 Where? Do we have that conversation right now? Uko single type guiding. Sina eksana ni sumboa. Okay. Uko single type guiding. Mi mi nili se matu. It's complicated. So explain the complication. Ibu kwa tako? Una jua, I believe mtu okama, like kama unasema uko single. Is it necessarily that umetoka kwa relationship? Ngine ama aujai kwa kwa relationship. Jumina una, kama ume kwa kwa relationship ngine, lasma kutakwa na hints of your ex. So very many people una kwa nga single wana sumboa na na exwao. So, tu tu e many people, tu e ke... What? So tu tu e single people or many people, tu e ke Cynthia's name, tu seme, Cynthia ako single na na sumboa na na exwao. Siya ni seme bacha basini kwa straight. Say Cynthia ako single, single, single. Uko single? Straight, single. Ya, nothing, nothing additives. Bona na single kwa. Ako na... Nona, nona dewae. Namshuku, namshuku. Una nishuku kwa? Wendio na kushuku? Wendio na kushuku? Sii ni wesa mami mi nikono strings attached. I'm just me against the world. How is that even possible? But let me tell you, let me ask you, do you agree with that lady that you might be single but in actual sense, there are other things you're doing? Ya, wena zako a single, nuka na friends with benefits. Nuna jile ni wana flat na friends and then you still single. Ya, kuna piai yo? Ya, piai mi na believe you can be single, lakin ni hamja make it official. Lakin ni... Unani get. I think this one, kwa nuka single but hamja make it official. Uka single bado because akuna winiatakwa mbi akama leto nongi na mchu na mkuna like lavish vibe going on. Akuna winiataka na haja niya mi ni girlfriend ya kuna winii nneza sasa zaku patia boyfriend privileges. Na. So you bado kwa single. Thank you, I highlighted a very important point. It brings me to this question. Kukuna codes za mta, za dating. You understand the codes za dating, za mta. Kamagal code and such things. This code zenye if a man has not defined it. Okay, okay. I'm going in a relationship. If he tells you I want you for a girlfriend if he meets you and he tells you I want you for a girlfriend immediately anataka you know what he wants. You understand the codes. So she has highlighted a very important aspect. Ukiwa ukonam tu na amdyaieka official. That's one of the codes. Uko single amo kwa relationship. So sapundi ukuna gray areas. But uko single. How? Ukonam tu. Uko single until this person makes it official and says you are my girlfriend we are dating. Uneza kwa ppikiako ati mko relationship na jibamba tu. Imagine. So where does the point ya mwa babas coming? Because ukonam tu you are doing something. But amdya define akunak tia mkombia I'm imagining it's the same relationship young people or young women have with mwa babas. So relationship and mwa babas na single girl. Is that person single? First of all mwa babas na boyfriend nikitu very different from my perspective. Because okay not I believe. I know that mwa babas most of the mwa babas they either have girl friends long term girl friends or wives. We were two upon me akunpatiya attention kushawariwa na some few thousands and your fill unanpatiya attention ya na ataka. On the other side boyfriend ni mtu mone maybe mko mko age mates ama hachana na some fears. Laki ni hana pressure kama mba. Sitya I am trying to understand your point but don't sit ya fika home. Roda, could you expound a bit? But Sitya is trying to explain. Okay ya I also agree with her because the mwa babas okay with a young lady it's usually for money most of it. See na kwanga like this niga okay this old man most of them are old. So anataka more pleasure that the wife isn't giving them. Anataka menji menji. So that is what the pleasure and after this young lady ya so you make so Saizi kwa yu single who di anya manita niko single see na complication niko single wingini it's complicated what are your freedoms what are the freedoms of what is the freedom what privileges do you enjoy in being single that Roda mese ama ako single na hana mba babas ana besti besti ana kitu na msumbua ana like nini nini na ana kazi kazi kawasumbua nina ex now Roda that you've said your single kawasumbua nina ex before we go to the complicated girl ya because it's true tell her what are the privileges what are the freedoms you get to enjoy as a single girl there are a lot okay the first one is ama food lover despite my size I love food so the first thing is when you're dating someone maybe you might be staying together so una pata na kula foodi ako as in umia chatu foodi ako vizuri kwa fridge una pata umtu ama kula chakulayako that is number one so you like no one eats your food like you eat in your own peace like una buy food una i pata to the same place like that is one of the privileges kwa single ya another one is when you go you can go out without having to explain you know when you're with someone you have to say uko api uko nanani mo nukuni ambiuki enda una do what so like when you're single una zenda you go out you come back anytime you want it's you you're your own boss you don't have to explain to anyone anything ya me na takaku moli ga something like vile umesema wait first when you dating una i shingina kwa nyumbayako ya most of them because I don't understand vile umesema ute enda upati una fanya nini kwa nyumbayaku first of all that is the question ya but niambe okay let me say this most people out here whether you like it or not watu wana kalishana like watu ame wana most relationships iko evo mostly campus students you know like watu wana kapa like they are living together imu na nuwacha kula imu na pick up a moja imu na stay together like nika me wana in shorts but you'll live together same kukampas ya so you're the teacher to tie it up in roda nika we stay ame iti ito me sigiri bote kama we risk kama we experience kama we risk guys because I mean we are risking kama we risk but now talking about when you say roda has highlighted watu uki freedom ya keni you don't get to eat my food I don't get to get answerable who have you been dating babas ame aki janam dama watu na ame wana who is that territorial does he pay your bills I'm speaking for a friend we wanted to catch you at your life somebody is asking umla plan kukua single bakalini so where to get daddy where this Nairobi me minta kwa single until father notice because na so Cynthia tuki o tuapokwako tuambie what are the freedoms and privileges you get to enjoy as a single girl bilekwanda ya apointi aku go out and you don't have to explain it na kongka like a hundred percent that is just like the biggest thing how na pressure ya kuchindo kuki text mtu like kumoliza what are you doing what have you been up to today at home no kumambuza good night good morning aku na pitu kamizo as in life is just good life is just free why are you making relationships sound like they are an uphill task I mean because even in the water who have you been dating this man mwa ojipata mtu na kumambia umambie ukitu kajob I want to know where you are Allah ojipata mna jani fikiya bado Allah kiw, siitake kufikiwa let's hold it up there we want to take a very short commercial break but when we come back now that we have factors we enjoy as single people kukola vitu piwa watu single who are na miss as they enjoy their freedoms as they enjoy their freedom as they enjoy their privileges I want us to address the factor here as a single person what do you miss out you know hold us we are taking a very short commercial break but we are going to be back with more 254 imagine