 Hi, she said that I'm back Okay, so a friend sent me an email. Actually she sent me a message in Facebook with a Video and it was of a man speaking about a lot of the things that I speak about and this is a man His name is Jordan Peterson. I think I think he's Canadian and he talks about how Men these days have you know, don't have responsibility or purpose Which is why they're not very successful or ambitious Because they don't have purpose and they're using being useless as the new counterculture now if you don't know what that means it means they're rebelling against Responsibility and purpose by being lazy and playing video games and being broke That's how I'm gonna interpret it. Okay and You know a lot of the reason for that is because they don't have a good example of what a man's purpose is when they're growing up They have been taught that You know You don't have to do this this and that They've been taught that gender roles are not important but the thing is Females he said that females women are actually doing more As far as they're they're earning more they have more ambition You know, they have more degrees Because they have a purpose and they know their roles. Okay, they're very clear on their roles They don't argue with their roles versus men, you know, if they don't like something they're not gonna comply with it He says that females women are more agreeable With certain things. Okay. Well, men if they don't agree with it, they're not gonna go and do it Okay, they're gonna find another way or make it excuse, but women see, you know, okay, this works So I'm gonna go forward with it a man might see something. Oh, well that might work But I don't want to do that, you know a Woman will go and do it to get to step one step to and then she'll go and do a her own thing Okay, then they're like, I don't want to do it period I'm just gonna sit here make my minimum wage pay play my video game and live in my mom's basement Because I can okay women are like, oh my gosh, I Gotta get cute. I gotta meet this man. I gotta have some kids. I gotta get married I gotta get a career. I got to finish school. I get it Do this to send that they have a list they know what they want They are already working on it meant they have no clue what they want They fear responsibility Because they don't know what they want and they don't have a goal or ambition in life. So they fear Responsibility, okay, if y'all want to watch this video. I'm gonna link it below. His name is Jordan Peterson And so he does lectures and he says that 80% of the people that come to his lectures are men and he's sitting there talking about me and like What is your purpose? Why don't you want responsibility? If you had responsibility you would gain ambition if you gained ambition you would get more success So even though the guys are rebelling against responsibility Secretly deep down inside they want purpose. They want responsibility. Okay, they want all these things and Having these things make them More successful. So if you're trying to figure out How to become more successful as a man, you need purpose you need ambition you need a goal Okay, if you don't have a purpose or goal Make one up reach it and then figure out what you want to do next, okay? Fake it till you make it. Okay, if you don't know what you want to do create something that you want to do or Pick something and then go for that and then I'm pretty sure by the time You are most reaching that goal or you reach that goal You will know what you want to do because sometimes it takes doing something you don't want to do To figure out what you actually want to do, okay? I went to school and I did this and I did that and You know It passed the time I got degrees. I got paid. I worked. I got cars I did this I got married above of law. I met a man to carry me all those things Led up to the point where I'm at now, you know, and I'm doing exactly what I want to be doing in life Right now because I didn't wait for this to come to me 20 years ago. I started making small goals small purposes Walking towards them doing what I needed to do to get to them, you know And eventually my true purpose or the purpose that I'm at at this time of my life Was going to come. Okay. I wasn't gonna wait on it. I was gonna do other things Until I figured it out. Okay, sometimes you have to know what you don't want before you know what you do want Which is why trying things creating things Making a purpose making up a purpose having a fake purpose is very important. Okay? If you just don't do anything, you'll never find your purpose period, you know You have to keep looking keep looking, you know, if you don't keep looking you will never find it Never, you know, if you don't even start looking, how will you find it? Everything that I've done up to this point has led me to exactly where I am today, you know With all the information all the knowledge all the advice all the science all the alchemy all the everything Okay, okay. I started off as a mortician Learned a lot in that School a lot. They don't just teach you embalming. They teach you spirituality. They teach you ancient religion. They teach you theology. They teach you Folklore they teach you mythology they teach you science they teach you Forensics they teach you how to pay attention to detail how to Do a lot of they teach you anatomy. I mean they teach you so much, okay? Knowing all of that stuff is very easy To do other things with okay, so it's almost like a ladder You're stepping up and up and up until you get to the top and that is your purpose, okay? Being a mortician was not my purpose but I did it and I followed through on it and I finished and guess what I no longer do it, but it got me through the next place in my life, okay? So men if you're worried about failing Women fail all the time, but we get up and keep going, okay? We don't care our ego is not like y'all We don't care. We'll fail and get up. We'll have kids fail get up and start again We can do that because we don't care, you know, we know our purpose so if y'all could just figure out your purpose and You know figure out what you want Then your ambition will come then your success will come then you will want responsibility That's true. Okay, so this guy is really good My friend her name starts with a D. I don't know if she wants me to say her name or not But she sent me this video and I think if you guys watch it men if you guys watch it You can really benefit from it. Like I'm not bashing y'all I'm just telling y'all, you know why certain women have drive ambition success Even though they're looking around five kids They found a way to go to school at night work during the day Do abcnd and still make it why because we have purpose and we know what we want That's what's missing from a lot of guys these days. They don't know what they want They're afraid of responsibility because they don't have a purpose Okay, start thinking now what you want If you don't have a purpose create a purpose, okay Well, how do I create a purpose? Okay. Well, how can you help people? What do you know? What can you do? What service can you provide? You know, what are you good at? Start doing that, you know Can you design websites? Can you design? Photoshop things can you design banners for people? Um, just start off small People are soon going to be like, oh my god. That's a graphic artist. You're a graphic artist Can you design my uh youtube channel art of how you $50, you know before you know it you're a business Make a purpose make one like seriously Make one pull one out your butt Make it. Okay. I'm I'm serious You don't know how many ideas that I just made up on the spot just like bam and made money. Why? Because I can't I'm not afraid. I'm not afraid of purpose. I'm not afraid of success I'm not afraid of responsibility You know I'm not I was always Understanding What my purpose was and what I wanted and I didn't stray from it I didn't Run away from it. I didn't hide from it. I didn't play video games in my mom's basement Wasting my life I didn't settle for minimum wage job. I didn't do any of that. I said Let me go get this. Okay. Now. I know a lot of y'all are gonna say Oh, were you just married a man for his money? I did a lot of stuff before that and I'm doing a lot of stuff after that Okay, y'all just don't know. I don't tell y'all everything. Okay Believe me. I inspire my husband. Why because of who I am and what I can do Y'all don't know what I do. I don't give y'all the all the details Okay, um Um, but I'll just say this I have purpose I have responsibilities And I reach many many goals Okay, uh, I'm accomplished established And I I can also help other people get there. That's that's you know, that's as much as I want to tell you But I feel like If men were not afraid to fail They would be better off right now Okay, like people are gonna laugh at you. Anyway, if you're broke living in your mom's house Let them laugh at you failing and trying and getting up and keep trying again Instead, okay, because one day you're gonna make it You know, you can't make it no worse sitting there playing video games. All right, so I'll see y'all later. Bye