 Hey y'all it is June 26 Silly a date off. Hold on y'all. I just dropped JB off at summer camp speaking of He's been telling me some things about the camp and I do like that There's a lot more kids his age here, but he keeps talking about some bigger kids who are being a little bit rough And I listen to him Absolutely cuz he's my child But I'm like JB. What are you? What are you seeing in response to this kid? And this is little kid stuff y'all. It's like You know, he's playing with something and another bigger kid gets it in and plays with himself and JB gets so upset that he's about to cry So I ask him like well, are you seeing anything in response to the child that's taking your toys? Are you asking him? He's again asking not to do that So I can see he's a little sad and this is probably like the third time he's brought it up So I'm gonna go ahead and pull him back a little bit instead of going three days It's gonna go two days, which is fine y'all because honestly, can't believe this. We got four weeks left to school When I tell you this is Phoenix kids get out We get out earlier for school, but we start early August 1st is when school start it's June 26 and I told y'all I went ahead and ordered his uniforms and and His school supplies And a funny thing about I'm like, okay I need to look at my school curriculum that I had planned out for eight weeks. I'm like girl You ain't got eight weeks. So I'm gonna I'm gonna look at it again. It was kind of stuff in here y'all. Hold on This is a little bit better. I'm gonna look at it again today and see what I could do to help him out because I think He's starting it most kids lose a little bit of what they learned throughout the year So I want to reintroduce him to some things and then introduce him to some first-grade first-grade level Curriculum not a lot. I'm not over over. You know, well in my baby, but since now he's gonna be home three days of that week Okay, and it's so funny one of his friends mom sent me a text message and I told her ass to get it together Doing school. She sent me a text message asking me How many days is when is JB going to summer summer camp? I said girl, let's go to summer camp every week And she said well, I was thinking about you know signing him up I said baby, you should have done that while we were in school, you know enrollment registration The registration period is over. However, give them a call And see if you can you know, I knew she wouldn't do it y'all cuz she's just that type of person I told her you know give them a call Monday morning and see if you can get your child in I knew she wouldn't do it So I went ahead and followed up with her again today And was like look if you want me to keep your child some days Let me know I'll be happy. I don't know why I do this stuff to myself y'all know I damn well these kids begin But I said no If you want me to keep your baby, let me know I'm pulling JB out some days and I'll be more than happy to keep him Him and JB can play and yeah So she asked me if I can keep him Friday. I said absolutely, you know, I'll probably take him to an indoor playground And yeah, they'll be fine. Um, yeah, it's getting hot. It's already almost 90 degrees out here So I'm gonna head to the gym here soon. I've been looking at my videos y'all my arms look Horrible they look horrible because I've lost weight and the skin see now the skin is doing this Yeah, the skin is doing this when it really should be like this So I need to be a little bit more consistent when it comes to my upper body I've been doing cardio and lower body, but I need to get over it and do some upper body at least Rotate I don't know what I need to get on a plane I probably need to call my best friend and ask her my best friend is really good about that Her body's on point. She's she's I mean, she's not yeah, so When I tell you this this ninja it has worked my ever-lasting I don't know where that's from y'all He has worked my nerves because I don't know he got this he got this almost fired underneath him to get stuff done around the House and they appreciate it But the summertime is a time to relax in my opinion you relax We ain't relax Tidy up some stuff to get ready for the fall, right? Tell me why last week Not even last week a few days after the painting was done Like the very next day after the painting was done He wanted to have the windows in the back of the house Tend it fine. Whatever get it done. The hell was that? Birds fine y'all so got that done fine, whatever then he's like um, did you follow up with? the Contractor about the guest bathroom I ignored him. Let me show you what I did. I did These are the best inventions. Let me show you what I did when he said that I Do what? Mind you the guy was really good. I mean yes, he was awesome, but I don't want to deal with that right now So when I get home, I Kind of snap when he said that Yeah, you having your house done any type of reconstruction or remodeling It's stressful because you have all these people in your house and things are in a disarray And he's not there to help me put this stuff together, right? So um, I think I did snap I told him I said, you know what um, you need to give me some time because I knew he said Well, we're not gonna get it done to July, but I just need to have can just ask him Well, how much it would be and get an estimate. I said no, I'm not gonna do that right now I'm not going to I'm still getting the house in order from the painting. I'm not I don't want to do that Let's stop give give us a two to three week time gap Before we go into the next house project because you're not here to deal with it So no, I'm not gonna ask Ryan how much it's gonna cost to redo the guest bathroom I don't care right now I need a break because literally if we do that this is what's gonna happen And this is the reason why I don't want to do it And once we get that done Boom school's gonna start and then I have to do all the so we get busy at my job during that time I don't want to deal with it. Let's wait till next summer. You know what I mean? Child So anyway, y'all, um, let's look at this. I want to tell y'all I have a collaboration coming up I need to go ahead and follow up with this person I've been talking about everything but the collaboration y'all I don't know if other youtube I know that other youtubers talk to other youtubers, but I talk to them about youtube stuff, but then sometimes I just talk to them about personal stuff I just you know, I'm a type of person that check up on people to see how they're doing Um, a couple other a couple of youtubers have my phone number at least three or four of them have my phone I mean there are people y'all know Yeah, y'all know up in these streets But you know, I think at the at the end of the day because I vlog you guys can get that personal side of me But some of these youtubers that I talked to they don't vlog So I just want y'all to realize that we are people we are you know, we have a life outside of this and It could be a lot It really can I was talking to someone today and she's feeling overwhelmed with her personal life And she's like I just basically she doesn't have really have time for youtube She does it because she has this audience and this large following but This is why I be taking breaks. I know sometimes a lot of you You know y'all support me during my break. So thank you for that and I do appreciate it But I be this close every other month wanting to take a break like seriously Because I hadn't been consistently recording I basically have to record three to four videos this week and then edit Those videos plus two of JB's videos mine. My baby has a channel too. He has like 88 subscribers But still Plus edit his video. So I have five videos in queue. I have to edit. I have no idea how long this is going to take and honestly That's one of the reasons why I've been meaning that down this window There's one of the reasons why my videos have been shorter in the past because I've been just wanting to get them out But i'm trying to make my videos five minutes or more Minimum five minutes if I could do eight to ten minutes great because this is a thing for us youtubers If we could do over ten minutes, then we could do more ads. Oh, yes. I'm getting my coins Okay, I'm getting my money up. All right So if I could push that stretch that video out to ten minutes, then I could put multiple ads Now I'm not this type of person And I be siding some of these people putting five six I feel I certainly putting three ads let them on five or six Are you serious? I think the most I've ever put like I'll do two ads and then one after a one or one before I'm not doing no more than three ads to my videos. If you see more than three ads, you need to let me know because that's ridiculous um But I could go do whatever you want to do, but I do see Uh, a lot of youtubers going not a lot, but the ones that I follow they're shifting Layer girl don't has definitely shifted her entire channel But she had a problem with a stalker with a couple of stalkers actually layer girl don't she's a young lady out in Atlanta Her channel has completely shifted But it's kind of favorite. I personally liked her vlogs because I she had some interest in life to me Um, but she does more of a gossip like type of channel Nappy had a jojoba her channel has shifted. I know some of her subscribers upset Were full of some of her recent content. Y'all I should have taken this but I wasn't sure how it's gonna turn out Those who you've been following me for a while. I eat meatless meal probably meatless meals Probably three days out of the week to be quite honest. And so this is very good so far This is couscous and I got this recipe from another youtuber. I saw a couple of weeks ago. I can't remember her name She's natural hair too. Um, she's she's vegan. I believe and so this is chickpeas and a creamy Uh spinach sauce. She didn't add spinach to hers. This is roasted tomatoes And this is um coconut milk in here unspoken coconut milk It looks this color because I added turmeric. Um, yeah, very very good so far enough for two or three days Hey, y'all in my sheet room, but there's some planning girl, you know what JB was like, um, will you be filming back here recording? I'm like JB you may have a point, but you know what? because we put a um tent Over the it's like 75% I asked for like that dark. It's dark It's not bright bright. So I can't do hair videos or anything like that. Um, y'all I just got off the phone with someone I accidentally called her actually And I'm gonna try to be very careful as discreet as possible because like I said, you never know who'll be watching your channel girl um The world is small to y'all it really is um, I accidentally called her facebook called her and She's my homeboy's wife. Well, what's my homeboy? I don't no longer talk to him Someone I used to go to school with college with etc And um, I looked up with her on facebook because I'm like you cute. You know how to cook You from the country. I like you. Let's be friends, right? And I talked to her more so than he he him, excuse me So last year she posted let me just say this we all know This is what I have a hate love relationship with social media. Clearly. I'm on youtube. I blog. I do reviews But I really post on facebook. I post on instagram I'm I'm I think I'm semi-private. Y'all never seen my husband I talked about he's getting on my nerves, which by the way, thank y'all so much for those of you who are married On my last vlog saying yes girl my husband gets on my nerves to those of you who've been married 20 I had a couple of y'all been married 20 plus years Hey, man, that is really a blessing, but I'm glad you have Uh confirmed my suspicions of your man getting on your nerves girl But I'm so grateful for him in the same breath Especially after speaking to the sister. So there's a reason why I accidentally called her too because that Speaking to her actually made me more appreciative and humble to myself You see how God works works humble myself in the marriage. I'm in Anyway, so About a year ago. She had posted on on facebook this long not really long, but a quick post about how In short her husband The guy I know have been beating on her being emotionally abusive and cheating on her And I was like what and it was a huge threat because she has his family members and her family members on her page clearly is his facebook 50 comments and I didn't even bother to read it all I sent her a message and was like is this true and she gave me some details I'm they're both they're a good-looking couple. They have beautiful kids. They make money. They had a business together I think it's you know on the off end um You know and I'm thinking I'm looking at this this you know this stuff on on their posts Excuse me. I'm like wow, this is a beautiful young black family making it happen with their kids building a legacy And he's in the background doing all this stuff Wow, I mean like I said the stuff she told me today. I was like a wow girl. Wow Like I am appreciative of my husband even though he gets on my nerves I can't deal with him. I'm very thankful. I can hear him in there now. He got some groceries, but I've got me some snacks See say hi. I'm y'all. Um, but y'all be girl. I am grateful for a non dramatic Very grateful. You see how I changed my tune that bad the guy will definitely Put some people Situations and show you that you need to sit down girl and hush. Hey y'all y'all like this shirt The children's place has um clothes for sale And like mommy and stuff. So I got this shirt for me girl for me for me Gotta lock the door girl got a lot. Yeah, you know what? Y'all know where I'm at. I was in here earlier doing my makeup Um, why was JB passing notes under the door like like being prison? I told him you you don't need to be passing notes under the door because I'm not opening up the door I had to do my makeup just a little makeup waiting on this baby to get here his little friend I don't know why I do this y'all low key. I really don't care for kids I know something like that. What? Let me explain myself. I love babies. I love I love a baby. I love a good chubby baby girl Um matter of fact and those of you who follow me on instagram you saw my post about two two times out of the week I'll go over to miss lori's house and hold those babies girl. I get those babies especially when I had big titties I get those Vivian clean up, you know Especially when I had big breasts when I was you know, larger on top um, I'll get those babies and I will hold them close and Here they be screaming and crying. I am I'm patient because they ain't mine And when it was JB, I had a problem, but they ain't mine. My ass can go home rocking and sleep They crying, you know, but after a while Done they go to sleep. I think a lot of it has to do with your energy the type of energy They up with it. They're done. They're stressed the hell out But I come over there looking like I said looking on chocolate and happy, you know fluffy anyway, but my cut off For ages around seven or eight around seven or eight They start fooling themselves especially the girls getting an attitude Eight or nine the girls eight nineteen and the girls start showing the ass I can deal with six and under the the kindergarten even seven like first grade and under it's adorable but after that I have problems so um The little boy that's coming over it's one of JB's good friends. They really do like each other He's from his classroom and the mom did I ever already mentioned this? I don't know the mom had contacted me Well, first of all while school was in she was like when is JB going to summer camp? I said when he's going every week You know, there ain't no break So she was like isn't that expensive? I'm like, are you in my wallet? Okay, don't don't be that way Vivian, but I'm like, well, yes it's expensive But y'all we are very blessed Again call me the overprotective mommy, but I think JB is too young to go on a field trip by without me Once he's seven, you know eight nine, okay I would never forget that that year summer where They had accidentally left a little boy on the school bus It was a daycare and he actually went out on the field trip. They left that baby on the bus This was in Houston. Do you ever remember this? They left that baby on the bus And unfortunately he died when I heard that was if my child was never going on a field trip Without me until he gets of of a certain age, you know what I mean? um And so what really got me nervous is said he said mommy the the place was so long This was last week when they went on the field trip He said the place was so long that I fell asleep on the bus and my husband I was like, did anyone wake you up? He said, yeah, they called my name and I woke up But he said he was also at the back of the bus by himself. I said no Absolutely not. Yeah, he won't be doing field trips at all at this camp and he won't be doing them unless I go Then I have showed up. So yeah, anyway, today we are going to be going to an indoor playground And because I'm greedy and I play in my days. I plan my food around where I'm going So I already know the kids will probably eat McDonald's y'all. I don't eat McDonald's I go there. I probably eat a fry every now and then and I'm around the menu I don't eat those burgers. I eat a chicken nugget probably three times out of the year McDonald's is disgusting, but these little kids like it I love the sweet tea and when they used to have that coffee. Hell, yes But I just stick to a fry every now and then and some tea now What they do have around there is a Popeyes Y'all the times I have had Popeyes are the times you see me on here Like I don't I don't I don't do Popeyes. I'll do raisin king and chicken raisin king Raisin cane and Chick-fil-A over Popeyes Especially look I haven't had Popeyes, especially when they little girl posted the video Was it on Instagram? She posted a video like the the cockroaches were like twerking in the flowers and she the Popeyes was filthy There was flower everywhere flower on the floor Pants of food and wrong place not at the right temperature. I kid you not I saw roaches in the corner like pop locking and dropping it. I seriously ever since that video Yeah, and that's I'm very careful about what I eat and what I eat out. So we ain't going nowhere tomorrow Sonny I have my brunch girl going to a brunch Uh, and my neighbors y'all my neighbors love j.b. When I tell you they love j.b. Well, I asked you Who do you want to go do it? You know them or your friends? He's like, oh, I want to go with their house These are my neighbors from east texas too. They're from paris texas. So anyway And she said they're gonna spend time at the clubhouse. So that's adorable and I really do appreciate them Because they always offer to keep j.b. But I didn't want to you know how sometimes I don't know y'all. I'm a type of person I First of all, I'm very careful who who will keep my child You can't be trusting these people like seriously All these people who turn up to be pedophiles. I remember once let me tell this story and then I'm gonna go ahead And go on the living room and wait for these people. I can see them right here if they show up My first ever manager actually she uh was my first manager at UNT You see that You see you see the log jb. I'm waiting for them. Okay. I'll let you know when I get here. Okay I love it. So anyway, my first manager at UNT Um, she had access because she had Certain access because she worked for the school for the university for the college. Excuse me She had access to the child sex offender Sighted like the official Texas site. So she's like Vivian. I want to show you something. Yeah, she was petty and I was here for it She was only in her 20s. I was like 19 at the time. I'm like, what's going on Brenda? She said let me show you something she pulled up one of our co-workers son On the child and when you pull it up on the a hazard picture It has the offense it has the timing sir Then it has the age of the child when I told you I got sick to my damn stomach over this stuff She said that's not even nothing. That's her son her Her husband is also on the list. I said are you freaking serious? She's a guest. She said give me give me your um Give me your boyfriend's name. I'ma pull him up. I'ma see if he's on here I'ma run back around chicks. I said absolutely girl at the time. I gave her who who I was dating I gave her this ninja's name. Oh, I wasn't planning I gave her his name and his brother's name because this is this is what we were just we're actually then we were friends uh friends with um I'm just gonna say friends with benefits. Can I say they don't want to? It's my damn channel. Yes, I can We were just friends my husband now, but because this is college We were all friends then but I had her to look him up He was clean, but then I had her to look up my uh My girlfriend's husband. I had her looking up everybody. I was we were nosy He came up y'all and this was the thing he was 20 19 No, he was like 20 at the time and it was statutory rape the girl was 17 And so I told her I was like look crystal I'm let you know, I found your boyfriend on the side and I had my mom boss to print out his sheet I said I found your boyfriend on the same, but I'm let you know right now. I think this is a situation of The parents probably charge, you know press charges. I don't think that he actually it was statutory rape So she was 17 He was 20 21. I think it was like 21 You know it happens y'all unfortunately and so but she was so disgusted by that that she broke up with him She was like, I can't believe that he he you know, he's on the sex offender list and so Do your back. You look especially in this day and age you have to do background checks on all Not only do you have to do background checks like that You have to ask people for their sexual status. Like I I'm so glad I'm not dating in 2019 Like I don't know how to go. I wouldn't know how to go about that. I'm pretty sure those you you're like girls better to be single I don't blame you That's me Why are you helping and puffing? You need help opening up your shabby you need help Be careful with the camera. I'm recording. Okay Okay Here you go, baby I'm so over it. We're at McDonald's. I'm talking to my I'm talking to my people, baby You want to say hi you want to say hi Landon? You know, I have a youtube channel You know what All of us have a youtube channel is landing as one you have a youtube channel, right? You know what child I'm gonna put you in the headlock Went to Popeyes Okay, baby had my mouth all set for Popeyes, right? I ordered a three piece with mashed potatoes. Hold on baby. I'm recording for them Why did I get here and the chickens old they give me mac and cheese My sweet tea is not sweet. That's the only good My food is absolutely good. You you cannot leave leave what I saw What did I don't get too close to this? I cannot wait to get home before my stuff up a drink I've landed to help you Child landing help help him attach that How do you attach this I can do it so I don't know the choice but to eat some raggedy old McDonald's The only thing that's good. This is the only thing that's good from Popeyes. It's pepper. You better be careful, baby The egg McDonald's we made a secret place right down deep Show them right down. Yeah, I just got this at the crock pot. I didn't feel like sleeping over stove. This is so good Let me tell you what this is First of all, most of the stuff I cook I get inspiration from Pinterest I look at a recipe from Pinterest And I have a pretty good memory. I can look at something once and done. I can basically recreate it So what this is is basically this is a coconut curry chicken with Excuse jay be with cabbage now. This is low carb. Yes, keto friendly. Let me tell you what it is a lot of ingredients I'm gonna take my time and tell you so in case you want to jay be In case you want to write it down. Okay girl. Are you ready? Half of the half of a diced onion One tablespoon of ginger Uh two garlic cloves chopped up Uh two tablespoons of cilantro if you don't like cilantro, you don't have to do it A bag of baby carrots half a bag of baby carrots Uh, I did at one potato. You don't have to do it if you want to if you want it to be low carb Half a head of cabbage two chicken breasts Um half a cup of coconut milk Half a cup of chicken broth. All right. So these are the the um seasons onion powder Garlic powder Cajun seasoning curry powder cumin salt pepper paprika Because there's something that's turmeric. That's why it's yellow turmeric I just dropped this all in this crock-pock. No order. No nothing on low. Excuse me on high For three hours and then on low for one or two hours. Look at how Tender this is It is so flimsy. Hey y'all. I am leaving the event the brunch. It was okay, you guys I feel like this brunch was more so I didn't know there was a theme or if it was a theme But I feel like it was more so for business owners. So there was a lot of stuff that was very interesting, but I don't know. Y'all like my earrings? I don't know. Um the food was I know for me. So I'm gonna be stopping by raise the cane and give me one chicken tender Chicken tender release for JB. And yeah, I'm gonna have to start y'all. And yeah, um Y'all sorry, let me go over here in parks somewhere and get out the way because I'm just In the middle of the garage Um, but it was funny because I was just talking to a sister from georgia She just moved she moved she was in phoenix move back to georgia move back And I said, well, how do you like it? Because y'all some people from the south has to have a hard time adjusting to phoenix I'm just gonna be honest And so she was telling me some issues she she's been having on the job and I just let her know look in the south The people that know they're racist and they're racist. They're gonna call you, you know, you color I know you color. That's the type of you know racism out here There's a passive aggressive type of racism I'm not racist because I work with my friend Shakwita. And by the way, you remind me of Shakwita I love black people. I work with them that type of passive aggressive Seeing dumb stuff on the job So she was giving me an earful of some stuff that's happened. Shout out to miss britney who just moved here back here from georgia But baby, that's how it is at some places not all places here, but You think texas has a bunch of trump supporters phoenix. There are a lot of trump supporters So that should tell me and you know what? Let me tell you and it doesn't Who you who you support or whoever? Uh, politically, you know, that's your business, but out here they make it known that they love trump Girl, so anyway, let me hush up y'all. I'm gonna go ahead and pick up JB JB apparently is having a great time with my neighbors And I'm gonna pick him up some dinner and we're gonna go ahead and go home I'm gonna make you know, I think I'm just gonna go straight home. I'm gonna go ahead and make um What am I gonna make I'm going to make some nachos Just got JB back from my neighbor. So how was the golfing, baby? Good good. I can see you got a tan if you're a chocolate self You got you a little tan. I got him some raisin cane Even though they went to mcdonald's they loved him some JB So they took JB um my neighbors from paras texas took him To a golf course or members of and the club you guys go to the clubhouse Mickey Mouse Clubhouse You missed it It wasn't Mickey Mouse Clubhouse, baby. It was a golf clubhouse Did you see Mickey Mouse there? You know what y'all see his hair his hair is growing you can tell All right, look at his little You got a Mickey Mouse hat You gave Mickey Mouse a hug You know what