 So my inner game was there, but I noticed my outer game, kind of some of that shit kind of faded a bit. So the outer game won, I remember, because the first time I'm going out again else, I'm like, let's go back to Vegas, because it's like the mecca of the world for pickup shit. So I'm like, let's go, and I'm in the club, and I can hear my voice, and I'm not loud enough, and I hear it ringing in my ears, and I'm like, why am I not loud enough? Because teaching this, you know when the dude's loud enough when he's not, and I'm hearing it myself, I'm like, fuck. So one of the first things is just like being louder, and it seems so fucking obvious, but guys, I just see them out, and they're just still not loud enough. The other thing I'm just gonna say this really quickly, because I say it all over the damn place is the tonality too, making sure to keep that downward tone of voice. Everyone know what I'm talking about here? Anyone not know what I'm talking about? Okay, cool, I'll do it real quick, because it's all over the internet. Just check out my website or something. You have the authoritative commanding tonality. I think I noticed it a lot here actually in Australia, because Australians, I have a horrible accent, but they always go up at the end when they say everything, like this, how do you think about that? And what this is, it's really like, it's a triumph for rapport. It's seeking rapport, like you wanna be their friend or something like that, instead of like you, hey, you right here, yeah, you're looking at me, you like that? You like being pointed, I'm pointing at you. What's your name? Even when you ask questions, he almost answered it, he was that afraid, right? So like, it's like, I'm that alpha, I'm that fucking alpha. Yeah, you guys feel it, you feel the aura? So it's like what it does is by you going with that commanding tonality, it conveys a lot of value right from the start. So right, it's like, I had to kind of remember that because I'm sitting in my basement or talking to my parents or something. Actually, yeah, so that's the best part about this whole thing is I'm creating this like pickup product in my basement, and also I'm like, yeah, like LMR, bust the resistance, and my mom's like, what are you talking about down there? And I'm like, shit, shit, because there's something like, yeah, right, you got some explicit shit, I gotta like throw it all out, right? And I'm like, I wait till they go to sleep, and I'm like, oh, it's awesome, you guys are sleeping now, because then you don't hear it, they're like, no, the heat register is right there, and they hear everything as they're sleeping at night. They're like, we have to put a pillow over the register so we don't hear you talking about your pickup shit or whatever in the basement. I'm like, this is fucking great, right? Fuck, what was I even talking about with that? Oh, so the tonality, stuff like that, what was I talking about? I forgot it. Doritative, right from the, oh yeah, I was talking about after I came out again, thank you, thank you very much. So all of a sudden I got back, starting going out to Vegas, the other thing I noticed, one of the first thing that kinda dulls down is the windows, right? So this is a big thing on the weekend programs when you're like one on one or dealing with the clients and stuff, is because they don't have the reference points or the experience, you can kinda see it from the outside and you see them and you're like, okay, this girl is down right now, and he's just kinda like, like I had a dude in Brisbane, he's like, high five, high five, and the girl's like, yeah, high five, yeah, and I'm like, dude, quit being the bitch and fucking pull her. He's like, takes out his phone and he's like, you ready to go? She's like, finally, right? He's like, thanks, Brad. Yeah, like quit the fucking high five bullshit, right? So it's like, you just don't know when that window is. It's just like it's outside of your reality, right? To kinda do with that. So I kinda get into some more things. I guess I'll talk about the current trip because that just reminded me of some of the stuff that's been cool. So, actually I can't really say this whole thing because I don't want it out on YouTube, but I had an interesting experience with Tyler where we met a girl and some stuff went down, whatever type of shit. So all of a sudden I have a new reality of what is possible. So I'm going out and I see this girl and I'm out with my wing here. I had my assistant, I'm most of the tour. If you guys check out my YouTube videos, he kinda makes little cameos. It's like really weird looking dude with like a burly beard and shit. You're like, who the hell is that dude? It's just like my random assistant. He's fucking kick ass, amazing game. So all of a sudden we're going up to girls and I'm like, hey, we share everything. You ever been with two guys before? And she's like, what, what? I'm like, we share everything. And she's like, well, actually, I'm like, no, I'm just joking, what, what? She's like, aha. And it was like crazy because it was like, because these type of things are like in my reality. I'm like, oh, this happens all the time. It's cool, it's normal. All of a sudden because it is, it's no big deal anymore. I feel it's the same way with like the one night stand or something like that. Like you do it a couple of times and then you go out. Like one of the best mindsets I have is just like, yeah, sex is casual. It's a normal thing. Like everyone does it. It's not a big deal. But what happens is especially when you get into pickup, I know a lot of guys when they get into this shit it's like the results actually go down because they have all these new doubts and shit. And they're like, oh my God. And the other side of it is you just put so much value on it too. So you're in there and you're like, you're like, fuck, this has got to go well. I attended the seminar, the seminar. And it needs to prove itself. Like is it working? Is it working? Instead of being like, yo, dude. Like what's the old shit they say where, like who when you're in the bedroom and you're like with the girl, who's the one who's like, yeah, yeah. And the guy's just like, like who's actually enjoying it more, right? Or if you look like at a Cosmo magazine, I don't know what they have over here. Some sort of like ladies magazine on the front of it. It's like, 10 tips on finding your G-spot. Or like some shit, it's like right on the cover. But yeah, like we have all this like social conditioning of like, don't be the chauvinistic pig. Like you can't do all this shit. Like, ah, ah, ah. But if you really think about it, like they want it as much as you do. Like they want it more than you do, right? Like I could imagine like, I see the dudes that are out. I see like, like you guys are the fucking, the cool ones. You're the ones that like, you're conscious enough to work on yourself. You have like, you know, like self development. It takes like a lot of pride or to get rid of the pride to actually admit to yourself that you can like better yourself and everything, right? Whereas most dudes are like, footballer, I'm a footballer, ah, protein. Like all this shit, right? Cool, how good of a boyfriend is that? He's like, bitch, like fucking do the dishes, make me a sandwich. Ah, whereas like me, I'm like, I'm reading, honey. Like, read this book, it'll change your life or something, right? Like when you, whatever. I was like, I'm such a better, such a better provider. It's a footballer, man. I'm just actually, he out-elfed me at the club, so I'm pissed, right? But anyway, like you're actually the fucking, the cool dude coming up and not just the drunk retard just like, bitch, bitch, bitch, ah, what's up, right? So as you get better at this shit, right, just get out that you're going in, you're getting comfortable and you're able to convey yourself kind of authentically there. That's like the fucking rarity, right? Like think about that, that's the rarity. It's like how many just like cute, attractive mini skirts are there out there? There's a lot of them, right? Finding the right one, yeah, of course, like I have very specific things I'm looking for, but like women are abundant. The cool dude who's not the drunk and retard is actually pretty rare, right? So fucking love that shit. This is self-development, yeah, motivational. That's what I tell girls, I'm like, I'm a motivational speaker, self-esteem, right? So whatever, getting back to some of the things that I learned on this trip, like I said, for me, one of the biggest realizations I had this year was really the fucking frame control shit, like just the fucking, whoa, like I can control this frame here, I can control whatever I want. I think I read one of the most literally life-changing books I ever read was, it's probably definitely the most influential book I've ever read was Jen McKenna's Spiritual Enlightenment, The Dandas Thing. It's not actually the best pickup book because it makes you kind of depressed for a little while. It's very like nihilistic, like there's no meaning to the world, all this type of shit. So I mean, read it at your own risk, that's the caveat there. But what he says in there, one of the main things that I noticed, and I talked about this on the seminar this weekend, is when you see any other person out there, like you see some dude, you're like, you see me up here and you're like, wow, that dude, he has amazing hair and he looks really alpha and shit. He probably doesn't have a doubt in the world, right? And I actually, I feel when I look at most people, I'm like, wow, that person looks really put together. But if you actually think about what they're thinking internally, like the shit that's going on in most people's heads, and they're like, my dad never loved me, I gotta pay the bills. I don't even want to know what they're like, indigestion, indigestion, I don't know. What the fuck are they thinking? I don't want to be in that head. I don't want to be in most people's head, right? But you see the outside, the costume there, and you're like, wow, they seem really confident and put together. But most people's doubts are like so extreme, like people doubt shit fucking to the extreme, right? You have those two, but it's like, not as extreme as most people, the average kind of beta person in society. So what you can take away from this, the knowledge of this, is the way that I actually define attraction, what it is for me, more than anything lately, it's just like, I don't even care, I just do what I want and I make them do what I want. Sounds kind of bad, it's just like, you will be attracted to me. And you just fucking, you assume this shit, it's like, of course, you're a girl, I'm fucking amazing, be attracted. And she's like, no, I'm like, no, he's attracted. Look at him, look at him, he's all reactive. Yeah, he's loving it, right? Yeah, yeah, yeah. So you just, you like fuck it, like this is how it's gonna be, like this is just how it's gonna be. And it's like square peg, round hole, square. Square, right? And it sounds like a numbers game, but it's really not, it's like people want to be led, people want to like make the decision. So you're in there, like if you think about like, what is a cold approach, right? Cold approach, guy, girl, whoever. Let's say I'm just meeting you right now, we're just meeting right here. You don't see me on stage? I'm like, okay, cool. He looks at me and he's like, oh, black shirt, wow. Interesting, has he washed that lately? Cool, I'm like, oh, khaki pants, interesting. And you start pinging off of each other and you're like, how should I respond here? I don't really know this person. I don't know how to like interact with him. And one of the two of you are gonna make the decision of how the dynamic is gonna be. You're just like, okay, maybe like, I got some clunky watch and you're like, damn, that shit looks like a Panera or some shit. It's like, no, actually it's like 300 bucks or some shit. It's a cheap ass watch. But he's like, oh man, that dude must be rich. That's what I'm trying to look like. Yeah, I am. Fucking making it rain and shit, right, yeah. Now, so you see that and all of a sudden, oh, maybe your eye contact goes a little bit more submissive. And maybe your tonality, you go a little bit more trying for rapport because you wanna make him your friend so maybe he has some business advice for you. So in that situation, or the example I use in the Evolutions product is maybe he's just deaf, like literally he's just like half deaf. So he's like, what's up man? And you're like, wow, he's really alpha and loud. And then just because he's deaf, you literally kind of fall into the more beta role or some shit there, right? And you just made that decision. So the same thing is happening when you go out and talk to the girl, right?