 Well, Gene and I are complete opposites, complete opposites. So where he is very calm, methodical, I on the other hand, fly off the handle, get really upset, I get emotional, I want it done now. I think we end up soothing each other even though we're complete opposites. Because he has to soothe me to bring me down like calm down that it's going to work out. We're going to get it. He's headed to what we need so he's dealing with that and I can go in and say, you're awfully quiet, what's wrong, tell me what's wrong, let's talk about it. Communication like I say and always there, I always want to talk to one another about things and not just throw up your hands and walk away type thing. What attracted him to me was obviously things I'd never want to change. Now his manana approach to life, yes I'd love for that to go away, but that's Gene, that's Gene. I've learned to deal with that but I've also learned to be a lot more forceful and say no it's not going to take six months to get the kitchen done, it will take six weeks and that's what the approach will be. Our marriage is still with passion and not boring at all, we still enjoy each other's company. Life is too grim if you don't have a sense of humor and if you don't have somebody that makes you laugh, can find the funny part of life, I'm not saying it makes fun of things, I'm saying actually can find humor when it can be pretty bleak out there and this man can do that. I try it. I think the best thing for a marriage is making sure that you think of every day as an anniversary day, that you kiss and you hug and you tell each other you love each other all the time. All the time.