more than a man. Then you said no, I know I do not and then you said just because I do Which one is I mean? I can't you weigh more than a man. You weigh more than a man at your height Because I'm big breasted. That's no man because you're overweight I want women who are far bigger man. Listen, I'm not trying to no one can see your picture But see what I need you to do is turn down the diva energy Because it's not helping you Yes Because you you got this energy like well you mean and you're this and that I'm like well You're the one that called in and said hey, I'm having problems attracting non weak men Correct and I'm listening to what you're saying and I'm like well You attract What you are So do I we all attract what we are so ma'am Listen and turn down the diva energy at five foot four 180 pounds you weigh more than a man at your height The average american male is five foot ten and 168 pounds Five foot four 180 pounds Seriously ma'am if we height weight adjusted you you will be a size of an offensive or defensive lineman Regardless as to how Big your boobs are because I'm sorry Okay, go ahead because you're because because you don't you're not 80 pounds of boob You comical But okay, I'm listening. Okay. What size bra do you wear? Uh size h Okay And even if I gave you 25 pounds Yes, what did we we should be incredible? Still you're overweight for your height So let's keep on moving down the path Wow, all right Ma'am, I didn't make the rules, but I'm just saying a woman who's five foot four Dress size four dress size six hundred twenty pounds. Mm-hmm. You're about the height of the women I traditionally date and everybody 120 pounds So that's 60 pounds more. I mean you're You said there are 100 the women that you date are 100 That's about this. That's about the size you should the healthy That's a healthy weight. No now see now you're about now you're about to go somewhere where I'm about to start getting All right. Well, no white women. I'm talking idea. I date healthy women Okay, see I'm not sensitive. I have tough skin. So I Why do you associate? Why do you associate healthy weight with white? No, I'll be a sarcastic when I say when I why why okay, but there's not necessary see the sad part is black women have gotten so far out of Range with how healthy weight is we associate healthy with white or no, ma'am I can show you women in the 70s who were your height your weight And they were no in height and there were no where close to your weight We have gotten to the point where we just accept this And why am I pushing this point because it lowers your value It lowers your value simple as that how old is your oldest child? My oldest child is 17 And you're youngest my youngest, which is my son. He's six all right, so that means you got another 12 years and Do you want to have any more children? I don't I got my I have my two side. I'm good Okay, so any man that you want to attract cannot have children with you Oh, I'm a stepfather And then what state do you live in? I live in that city I heard you. I'm I'm not incompetent Kentucky. Okay, so I'm assuming if you would you like to get remarried I would if I came across the right individual. Yes. All right And after marriage, do you plan on still working full-time? Yes All right. I know I was I grew up I was born in the 80s. I was raised by my grandma You know, she was a pastor And I know I'll take care of my man. You know, I still work, you know, but but But a man would still have to meet you and wait until Wedding night and you're not a virgin men. Don't do that to this age Yeah, this is why we were supposed to get married early So you don't burn because people don't wait that long If you how long if you met somebody How long do you think from the day you met them before the was the soonest you could be down to aisle? I'll say six months to a year Okay split the difference Call it nine months, which is still pretty fast because because there are no kids involved Mm-hmm. What do you think the likelihood of finding a man who's going to be willing to wait nine months to a year? It's it's possible See why okay, so so again again This is where the delusion starts. Why do you grown women sit back and say it's possible So if your kid came home With and he had a 49 in the class and you're like you need to make an a and he said well, you know Well, it's it's possible. It's only a week or two left, but it's possible Because you because y'all always make these because you guys always give yourself the most extreme benefit of the doubt Because you're all special Because you're never we're not we're not allowed to feel special about you know You're not no, you're not allowed. You're not allowed to put yourself on a pedestal You're special to your family You're special to your children to us to men out here. You're just another woman. You're not Okay And the humility that is gone from so many modern women is what's so troubling The fact that you think you can be almost 40 years old Talking about i'm gonna be a virgin and you're gonna marry me to get my cookies because my cookies are good Because look Can I say this i'ma tell you it does make sense to me because if I try the other way Why not try something different? You see i'm saying if I tried it one way it did not work Why not try something different? Well, it's not the sex that was the problem. It's not the sex that was the problem You trying to say it was me uh Yeah No No, okay, because my ex-husband still wants to come back to this day Okay, so in the opposite case I was doing something right. Okay It was him once I gate open the door and he started acting crazy All right. Okay. And again your ex-husband Uh-huh and all the guys you've dated since then these weak guys Where's the last time you had a relationship? Uh, it's been like four years four years. How long did that last? Four years. It was a guy. He was a manager And he's a manager where? Uh at g e uh-huh g e was he hourly? Uh salary He was weak Okay I'm asking you said these you attract weak men. He was weak, right? He tried week after a while. He did Okay How long until relationship was did you find out he was weak? After we got into you know Sexual like three years, you know, it took a while so he wasn't weak for the first three years. He just got so serious because All right, so why didn't he marry you? He why didn't he because I changed my mind he actually I'm in no man in the first three years. Everything was okay. He wasn't weak He was he was a salary manager g and you had two kids. Yes Yes, why didn't you marry him? Because he was like he was older and you know older guys are setting they ways He was like what eight years older than me and let's be Hold on. Oh Jesus christ Because at the time I was 34 and he was what 42 Yeah, man. I'm gonna let you go ahead and listen to this. Yeah. Yeah four years four years And you don't and it's all and it's always out the fingers always out there because you got the oh Jesus This is gonna make me a million dollars. Are you serious? And this is the problem women like you walk around thinking you're the shit and it's all started because this I'll start this all excuse me I never once said I'm I think I'm all at Well, when you think you're gonna be celibate till marriage and think somebody's gonna do that. That's crazy Let's be let's be realistic. Samuel. It's about value. Uh, yeah, your value is low Oh, wow And how do you know that you're not cuz you're five foot four or 200 pounds Okay, and 37 years old with two kids. That's how I know in kentucky Okay, you that's your opinion. It's not my opinion You never seen my body before so you don't have to see your body I know you're five foot four and almost 200 pounds with two kids in kentucky and I see your picture And I'm listening to how you talk And I'm listening to your energy. I'm listening to your tone. I'm listening to your relationships See what it is you ladies don't like when somebody is this direct with you honest I got no dog in this fight. I had a woman on here earlier and I told her she was absolutely gorgeous I ain't trying to screw you. You ain't giving me no money. What am I getting out of this? Nothing So I'm so why do I have to lie? you don't And like I said, I have tough skin so it doesn't you know, I'm so you're talking about value, ma'am I ask you what product in on the market increases in value with age and use nothing Your older you're used And your value is lower than it was when you were 25 With no kids Then when you was with 20 before you had your first child That's when your value was the highest before you had a child And you're talking about celibacy until marriage as if somebody has to treat you like a virgin and that is ma'am listen Not having sex with you until marriage is treating you like a born-again virgin Know what's about my value? I don't give a dog on what you call it. It's treating you like a born-again virgin A man cannot have sex with you until he is your husband that is treating you like I'm I'm sorry. It's like y'all validate these holes out here, but when a woman finds her, it's not a hole, ma'am Stop we don't talk about these holes out here. I'm talking about you Oh, I don't know why you ladies think you can be celibate with two kids out here Well, you can choose whatever you want, but it ain't working because apparently Here's your value. I mean, let's just be let's just be brutal right get right down to it Your value is your value is you obviously think your value is much higher than I'm reading right Oh, wow I say much higher than I'm reading Okay Is that is that true or false? Because you don't like my assessment and you you think your values Higher than than that. It sounds like I'm saying Is that true or not? No So you think your value is what I'm saying it is Well, what you saying my value is low, right? That's what you're saying. I'm saying it. Yes It's lower than when you had no kids. I mean, that's what any woman after, you know But but but but but but you're asking higher prices Not really. Yes, you are man. You're asking somebody to accept you not Equal that's a you're asking somebody. Oh, listen. Yeah, this is not this is not working You're asking somebody not to have sex with you until you're married. That's a high price. That's a virgin's price What's a virgin's price? That's your opinion Okay, what would you call it man? You okay, so I just supposed to be out here just no no, man I don't I don't I don't know you just answer my question you say since my opinion What would you call it and man can I have sex with a woman until she's man until he's married to her? That's a virgin price. What would you call it? That's a virgin's price. Wow. What would you call it? What I would what I would call it is having uh Somebody that knows their word. That's what I could call it That's what I would call it be honest with you It's like, okay. Well, you know, no, man. Listen, you know, I don't think I think you're see this is one of your egos to into this No, it's not you're not even listening Okay, okay If you don't have sex until your wedding night Mm-hmm That means that person has no idea Who you are in the intimate setting? True or false? That's true. So you that's like being a virgin Mm-hmm. So test test that is like being no, ma'am. Listen, stop trying to stop trying to listen to answer and listen to comprehend I said you have a virgin's price Meaning he cannot have sex with you until after the marriage vows That is a virgin's price I ask you what would you call it? You would say it's knowing my value. No, it's a virgin's price Okay Ma'am Is your value higher Today than it was when you got married Plop. No Were you a virgin when you got married? Oh, yeah. No, I was not. It was it was higher. You're right No, it's not a virgin. I got married. No. So your value was higher when you got married No, no, it's not it's not I don't understand Let's ask again When you got married, mm-hmm was your virgin higher then or is it higher now? It's higher now Please explain Are you talking why are you talking with me, uh, captain? No, ma'am. I'm asking you a simple question. You call me. I'm asking you to explain what you just said You says my value higher now than it was when I was married. I said was your virgin higher Then or now you said now I said, please explain The reason why I think it's it's higher now My you said my virgin correct No, your value. Oh my value because I you're on my cell phone. That's why it's hard to hear you My value the reason why I think my value is higher now than it was when I was married because I grown I've learned You know I'm saying and I got to know who I was as a woman So I think my value has increased because as you get older you learn you grow you mature So that's why I think my value has ma'am. This is not okay. So again, this is this is this is the equivalent of saying I've been on the job for 20 years. Yeah, and listen. You have experience. Listen Listen to freaking comprehend and not respond I'll let you speak But you've been on the job for 20 years And how often but then you go out into the market and you find out that what they were paying you at that job Ain't what the going market rate is happens all the time Women do not gain value in men's eyes with wisdom age and experience They gain they gain value possibly in your husband's eyes, but not to just men on the market you're older and used No product gains value and you ladies will send them fight logic And let's just get right to the Absolute core of it. Mm-hmm. Are you attracting higher value men? Am I attracting higher value men? Yes. Yes. I am for marriage Okay, repeat that one more time. Are you attracting them for marriage? No, be honest with you. No because you're not That'll hurt my feelings. I'm just I call I'm not saying it's gonna hurt your feelings. It's the truth I know I'm not saying because some women they'll take your personal. It don't bother me But I understand but the thing is man Thing is walking around with this 10 with this energy like I know my value It's it doesn't help you get the outcomes you want It works opposite You'll see when this video posts You'll see I can I can tell you you can you'll see when this video posts So I can guarantee you people are going to have a field day with some of your responses because it's all it's this ego and prideful And it's completely out It's just completely outside of reality And here's the thing man And do you have a son's or dollars? I have a son in a um a daughter. Okay, and imagine If your son just thought he was the best basketball player ever He was just basketball basketball player. He's he's he's colder than Michael Jordan But there comes a point in time where he's going to have to show those skills And does it matter how good a game he can talk? Doesn't matter how high a value. No, his actual value will be determined when the coach puts him on the court And he has to compete against other people And if he becomes a water boy, he cannot sit around saying I'm the I'm better than the starters I understand what you're saying. I don't feel like I project like I don't feel like I think I'm better than you know I'm a man. You said your value. You said your value is higher As an older woman Because you have age wisdom and experience Yes, and listen to what I'm about to say. Okay, listen. Listen. I'm listening. I'm listening men pick women what What are some of the top reasons men choose a woman? It could be different everybody's answer See see guys see see what just happened. See that's that's that bullshit I'm gonna say stability. Some men do choose one about for stability Savability Yes Yes, you're insane. You're fucking this is insane. See see what happens is they don't want to answer the question Ma'am, I'm going to ask I'm going to ask you the question again in general Okay, why do men pick women? For girlfriends relationships in general Not not nuance not possibility. What do men generally choose to pick women based upon? Would they pick them based upon? Yes See I talked to where I'm from. What do they what do men generally pick women based upon? They look exactly Not their freaking experience and wisdom Do your looks do your looks do your looks improve? And that's all over time And that's not true. Do your looks improve over time and with gravity You say it looks all the time. That's do your looks improve over time Do you look Yep She meant every bit of that shit. She meant it all That woman believes everything that was coming out of her mouth Don't you for one second think she was joking. She was kidding. No, that's who she she really believed that shit She really believes it. I'm more valuable and I'm this I'm that and this is why Dying a lot and you wonder why and again go back to the beginning why I keep attracting these scrubs these low level dudes