 My partner bought some beautiful black lingerie. She told me that she only took a trial in it But when I went to check it in her drawer I feel that it has possibly been used because I have seen some white discharge stains on the thong Is this a sign of cheating or is it possible that during the trial the thong got stuck in her vagina? And so there is a discharge stain. Should I get a DNA test done to see if the stain is of her or someone else? You know, I want to start this particular one by saying that you cannot build a relationship on this much distrust It just will not have a future. But to answer the points that you've brought up First of all, going into your partner's drawers and inspecting her panties for discharge is not just not normal It's beyond not normal. Considering the size of a thong, how tiny it is How much you would have had to scrutinize it to find that little tiny bit of discharge It's really not okay. Second, you bring up DNA testing You know, DNA testing is not like going to buy toothpaste There isn't a shop where you can just take your girlfriend's panties and say, here test this for DNA And also, I'm not sure that you understand how DNA testing works Basically, it won't tell you how she got the discharge, when she got it, who she was with It'll just tell you that the discharge is hers But if your main objection is that you suspect that this discharge is mixed with some other guys' fluids who she happened to be with I want to point out over here that when a woman has been with someone Afterwards, she's not going to take off her panties and then put them back in the drawer She will first wash them. When women wear panties, even if it's just for half an hour, we wash them You know, the only advice that I can give you for this question is that you need to develop some kind of maturity towards your relationships I understand that everybody feels insecurity, but you need to understand how to control some of those insecurities Because, truly, you cannot bring this attitude to a partner and then expect that the relationship will flourish