 Why Will Smith slapped Chris Rock at the Oscars? When I saw the video I thought it was fake. I thought it was a publicity stunt. Because if you look at the video frame by frame you never actually see Will Smith's hand touch Chris Rock's face. You only see the frames from before and after the alleged incident. And considering that Will Smith is meant to have used his full force to slap Chris Rock, Chris Rock seemed to be very calm and composed. He didn't seem very surprised about it. It's as though he already expected it to happen. And it didn't seem like he was experiencing any physical pain. But assuming that this was real, Will Smith felt like he was under attack. He felt like he was being stripped of his qualities. Of everything that made him who he was. And this was going on for a long time even before the Oscars. Because of the affair that Augustel Cena had with his wife. It affected his career. It affected his family. It affected his relationship with his wife. Because he wasn't happy that she was involved with Augustel Cena. That doesn't feel good for a man. And everyone was making jokes. Everyone was laughing at him. It stripped him of everything that made him who he was. So when he attacked Chris Rock, he did it to show the world how much he loves his wife. To show the world that he is strong. And that he's not going to give up without a fight. But while he may have won the public opinion, he's not going to win his wife's heart. Because she doesn't really desire him. He's just delaying something that is inevitably going to happen. She's just going to end up the force in him. Because what she really wants is someone like Augustel Cena. Which is why she has an affair with him. Because that's the type of person she really desires. She wants a thug. She wants a bad boy. And that's just something Will Smith is not. Will Smith is a nice guy. He was in tears because he cared too much. And it didn't look good when he slapped someone who was a lot smaller than him. Someone who didn't stand a chance. It wasn't even Chris Rock that he was mad about. This incident was provoked by Augustel Cena. And all of the other people who were talking about him. He bottled it up for so long. And then it finally came out. Because he loved his wife so much. But clearly his wife did not love him. You should never allow yourself to fall so deeply in love with someone who is not in love with you. You should wait for them to reciprocate what you're given to them. Or you're going to end up in trouble. Your wife should respect you. But Will Smith's wife does not respect him. Even after he confronted Chris Rock. He's not really making himself look tough. Because his wife already knows he's not that type of guy. And he already knows he's not tough. Even though he slapped Chris Rock. Even though he cried on TV in front of everyone. But this is just what a narcissist woman will make you do when she only cares about herself. It will make you fight for her attention. It will make you fight to get a response. It will make you do stupid things. Because then you're reacting to your emotions. It's reactive abuse. But it was projected at the wrong person. Someone who didn't deserve it. Someone who was just making a joke for entertainment. It wasn't intended to be personal. It wasn't intended to provoke that type of response. And initially, Will Smith was even laughing about it. He didn't take it seriously. But when he saw his wife's reaction. To everyone laughing at her. His mood changed. He acted on her behalf. He did it because he wanted to save his marriage. It's like he was under his spell. It's like he was possessed. Because he loves his wife more than she loves him. Which means he's under her influence. He's willing to do whatever he thinks she wants him to do. In order to gain her approval. With the hopes that she will then choose to stay with him. But the more you fight for the narcissist approval. The more they will push you away. They will just see you as a fool. Because then they know you can't control your emotions. He attacked Chris Rock. Because he felt like he couldn't be himself. He felt like he had to fight for his wife. But it looked like this incident. Had already been arranged. It looked like it was something that Chris Rock agreed to. So that Will Smith could compensate for his faults and regain his reputation. But whether or not it's fake. It still doesn't look good. It looks like he acted out of character. It looks like he's under his wife's control. When she doesn't even respect him. She doesn't even desire him. And the more he tries to fight for her. The less she will desire and respect him. This is how narcissists view their victims. They don't value weak people. They don't value people who defend them. But this is really Will Smith's responsibility. Because he doesn't have high standards. He's willing to tolerate whatever his wife does. He lets her push his buttons. He does whatever she wants. Because he doesn't value himself. Which is why he slapped Chris Rock. Because he was trying to show people. That he does have some worth. But by doing that. It just made him look weak. Thank you for watching. I hope this video resonates with you. Please like, comment, share, and subscribe. If you would like to donate, my paypal link is in the video description. Coaching queries. You can email me at coach.narc-survivor.uk. Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.