 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder of commitment connection calm and today We have a question from a woman in our community, and she's asking is he falling in love with me? How do I know? So a lot of men don't like to admit when they're falling in love with a woman For a variety of reasons one being that you know if he's listened to much Dating advice out there. He's probably been told that he shouldn't show that he's falling in love with you Just like you know, there's a lot of crazy dating advice in the women's side There's a lot of crazy dating advice in the men's side So let's talk about the different signs of a guy who's falling in love with you The first sign that I have is that he will initiate contact with you so a lot of times If a guy is falling in love with you, he's probably going to be thinking about you a lot and You know, so there's a there's a good chance that he Will contact you like send you a text message or something Just out of the blue talking about maybe nothing And that's a good sign that he's falling in love again You know like I said before there's a lot of dating advice That's like don't you know don't text don't you know send messages, you know and What not but you know, there's a good chance So if he's falling in love with you that he's he's Contacting you if he's you know if there is resistance there might be but he might still be doing it And if he does that's a good sign The second sign is that he's expresses his love to you even without saying it so There's several different ways that a man can express his love to you And it might not look like what you would think it would look like so a lot of women think oh Well, if he loved me he'd want to spend more time with me. Well, that's not Necessarily the way that every guy Expresses their love. There's you know, there's a book out there called the five love languages And it talks about you know, five different ways that people kind of give and receive love and one of them is Physical touch so a lot of guys will want to touch you, you know a lot of there's another one that's It's receiving gifts But if a guy gives you gifts that might be his way of expressing love to you It could be that he wants to spend time with you it you know, it could be that he wants to compliment you and and You know tell you sweet things all the time. It just it really depends on the guy And it depends on the other one is is you know service He might be he might try to do things for you a lot So it really depends on what his way of expressing love is and so it it kind of depends on the guy The third sign that I have here for you is that he tries to protect you Defend you or take your side And so this is a natural thing that a lot of guys will do when they're falling in love with a woman Is that they will try to protect that woman? They'll try to get between that woman and Whatever kind of thing that he feels is some kind of a threat. He might defend you Towards his friends or he might You know defend you take your side in an argument Even if he doesn't agree with your side So that's another sign The fourth one that we have here is that he wants to meet He wants you to meet his friends and family and you know this may or may not be true depending on how You know how he feels about his friends and his family and he may also want to meet your friends and family Which is another good sign. That's kind of in the same realm as this one It kind of depends though again Like I said on on how he feels some some guys are embarrassed to their family or they don't like their family Or whatever and so if that's the case He might not he might like you so much that he tries to avoid You meeting his crazy family and friends But the likelihood is that he's gonna try to get you to meet him and he's gonna try to meet yours and so the fifth one is that he hints at a future with you or Deliberately talks about some type of future with you and spending time with you or doing something with you in the future So that's it for this video if you want information on what is Stopping you from attracting mr. Right into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you go to my website at commitment connection comm I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon