 Hi, this is Helena Hart from commitmentconnection.com and in this video I'm going to be answering a question I received from a woman in our community who wants to know how to handle a man's mixed signals. She just wants to know once and for all what this man's true intentions are or what his feelings are for her. And this is one of the most common questions we get here in our community. I can't tell you how many women I hear from every week who are feeling really confused because a man's giving her mixed signals. Maybe he's really hot and cold or one week he acts really interested and the next week he seems to disappear. I've certainly been there myself in my past. Pretty much every woman I've ever talked to has experienced this at some point. So hopefully this video will be helpful for you if this is something you're going through right now. But before I get started, if this is your first time to our channel, be sure to click the button to subscribe to get all of our videos and information on how to attract the man and the relationship you've always wanted. So let's get started. I'm going to give you two steps that you can do if you're really ready to put it all on the line and find out a man's true intentions and what his feelings are for you. The first step is that you want to give him one really clear positive indicator of your interest, one really, really clear signal that shows him that you're interested in him as more than just a friend, for example. And step two is you want to lean back into your feminine energy from there and see if he picks up the ball, so to speak. See if he takes that and runs with it and really steps up and makes moves to take things to the next level with you. So what is a clear indicator of your interest? This could look like all different kinds of things depending on the situation. I know every situation is different. So let me give you a couple of different examples here. Let's say you are interested in a man who you don't hang out with socially yet. Maybe you work with him or you see him in your daily life or your weekly routine or something like that and the two of you get along really well and you think he might be interested but you're getting some mixed signals from him. I know I hear from women all the time in situations like that. So if you really want to show your interest and indicate to him that you want to spend time with him and get to know him on like a dating level, saying something like you know it feels so great getting to know you or I love talking with you and we really get along too well to not hang out more often or something like that and then lean back from there and just you know keep your energy open to him and see what he does. Now if a man is really interested in you, if he wants to pursue you for a relationship, he should really pick up the ball from there. He's not going to jeopardize this opportunity you're giving him to take you on a date or get to know you better or connect with him on a deeper level than what is currently happening right now. So that's one example. Another example I hear about all the time from women is you know maybe someone from her past has come back into her life, maybe a next boyfriend, someone she used to date or maybe a man she was dating who just kind of disappeared and sometimes those men tend to come back. I've certainly experienced that in my past maybe you have too and you don't know what his intentions are. Maybe he's showing back up like nothing happened or maybe he wants to hang out as friends or something like that and you don't want to just be friends with this guy. So in those situations saying something like you know it feels so good to hear from you and I'm open to getting together and you know seeing where things go but I just want to be really straightforward you know I have feelings for you as more than just a friend so it feels too difficult to just be friends right now and I kind of feel good to know whether or not we're on the same page before committing to a date with you or committing to a time to hang out or something like that and then again leaning back from there and seeing what he does. A man who's truly interested will should at least you know reciprocate that and say yes I'm interested in dating you too depending on the situation right if it's a man who disappeared and you're interested in you know finding out why you know you could say something like you know it feels good to hear from you again and I'm feeling a little confused you kind of dropped off there for a little while and you know I'm really interested in being with someone or dating someone who really follows through on what they say they're gonna do and you know a man who doesn't just disappear without an explanation so you know I'm feeling curious are we on the same page or what's going on here and really I really want to invite very direct straightforward communication where you're in to get indicating your interest giving him a clear signal and then leaning back from there and just seeing if he you know takes that and runs with it and I just want to mention that a man who's truly interested is not going to jeopardize these opportunities are giving him to be with you and I would just do this like one time I wouldn't keep showing interest in a man who's clearly not picking up that ball and taking things to the next level but if you're truly ready to know once and for all what a man's true intentions are I really want you know you to feel comfortable being really straightforward you don't want to like beat around the bush here and you know a man who's truly interested should definitely reciprocate that effort and take things from there so I hope this was helpful for you I would love to hear your thoughts and experiences with this feel free to type those into the comment section and I will see you in the next video thanks for watching if you're struggling to know exactly what to say to a man to deepen the connection and bring him closer click the button on the right hand side of this video to download our free report on the 40 flirty text messages that men absolutely love