 He told me he used to be a player in the past and that he's fed up with his past. Do you think I can trust him and believe he has changed his goals and the way he sees women? Well, a lot of, a lot of guys do, right? Like what ends up happening with most guys, most guys that are even players is at some point they're like, uh, you know, like, you know how much time it takes to be a player? Like, I don't think you realize this, right? A lot of women don't get it because for most women, if they want to hook up with somebody, it's pretty easy, right? Send out some text messages, see who wants to come over and Netflix and chill with you, right? And you'll have, uh, you can get a lineup. Most women can get a lineup of dudes jump on Tinder and just say, you're not looking for anything serious and just hit the, you know, accept button for, you know, it's just swipe right on every dude that you see and you'll, you'll, you'll end up getting some guys that want to hook up with you, right? That's, that's really, really easy to do for a guy. It takes a lot more. It takes lots of time because most women that you meet aren't just like ready, right? They aren't just ready to hook up. And so they need some, you know, some attraction. They need to be talked to in a certain way. They need to feel appreciated and all these kinds of things. And then the guy has to make sure that he says the right thing, figures out what's going on with the girl and then kind of pulls her back and escalates things, you know, to the right degree in order to do it. And it takes for most men, you know, if, if he wants to go out and meet a new woman, it can take him, you know, anywhere from, you know, many, many hours in a day to, you know, days or even weeks to end up hooking up with a new woman. And so it's, it's really difficult for most men, right? There's, there's like a small minority of men that are around somewhere between like 15 and 20% of men who are like, you know, they're just players and they want to be players for life. And then there's an 80% of men and most of them are not players. Most of them don't want to be in a, you know, player situation. They don't want to go out and meet new women. It takes up a lot of time. They'd rather be doing anything else with their time, right? And so getting into a relationship makes way more sense for the overwhelming majority of guys out there, even if they've been players in the past. And so, you know, it's possible that you can trust him. What you want to do is make sure that you're looking for red flags and looking for green flags. And if anything comes up, you know, just make sure that you halted immediately and just go slow with him and make sure that you're getting yourself into a good situation.