 Aurelius, he's my my two-year-old. I'm like I want to be more present with him So him and I would play with cars or something like that, right? And then he'd go off and then start playing by himself and I'm like oh, he's by himself I'll just get on my phone and do some work and I said to myself, you know what? I'm just gonna be really present at the very least I'm just gonna look at him and observe him and watch him and be and you know what I noticed and this broke my heart when I noticed this I'm watching him. So I'm not on my phone. He's over there playing by himself every once in a while He turns up to look and see if I'm watching him. Yeah, and I realized holy shit I wonder how many times he did that to me and he looked and I was on my phone Did you really? They just want to know you're watching. It's really all it is Even if it's just for a second and then they see you on the phone It has to affect part of their psyche a little bit. Oh, a hundred percent I don't want him to see me sucked into that But I think it's so important that when there's play time and you're right there and you're interacting that he Doesn't see you like that. I mean we were talking about it in Jessica and Aureli You know what? You can't become a better parent without becoming a better person