 time for another Magnus answers I got a letter my inbox from brother's been subscribed for a little bit and he it was kind of funny because he wrote me he said all right make a long story short and then the letter ended up being like four or five paragraphs but you know he put it out all out on the table what was going on all right so here's his predicament I'm gonna paraphrase I gonna read it like I normally will because it was long you know so he told me basically that he was just dumped okay he was just jumped recently within the last year by his the woman of his life the woman of his dreams he said normally he's been the one to to let a person go but this time she let him go and he said he admitted that he was in player mode maybe he was in player mode but at the same time he was in player mode he realized that he was with the woman of his dreams so you know one point she just let him go and I said the last time he saw her was on her birthday so I guess she agreed to meet him or whatever and he had engagement ring chocolates flowers the whole thing he even wrote her a letter putting all the cards out on the table and she basically gave him the you know the whole I don't give a fuck look like you don't fucked up that's it cuz you know and it's really bothering him you know he's kind of starting to get over but he's still a little bit angry or frustrated but what his main question was he said is wiping the slate clean truly possible and is he caught up is he hung up on her in an unhealthy way or could he eventually get her back he said that the separation from her enabled him to realize what he was doing wrong and to eventually become the man that he wanted to be okay which I believe is very important there's a saying that you know in life it's not important what you get it's what's most important is who you become in your journey you know I'm saying so without being long-winded y'all now y'all know his story okay now from from what I'm thinking all right to help you out brother the most first of all if you do not know EFT emotional freedom transfer I suggest you learn it as soon as possible Gary Craig has a website okay I think it's actually called Gary Craig calm but if you look him up you'll see his website look up EFT on YouTube there's tons of videos on how to do it it reduces stress gets rid of bad feelings because here's the problem I heard you talking about how the universe keeps bringing her name back up in the universe it feels like it's telling me I need to be with her sounds like you know about the law of attraction how the law of attraction works so for a lot of Madden sites that don't know basically a lot of times the universe or energy around you things around will you will give you hands as to what you need to do you know so I can't even think of a example right now but sometimes if you're thinking about someone a lot you know other people that you run into may mention this person or you may you know see this person at the store the next day you know it's like damn I was just thinking about you yesterday you know certain things kind of start to line up so that you can create a situation that's beneficial for you you know I mean you need a new job all sudden your friends is like yeah you know they hiring at my job or you know such-and-such is hiring or you dry your reading the paper and you know and you just read about a new company open and looking for new people you know I mean you just start to see certain things happen but anyway so what I would just say is you know one of the keys to the law of attraction is you have to feel good all the time and you have to feel good about what you want so if you don't want this woman back if when you think about her you feel bad you feel depressed like you're never gonna get her back you are never going to get her back because as it goes what you really really really don't want you're gonna get when you're really fearful of something when you're really scared of something a lot of times it happens you see a person get a plate of food and they go in the table so watch me fucking spill this shit they end up spilling because they created that situation they told themselves they were gonna spill it so they did it's the same thing verbally as mentally so if you mentally feel bad about not getting back with her you say I ain't gonna get back with her I want to I ain't gonna get back with her you got what I'm saying so when you do EFT about your problem you can dissipate get rid of these negative feelings okay about not getting back with her so then when you think about getting with her you don't feel bad anymore you can start to replace those bad feelings with the good feelings you think about her you know accepting your apology you know me of her saying okay I'll give you one more chance you think about these things and you feel happy that's what's gonna help you got what I'm saying so learn EFT as soon as possible okay now that's gonna help with the feelings part now I mean you fucked up but you said that she she played her part she she ain't innocent she ain't no angel right now I'm assuming she didn't cheat on you but maybe she's done things in a relationship they're questionable or hurt your feelings or may have driven you to do what you did we have to let that go because you're the one that wants her back and if she truly is perfect another thing too if breaking up with her caused you to become the person that you always needed to be she possibly is a stepping stone to a greater woman okay keep that in mind I read a saying the other day that says it basically the paraphrase is it said you know when you find that one person your true love it'll make you realize why all those others never worked out because all of us have been in those relationships we were like that's the one right there that's the one thing you're like they break your heart and like what the fuck I know I know she's that one I know but maybe she's not sometimes you know the gut is wrong if you're clever your mind is clouded you got what I'm saying so but so who you are right now could be the person that you need to be in order to attract this new person that you need in your life that is going to eclipse her which is totally possible trust me on this now but if you are totally stuck on her if you can get rid of these bad feelings it kind of start to you know get back in contact with her let her know that you have truly changed kind of wear her down persistence wears down resistance if you can do this and keep this goal in mind and things start to roll forward see because here's the thing in a relationship when you're using the law of attraction one or two things can happen either you're gonna totally break apart or you're both gonna become better because you me and Sarah were having problems at one point and what happened was everything everything was going well in my life using the law of attraction and maybe I'll do more videos on this but everything was going well more money auditions IMTA my health my body everything except for the relationship and one day when we were about to break it off I figured it out I said you know what we felt good about everything else moving forward except our relationship we kept doubting our relationship we kept having bad feelings about our relationship and that's the problem you have to want it to work out you have to feel inside that it's gonna work out because if you don't feel it's gonna work out you're gonna counteract what you really want you got what I'm saying if you want to get a job you want to get a job but you're worried you're not gonna get the job you're not gonna get the job that's the problem your positive feelings have to outweigh the negative then you can have a little bit of negative but it has to totally outweigh you you get what you think about most of the time all right that's the big secret okay if you're a pessimistic person usually your life sucks truly your life sucks and you get all the reasons why your life sucks you always got people treating you bad you always got money problems you only got these other situations when life is great life is going great you got money you know you just got a lot of friends you get compliments from people you got a good job it shows you that your life is great it's all in your perspective you got what I'm saying and your perspective is really your reality it shapes it it's true now I mean it's it's just really true so if you want her to truly be yours you are going to first of all I I were you man I had a drop man I've been at her job or at her house played and pleading crying dropped my knees if she truly is the one I'm serious I would have because the one they don't come around too often and from what I've read out you know I'm not really into this but I gotta tell you all my soulmate story one day but from what I've read about soulmates I've heard that you can have several but it's usually one that's the one but you can have several that you can truly marry and have a perfect relationship with but there's usually one that's on top of everybody else so if she is this one then you need to work your ass off to get her back you need to swell all your pride bake and plead everything or at least be persistent stay in her life send her text messages send her flowers from time to time invite her places you know all that stuff you need to do persistence wears down resistance grind her down to the bone okay until you feel it's totally but you got to totally feel it's gonna work out and if she finally tells you just stay out of my life fuck you I don't want to deal with you fine you are the man you need to be now you can find a woman that matches your vibration got what I'm saying all right I hope this help I know it was long-winded but I saw where you were going with it I kind of see what you're thinking is I know I got a little esoteric and little you know deep but you know for those of y'all my magnet sights that are deep you know y'all understand what I'm talking about if you don't understand that's fine because I'm like I said I'll probably do some more videos on this shit because it's helped me in my life and that's the reason why I keep going forward and it ain't stopping it ain't gonna never stop talk to you later