 Good morning and welcome back. We are back with the discussion of the day just as I promised you to keep promise to attend Ayo Ndiotabiae to Apa Y254. My name is Sankara Kaisu and this is why in the morning on WCW. So the talk of today, the talk of the day today we are going to talk about gals and standards. I don't know how I can put that in Kisweli. Maybe one of these people, they are going to help me put it in Kisweli. But I can jerebu wascana na viewango, viewango. I'm a Vijiwango, Vijiwango. I know I got it. My name is Sankara Kaisu and I'm not alone in studio. I am with gals. The gals who are going to help me dissect this. I am with Desi and Diana. See view. I don't know whether this D has to do with anything but let's start with Diana. Diana tell us everything that you think we need to know about you, your name, where you come from, what you do. Social media handles and everything, this is your camera here. Hello, my name is Diana. I'm from Mombasa Puan University currently in Mombasa Aviation. I'm an intern in KBC and my social media handles Nikigal at Instagram and Diana Nikita at Facebook. I don't know if Kisweli is in Mombasa, I would be happy. I know Diana is in Mombasa and Somea Puan University but I don't know where I come from. Uku. Uku, uku, uku. Siko, uku. I'm from KBC. I'm from Tukuske Kisweli, Puan. I'm from Ngunana, Tukuseme. I am from Naituwa Diana and Tukupuan. Sio Lazi Mamtrang. Okay. Thank you and welcome to WhiteFifethote. Desi, we were with you on this set sometime back around how many years ago. Yeah, I think that is like 2018-2017. That's like 4-5 years? And we were hosted by DJ Pierre DJ Pierre Makena You and I were panedi swa guests How have you been all this years? Oh, I've been okay Managing, hapa kule, hapa kule Umekua wa api? Shugli, Kazi and all that Now tell people who are seeing you for the first time Who are now at the majority Who you are and what you do and all that Okay, my name is Daisy Wanjiko Mahera The former student leader KCA women representative That is from 2016-2017 But now I'm a finance manager At textile limited We deal with interior and exterior Moldings for houses Kita kama na kuja Uh, apu kwa interior molding Naizu vitu zote Hwacha yotu tarudia badae Tufanya tuwi Uli kuja apa Ukiwa student leader So you are here student leaders And you are panelist like both of us Now you are working Unaza ishin yumba Unaza deit mtu Unaza ishin yumba Enough love Ya, madhouse to you Enough love Okay, for me dating is a two way thing It's not necessarily about what you have Kus From someone who is independent And everything It's about the connection Between you and the guy It's not necessarily where he lives Or where he comes from It's about the attachment Between me and you Mani ina kuja badae Are you being honest? Yes, I'm very honest Unaza ishin yumba Unaza deit mtu Unaza deit mtu Mwenyali drop out To be honest Siazi deit mtu I'm a drop class too No, it's For example, leksai niku University And I have education I am landed And I think you also have money Okay So financially free So Siazi niku niku Aki ja nawa Ame drop from class 2 Siu toto Like I dropped class 2 Like 20 years ago Ya, so sayi ni Aged 2, but I just express Na English wizuri kusababu Like I do Nymtu a class 2 Okay English naizu zingine Doesn't matter in love Kusababu, I think Kamali drop class 2 20 years ago Maybe he has done something Ya, ame fanya Ya, ame fanya Wakati utu na poangia Ame fanya Ame fanya Okay You need to get somebody who can Support you and you can support him This is how it is It's a two-way traffic Well, I can support him He can support me and we can Move on. For example, niki kwa nam Twice ni support Not only financially Or kwa mawazo Kwa vitu na itaji I need support from my man So, kama ni ita kwa namituna Kwa ngumusana Kwa sustain the relation Ya na, if you are keen You've noticed something We were talking education Ya, meanda pesa Support me to kama hizo So it's like Was chana onangaliya pesa sana To an extent that The standards are too high For men For us Let me give you a typical example Kwa na debate kali Kenya We are Viazi ili isha kwa Samo ya kwenye zili kwaanga Kwenye wam na kula We are chips is very expensive We have the same chips Na tengeneza na wa ruk toka krenyaga Na amtaki so merez Klas To an extent that Vituza klasi na isha kwa stock Adim na baki Sasa akuna vilemta survive Ok, for me I can say Not setting the standards high Kus the problem Within our days is Once the women were empowered The men were not taught how to deal With the empowered woman That's why they usually say U de ma na ringa Na setting iku ringa It's because she knows what she wants She's independent She knows everything Kani Kenya uta fanya ka esu U doa tamin uta fanya Yani boy child High jo nisha kudil with the empowered woman Yes, that is all I can say Nasi isha say na leta shida kusababu Walo anyu anyu Awaja kua Tut kudil with the empowered women Ndi wa waku Ndi wa waku Ndi wa waku Ndi wa waku uta fanya Uta fanya I have in my hand here A research work That shows that Waschana we niwa me sumakabesa To a level of masters, PhD Wana kusabatua kua o He Uka ribu kupata dikri say Sinana wu kua in danger Uta pata mitu What your reaction on that? No Nita pata mitu Tu na mwa nume niwa Nwa church Bakini Kulingana na Kusoma sieti uki suma wezi pata mitu Uneza pata mitu But you ni research I know research niza seima Lakini logically Uneza pata mitu kabisa Kusababu ailinga ni kua Eti ni me suma Niko na edimu Kwebusiezi olewa Wana uko na uko na jitegemea Wana fanya mamweo enye Wana business oko empowered Nihungumu kupata mwa na ume Kusabawu wana ume Wana takama Konfano ni me kua katika dating Na wana ume anakombia Mimi na taka niku kwa nyumba Niku fanya kila kitu Sosa mimi nidi enda shule Ni nika suma Nika fanya kila kitu Indio nidi ni fanya kazi Hanga lata mimi nidi jitegemea Lakini na taka kiku kwa nyumba Okufanya kila kitu Ambalo ni mamweo aikita Ambalo ni pitu na katika Nikiwa kachi kwa Generation nini piosai Kwebusiezi olewa Nika suma kwa Eti ni kumu kupata mwa nomi Wana ume Nini mwa na ume Na taka kufanya Nini ama muna taka kufanya Nini pamohia Bersi to switch roles If that is what you want Nika ipa njuma Nikiwa nikiwa kila kitu Tafte pesa Is that possible also? Sipo sipo Tuwangei mambuna mazomo Sisa mambuna mazomo, watu heka? Ya, gals, wana kosa wana ume wa kisha soma The main reason, according to this research, is that you guys want people who are like-minded with you Who are in the same level with education and thinking capacity with you Yat wakifika uko wana patakama wa shachu kulewa watu Man also reach there Fika kama, already they have people They have maybe a maza family to kama Most of you and I ended up to kisha fika ukunduna So maa e mazomo enough, let me look for a man Na ume na kosa Sasa, when we are looking at both sides of the coin Okay, there is that woman who is independent Sasa e ye, standards of course, di ko hivenuna sema So pia anangaliya Ya ni, main diya kiki ko so focused Unimaji na mazoma All that So dealing with someone who is reasoning the same way this person is reasoning Ina kwa Ina kwa shida Una pata maybe in terms of reasoning they are not reasoning the same So that's why you find this woman She has all the money and a drive There is a certain I think psychology person who was saying I won't quote He was saying that those women Una pata haizi pata monami me kwa sababu Nambawa maybe she's riding Mwenye we uta mo ona wa pika e su So me monami mwenye we metoka kibira una tembea U monami ke from wakurudi ni gari Ati yo nekana sangani I mean why do you try to be left to a senior kama Ukiwa ma be left wana pandisha ki Shhhhhh Exactly Then she'll complain she doesn't get a man Namba 2 is those people who are so beautiful Kaya su konam senamrembu kabisa uta katia U tan tukse ma e u dem nim su pusa una una E u nuna e standa za u dem se zifikiya Nami maybe atu ki try But they are funny enough Yeni wu wana ingiakwa Relationship haraka sana Kus wana ngojanga that one person to approach her But there is no that person Kus wana gopa uta ki denyo You know men you fear your rejection U uta ki kwa mdiwa You see I really felt for him Ati ya kuna shida Ami approach dem Aki jwa u demata kubali But dema me kubali So kwa kwa shida juya fani ni ni Like u dem Ami ingiakwa box na kwa natara Jale kwa naji ribu tulaku Sinipen nambayako Lafua kampen namba lafua kamin box Kwa je kani we go out Aka slide kwa yaw box Niko Nana na kama hizi standard ya u dema Hizi maintain Si sosa iku kujiwe kama Rem po sana pianimba Si u jwe katu kati kati So sosa uta je kajim kati kati kaisu Everyone wants to look good You want to look good You want to look good So you can put yourself down So that you can match with the status quo Yes But there are still women So kwa zapata dema nanda kikibera na gari Tu mono angapi Bakatu noliza we ya konani ni and you know what that personas So naja ni ni ni SARS So nani ni ni ni angapia Those things that we can't say So don't say that At i awo ma dem They usually ride there Kibera wo na talko Pata mtu baka mazare na gari Baka kwa chali Yes Can you, if maybe it's good in other things, nipesa na ilimuana, but it's good on other things, then you just attack it to sell me out. See, you can make a man out of him. You cannot make a man out of somebody, but he can make himself a man out of himself. Why is he molda kwe muna umenu na taka? Na he's a mold, lakini kama attackiku kwaivyo. Tanya mese ma attackiku. See, na zata katu, but nipile, ana pesa, ana education. You can provide this, umrudisha shule, umfungule biasyara, umpe tu do, umpe ganji, umpe tu like, muna huna hini 200,000. Eh, na, meneji this. Nuna heza? You're taking it from there. Niko na rafki angu. So, she works, but then a kuna umanaume mwenya fanyi kazi. And ana provide, ana provide ye umanaume kila kitu. Ana mtu miya pesa, nunu aini eka kwa nyumba, fanyi aivi. Aka umfungulya paka biasyara. Aka umombia na taka ufanyi ubiasyara. Emi yata streetaji kitusyoteku tokakwa kwaunono. So, the man, instead of doing all this, he takes the money, drinks, ana kuna upombia, nini nini, akuna kitu kwaunumba jano. In fact, he stays in 3000, nini, room. Only. Ion do the only room ana kwa. The rest of the money, Ijudika nini, enda api. So, the lady from ukwa me kuja, ana kujia one, like, mtu ame jenga, ame fanyi aiki kitu yamaana, ame fika there was nothing completely. Na jua. So, she was so disappointed. Yes, you tell me that I can mold this man. Is he ready to be molded? Ako tia ya riku kwa molded? If he is not ready, then you cannot move forward with this person. Tia na ona angali kama if he is ready. Anangali kama if he is not ready, like, anangali from the negative lens, kuwa wukimpea pesa atakuni. E angali kuwa wukimpea, labda yuata jenga. Sii negativiti pene wawanyi. Laki kaya sumi I believe ni personality. Na, if you love, love. Mold too. E aiki fika mahali aende ni sawa. Kus your conscience will always be clean. Kwa ulimsa idea? Mabia kapa tapesa, makafika plesenyalitaka na kainda. Uta feel wasted? No. If you are an empathist, you won't feel anything. Oh. Yes. So it depends on the personality. Uta feel. At least you made an impact kumisa idea. Uta feel. Kishampea pesa lafua aende. Kishampea pesa wumjenge wu move from one stage of life to another. Kamu luku nampenda. Lafua aende. Kamu luku nampenda. Yes. And then something like that happened. Of course, uta feel something like, honestly, to be honest, uta feel something like, well, I did a lot. I helped, like, wunajua. But it's okay. You did an impact. You helped him. Watcha aende. There's still more to come. So. Maybe mungu ali kwa natakaum. Maybe ali kwa desi hindu kwe, part of him. Do you have him ali flani? Yeah. Yeah, that's nice. Yeah. Now let's get to the question of the day. Wunajua, pele kwa date kibandaski? Yeah. Definitely, yes. Ukule gideri apona. Actually, that's, I can do that because I don't really, kibandaski ni kibandaski, to its food still. Kande abara-bara. Like, kutukande abara-bara. Aweke supia, maraguwe na chapo. Ukule tuwa po, yupoka besalafu, you call it a date. Like, ameku peleka, outfizuri. Well, there are those who wish to be taken to places like that and enjoy peleka. Oh! So, ni ki peleka ni tashkuru, like, well, amefanya bidi. At least, that's how we can show that he loves me. Yeah. Wunajua, sila zima ku peleka, kotelku, na ana uwezo, uwezo aki apondo na fika. Oh! Ko evo, aki ni peleka apo, ni tashkuru, ko sabu ame onisha effort, kuwa anani penda na anani shawpendo. Oh! Nice enough. Nice enough. Nambia desi. The same question. Kibandaski, it depends, nani taimgani, nani waapi. Ono na. So, kuna taimibu na ezapeleka, kibandaski, jumtu ameku darao, naja peyamtu ameza ku ameku darao. Yeah. Sintiyo. Nani mitu aki kupeleka, kibandaski, sababu ameza kupeleka, rau. I have not had no thought about that. Yes. Nani aki kupeleka, kibandaski, jumebe ame ko na unafayo, kibandaski. So, ina, dipempia na ule tshali, ame ku bebaaji, kibandaski na shida, but, uo tshali, india kupeleke, pale, ame ku bebaaji. Uun na tu ma darao, muha. Uun na muha. Una na ma darao. We have never developed a hope for you That she feels that his daughter is ill What's since been her in the 2 bedroom in incomplete and brought her to Prime skit and has even changed Can you just accept him the way he is? I can accept him the way he is but we'll have to change after some time No, these can't be easierقتo u evidence Ha kum venomitua na w Grammy man it и kwa utu hemun malini i kwa utu onions jituma tia uta u ki huva kso nita kwa lika kuogu tagu za ni 2 bed room na fuuki ni ali konki kuzya kwa ko nio single room choni inje soon ta kuna feel you feel the guilty kwa kuna make effort so una make effort una move kwa yun yoaza but kuna sabu wezehsya as hunger as to when you are starting if you can visit somebody You did somebody staying in, you know how Kibira houses look, have you ever gotten into one of those? Ya, ni sakafu ni soil tu, soil tu kama hi ya kutambe anje, lafuna zapata apu ondani piyani ibo tu. But your person working in, kwenye mkum na fanyam na wakna witu, like tiles inside deko. So you can use that position to improve life here, kwenye mkum jenga? Sashide ina kwa apa, umsa ide, alafu tena, ako epe, ibo wanyu tutu kuna sema. But now we need to be optimists, not pessimists. Ok, miha wudu in time. We need to be in that position to make clear that nothing wrong will happen. That is what we call optimism. Pesimism, nile una fikiri ya, e ne kifanyi nia we atafanyi. Si tu kuetu positi kwa na atau kimsa ide ya, na atau akwa chesi, be proud kwa you, but at least improve somebody's life. Ok, maybe some years back I would, but right now I can't. Can you explain why? Bikus main naka kwhatchangد Yama wu na kwa experience Sambu ni ku terina Maybe, weze jwa Yes, so maybe not But as I told you, it's about people It's not about the house you're living because ato wu nalia maybe ako kwa yıo single room nimtu ako na lot of potential So weze yi rika into wastage Uta katua po, mfu miliane, sawa, aki iske mo niya ataenda ni saveni tutu li kwa tunongia before But it's good for you, you'll feel okay Okay, you'll feel some pinch at some point, but your conscience will be clean Kus at the end of the day, u li pendu umtu, wuki enda kwa iyo single U kwa nganganana naiye, maybe fike maaliflani Na life ni stage Peni u li kwa some 5 years ago is not where you are right now There was a very positive story last year here in Kenya About this elite called Omanyala Did you hear it? Omanyala is now the fastest person in Africa His prints, 100 meters And Faith hosted his wife some time back here Faith is the lady who was hosting before we came here And Omanyala himself told the story Of how this lady used to give her money Faya kwa aki ana training Aki fanyanini Na pikiya food, na beba, na iyo training By then, waku juo Omanyala Anaza kwa je nai na juli kana apa Kenya But alim supportive also Omanyala when he was addressing the nation Said that, you see My girlfriend took care of me while I had nothing So it's her time to enjoy I will give her everything she needs Give her two days mako poa She came here and she was okay She says, I lack nothing now I am staying in a good house Katesi of my husband The person of my boyfriend I took care of him when he had nothing Now he is taking care of me See, unana hia ni sakses story Una aza fanya kitu kama hia Una aza fanya? Iyo kunyama aza kwa aza Kunyama aza kwa aza enama nisha tu kitu Generally, inside your heart, if you can do it So yes, na aza fanya Takini sesa, uno juo kwa gana disappointments tu Badu Ata hivu veneo Ako uno juo kukutu uka Uka skia tu, something happened Una juo, they are not anymore together But it's life This path is just not straight It has so many curves Uki acho, una kubali, una movon You can find another one still Um jenge, um build But then something else happened Na aza jenga wanga Desi kumanda on this kumanda Ya, omanyala Ok, meneza se ma Uo de miakali kwa patient That is a strong woman to begin with She is a very strong woman Ya, she came on a segment called Strength Over Woman Yes, she is a strong woman Because dealing with someone who has Maybe you are trying to build that man Is not a joke With the generation we have today Saitu na kwa mbe kwa Na mbe ata tukenda kwa yo situation to wezi Yes, maybe we can say at itunesia Say, diam tu afi kwa yo said Na mbe ahu wezi Baza sasi de na kwa character development Una tandi kwa visori Yes Ura dite na tukenda influence Deyana Kwa kusabapu yua sister Deet, thsam begulog cosimensik Kusabapu yua deskmate Friend be at the campus Deet, thsam begulog cosimensik So we we una reject wanaakis Isu wapa ans Question Uga mabuna pataron person Maenye labda kukoüt Marines is being abusive Aka na kupiga. Aka na gari, aka na Masidi Spence, aka na V8, bat na kupiga, ama na kwa abuse, ama na kwa embarrass mele jawatu. Sisi sasa wna wna wna ina ribwa waschan. Ya, I think in friends pay na ribwa waschan ako sababu. Wna takakufikiya standardia, yule wne mnye mnye mna tembe apama oza. Like my friends Anadet muntu akona gari Muntu akona nyumba kubwa Amejenga Akona kazi kofisi niloya So your standards are You are aiming your standards so high That you end up getting somebody When you may be ata kwa abuse Kwa sababu And then you may be ata kwa abuse And then you may be ata kwa abuse And then you may be ata kwa abuse And then you may be ata kwa abuse And then when you're hit So you will be ata kwa abuse And you will be ata kwa abuse And you will be ata kwa abuse The influence from others may be affect a lot in this generation Because you may be ata kwa abuse I will do that And then you will be hit So now this is the basics which is not good When you were a student leader You say what you did So then when their expenses go un official, so other girls also want to stick them up so they can talk them down. Influence is really hard in terms of friendship or social media. Ha kwa to nga kun pennise kwa na sponsorze welo are the sources of low- haltenovity who are doing well. Una pata mstiyana na jindald na a lot of bad things which is not a good thing She doesn't mind that kuna mini diseases kuna whatever So it's such a shame to see that especially in campas there is a lot, a lot, a lot You find yourself by the time umemaliza uli influenciwa na mebi uli drop out in the middle Jumebi uli pata ball, uli pata disease na sat So influence it is very high especially in campas kwa dofikeyo, your class So what you have na end up kubari bumayisha? Yes, yes To add on that there is someone I know a kukua relationship And then like the partner says we need to find someone else so that we can be like So how do you even start it? How do you even manage it? Una jua, and then you will need me damn Apu me bumili atu kwa po juhum tu akuna pesa na na kwa mbiya na iwi na iwi na nilazime kwa iwi Una jua, nilazime kwa upa kia apu kwa saba usasa umesha zoia your life And then we need to provide ya And to make matters worse uja You have nothing at all like you cannot even struggle Jumezoia kupewa atu kwa atu sasa una kubari Anything that the person says you are there Okay fine Nalabda una zapatam tu me niya kuchini Exactly But I am there, but he is good, he is decent So is him a standard peer na kwasi na aribu maisha zawatu Sizi na aribu, standard na depend Sasa, to say make amai yo ya campus Datu ani na spoil life ya monamke Lakin ni standardi enye monamke amegitaftia It's the best Yes Siya kupata Siya kupata kwa sponsor Ile enye ya me tamak, ame nga na shule Mibia kaka pataka job kapawa Datu ezi semati na mesha But ile unatafta kwa monami Especialli awa tu nona generationi tu sayi na sponsors That is where ladies get distracted And they miss their lives Let's discuss what we mostly see in Nigerian movies Especialli Nigerian movies Umependa jama na hana kitu Na ma paroa me kata Kwa wio, that's not person to bring in this family They do everything They can do everything to make sure Kwa me kuseparet na wio jama Aguna ezafa nyan I think after all my shaniyangu Wesh u gulika na ya Sipangu Sipangu Awa hako na leka Awa hako na sewa Mili kwa kwa rodingi After all my shaniyangu And then I think kama uyom tu Si Dragdila, si Uko tu decent ako sawa But the only thing is that Ana do Kama unampenda stick with the person Nasi, what parents The fifth testament says How many therefore Obey your father and mother Well, obey your father and mother I have obeyed them But this is a part of like My life I am already grown up I can make decisions I know right and wrong As long as uyom tu Ani peliki kwa The wrong way Then I stick with the person Because I love him Upendoni upendu tu Uta chusku disomei Parents upendu Uta wim jampenda Uko na parents Me have parents But I don't think parents Relationship yako But it's good to listen Una doa pia weni wame kwa na age Lazi ma uskize Argumentia uiko aji Argumentia most of the time Kwa to that guys kwa Ana kidu Ume onanini kwa kia I am a tribe And then most of the time They have options for you Even if they have options Onakwambia We have a friend in Limuru Very rich The son is in the University of Nairobi Taking law And we want to hook you with that man You know nothing about love We are the people who know you Since you were born So we know what's good for you So you are going to marry Hilary He is a good guy Achana na heecho korauna kuja naia I think you are niki tamu I think you are niki tamu I think it happens Okay it happens As she is saying Lini as in love is between The both of you It's between you and the guy So whichever factors are coming in Those are the third party Including your own parents Including your sisters Including your brothers Nambatum kipenda na Lazi ma kuna uiyom tu hataiku penda Atawa zazo kupenda kuna So what really matters Is the love between you and him Aia ta pasaviya iyo presya Uo ta pasaviya iyo presya ma pero But mkisha penda na Akuna atawa zazo eniwa Ezi wa separe You wanted to say something Nijamboli na tokiya kwa Mdm Refu waka tiku Sababu Tuki angaliya kati kwa Upenden na tokiya Elini nijamboli na tokiya Kwa na sana Upendewa momba sana Una pata kwa Umemali za shule Uza zwa misha kutaftiya mtu Uza sa Elini nilazi ma umkubali yule mtu Sababu wame kutaftiya Onakanda unimtunzuri So angaliya standard Nasa wengine Wana summation na awatwao Uza zia na kwa mbiya unimtunzuri Na unimtu na take responsibility Mpaka ananda kusomensha Ananda kutua pesa So kimali za shule Una pata wukonamtu tiari Nani mkuba Ulazimu umkubali tu Sababu wana semasi tu Shaku lape sayake Amisha kusomensha Uzo vitu zengine Sia traki kujo Ulazimu umkubali yule Uza sa ina end up unakonamtu ronk Mwenye ato wuko umjui Lafduhwigi amali Nani mkuba Nani ina end up unikitu Nani na tendeeka Ulaza ina tendeeka Sia na ato roka Is there anything you can do about it now that you educated Mini, kぎu miiónumatika ata gugo It is very important The authority to say no So you have the power to say no tak constructora, talpana, ya ampak columns. Ha trouble. Yu umota. I combined. I put abolition P crispy bar with unfinished issues. 1 2011 we went back home. Good lesson Let's come back to standards looks looku Does it matter how he looks like when he approaches you Do you care how he looks? Yes Like when he is a standard he looks like an IVV Me to me, looku looku ni muimu Looku looku ni muimu Like come on to me kwa approach na kuna looks na kwa chip utakata Eh eh Looku looku may think it's important kwa sababu skwezi kaisu it's about how you present yourself unona sasa untua kiki kuja enyok semukweli anuku valia vengine So unona Eh e unona uta uta skia panna Nasi labda ali kwa Amanda Shamba Shamba Amanda Shamba Amanda sasa siyo sa ali juwam na kuja kumitum date Akuna tuvi lunaz labda mambe I want you to change your wardrobe I want you to be this way We unam reject tukwa kukwona kumona maraya pwanza tuwati bilia na luku Apana sija se maivo Nimesema luku luku ina depend Una dropi unezadunga ngozam tush na zikosawa Eh Uno juwa wajne wakuna Pesa vizuri sana ata labdas kini na IVV expensive Sindu yo sasa But you girls look at like outside Dio Facebook utuia yo jajuja maa kupua nemukubali ama this guy is poor Luku luku me I think it's something that someone should look nice Lasmukwaka e poor dunge kakuloni vizuri Nini unona Yes You are comment about looks I think looks matter Kusababu Tuna Tuna zakotu kupa moza Na Sasa rimi nimekuja nimewa pavizuri Ui sasa umekuja umere Umewa viatu zi koko yebo ebo So we are walking together It's just It's not It's not Looks matter In this generation watu anaji present Ya Pasu anadi like wene una dress Nini ibo Uizi kuja tu For example you are coming in the office And then una kuja meva Slippers Juna But she looks matter That's why you are dressing up well Because it looks matter But it's not easy for men Especially most men Like our How generally how they look A man can repeat Longi Ata marata Jali And they say man can bathe even twice a week Una una kama iyo sishi I don't know whether you can help raise The standard of a man When it comes to looks Me I will As we say it looks matters So if I see you are not meeting the looks That I want Lazi matu ngangane tu moldiane mpaka Ufike iyo standard Kamani jeans Nebi tununu e zingine Kamani I love tununu e fresh Una zakuja tunana Some sweet case usama Izin e jeans nime punatia Yes So please go in fwad Yes Yes I mean we are in this together We've met even women who don't know how to cook And onafunzo na Na chali kupika So it's a two way thing Kus nime ya mua kuful in love na wewe Nana una ujikuva Nene nana unua na kuhu Pole pole pole Misiji mebi kupika una nifunza na jokupika Ivo evo munaundana Kuna zaba delisha looks usake Ya definetri na eza kusababu Mua na muke Nikiungu kikuwa sana kumunaume Kwa evo kama mimi nita Sima ma na e Ataka ma di kwa na vavipi Nita msa idia Ila eza kui ma rika kazaidi Tuna eza tukatafu Nika mamia e una jua Vilomeva Siyoni Ataka ma Sila zi mua mua mbi e Directly Una eza umlete tisha Una umlete atrausa Kwa ke ata una niupendo Laki ni kwa ko una ujikuva una mba delisha Una jua Kwa ke niupendo Kwa ko una jua tiniu na fanya Una jua nambadisha Kusababu kuna una mwangi na nukianza kumambia E mi spendi viniu na vizovia atu Mi spendi viniu na jua Ana una nika ma una nza kumdarau Kwa evo una pomlete aki atu Una mamia nimi piltia zawadi Ako upendo Aki na una jua kwa una mtu Una mba delisha Now give me your closing remark here By talking to a lady Who is focused on getting Her rich educated person She is not stopping To anything but that Anata kum to reach her to educated Umiana e Okay Kama kuna wanaumke Anata kwa wanaum me Amba e ni rich educated Wapo Lakini Sida ni kama education Na richness matters in life The only thing that matters is The attitude, the behavior What is the man taking you as Una jua una zapa tamu Anba e ako na richness All the richness But anaku treat viba Ina kwa domestic violence every day So richness and education For me, I think the ladies Outside there doesn't matter But as you're choosing your partner Una fahu kuna jua kwa Uu ni mtuntakana e Pamuoja Kwa iwi ata kama kuna elimu Ako na pesa Lakini anaku treat vipi Anaku beba vipi Anaku tunza Anaku eshimu Basi au fahu kuna wanaum me kama unu kwa iwi Richness and education It doesn't really matter in relationship Okay, thank you Talk to girls, talk to girls please Okay, may I say to all the girls out there You should know yourself That is the first thing Before even meeting that rich woman Before, sorry rich man Before meeting that educated man I'd say just know yourself And know what you want Because if you know what you want Either kwa rich, kwa pwa Kwa na gari, kwa kwa na gari You will know what you especially know You will know how to love him If you know how to love yourself Iso vitu zingine zi takuja kama una jijua Because kama una jijua You won't allow such things to happen Yes, that is all I can say As I summarize These girls have told us here That standards are okay You know your class and all that But don't get into a pitch Just because of them And you can make a man You can make a man Out of nothing So, mipia nanguja mtu Tuakuja ni make Yes It's nice, you are coming back With Faith Mutsuli to kill it