 في صورة الإسراء الله سبحانه وتعالى يتحدث عن شيء مختلف يتحدث عن how we shouldn't be unkind to our parents He has decreed that we will be kind to our parents Let's listen to the verse وقضى ربك أن لا تعبدوا إلا إياه بالوالدين إحسانا الله has declared that none shall be worshipped besides Him and that you shall be kind to your parents He has written and declared kindness to parents إما يبنغن عندك الكبرة أحدهما أو كلاهما فلا تقول لهما أف ولا تنهرهما وقول لهما قولا كريما إذا كانوا أحدهم أو أولئهم كانوا يأخذون الأمر في حياتك إذا كانوا يأخذون الأمر في حياتك إذا كانوا يأخذون الأمر في حياتك يجب أن تعرف شيء ثلاثة ثلاثة الأول is لا تقول لهما أف لا تنهر to them hurtful words مثل أف That is an Arabic term referring to the sounds we make from our mouths that express dissatisfaction in a way that is insulting You know you say Some people would do that perhaps In the Arabic language the term أف is used You don't say أف to your parents You don't use hurtful words That goes back to kindness We're not talking here of obedience We're talking of kindness There is a big difference like I've said But part of kindness is to obey in what is reasonable So لا تقول لهما أف number one ولا تنهرهما Don't rebuke them Don't reply to them in an insulting way Don't rebuke them وقول لهما قولا كريمة The third thing When you say anything Use the best words to address them May Allah forgive us for the shortcomings I'm sitting here thinking How many times I might have unknowingly Said things to my own parents Without thinking That you know this might not be the best way I could have worded what I want to say Allah says قولا كريمة You need to say If you want the mercy of Allah Those parents of yours Even when you disagree with them Disagree with the most beautiful words And when you are saying Anything to them Say it with beautiful words كريمة Words that are filled with honour With dignity And the fourth thing وقفض لهما جناح الضل من الرحمة Lower the wing of mercy The shade of mercy جناح الضل من الرحمة Humility Humbleness And mercy They should feel from you وقل رب رحمهما كما رب ياني صغيرا Say Oh my Lord Oh my Lord Have mercy on them Because they brought me up When I was young Oh Allah Have mercy on them Because they brought me up When I was little Amazing رب يرحمهما كما رب ياني صغيرا Oh Allah Both of them They brought me up When I was little Have mercy on them It is important to make dua For our parents رب يرحمهما كما رب ياني صغيرا This supplication is definitely From revelation It is divine Allah is instructing man to say You know Say Call out to Allah Say رب يرحمهما كما رب ياني صغيرا May Allah Subhanahu Wa'Ta'ala make us From those who understand These beautiful supplications Towards our parents For the benefit of our parents