 Okay. Amy writes, dating a year and seven months have spent every weekend together. I love him and felt he cared so I asked to be his girlfriend. And he told me he didn't see me in his future. Should I pass? Wow, seven months together, a year and seven months together, you spend every weekend together, you expressed care. Now, I think you waited way too long to be officially boyfriend and girlfriend. Ladies, right around the time the penis gets to go inside the vagina, that's the time to have the conversation about boyfriend and girlfriend status and monogamy and exclusivity. That's right around the time the penis gets to go inside the vagina. Now, I don't know if it took a year and a half for that to happen. I'm going to assume it happened within the first 10 days. That's the time to have the conversation about are you monogamous, exclusive? Are you boyfriend and girlfriend? That's the time to have it. When someone says, I didn't see, he told me he didn't see me in his future. Ladies, that's a fucking bullshit. That's bullshit. If someone is that much of an asshole to spend time with you knowing that a woman can be attached to a man. By the way, every fucking guy knows this. This is such bullshit. If any guy says otherwise, we know you get attached to us. Unless he's lived under a rock, 40 plus years of his life, that's fucking bullshit. So for him to say that, kick him to the fucking curb. That is really asshole behavior. Tell him to go fuck off. That's bullshit. Now, I know you care about him and that's not easy. But what he said is as cruel as cruel can be, that is almost as cruel as saying, well, I won't even go there. That's bullshit. Listen, if I could be there for every one of you, if I could be there for you on your first date, here's how I'd show up. I'm your big brother. You're going on a first date with a guy. He shows up the door. I happen to be holding a shotgun. And I look at him and I say, what are your intentions with my sister? Because if you fuck her over, this gun is going to be pointed at your nose. So you better be more conscious and aware. This is the bullshit behavior that I'm tired of both men and women alike approaching the dating process without any understanding or care about someone else's feelings. That's why I said, empathy isn't just I can feel your feelings. Empathy is I care about your feelings. And if some guy is saying that kind of bullshit a year and a half in there, I don't see you in my future. Look it, the first three months, six months of dating, it's a roll of the dice. We don't know where it's going to go. But spending a year and a half with someone and then to say that, I kick him to the fucking curb. Who agrees with me? Post a comment below.