 This is Mike with the 21 report behind the scenes in Orlando, Florida for the 21 convention 2017 10-year anniversary event I'm sitting alongside Eric Vaughn Sido Eric welcome to the show It's great having you here Eric So I've got a bunch of questions that I'd like to go into but before we do that I was wondering if you could give us a brief overview of your talk and why you wanted to talk about it Well, I consider myself more like a men's lifestyle specialist and I concentrate on confidence Alternative relationships that means more than one woman at a time really manning up more than masculine and sexuality so I kind of took all those and blended them together and into a Speech that I think the guys could utilize and I watched the guys when I was here I just wanted to really kind of caught pinging to see where they're at What do they need and to me it was just they just need a little bit of that reinforcement that now's the time go out there and get it and step into it because obviously with the events that happen today in Vegas life's short and To really Understand that you get and you're here for a reason and if you're not gonna live it then You're doing yourself and I'd say the creator or however you want to say that a disservice So you mentioned the word the word confidence that gets you know thrown around a lot What are the key elements to becoming confident? I think the main element to confidence is Believing that what you decide in your mind what you say you're gonna do you do it So it's the confidence in knowing that you can do Whatever it is that you say you're gonna do or do and the more you do it the more consistent it comes in the greater strength You have in your own abilities to do whatever it is. You want to do it or create and that goes in anything business dating Making money creativity So how did you first get involved in this whole community and you know lifestyle? Making men's lives better. Well the community They got integrated with us. Okay, so we were actually Myself in about five of the guys were the original guys that got together that really started talking about this in a group Brainstorming figuring out what was working. We were committed to the cause of getting better with women learning about confidence and from there David the David DeAngelo or Evan Pagan, you know master marketer Said I have an idea. Let's bring this to a bigger table Started doing his double your dating seminars and then from there went on a couple years More and more people started getting interested than the book the game came out And so the community started to form more and more and more and now we're probably on the I don't know the second generation of this community and And it's just expanding from there So what was the the main reason why you initially started that kind of meet up group of guys to get better with women? You know like what we all have the same thing We all were pretty shitty with women and there was nothing at that point in time It was like the internet was brand new there was nothing out there that really said here's how you get better with women I personally didn't have any one in my life that I could look at and go that guy was amazing with women There was nobody so I went on a journey to find those guys That were I would consider that's the model. That's the archetype that that fits me that I want to be So that I can be like this is who I feel like I am with my masculinity With the lifestyle that I want to live and from there like I said it was slim pickings But over the course of now 25 years, I synthesized enough Different man that I've seen that I now Completely have my own basis of who I am and now it's all about spreading it and sharing it and you know I've been doing that for you know almost 20 something years, but really understanding it for the last 10 years So in your speech you mentioned something About you know saving Western civilization and saving masculinity. What in your opinion is the biggest threat to masculinity? I think the biggest threat to masculinity is the fear of the masculine But also the feminine side of it that the extreme I call them feminizes the feminizes not really understanding How men have already supported them along the way in Western civilization I mean we're one of the only civilizations that really support women's rights on this and so what are you protesting like? You know men strong men They don't give a shit if you if you want to go out there and be whoever you want to be you have your rights You have everything and so men need to be and come from a confident state where they're not angry They just like it's a bigger spectrum. That's that's opening up You know you have every right to be who you want to be you who you want to be who you want to be The masculine men that are confident with who they are and what they are They don't really care as long as you don't start treading on their their way of being because a lot of feminists don't appreciate or even like what I do Because I'm with multiple women They're the elders when so gymnastic it's this it's that no, it's a choice Like everyone it's just a choice everyone has their own Lifestyle that they want to create and if everyone's upfront and honest which I completely that is a must in my reality Everyone's there. There are no victims Everyone gets to do what they want to do and in Western civilization You have that right to do that as long as you don't hurt other people and that's the main thing is you know the masculine that they're starting to push a little bit they they're you know becoming a little bit more fascist and You know masculinity true masculinity. It's not gonna put up with it. It's gonna be like look You know, it's it's your it's a form of repression so real masculinities doesn't get upset it just becomes stronger and more solid and has a better philosophy so that truth really upholds itself it because truth and Freedom and things like this are gonna become stronger than anyone's philosophy who tries to repress or to shame or to blame so talk to me about mindset the Self-talk that goes on if you had to kind of paint a picture inside your head what your self-talk is like and How what you want other men's Self-talk and mindset to be like how what does that mindset look like? well, what when I first started the mindset was the Continuation of the the thought process or the inner workings of who I was was very negative very critical of myself And so as time went on I learned through NLP hypnosis That's why I'm good at the brain sciences to to change to upgrade to add new resources to my thinking process and now inside my mind it's all about potential and That's what I really want to inspire another man because when you get to the point when It's working and that's what I was saying yesterday in my speech like I'm at the point now where I'd rather go out with friends Help them in the conversation even with a beautiful woman help them get laid Because that's the abundance because I've already lived that lifestyle So if I can infuse that mindset into them where they see the abundance where they have so much that they've satisfied that Rareness that most men don't satisfy as far as the sexuality part saying okay I got it This is where my fine balance is and then share it if I can infuse that in their mindset So they have those experiences where they get to the point where they're completely fulfilled then I've done good So Eric, this was your first time speaking at the 21 convention I'd like to ask how has your experience been so far. I've done a lot of speaking everywhere I was a professional hypnotist comedy for three years. So I know breakdown. I know setup I know how it is to run seminars and I've done it over the years and This is one of the most professional setups that I've seen Anthony was definitely on point He had you know the speakers taking care of he had the attendance take care He was on point with his timing it was smooth It was it was a great experience and and the quality of speakers were great and the quality of men that were there That was I think the first thing that I said when I came on there is looking at you guys. You guys are a higher Grade of men that are here, which is nice to see because a few years ago after the game came out It was really loose and in the quality of men and the way that the The philosophy was after the game got really twisted and now it's coming back to these very solid teachers that have been around worth their weight in gold and Now it's really starting to show because they don't have to weed and work there and sift their way through all these Wannabes that used to be there now. These are the key players. This is the best information to get so it's going to Accelerate your learning and so this this conference has been great You know kudos to Anthony for doing a great job. Yeah, I mean even this right here. You don't have that Yeah, I know Anthony's been very happy to have you here So before we wrap this up Eric if people want to learn more about you more about your work You're coaching. Where's the best place they can go? Depends on what level you come at if you want a lot of my free information I do it it's called ask hypnotic on YouTube if you just go to YouTube and put an ask hypnotic You'll come upon my station, which is just hypnotic if you have questions you want to ask I'm extremely busy But if you have questions, I'll sift through them and I usually give about 15 20 minutes per question Hammer it with a you know, I like to install a lot of humor. I think that's useful So that's if you're looking at just the free stuff of what I'm about my personality go to YouTube if you're looking for more of the professional stuff and which I specialize in confidence and Programming your mind for success and do a lot of hypnosis a lot of exercises to build your neurology up That's hypnotic.org and I would just say stick between those two and Facebook. I have a great Facebook group called hypnotic of the master circle. It's got a thousand guys of high quality guys Very helpful if you have questions Where you're just a little lost or you're you're just a badass dude and you want to help and Extend yourself great group. So I'd say those three awesome So with that you can watch Eric's talk first on 21 University comm all by clicking the link underneath this video Eric Thank you once again for taking the time to be here. This has been Mike with Eric Vaughan side. Oh Signing off for the 21 report