 You can now follow me and all my social media platforms to find out who my latest guest will be. And don't forget to click the subscribe button and the notifications button so you're notified for when my next podcast goes live. You know, they've done studies where they found guys that are in long-term relationships, their testosterone levels drop. Why? Because they're complacent. They're comfortable. They're with their girl. They think, oh, she's not going to leave me, blah, blah, blah. But that's one of the worst things you can do. They live with their girl and they think it's going to make the relationship stronger. What it really does is it makes you more of a pussy a lot of the times. And studies show that women get bored in relationships way faster than men do. So how are you going to keep her excited? Well, you keep her excited and keep her on her toes by letting her know that her place isn't solidified and you do that by having other women. And I've realized that girls really and truly, this is from the bottom of my heart I've understood, they want to be lied to. Not because they enjoy it, but because they want to live in delusion. They're in their own worlds. You tell them what they want to hear, and they may know if, you know what, damn, he's lying to me, but like, it's what I want to hear. I'll ignore the other side because I don't want to see it. So they're in the bubble. You get in that bubble? They'll play in it. You know, dogging out men is completely socially acceptable. City girls we are. Yeah, city girls, blah, blah, blah. You know, and if a guy wants to do this, it's manipulation and evil, but girls have been doing this for decades, right? People get mad at me for saying this, but women want a guy that's taller than them, shorter than them, going to protect them, provision for them, all this stuff. They want all these traditional traits. But if I say, make me a sandwich. Make yourself, motherfucker. So women want all the benefits of a gentleman without necessarily being a traditional woman on her end and being a lady to that gentleman. Why do you think you're so high on men? Well, to be honest with you, bro, keep at 1,000 with you. Most men are irrelevant to the current society, which means, for example, they're invisible. And this is what happens when you let girls run wild on you. You end up like fucking Will Smith, sitting at a red table, crying, trying to figure out why your wife of such 20-plus years is having sex with a fucking teenager and writing letters to a dead rapper. That's what happens when you don't put your foot down early in a relationship. When we're on, to this guest, we'll get the fresh and fit guys on. How are you, bro? What's up, man? Thank you for having us, bro. Yeah, man, all the way from the States. First time. Yeah, it's been a painful so far, guys. Oh, brother, what just happened was crazy. You want to talk about it? Man, you could talk about it because I'll probably be a little bit more. All right, so we just got off the Uber, right? We're watching English podcasts. We're lit. We're walking down here. And this guy's like, fresh and fit. You're from America, hey? We're like, yeah, we're from America. He's like, what are you doing over here? What are you doing over here? We're like, you know, we're just doing some business. He's like, oh, yo, yeah? No, no. What are you doing over here? We're like, relax, bro. We don't know you. Leave us alone. He comes back again. My man's like, yo, you know what? Stop playing with him. If you don't stop playing, I'm gonna knock you out. And he was on playing. Yeah, I mean, sometimes you got to meet force with force. The thing is, is that he wanted to test us, see what would happen. He has his phone like, look at these guys. So then when he said that should I just, I don't know, I just like snapped. I just took my hood off. I said, what the fuck do you want to do? I'm knock you out right now. What are you going to do? And he's just like, oh, shit. And then he like got on his bike and rode away. Then he came back again. And I was like, oh, what do you want to do? You want to do something? Get off your bike and come over here. And he just rode back again. He brought his phone and then he like rode back. I don't know if he was trying to get a reaction or whatever, but it's like, dude, he followed us for like a block talking smack. And it's like at this point, like this is blatant harassment. If this was Florida, I'd put a gun to your face. You know what I mean? What are you doing? Stay on your ground. But obviously we're here in the UK. It's different over here. It's weird. It's weird. But, um, but yeah, I mean, at some point you got to be able to, you know, we were nice. We didn't say none when we ignored them. You just kept following us, kept following us, kept following us. And that's when I just, okay. Enough's enough. I took my hoodie off. I said, what the fuck do you want to do? I'll knock you out right now. What do you want to do? We're supposed to be on Patreon. Yeah. What is your Patreon for people watching? Patreon.com slash Fresh Fit. So yeah. You guys want to see me chase after some idiot? Yeah. Go ahead and check it out over there. I'm still pissed off about that thing, but we're going to have a good interview. So first time in the UK, very eventful. Probably streets in America are safer just now, which is there. Yeah. Hard to believe. You know, because like in a state like Florida, right? You got stay on your ground, which is like, if someone comes into your personal space and tries you, well, you don't have a duty to retreat. You can like go ahead and defend yourself and your space. So if he tried that stupid shit in Florida, I'd be like, get the fuck away from me. And if he kept going, I'd just pull a gun on him. Like what do you want to do? If you come near me, I'm going to kill you. And you can do that in Florida. But, you know, and that's the beauty of the Second Amendment in the United States. But here in the UK, you guys have a lot more restrictive laws. So, you know, you got to duke it out with fists. But hey, man, it's okay. You know, these hands are rated E for everybody. Well, in the UK, they do a cheffing instead. Yeah, they call it a cheffing instead. But yeah, but that dude, I think he was just doing it to get a rise out of us or whatever. You know, so it is what it is. But at some point you got to be able to like defend yourself. And that was just ridiculous. Like, dude, you've been following us now for damn near six, seven minutes. What's wrong with you? But he'll save, guys. Yeah, we're here now. Let's get into the net. First of all, tell the audience about yourself. Okay. So I'm fresh. He's fit, of course. We have a podcast in Miami called Fresh and Fit. We do dating, how to make money, how to invest your money, credit scores, how to become a better man. And at the same time, how to deal with women in the Western world. Because, you know, nowadays it's just tough. Like, guys out here going to work, you know, living life, girls are always a problem because you don't know how to handle girls. So it's like, that's how to do it, how to maneuver in this world and how to make money as well. Yeah. What about yourself? Yeah, same thing. I mean, that's basically what we do is teach guys how to become better because we live in a world now where, I mean, we, you know, so we have two different types of shows. We have the daytime show where we talk about making money, money Mondays, womanizer Wednesdays, and then fitness slash call in slow Fridays where we answer questions and help guys with whatever they may have with any of those three things. Getting in shape money or girls. And then at nighttime we bring girls on and that's where you get all the viral clips of us like debating girls or whatever and me kicking out girls for being disrespectful. But one thing we've realized because we've interviewed now almost, I think we're like 1580 something girls that we've interviewed different women from different walks of life. Some girls from the UK, girls from Australia, girls from first world English speaking countries, girls from South America, girls from everywhere. France. Global countries, everything. And what we come to realize is that there's a general body of behavior that a lot of modern day women have adopted. And quite frankly, even average women don't want average men. So guys have to become the best version of themselves to be able to get and be the most attractive to the most amount of girls. Yeah. How did you get into that? Well, it's very interesting. So how we got into it was I actually worked in law enforcement before this. I was a special agent with Homeland Security Investigations, which, you know, for the UK audience to make it simple, think of it as like an FBI agent, right? So doing your investigating federal crimes, it would be the equivalent to maybe like a Scotland yard, I guess, for you guys here at UK. So I was doing that and I had a YouTube channel at the time. And I was also had a fitness business. So as I started the YouTube channel, I was giving out fitness content. But then people wanted more content like, you know, how to be attractive to get girls. Because to be honest, most guys get in the gym to learn how to get girls, right? So I was doing that type of content. And then I had another YouTuber that I know his name is SolarTV84. Shout out to him. He said, hey, I know this guy that's in Miami as well. His name is FreshPrincio. He should link up with him. So I linked up with Fresh. We had a phone call on Instagram. We spoke for like an hour or whatever. Went out to go eat, got to know each other. Like, yo, we're very similar in the way we womanize. So from there, we was like, hey, we should, you know, do a podcast. We did it through StreamYard for a bit. And people really liked it. So like, you know, let's take it to the next level. And we got a studio and, you know, the rest is history. Yeah. Very controversial topics. Yeah. We call it a cancel culture here. Yeah. You need to be careful what you speak about. Or you're fucking basically kicked off. Or people, for me, everybody has an opinion. Everybody sees the world differently. Yeah. Including you. We've all had what heart broke. We can play the big man card and womanize and go to the gym. Deep down, we're always craving something. And that's the society. I think we're all fucking confused. There's no blueprint and manual how we should actually be living life. Nobody actually has the answers. We may think we have the answers, but that's just from that certain individual who believes they have the answers. Like, what's your own relationship status just now? Both of you's? Single. Womanizing. So for us, well, we have girls that we deal with and everything like that. But I always look at it as a man. Every guy's true carnal want is to be able to have one, two main girls and then have other women. But the problem is that most guys don't have the sexual market value or attractiveness to be able to dictate that. Most guys have to be monogamous not because they want to be, but because they have to be because they don't have the value to command loyalty from their woman while simultaneously going and being able to deal with other girls. So we tell guys become the best version of yourself so that you can actually do what you want to do and the girl has no choice but to deal with it. And I know, oh my God, that's misogynistic, but that's what women want. Women want guys that can get other girls and still choose them as the main girl. And any guy you put them by himself, hey bro, if you can have a main girl and have a couple of side chicks, would you do it? They're always going to say, yeah. The only difference is that some guys can't do it while others can. What do you think the perfect relationship would be for a man? Do you think there's such thing exists? I think a main chick, or maybe two main chicks or three main chicks, whatever it may be, right girls that you actually, you love them, you care about them, you take care of them, and then you can have some girls on the side for recreational use only. I think that's what every guy wants but very few men can actually pull off. Yeah, I think each person knows what's good for them. However, as a guy, let's bro here. You want to have multiple girls because you have one girl, it's cool and all, but we all want new girls. It's like, well, you've got your main girl and a mistress, or one or two, you're good to go. Well, actually it works out because if you really think about it, when you are dealing with multiple girls, what that does is it keeps you sharp, right? You got your fashion on point, you're in the gym, you got your money on point, et cetera, because you're not necessarily committing to just one girl. For you to stay attractive, you have to stay sharp. As you stay sharp and the girls that you're dealing with see you getting other girls, it makes you more attractive. The boredom never ensues. The biggest thing I've always said is that the worst thing you could do to a girl is bore her. When you're too monogamous and you're predictable, you're relaxed, you start to get lazy, they've done studies where they found guys that are in long-term relationships, their testosterone levels drop. Why? Because they're complacent, they're comfortable, they're with their girl. They think, oh, she's not going to leave me blah, blah, blah, but that's one of the worst things you can do. They live with their girl and they think it's going to make their relationships stronger. What it really does is it makes you more of a pussy a lot of the times. You're softer, you lose your ambition, you lose your drive. How many guys have you known that they were in great shape, they were go-getters when you're hanging out with them, then they get a girlfriend, then they fucking soften up. So having other women keeps you attractive, keeps you sharp, and then on top of that, keeps your girl interested in you because her place isn't solidified. And I've always said it, women behave the best when they're not comfortable. The worst thing you could do is make a woman comfortable. Women don't know how to operate when they're in a comfortable position with a man because women need spontaneity, they need adventure, they need emotional stimulation. And for all the people, oh my God, that's so sexist. It's the truth. Women are way different than men and study show that women get bored in relationships way faster than men do. So how are you going to keep her excited? Well, you keep her excited and keep her on her toes by letting her know that her place isn't solidified and you do that by having other women. So she wins because she's not sure where she stands because it keeps her emotionally invested and then you win because you get what you want. The problem is that most guys, number one, don't have the balls to do this. Number two, don't have the value to do this. And number three, don't even know that you can do this. A lot of guys think I got to be monogamous to get a girl and keep a girl. No, you don't. You absolutely don't. But mainstream culture is never going to tell you this because it's politically incorrect for a guy to exercise sexual options. Like in the West in general, and I don't want to go on too much of a brain here, but we pay way too much attention to the female sexual strategy, which is give her security, give her a title, marry her, et cetera. But no one gives a fuck about male happiness. What men typically want is peace, sex, and they want a variety from women. But we don't care about that. We're like, oh, no, we got to get what the girl wants. We got to give her a relationship. We got to give her a wedding. She's got to walk down an aisle. She's got to be praised. She's the princess, blah, blah, blah. You know, she's got to get that security, but no one cares about the male sexual strategy. So what I'm telling guys is get your value up so that you can actually execute that male sexual strategy that you want to do. But a lot of times society chops her balls off and tells you that you can't do it. No, you fucking can do it. The difference is, number one, you got to know you can do it. Number two, you got to have the value to do it. And then number three, you got to have the, how do I say this, the not give a fuck attitude where you can do it knowing that I can do this and I don't care what people think. What do you look for in a relationship? Honestly speaking, for most guys, they want to have a girl that's not a hoe. One, loyalty means that she won't cheat. How do we know they're not though? Because girls are very good at lying also. Yeah. So here's the thing, right? It's just good of losing you. Let's say for example, right? You have a girl and she's looking kind of like, you know what? This guy's the best option I can have. He's very successful, good looking, confident in all areas and he's a leader. You know what? Cool. With this guy, I don't want to mess it up. So if I cheat on him and that's the standards, he's going to leave me. So with that dynamically right there, she probably won't do it. Now, will she still do it? It's a possibility, but we're just saying highly likelihood is hard for doing will be very low. So we're saying if you can, for a guy, ultimately you'd be having a girl that's loyal and that won't cheat. And secondly, feminine, because nowadays in the Western world, women are more like masculine and they're like, I'm independent. I'm a boss, babe. I don't need men. It's kind of like, it's like a turn off. And then thirdly is that they add value to your life. So for example, let's say you have a girl, right? And you have a business. You're lacking in certain areas. If she can see those areas that you're lacking in, so you know what? My man needs me in these areas. Helps you. Guess what? She's adding value. And now she's irreplaceable because now she's adding value to you and you want to keep her around. So we're just saying look, if she's feminine, she's not a whole, she adds value to your life. That's the perfect scenario because most guys want to have that piece of mind of comfort knowing that she won't cheat. And secondly, she added value to their lives. So it's pretty much like that. What's your longest relationship? Right now? I would say like one year. Yourself? I mean, while having like other girls? Or one. Longest you've been with? One. One? Oh, no. No, I don't do that. I think monogamy is stupid. So you've always been that mindset. Obviously, as time goes on, back in the day when I was drinking drugs, all the fuckity, I would fuck anything and everything. I would always have PCZ. But as I've got older, I think I've matured a lot. For me personally, it's fucking a lot of hassle. I don't know if my tester on is dropped because I'm 38 now. So here's my thing. Yeah. I have no problem with guys that want to be monogamous, but my biggest thing is I want them to decide to be monogamous. I want the guy to decide it, not the girl. A lot of the times, the guy is doing what the girl wants to maintain the relationship. If a guy wants to be monogamous and he chooses to be so, I'm cool with that. But if the girl tries to bully him like, you got to commit to me. You got to give me a relationship. Blah, blah, blah. She starts bullying the guy. That's when I have issues because now she controls the relationship. She's in the leadership role. She control on the frame. And I've always said it. When a woman leads, she's going to lead all right, but she's going to lead you to the end of that relationship. So as long as a man is in the leadership role and he's choosing to be monogamous, then I'm cool with it. But most guys, let's be honest, they don't have the choice. They're being monogamous out of force to keep the sex coming or to continue the relationship or whatever may be from their girl, which what they don't realize is you actually lose attraction from doing that. So I totally get what you're saying, though, like, you know, dealing with multiple girls, whatever. Yeah, I'm losing hair follicles because of it. You know what I mean? I'd be lying if I didn't say it wasn't stressful or pain in the ass. But that's kind of what comes with it. But you know, it comes down to each man's personal talents. But as long as the guy chooses it, I think it's the best thing. But me personally, I think monogamy, like, I think monogamy sucks. I wouldn't want it. Why do you think so many people are cheating on each other now? So it's two things. Well, we know now, like, we actually did an episode on this, like, what, two, three weeks ago? Women actually cheat more than men nowadays. Yeah. And the thing is, too, is, what's happened is, so we got to go back. So before social media, for a woman to get attention and validation from men, she actually had to, you know, get dressed, go outside, and have personal interactions face-to-face. Yeah. Nowadays, thanks to Instagram, social media, Snapchat, dating apps, et cetera, what's happened is women are able to get what they want, which is what? Attention and male validation on the internet, and what it's done is, it's essentially made them feel that there are certain caliber and status or of a certain sexual market value slash attractiveness that they aren't necessarily really at. Right? So they have a higher perceived sense of self-worth. And what's happened is, if you got a girl, right, that's like, let's say, a five or a six, right? And she lives in Iowa, Idaho, one of these rural areas. Well, she would have been limited to the people that were in her immediate geographic area today and or to deal with. But thanks to the internet, social media, et cetera, now she's getting attention and validation from men in California, men in Florida, men in New York, men in big major cities. These guys are able to connect with this girl and get her, hey, you're cute, blah, blah, blah, fly her out, whatever it may be. Girls nowadays, by the time she's 25, it's probably been flown out a couple of times in her life at that point, if she's attractive. And what's happened is it's globalized, just like we've globalized when it comes to trade and commerce. We've also globalized when it comes to dating. And if you leave women to their own devices from a biological sense, the first thing they do is want to be with the best men, right? Dating apps reflect this. Women only swipe right on about 15% of men. One in three men right now are a virgin or haven't had sex in a year. So guys are starting to feel it from it being more competitive. Now, that's why I sell guys. Yo, you got to really get your stuff together because these girls that you thought you had access to in your local towns or whatever, these girls now are competing and talking to guys like us, talking to guys like the chat over there, Justin, right? He's taking everybody's girl. So since we live in a more competitive marketplace, the girls always do better if they can do better. And now that they have access to these men, that's what's going on. Actually, there was a study that was done where they found that the most attractive men, like in the top 1% in looks, were barely getting as many messages as girls that are average. So what does that tell you? Well, it tells you that even average women are getting more options and more scenarios put in their way from a dating perspective than the most attractive men. So it's extremely competitive for guys, which is why so many guys are struggling. I spoke with a girl yesterday. She says, one fault of men are virgins. Yeah, one third. Yeah. Well, one third. Yeah, virgins or haven't had sex in a year. Which is crazy. If you were to take that and ask between 18 and 30. Why do people then think it's so easy then? Because, okay, so that's a fantastic question. I can't tell you, man, how many times we've brought girls on our podcast and they literally think, oh, every guy's having sex. 99% of guys are sexually active. They're all getting laid, blah, blah, blah. But what they don't understand is that women have a very bad habit, what I've realized in general, not all, but in general, especially when we bring them on the podcast, everything I ask them or everything we talk about, they put it back on themselves. They don't understand that what they experience doesn't necessarily reflect reality. They're very narcissistic and solipsistic and what that means is they think the world revolves around them in general. Most of these girls, especially the most attractive ones, there tends to be a very strong correlation between being attractive and then thinking the world revolves around you. So if I make a general comment like, well, not all guys are like that, actually a majority of men struggle or a sizable amount of men struggle dating with women, they can't see that because you're like, well, every guy I'm around is an athlete, six foot five and has no problem getting girls. Fantastic. But you're dealing with the top 1% of men. That does not reflect reality, stupid. And they literally sit there and try to fight with me. That's not my experience. That's not my experience. Yeah. But it doesn't matter what your experience is. The reality is this, what you personally experience is something different, but they can't differentiate the two that your personal experience does not necessarily reflect reality. They have the apex policy thinking, well, I talk to these guys. So all men are like this and it's no, that's not how it is. Yeah. And most guys are invisible. So for example, you said really, why do women cheat? That's brilliant, right? Most guys also don't measure up. Girls have a guy that's for food, for maybe paying rent, for sex. They'll put guys in categories. So this guy has a place in her life because she hasn't met the guy that has all these qualities that wants her as a girlfriend. So for the most part, like, you know what? I'll be with Tom because he gives me security. He pays the rent. He's comfortable. A girl like him. However, I still want to chat aka Justin because he's a good sex and good times. So if the guy doesn't meet all those requirements and guess what? He's trying to work on it. She don't want to wait. You know what? I'll have this guy whoever else I want. And that's the sad part about it because you can be the best guy in the world but maybe you're not what she wants from social media what she sees. As a result, you know what? He doesn't measure up. I'll be with him for now but when the next person has better, I'll just move on. Women compartmentalize men in categories and I don't think enough guys understand this that there's literally girls we brought them on the show and they've told us, like, yeah, I got this guy on my phone is Uber. I got this guy on my phone is food. I got this guy on my phone is transportation. I got this guy on my thing is handyman and like women like what society is basically done is it's told women be empowered. You're strong and independent. Men are stupid. Use them for what you need to. Use them for their money whatever. I mean, it's shown in the music it's shown in popular culture. You know, dogging out men is completely socially accepted. City girls we have women. Yeah. City girls blah blah blah. You know, and if a guy wants to do this it's manipulation and evil but girls have been doing this for decades, right? And the only thing is guys are kind of starting to see it if they look for it. But that's why this type of content has been exploding. You know, shout out to Andrew Tate ourselves. Justin a bunch of guys in this type of in this sphere the reason why it's exploding in popularity is because we're finally giving guys answers to questions they've had. Why does she ghost me? Why does she not respond respond to my text? Why is she flaking all the time? What's going on here? Blah blah blah. And the thing is that girls are fantastic at telling you one thing but doing another and guys don't understand how women think of female nature and that thing isn't we don't tell guys hate women, be an asshole. They're all fucking sluts. No, we teach guys how to understand women so that they don't hate them for what they're never going to be. A lot of guys tend to look at women from a male lens. They look at them like hey, well she told me she was going to do this but she did this. What the fuck? Blah blah blah. And one of the first things I tell guys is there's a reason why the quote I'm a man of my word is a thing and not I'm a woman of my word. Women are not designed to be loyal to what they say or what they do because they're the weaker sex and not to align themselves with the strongest man that they can. This is from biologically hardwired in them but mainstream society will sit there online and tell you men and women are equal or women are just the same as men and they can go ahead and do the same things and they can't. We're built differently. We view the world differently and our biological hardwiring influences a lot of our actions and I don't think guys understand this that when a girl flakes on a date or when she doesn't adhere to her word it's not that big a deal because it's female nature to not stick to what they say. Women are designed to meet through a male and preferably the most strong male that they can get access to. That's how it goes. So it's literally survival of the fittest. It's just that we're in a very modern world now. We live in modern conveniences so for guys they think oh well things are different men and women are equal now women are in the workforce blah blah blah. It doesn't matter. There's still hardwired to operate a certain way regardless of how independent women become or how equal will become it doesn't change biological hardwiring. Women still want the strongest, fastest and best men. The more she wants her man to make on top of that. They still look for security. What do you think they're saying good men finish last? When girls look for that man they get it but it seems too boring for them. It's a hundred percent true. Damn. It's a hundred percent true. I mean nice guys always finish last it's been that way since the beginning of time it's just that now it's more pronounced thanks to social media. At least now if guys watch this kind of content they know why they're finishing last. Before guys didn't know they had to be like what the fuck's going on? You know maybe there was a few guys you know shout out in the early 90s in the early 2000s that's why it exploded back then but we didn't have social media. Right? People kind of figured out about mystery and Nils Charles and all these guys and what they did was they were able to pioneer female nature from a seduction standpoint so that guys can understand how to be attractive to women and understand like the cheat codes on how to get women from that perspective but you take that and then you see that a lot of the tactics that they employ to get women are rooted in biological fact displaying higher value dressing in a certain way showing social status being a leader of men. These are all things that women are hardwired to be attractive attracted to and the pickup community was able to pick this up but now thanks to social media and the internet this stuff has been a little bit more publicized so guys are finally getting the answers to figure out why being a nice guy gets you fucked up. I think just to answer that as well a lot of guys put girls on a pedestal right? So what's a nice guy? He's caring loving just genuinely a good person right? However what do women want? Women want ups and downs they're never really constant and as a result you're a nice girl like what did you give me that same energy back because you're boring right? So she wants excitement she wants fun she wants to have a good time so we have to do is understand and look being nice doesn't get you laid it's about building up a tension building up sexual attraction by the same time being a man and you know what it is put yourself first as a guy if you don't put yourself first working yourself become successful have your mindset right even being a gym guess what you know your best optimal like you know level and as a result she can see that so my thing is put yourself first work yourself focus on your purpose and then bring a woman in to join you on that mission but if you put her as a main focus you're going to lose because guess what you're a nice guy you do whatever she wants good boy you got me so Why do you think men are always taught from a very young age to respect women first without respecting themselves because how the fuck you don't care about yourself first like for me it's you've got to look after yourself you've got to respect yourself first before you can even think about respecting others but from a very young age it's respect women value women I get that women give life like they give they keep the world revolving at times as well but why do you think that's a main factor in young kids minds is to respect women straight away because women used to be ladies but they're not anymore and I think what's happened is that the we we want men and I've said this a million times that people get mad at me for saying this but women want a guy that's taller than them shorter than them gonna protect them provision for them all this stuff they want all these traditional traits but if I say make me a sandwich make yourself motherfucker so women want all the benefits of a gentleman without necessarily being a traditional woman on her end and being a lady to that gentleman so what I tell guys is girls have to earn being a gentleman from you because most girls are like dudes with long hair and vaginas they act like guys they talk like guys they sound like guys if you watch the podcast you've seen a million girls suck my dick nigga like saying crazy shit like this you know could you imagine if I walked around and said lick my pussy everyone would be like what the fuck I'm not gonna give this guy a date but we literally sit there and allow modern women to operate this way and act this way with impunity no one tells them anything so my thing is if a girl isn't gonna act like a lady cool then you don't necessarily have to act like a gentleman so they tell us be a gentleman be a nice guy whatever but that was back when women were ladies that's when women were traditionally feminine this is when women you know would naturally cook and clean and be submissive but nowadays women are extremely rude obnoxious crass you know competitive all these things that kind of go into feminism which is fine not wrong with it but you have to deal with the current modern day woman and I've always said if you're a gentleman and you're a nice guy in 2022 you're basically bringing a butter knife to a rocket launcher fight these guys aren't equipped to deal with these modern day women because when they see you act like a nice guy or whatever they're gonna take advantage oh this guy's gonna do all this stuff for me and I haven't earned it fantastic I'm gonna put him in my phone his Uber Eats great and next thing you know he's in a friend's home for three years still trying to get a date trying to get some sexuality trying to get romance can't get it why because he fucked up and he wasn't able to quickly identify that this girl was never worth getting gentlemen treatment in the first place so guys gotta be able to meet a girl guys is you need to date like a woman does when a woman meets a man she puts him in the friend zone or in the sex zone immediately she knows within the first two minutes or so I need guys to do the same thing start dating like women do you need to start being flaky like they are you need to make them expendable just like they are make us expendable because believe it or not like women treat men as expendable commodities oh I'll just flake on him and go out with this guy when guys start dating like women do it makes them way more attractive and I tell guys play the same game that they do you need to go into that rocket launcher fight with a rocket launcher from 1950 trying to be a gentleman what do you think a man's biggest turn off is what for women being a hoe yeah I'll say a number I think that's every guy deep down like if they had like the biggest thing like there would be a turn off is like if they find out that like she was having sex with a bunch of dudes in the past imagine right you worked your whole life went through school you suffered sacrifice gave up a lot for your family they come successful you mean the girl she's beautiful she's been with all your boys she's been with people that you know from you know downtown she's been with like guys you just met today it's like you walk into a room it's like wait you know her hoe we spotted her out seven niggas had her in one night it's like whoa but you spent your whole life becoming a man of value to have it ruined by women of no value so it's like you're gonna send this like if you're a guy of value are you working yourself you don't want to be able to hold because that's gonna bring you down to a level that you don't want to be at an exercise critical thinking because so many girls say well why does a girl's past matter why is that such a big deal for you insecure toxic small dick energy all this stupid shit right and I always say well women look for a man with a future men want a woman that doesn't have a past we're very different we're attracted to opposite things a man that has sex with a lot of women has value a woman that has sex with a lot of men loses value what I tell them is let's say you saved up $500,000 to finally buy that Rolls Royce that you've been looking at and you're like yes I want to buy this thing but the odometer is blocked right and the dealer's like this car is fantastic blah blah blah et cetera take it for a test drive you take it for a test drive you're like oh this is awesome and then finally they're like okay it's $500,000 and you're like okay cool and you've been working your ass off to buy this fucking car then he's like oh by the way let me reveal the odometer and you find out it has $300,000 300,000 miles on it are you gonna want to pay full price for that car no but women will sit here do all this stupid shit right get their mileage up and then expect you as the man to pay full price for her and walk her down the aisle in a white dress and give her the ability to take 50% of all your shit now and in the future and I look at it like no that's a bad deal for the guy so men need to be extremely cautious in who they date and more importantly who they marry because there's studies that show the higher woman's body count right or partner count the higher the likelihood that she's gonna divorce and or not be able to last in a long term marriage so that's very important for men to understand that the more body she has the higher the likelihood of divorce and who suffers in divorce well we know statistically speaking it's men men pay 90% of the alimony men lose their child over 90% of the time the woman gets to marry at home a lot of the times it's just and women initiate 80% of the divorces there's not much upside to marriage for men so if you're gonna go ahead and marry a girl etc you gotta have the car facts and make sure that this car has as little mileage as possible because marriage is quite frankly buying the car so and people say not subjectification blah blah blah it's the analogy that it would be stupid for you to pay full price for a car that has a bunch of miles on it and when I asked girls this question and I tell them to take your feelings outside of it would you pay full price for that Rolls Royce after you've worked your ass off to buy that to get the money for it and they all say no so I'm like how can you expect a man to sit there and take you seriously it says if a woman goes with five men and more it takes her chances of having a happy marriage from 80% to 25% you're aware of the study you know yeah yeah it's fucking scary as a man for me who's made a lot of changes you're always wanting that one for me personally I've done all the fucking the madness but for me it's to you become paranoid now as a man and I've got to be honest with social media because I know how easy it is so for a woman I know how easy they work as well I'm a manipulator I still do it to this fucking day but women are just as good as well it's scary I think they're saying treat a mean, keep them keen men keeping not treat a treat them mean, keep them keen we see here treat them mean, keep them keen yeah dude that's a perfect I'm gonna start using that because that's the only way like there's a reason why women love bad boys so let's look at this from a biological standpoint the reason why women love bad boys are guys that are mean is because when you're mean to a woman what you're effectively demonstrating is that she doesn't matter that much and women are attracted to men just like he was saying before when you make a girl the focus and you pedicelize her what happens inevitably if you're pedicelizing her she's up here you're down here guess what happens she has to look down on you she's gonna lose attraction women always want it this way even though they'll never admit this they want you to be up here she's down here she's looking up to you that's what women really want even the strongest feminist that's what they want they make $100,000 a year they want a man that makes at least 58% more than they do it's amazing to me how even when a girl is able to provide her own security to herself she still wants a man to provide way more security than she provides so it's biologically hardwired in them so with that said the reason why being mean keeps them keen is because you're effectively letting her know you're not important I'm treating you mean which more than likely means what I have other girls I have other options which is why you're not a priority and that keeps her attracted and more importantly it keeps her aroused because she doesn't know what you're doing I've always said one of the best weapons you have as a man against a woman is her own imagination when she doesn't know where you are she doesn't know if you're potentially a sex from other girls it keeps her on her toes and it keeps her behaving I always quote the song from future bitches don't get too comfortable and the reason why I say that is because women behave the best and treat you the best when they're not comfortable as soon as they start to get comfortable you move them in you give them a relationship you give them marriage etc that's when the mistreatment begins that's when they start acting bitchy that's when they start acting rude because they know that they got you why do you think women want marriage so bad why do you think they want to be a girlfriend so bad so they can finally sit so they can kind of let loose a little bit know that they don't necessarily have to compete for your affection anymore but what happens is they don't realize that even though they get comfortable they start to lose attraction for you and arousal for you and I've said this before people call me sexist for saying this women don't know what the fuck they want and this has been demonstrated in studies not only do they not know what they want to have for lunch but they demonstrated this in a study where they basically they took electrodes and they took a clicker and what they did was they attached electrodes to the generals of men and women and they gave them a clicker and they showed them arousing images and what they found with the guys was with the guys what they clicked on and what they aroused by linked up so the guys pretty much were only aroused by heterosexual sex and naked girls and lesbian sex but with the girls when they showed them sexual images the women were aroused by a bunch of different things but here's an interesting thing they only clicked on things that were politically correct so like a guy walking down the beach without a shirt on heterosexual sex whatever but the reality is their genitals showed a different story they were aroused by monkeys banging they were aroused by strange sexual things going on on screen so girls get aroused and turned on by a bunch of different things but there's so much societal pressure on them to not admit these things so what I've always said is girls will say one thing but they'll actually be attracted to another so they'll say I like nice guys blah blah blah it's a fucking lie what they're actually aroused by and what they respond favorably to is guys that are mean they keep them keen like you said and just after that point as well I think the word mean is kind of like misunderstood so for example I myself am not I'm not a mean person right however I could put myself first which means for example I'm not putting on a pedestal like I said earlier all this means is that like I'm focusing on my purpose and my passion and that comes first then after when I'm free I'll make time for you because what happens is let's say for example I put her first right oh baby you want to go to the store I'll take you to the store oh baby you want to go here let's go over here and I'm missing work I'm missing my time for my passion on my purpose and then before you know it I'm lowering my value and going down slowly but surely what's going to happen is damn we can't afford to go on vacation anymore we can't afford to go to eat anymore oh you're boring I'm going to go with Tom so me putting her first can sometimes hurt me as a result that's considered mean because you know putting her on a pedestal so my thing is like you can still be a cool smooth guy but put yourself first what do you think a marriage marriage? yeah for most guys avoid that's almost yeah like there's no benefit for a guy no it is there's no yeah like the only way I could first we had all the debate about this with the roommates shout out to them the only way I would see marriages like a feasible thing is number one if you do it the state can be involved and then number two you're doing it for the purpose of having children that's the only two ways I could see it as even feasible but you got to make sure the state isn't involved because once the state's involved what happens is the girl has all the leverage now and with no fault divorce women there's a reason why women initiate 80% of the divorces and you know if you give a woman leverage she can ruin your life like guys are way less likely to initiate a breakup and or divorce and actually you know we talked about this with Rollo Tomasi he showed me a bunch of studies that like even if a guy is in a marriage and he's not as happy there's a reason why they use the phrase it's cheaper to keep her most guys are not going to initiate a divorce with their wife you know what if she because so many girls say this well what if I marry him and you know I get old and he leaves me for another girl statistically speaking that's going to be rare and most guys don't divorce their wife because they know that there's a bunch of placeholders there that would destroy that man financially so even if he didn't like you anymore or whatever you're still going to get the resource and everything else like that so that's not girls always look at like exceptions to the rules or they look at things that are like not statistically significant and say well what about this and it's like bro that's not even the chances of that happening are low yeah and you have so much to lose so my thing is right if you're a little girl you want to test her do this you know what I'll marry you but by the church not by the state because what happens is the more you marry by the state now she has to she has to kind of like like lock him because if you're locking like that she can divorce you can take all your stuff like hide for stuff but if it's by the church it means that for example if it's done it's done so my thing is if you want to get married get married but don't involve the state like you said earlier yeah once you involve the state that's when things get better not having the state involved and then you want to do it for children cool but you got to that's the biggest thing is like not getting the state involved how many ghetto friends do you have just now ghetto friends yeah ghetto friends oh girl friends shit girls that I'm dealing with is there a number yeah I mean yeah any given time I think we're always sourcing so like for example we'll have girls that we're cool with that we vibe with we have fun with but like there's always new girls so it's like I never end a cycle for me personally eventually I do want to have like one girl that I'm cool with but that's maybe in the future you feel me but I'm still going to want to have more girls you know so it's like you feel kind of like you know what I want to settle down then it's like damn there's another body over there and another guy over there it's kind of tough dude we're young bro we're young we're like 30 I'm like about 30 he's about 32 so I was like yeah I'm never going to have one girl from like I know this like I'm never going to want that like honestly every guy is going to want variety I've always said I'm very sexually satisfied her guy herself it's men are always going to want variety no matter how old they get whatever maybe the only difference between an older dude and a younger guy is that the older dude probably has the experience the resources and the balls to say I want more girls you know versus a younger girl it's like oh no I'll be with you baby even though deep down in his mind like man I'd love to have sex with that girl so I mean yeah I mean at any time our thing is I'm real big on like telling guys to work volume you got to talk to a lot of girls because girls are flaky that guy's time so you got to like continuously like in today's day and age like modern day dating I would say your job isn't to get girls your job is to filter out girls that are time wasters that's what I would say I think I think that's like more important and when guys like kind of go in with that mindset versus like let me try to get this girl no no no no you need to operate on let me get rid of the girls that are time wasters because most girls that you talk to are fucking time wasters they'll sit there put you in a friend zone take attention get on conversations with you that you know tell you all their emotional which is like you become an emotional tampon it's like no no no you got to screen those girls out and deal with girls that actually like you that want to move things forward do you tell your girl friends what you're about or do you mean appeal to about to we tell you I'm honest up front I tell them I'm not going to be monogamous I'm always going to have other girls and that's just how it is now with that said I lose a lot of girls doing that a lot a lot a lot you know some girls except a lot of girls are like I like you but I can't do that blah blah blah so you know I could see why most guys lie most guys lie because they're like dude if I tell her what the fuck I do she's going to leave and I'm going to lose this you know sexual access and then it's going to mess me up so I can see why guys lie but me personally I tell them I'm never going to be monogamous so they can kind of make a choice there see I love women it's something what they want to hear family for being honest which is you're the only one that's what girls want to hear but it's not realistic you know but what I've noticed though is most girls can't handle the truth they really can't dude what if someone comes into your life though and just fucking melts your heart and blows you away a low body count successful interest and intelligent and because lightning strikes we all see the world differently we're all different characters every single day life changes she'll be the main girl she'll be the main girl but she's not going to you know she'll have my heart but she won't have my dick to herself do you respect girls do you respect girls though if you tell them up front in the walk away yeah because that way we don't waste time like for example we could play a game here right okay you know what I'm gonna lie to you you lie to me but the truth is we both want different things so if he's telling it up front hey you know what this is what I want take it or leave it yeah I mean yeah if she you mean like well I respect her more if she walks away from me telling her that I mean I'll just I don't it wouldn't change my mind it would just make me realize like she's delusional and the reason why I say that is because I know where I stand from a metric standpoint like you know if you the thing is this I've always said this to girls you can't have a high value guy to yourself and if a girl really thinks that she's gonna have a high value guy to herself she's fucking delusional she's ridiculous because high value men are rare beautiful women are not beautiful women are common so the reality is when you deal with a certain guy of a certain level you don't have leverage anymore baby girl but we lie to women and tell them that they're special they deserve the best they deserve you know a prince charming that's gonna be monogamous to them and gonna treat them like a princess and that's not the way the world works you know you could be the best girl ever but if you're with a guy who's a millionaire or a guy who has money or a guy who has some status or some guy that's attractive he's always gonna have other girls so what girls need to understand is play your fucking role understand that you're the main girl be happy being the main girl and don't get in that guy's way because at the end of the day he's coming back to you what do you think high value man is okay so there's a different a bunch of different metrics on this but what I would say is earn a significant amount of money you have respect from people right your peers right you have influence to a degree people people admire you and they care about your opinion you have a good network of friends right in shape you got your in shape to a degree where you don't look like shit and other people want to be like you you're like a legit role model you know that's why I would consider a high value guy see where ends of you and so many ghettos what have you found out most that's intriguing something you weren't always aware of you've picked out a couple of things something that we learn process girls will share you if you're high value enough and girls that say that they're strong and independent or that they're feminist or any of this other stuff it's all a lie they say that for self-preservation to ward off like weaker men but what I've noticed is the more masculine a woman is or the more of a feminist she is the more she just wants a more dominant guy than her yeah and I've realized that girls really and truly this is from the bottom of my heart I've understood they want to be lied to not because they enjoy it but because they want to live in delusion they're in their own worlds so you tell them what they want to hear and they may know you know what damn he's lying to me but like it's what I want to hear I'll ignore the other side because I don't want to see it so they're in a bubble you get in that bubble they'll play in it do you think all the fairy tales shat plays in people's minds watching Disney films the Prince Charmings and people are going to save them Rapunzo and I got a I got a men and she and a mother are coming to save them because they genuinely think that that's what life is as well that people are coming to save them no cunts coming to save you male or female that's as simple as that so here's the difference between men and women this is what I've realized from the podcast and I'm really and this is coming from a guy that's talked to almost sixteen hundred women on his show from different walks of life different ages we've interviewed women from you know eighteen all the way up to damn near forty five fifties married unmarried master's degree PhD bachelor's degree high school only fans grow up porn star doctorate all different situations right and this is the one thing I've come to realize from interviewing all these girls most women live in a delusional reality of their own and what I mean by this is women are the only ones that can live in a delusional reality and the reason why is because women are rarely held accountable and or have to face negative consequences for bad decisions especially if she's attractive and what I mean by this is if a girl's pretty to any degree whatever may be her entire life from the time she hits puberty men are going to hit on her men are going to make her feel special men are going to tell her comforting lies to make her feel better her girlfriends are going to reinforce those comforting lies you're a beautiful baby girl you don't matter how fat you get you don't matter how rude you get those men just can't handle you blah blah blah etc we have all these convenient things in place to make women feel better for bad decisions however we don't have these convenient things in place for men if you're a loser as a guy you get called a loser if you're broke you get called a broke ass if you're fat you get called fat if you're you know not confident whatever may be you don't get girls so as a man your deficiencies are reflected by reality you get negative reinforcement for your inadequacy you don't get girls you don't get respect people don't like you no one gives a fuck no one talks to you etc so which is why so many guys suffer from depression and suicide but with women however she'd be fat she'd be rude she'd be obnoxious no one's going to tell her that she's that way a lot of times girls don't get this reality check until they come on our podcast and I have to tell them to their face you suck you know what I mean but she's not getting told this until 20, 30 years old so if you've been living this indoctrinated life for 2, 3 decades it's going to be very difficult for you to accept reality that's why women can get away with it is because men give them attention men give them sexual validation and they don't hold their feet to the fire for their inadequacies it's not until they get older or they stop getting attention from men that they start to wake up and understand oh this is how the world really works versus as a man you know that up front so one of the benefits of being a man is this as a man you control your fate if you get in the gym take care of yourself get your money on point etc you can improve your condition okay but as a girl the thing that sucks is no matter how you behave no matter how ugly you are no matter how fat you are no matter how rude you are you're probably still going to get positive reinforcement for your bad decisions so you're not going to get a reality check as to where you really stand in the world until you get later on in life you're 30 years old 32 years old you're still not married you live with cats etc and a lot of women are waking up to this feminism was a lie damn they told me I could be strong and aggressive and I'll still be able to find my prince charming where is he nowhere to be found but this is the delusion that women get to live in it's the privilege that women get to live in because women don't have to understand men to attract them the men have to come to them so if a guy comes up to you and talks to you are you really going to take the time to get to know and give a shit what men think no we've had on the pod before ladies do you even know what men want they have no fucking clue they say oh you want a guy I think men want a girl that makes a lot of money and is successful and ambitious blah blah blah no stupid that's what you want we don't want that in you we don't want to date ourselves but they have no clue because women are in a privileged position where the men come to them so they don't have to understand how men operate men on the other hand have to understand women to attract them we're the hunters so we need to know what attracts them what arouses them you go on a date with a girl you want to try to get a first night lay what you got to do you got to set up your apartment you got to clean it up you got to have music on all this shit men have to adapt and understand women women however they've never done before and they don't have to understand what's really going on and they don't learn a lot of the times until it's too late why do you think suicide rate is so high on men well to be honest with you bro keep it $1,000 with you most men are irrelevant to the current society which means for example they're invisible and it's kind of like you grow up as a man until you put your value to the world you're nothing so it's like you come into the world you get raised by your parents you go to school get a job and that's pretty much it but until you put your value to the world they kind of look the other way so my thing is like as a guy you have to work to become successful and become valuable and then because of dating it's like if you're not valuable at all they don't want you so it's like you got to deal with becoming successful becoming somebody of value and then dating as well it's tough because if you're not successful if you're not like a guy of value like it's earlier it's kind of like you're going to get nothing so it's like damn life is hard I'm not getting laid you know what I'm going to end it all and it sucks because if they have an avenue to learn how to become successful or become the best that they can be they feel a lot better about themselves because confidence is a thing where like it builds upon itself you don't start confident from the very beginning but it builds upon itself but what happens is guys get depressed things happen to them bad in life they get knocked down and they say you know what damn my girlfriend cheated on me I kind of got a girl all these things pile up and then before you know it's like damn you know what I just want to exit myself so it just happens that way when are you at your half-paced with a girl? when I'm multiple just like that yeah because I multiply in what way with multiple women or speaking to multiple women both so I'll have like girls that like you know help me out with my every time I deal with a girl I always have her help me out I have her investing immediately whether it's cleaning my place up help me out with my business etc. I bring her into my world immediately and the reason why I don't know that hey this is how things are this is you're coming into my world I'm not going into yours and women love it that way you know most girls if you go into their world then they're like oh what the fuck this guy's a loser he doesn't have his own shit going women would much rather be with a winner right and share him then have a loser all to themselves so I think having multiple girls it's a win-win for everybody because she knows that she's with a higher status guy that can do this and then on the other hand that you are happy because you have the variety that you want you know and obviously there's certain girls that get different types of energy from you right but I think it's a win-win for everybody for people watching their problems saying they're weak women that's the not right of course I would say that they're intelligent women and this is where females have to put their hubris aside and understand that quite frankly you're not fucking special ladies you're not you're really not and we lie to women and tell them that they're special the reality is beauty is common men don't look for as many things as women do women make this crazy mistake thinking that attraction is symmetrical no it's asymmetrical which means we look for different things in women and women look for different things in us the problem is this the things that women want and men are hard to come by the things that men want and women are easy to come by so therefore the reality is if you're with an attractive man he has more dating options than you do you're not fucking special because we don't care about your degree we don't care how much money you make we don't care about your education we don't care about any of that the only guys that care about a woman's income and all this other shit are guys that typically don't have their finances in order themselves or yeah that's for the most part what it is now when I look at a girl and she's educated or whatever I look at it more like is she preoccupied I don't care about how much money she makes I just want it where she's not an idiot she has some things going on and then I can use her assets to my advantage where she can help me out with my business or whatever like that but from like like guys aren't turned on by like a girl's ambition like a woman is attracted to our ambition it's not the same well what I would tell girls is that say that's weak or whatever no those women are intelligent because they understand that their femininity and their ability to follow a strong man is what makes them attractive and that's their ultimate power submission is actually the biggest power I have one phrase for that comment would you rather cry on a Rolls Royce or Toyota Corolla you got to choose because it's what it is look my thing is right most men are going to cheat anyway so choose the best option that you can get that's all I got to say what about marriage but you can have four wives I grew up Muslim so that's him all day I'm going to have multiple wives for sure like I think it's I think as a guy you know it's your natural wants you know you're designed for it you know and that's and it keeps you attractive like women love men that have other women you know this is going to sound crash or rude maybe but like you know having bitches is passive income to get other bitches that's just how it is there's a when you go into a nightclub right and you have two girls it's going to be it's going to be significantly easier for you to get other girls because women value social proof to a ridiculous level women need to see you with other women for you to be attractive you look at someone like Andrew Tate you look at someone like Dan Blizzard you look at someone like Hugh Hefner why are those guys so respected well they're respected because not only do they have the money and the power but they also have women around them there's so many guys that have money that have status that still struggle with ladies so when a guy is able to also attract women and have a bunch of them he's on another level so women firstly respond very favorably to men that can attract other women you go into a nightclub right and I like to use nightclubs because nightclubs are some of the most primal ways to look at human mating practices and where are all the women concentrated well the women are all concentrated in the VIP areas why because in the VIP areas these men have higher perceived status in this certain sexual marketplace geographic location right so the girls are all concentrated in that area you know and then if you extrapolate that into the real world where do most girls gravitate? celebrities athletes men that have status men that have money etc so women look for survival traits while men look for replication traits we want young and beautiful not a hoe they want successful strong and able to provide security so that's the main difference so I think a guy that can attract a lot of girls wins in all regards because he he make when a man creates value other girls gravitate towards that and it's a W for everybody so if you've got girlfriends all over do they have to go through certain things or would you to be not so much obeyed by you but to stay in that circle of those girls trying to stay with you is a what would make them you put them aside I tell them to fuck off hmm oh ok I would say if she's useless so most girls being honest modern day women are fairly useless and what I mean by this is that they don't add value to your life a lot of girls come into your life and think ok I'm giving them sex that's enough and that's the reality is that just gets your foot in the door like if you don't provide value outside of sex that's a very good indicator that girl doesn't bring much to the table so um I would say identify girls that are assets and not liabilities unfortunately most women are liabilities and guys aren't able to quickly assess this and the girl bleeds them dry for money bleeds them dry for time bleeds them dry for resources and that's why so many guys get into very bad relationships even worse divorces so you gotta be able to identify assets quickly on that's a very good point I think most guys the problem is that they don't understand how to engage women understand where they're at so for example you might find a girl that's like on her way to being like a little bit more mature a little bit more successful in terms of like being better for a man but she's not there yet she's still being in a whole phase whatever and at that point it's kinda like you know what if I wife her up now I'm gonna get a bad deal versus a girl that's like not on that type of time she's like a better wife or becoming a better that type of dynamic you gotta know or for it but you only know from experience so the only way you know is from dating multiple women going out there in the field and seeing how women are then you can say you know what cool she's worth it she's not worth it yeah I genuinely think like no guy should even think about getting married unless he's at least 35 making 100 grand a year 6 months to a year of savings in shape and had sex with 50 girls and that might be like oh my god this is extreme what do you mean why well we're in a new dating marketplace now if you take a girl that is 25 years old that's single that's attractive I would be pretty confident that and she grew up in the United States or UK or any first world English-speaking countries she probably has somewhere between 20 to 50 sexual partners at that point in her life and that's fairly common especially if she went to college so the only way that you're gonna really be able to compete with that is well you can't get manipulated how are you don't get manipulative well you gotta understand female nature and I think a 50 lay count is the bare minimum for you to be able to at least be in a position where you understand how women think how they operate and then most importantly so she can't manipulate you because a woman's strongest strength is you not understanding your value as a man that is woman's ultimate weapon when you don't understand your value as a man she's gonna use her sexuality her beauty and her experience with men to go ahead and finesse you out of your resources most guys don't understand that by the time a girl is 14, 15 she's probably had hundreds maybe even thousands of interactions with men of the opposite gender so since she's hit puberty she's been dealing with men staving them off for decades by the time she deals with you so you come in you don't have as many interactions with the opposite gender who's gonna win you're a fucking white belt she's a black belt when it comes to intersexual dynamics and dealing with the opposite gender so you gotta know what you're doing so that you don't get finessed and that's where so many guys fuck up is because they don't understand their value when you don't understand you can get finessed by girls and that's why so many girls drag guys through the ringer with divorce court or a girl that's older that quite frankly doesn't deserve a certain caliber a guy is getting with a guy with a certain caliber because that guy doesn't understand his value or he's wifing up a girl that's a hoe that should never have been wifed up in the first place it all stems from these guys not understanding their value What do you think of lake attracts lake? I don't believe in it because I think polarity is important typically the more masculine a guy is the more feminine he's gonna want his woman to be so you know when I deal with women that are masculine I'm immediately turned off by it and I don't like it and you know and if I do deal with it like I'll just have sex with her and not take her seriously she gets put in the recreational use only category because I know that I can't do anything with this girl you know yeah I think it's a cop out man honestly I think it's a cop out because as a guy you know what you want you know what your standards are and the problem is most guys don't have standards so look if I want a girl and I'm a certain way I want her to be to be this way as well I'm gonna make that choice for example I can meet ten girls today right out at ten maybe two are cool four of them are hoes they're my wifey cool but once again I need experience to understand who she is and what she's about so my thing is like versus like it's the thing but it's more like a cop out because if you really want somebody you're gonna make it work and see who they really are what do you think of porn porn porn porn I genuinely think guys should try to avoid it as best they can weekends I'm on my thing is when you're young of course you have your needs of course you're gonna do it it's just a part of about being a guy now it is right because it's free you go on your website you drag off with her cool right you get attention off of you but when you're working yourself you become better you have more game you know what cool now I have game I can go outside and get girls why still jerk off so my thing is like it's time and place it's time and place but don't let it control your life because what happens is it doesn't get caught up in porn and then before you know it they're jerking off at work you know when they went in the gym when they were family on trips it's like this is destructive for your life because now you're taking breaks to do this activity it's a habit now so make it a part of like you know what it's time and place for it get out your system and then go out there after you get girls for yourself it's a slippery slope to destruction what about sexual energy exchange you mean it's in solitize? yeah every time you sleep with someone you're not just it's like a downloading their data trauma pain all this shit that they've been with the men that they've slept with that's what they say solitize and connections and every time if you can fuck a bird a girl sometimes you're drained that's because of the trauma that they have so if you've got multiple girls it can be tiring not just mental people believe in spirit and that's the important and that's the good point that you brought in that's why you have to be meticulous about the girls you let into your life right like if a girl is like rambunctious, annoying drama filled like that girl is sex-only and you don't deal with her again or you don't even take it to that point of sex like you gotta keep girls around you that add and are assets versus liabilities and this is why it's so important for guys to get out there and get experience in knowing what types of women there are out there because if you're not able to have that experience to draw from you can easily invite a girl into your life that wasn't worth it and if you live in the west you live in the United States you live in any of these first world countries I'll be honest most of these girls so you gotta be able to identify these girls that are not worthy you know get what you need out of it extrapolate the sex or whatever the hell you need to and then move her to the side and go ahead and get a girl that's gonna be an asset but you're only gonna do that if you have the experience because the reality is women don't come ready anymore I hate to say it like that a lot of girls don't come from a household with a father they'll have negative impressions of masculinity and men in general and this is the war that we're in now since girls don't have a strong masculine figure in their life they have a skewed perception of reality and what masculinity really is that's how we end up with these stupid ass buzz terms like toxic masculinity which is a fucking lie but we sit here and we say this stupid stuff because we have a fatherless generation these same toxically masculine men are the same guys that fought in World War II same guys that fought in Vietnam the same guys that got sent to Iraq these are the guys that keep the crazy people away from the United States so that you can go ahead and live the Cush or the UK or any of these first world countries these toxically masculine men is what keeps these countries safe so that you could say the stupid things that you say but they can only say that in times of peace but in times of war these toxically masculine men are the ones that you want on the front lines what do you believe in someone's ghetto friend who wants to go to a night club without you she belong to the streets yeah you want to no no so I'm an avid person right about networking going on in public you know making connections right so often times I'm in the club being celebrities being people of value and it's funny because people will be like yeah bro my girl's going to the club hope she has fun I'm gonna stay home I'm like do you know what happens at the club it's kind of like you're putting her in a scenario where like she may be a good girl so to speak but that environment has so many traps because look guys of value are there and it happens because let's say for example right she goes with her friends it's not any any attempt to do anything bad they're gonna dance or dance or whatever right cool her friend gets called to a table a baby table they go to the table they get shots they get drinks not again lit right before you know it a guy maybe like Trey Songz or Chris Brown even a guy with a good businessman right pulls up and is like you're cute you're attractive come over here let's dance she might be like in her right reign sober no I'll never do that now she's lit the lights are dark the lights are off and on she's like you know what he's attractive he's hot and she goes for it but naturally she was a good girl but in that environment she turns into something else my thing is like if you're a guy with means and standards you have values for yourself your girl going alone bro is a red flag because that means in that environment anything can happen she might be the best girl in the world but in that environment could turn into a worse girl yeah nightclubs you know all these social situations with alcohol being served men that are horny in a nightclub etc cause we all know why men go to the nightclub men go to the nightclub they get sex women go to the nightclubs to get attention let's just keep it a thousand and that's what it really is as much these girls want to say no I go to the nightclub for me oh really what's up sit in your house play the music and fucking sit in your house and have drinks with your friends they would all look at you like you're crazy or if she says oh no but I just like to go on dance cool go to a gay club they're not going to go to a gay club they're going to want to go ahead and go to a straight club so they can go ahead and see where they are a lot of girls like to you know especially girls that have been in a relationship for a bit they want to see where they stand in the sexual marketplace they want to test the waters and see if they still got it because as much as women want to sit there on line and say my value comes from my career blah blah blah shut up that's why the makeup industry will never go out of business so you gotta be able to call women on this bullshit so when she says something dumb like I want to go to the club with my friends whatever fantastic but we're not together anymore and the reason why is because a girl right that goes to these types of places she's opening herself up to she's becoming a liability at that point she went from asset to liability because a nightclub is not conducive to a good relationship you know like why why are you going to nightclub like that's disrespectful to me and the thing is that what women don't get and I think I wish more guys did this is that women need to understand that when they're your girlfriend that comes at a price you want the security you want my last name you want to be associated to me last thing you're going to do is fucking embarrass me and the thing is that we have this crazy culture where we tell women that they can do whatever they want with impunity and this is what happens when you let girls run wild on you you end up like fucking Will Smith sitting at a red table crying trying to figure out why your wife of such 20 plus years having sex with a fucking teenager and writing letters to a dead rapper that's what happens when you don't put your foot down early in a relationship and let a girl know you will not do this and if you are going to do it fantastic you can do whatever you want but you are not going to be in a relationship with me anymore but guys don't understand that their last name comes with a price and they're scared to let these girls pay that price which is you are going to be loyal to me you're not going to do stupid hoe shit and embarrass me because when you see because the thing is that when you're somebody and your girl does stupid shit they're not going to say he was being a hoe they're going to say Myron's girl was being a hoe and who does that look bad on that looks bad on me that looks bad on you that looks bad on our family that looks bad on everything if a guy cheats eh it is what it is but when a woman cheats it's a big issue you know you can have a kid from that it looks bad like a woman's value is based on her preserving her value so it's the ultimate sign of disrespect when she puts herself in a position where she could potentially lose that same set value and you know what's funny about this whole scenario about going to clubs you know who cheats the most wives beyond states girlfriends you know why finally I'm out with the girls I'm getting lit I'm going to have fun and that leads to what many different things so in that environment I can't say how many girls we met in the club they're like have boyfriends girlfriends sorry have girlfriends sorry boyfriends and it's like wait you have boyfriend I didn't even know so after the fact it's like oh he doesn't know I'm here with the girls I'm outside it's like you don't even know what's happening so it's just crazy bro and I would argue it actually makes you more attractive you can do what you want but understand that you're going to be single if you do this it makes you more attractive because she knows she can't fuck with you and most guys don't have the balls that look their girl dead in the face and say you can do whatever you want just understand that when you come back your shit's packed this is going to be at the door you're fucking out of here and that's what it's got to be I mean even if she thinks about it like I need guys to literally have their girl had the fear and God in them of them doing some stupid shit that you're going to leave them not through violence or through anything like that of course not we never advocate you raise your hands to a woman what I'm saying is that she needs to have the fear and God that you'll leave her that's the only way you're going to do that is by having your value high because girls want security okay their need for security is hardwired in them and if you're that fucking guy she's going to go ahead and stave off being an attention whore and all this other stupid shit to keep you and I want guys to be in that position where a girl is literally scared to lose you to that point and she's going to she's going to love the fact that you're territorial she's going to love the fact that you have boundaries she's going to love the fact that you're not a pussy like these other guys and that you're not going to let your girl sit here and hurt herself women are self-destructive by nature every biblical text every religious text whether it's Islam Christianity Judaism etc they've always put men in leadership roles why? because women when left to their own devices are self-destructive what do they do they become over sexualized they do stupid shit they hurt their own value etc the father used to be put in the house right to keep the son out of jail and the daughter off the short pole or doing other stupid shit that would hurt her value and hurt what? her ability to lock down a man in the future that's what the father used to be there for but since the father's out the home we have mothers raising daughters to be hoes and do stupid shit that hurts their violent long run and they can't find the guy and that's why we have this crazy deregulated sexual marketplace where the family unit has been destroyed back to the family unit if you want to look at the degradation of a society are their families no? okay well that explains why we have high divorce rates kids are fucked up the men are going to jail at high rates women aren't getting married and or single motherhood these are what leads to failure in societies how do you feel if your daughter brought someone home with the same method of thinking of yourself if my daughter brought a guy like myself I would say if he had his money together he's a higher status guy etc if your daughter there's a type of guy that you can't have this guy to yourself this is what it is but if he's marrying you you have kids with him etc you got your teeth into him good you got an insurance policy which is basically he's not going to leave you you're the main girl if you have sex with other girls it's not that big a deal for men sex is like taking a piss you know a guy will give his dick to anybody but he's going to give his heart to a few what about the contraception since the 60s since the pope came in divorce rates risen because women back in the day could wear virgins they married off slightly one man but when the pope came out they could sleep with multiple people and not fall pregnant it changed the game I think it was the 60s or the 70s do you think that because there's so many negatives from it do you think that fucks up a lot of women 100% yeah the birth control pill so two things it was birth control and feminism in the 60s it changed everything what it effectively did is it made alluded to this earlier it deregulated the sexual marketplace for the dating marketplace so now in 2022 you can basically hook up with anything or anyone sorry anyone as long as you're both of age and what's that done is basically is put women in the driver's seat of who has sex which is cool of course that's fine but like I said before at the top of the interview when you leave a woman to her own devices what's she gonna do she's gonna pick the best guy that she can get regardless of her own sexual market value it's not like she's like a 5 and she's gonna be like I'm a 5 you know what I deserve a guy that's a 6 no she's gonna go for a guy that's a 9 or a 10 and since we have the internet we have social media we have dating apps we have people are able to instantly connect with each other a girl that's like maybe a 5 or a 6 now she has access to guys that are like 9s and 10s what's she gonna do she's gonna think her value is right up there and she's gonna go ahead and have sex with these guys that is very difficult for women to go backwards in their dating practices so they might have the ability to have sex with a guy that's a 9 or a 10 but the reality is they're not gonna get these guys to commit to them but the problem with girls is they conflate sexual market attraction right like just sexual arousal with relationship value which are two different things your ability to lock a guy down is not the same as your ability to have sex with a guy guys will have sex with anything you know what I mean realistically speaking but a lot of girls is the same and it's not I call girls are birth control not crackers you know why why the nut is a crack like they've been nutted in it's crazy bro what do you think is the one thing that would keep a woman faithful in a relationship the one ingredient that a man would need to have well nowadays it's getting tougher and tougher but the only thing is is keeping your value high and keeping and goes back to what I was saying before having other options of other girls is not the only way because so this how it goes as long as the girl if the girl is chasing you fantastic if a girl is chasing you she doesn't have the time to go ahead and chase other guys but when you're chasing her she's able to look and see other guys that's not what you want you always want to have the leverage when a man has a leverage in a relationship the woman is happy when the woman has the leverage in a relationship she's inevitably going to get bored annoyed and eventually grow to have contempt for the man that's chasing after her okay this is probably I'm going to get hit with the triggered thing right now most women ain't shit and they know they ain't shit so they're going to get they're like why the fuck is this guy chasing after me I'm a regular fucking girl why is he chasing after me but when it's the other way around and she's chasing after him well she's like okay this guy's a fucking somebody and then on top of that the fact that he has other girls that's really the only way you're going to keep girls loyal keeping your value high having the leverage in a relationship and letting her know that she could be replaced at any time that's how you keep and that's not even guaranteed yeah you can't force anybody to be loyal to you can't but what you can do is make them your choice of option so for example we say for guys become the best you can because if you're at your highest peak as a guy money on point mindset on point finish on point guess what is she going to find another guy like that probably not so you're her best option so to leave you will be stupid so once you're her best option you keep improving every single day you don't really lose because guess what if she leaves you or treats on you fine how did the relationship with Andrew Tate start the most spoke about man on this planet at the moment legendary top G yeah so I'll and real quick I just want to say this real quick too because we've been like you know holding on an account for their reactions but the guys got to understand that the only way you're going to be able to get this really good behavior out of women is you got to become the best version of yourself the reason why so many women don't respect so many men is because most guys let's be honest are fat losers lazy smoke pot they're not concerned with making more money they think that many women are equal and they think okay well we'll go split half on a date blah blah blah that's not the way it goes you know women like guys that are toxically masculine off of modern day words a guy that's a leader a guy that's dominant a guy that's a leader of men a guy that's confident ambitious etc that's what women look for despite what popular media tries to tell you they want that's what they really want and guys need to rise that level which is why Andrew transitioning has been so popular because he's been finally broke through the matrix and started man I've known Andrew now at this point says what 2019 we started because you did a first interview with him like 2019 yeah so random I was like bro who's this guy he's funny he's telling the truth and he embodies what it means to be like a real man right so we saw his videos a couple of years ago yeah I've known about him since like 2018-2019 and then fresh did you did an interview with him on your channel first and then I was shocked because I was like he responded to me he responded I was like bro you don't do it I'm gonna do it so we talked on what's up for like an hour or so chopped it up nicely you know what I hop on and then he came on added some value and he killed it bro like everyone loved him and then we had our podcast Fresh and Fit he came in person to the podcast yeah and that he was in Miami for I think for some business he had a war room event and we took him to Miami the yacht party we got lit we got a boat actually a funny story is because we did it was hilarious yeah so yeah so yeah you did the collab with him and then when we actually had the podcast because he had his own YouTube channel at the time this back when we had separate YouTube channels on my finished channel he had his it was like a vlog slash prank channel kind of so he just like it was one of his first interviews he did an interview with Andrew it went well and you guys bonded I think over Caribbean music right yeah guys both like reggae so funny story right I'm an avid dancehall guy like vibes cartel and also Andrew because Andrew's like bro what's that song send me that song so he's watched my stories bro that song was lit send me that song we'll go back and forth what song is that and we built a bond through like music but like he's a yacht man straight up so yeah so so he fast forward to like this is what like 2020 now yeah so they come stay inside for a war room event and we're like yeah bro and at this point we had blown up we were like a couple hundred thousand subscribers 450k something like that yeah so and we had grown quick it was like hey yeah Andrew come on the show blah blah we'll promote war room all that stuff and him and his brother Tristan came we actually rented a yacht for them and we brought some girls and everything we had a good time but no man the tape brothers are awesome dude I'm really mad at this whole situation of like getting them canceled because what they basically put it out of context to make us look crazy or misogynistic but the truth is we tell guys to be better versions of themselves so that girls get the best out of you like everything we tell guys to do the women actually benefit from it you know when we tell guys to become the best version of themselves like I tell guys all the time big advocate you're the leader you pay for the date you plan everything she comes along with you her job is just to be pretty etc but they don't clip that stuff and that's exactly what they did with Andrew and the thing is is that they were scared of his message because he was waking guys up telling them yo you need to become a better version of yourself but again they profit from you being an idiot not understanding your self worth society in general profits when men don't understand their worth and Andrew has influence it's funny because these platforms they champion free speech it's not free speech it's more like any moment anytime you can do anything about it because it's their house so it's like Andrew's situation bro is sad because he's preaching the truth and the influence that he had was so great they say you know what we can't have it anymore and they counseled him there was a whole like some loser on instagram did a whole post like oh let's get this to a million likes he's a toxic misogynist that beats on women and Neema Traffking like Neema Traffking not true the girl lied 100% because she was cheating on her boyfriend and she went ahead and had to lie to not make herself look like someone else at a party at a party at a club right they have her on video footage fucking going and getting like a uber or whatever wrong and then the second thing oh he beats on women and they play this clip of him foreplay whipping this girl but it's very obvious it's a fucking tripod set up in front of the bed you think if you were really abusing your girl you're gonna set up a tripod okay let me talk about myself committing a crime no the girl wanted that it was like foreplay that they did and she even went on video like three or four times saying yo this is consensual it's what me and Andrew used to do back then whatever but they still refused to acknowledge these facts and continue to say he's a human trafficker he beats women blah blah blah when in reality he said many times women need to be protected there's more more vulnerable sex I'll die for my women whatever they don't play any of those fucking clips they only play the stuff that isn't even true to go ahead and spend a certain narrative take clips out of context on tiktok we need to ban this guy and then bam they ban them and that's scary because you have people on the left that are super liberal cancel culture whatever I've always said it these weirdos say that they're tolerant but the reality is they're not tolerant at all they're only tolerant if you have their same viewpoints but I don't see anyone right that's more conservative or whatever talking about let's cancel this leftist creator this liberal creator let's cancel them we don't give a fuck what they do on that side but they care a lot about what we do on this side they do petitions ban this person cancel this person blah blah blah so I look at it they're super super liberal they're not tolerant whatsoever even though they claim to be tolerant it's a lie I can only treat people the way they treat me and every time I've met Andrew he's been nothing but super nice respectful at restaurants polite he's well that every time he says I was coming on the podcast he's always stuck to his word it blew up with listen I don't agree with everything that you guys say what Andrew says even when I talk I'm full of shit sometimes and I think I'm a bit off course here but the man is doing what he's doing and you can only respect how far he took the game maybe the most spoke about man on the planet believed in himself strong fat making money a lot of people agree and disagree that's life but don't force your agenda on other people because they don't believe in you like for me personally he's nothing but nice to me and like you see Logan Paul these people are calling him out and he's the most spoke about man on the planet and then obviously gets cancelled and then they turn on him not forgetting that they were fucking cancelled at one point crying and doing their shit and now that they think they've cancelled them I don't like that shit that's pussy stuff I'm glad Andrew done the video and spoke out and says look this little fucking bitch is talking out of school he's he works for people he's reading off a script and they basically think obviously and you know you know the sad part about it if they were in that scenario they cancelled wrongfully guess what Andrew would do that's not right stand up for them I'll have your back what did they do kick him when he's down that's sad what Logan Paul did I love a lot of respect for him and and here's the other thing so we call this on our podcast their virtue signaling the thing is what Logan Paul and KSI is they looked at it like okay this is our opportunity to get the most hated man on the internet who's toxically masculine and a misogynist this is how we get the weirdo liberals the female audience etc they hate us anyway because people hate KSI because he made the rape jokes they hate it Logan Paul for the Japanese thing but they hate Andrew more so if they're like yo let's fight Andrew let's set up a boxing match or whatever let's talk bad about him and we're gonna pull this market share of people that hate him okay and they'll come over to us that's what Jake Paul did as well and that's why their virtue signaling when people virtue signal 9 out of 10 times is to pull these weirdo liberals over to their side because they were never liked in the first place and I look at that like that's a sell-out like I look at it like I don't give a fuck with these idiots thing I'm gonna make my content I don't care what the left thinks I don't care what the right thinks I'm gonna make my content if it's it tends to align with one side fantastic but I'm not gonna sit here and try to virtue signal to make more money to become more mainstream or any of that shit because when you do that what happens is you lose integrity okay and when you lose integrity you can't get that you can't get that back it's fucked right and your audience knows like for example let's say you're preaching a certain message right throughout your whole career and all of a sudden you change because the tide is going that way bro that's not who you are so you change it because of a certain narrative as men we're being attacked from everywhere you know each side is attacking us as men let's stand together and stay strong because that's all we have us as men so it's what it is man who wants to fight Logan Paul Andrew Tate he's gonna be the shadow of him Andrew will be the shadow of him he's a professional fighter and he has height and reach on him like he'll be the shadow of him I bet on Andrew now Logan Paul does work hard but Andrew has experience so I bet Andrew all day yeah how about Andrew now after being cancelled I mean we talk he's holding up well man I mean it hasn't really affected him too much like from like his his spirits or anything like that we talk to him pretty often every day pretty much yeah and you know he's doing well and I think of anything all it basically showed right like when they went on rumble the first time they had well over 100,000 live viewers and they goes to show that people want the truth they don't want this this bullshit politically correct SJW garbage that a lot of people are spewing where people are offended to tell the truth I mean the fact that we can't even say objective biological facts such as men and women are not the same men are I get criticized for saying men are physically superior to women oh my god that's sexist well reality is sexist mother fucker there's a WNBA and there's an NBA it's sexist in that regard but no one bats an eye and I've said it before sexism benefits women sexism does not benefit men whatsoever so why are you fucking complaining but they only complain when sexism frames women in a in a more vulnerable light or whatever but it's the truth he went viral also for saying oh if the plane was going down I would prefer a male pilot what's wrong with saying that men are better men are universally pilots men are better from because people say oh well that's not true because women can do everything a man can no they fucking can't if you look at formula one drivers NASCAR drivers chess players video game players these um these sports and or competitive things that require dexterity you know coordination etc women lose 9 out of 10 times they can't compete so I actually did another test too on our podcast we had a bunch of girls on the panel I said would you prefer if you're gonna go get your boobs done would you prefer to have a male surgeon or a female surgeon they all said male except for one girl who was like in med school saying I would look at their stats and compare blah blah blah so she had a more nuanced thing but most of the girls in general were like I prefer a male surgeon and the thing is is that even if you ask women they're gonna prefer men it's just that it's an issue when a man says I prefer a man when a woman says it no one cares oh you know what that's your prerogative you go girl but if a guy says I prefer a male pilot if we're going down because men deal better with stress you know this has been proven right it's sexist what do you think people who are saying there's more than two gendals stupid ridiculous well as far as I know when the earth was made God made man and woman so anything else would be kind of absurd but hey you know what let them have it they can say whatever they want at the end of the day if we were to all get hit by a fucking asteroid right now which is probably we're long overdue for this asteroid right send the asteroid send the asteroid and fucking end this shit right and then we were able you know some other historians you know a thousand years from now were to dig up bones of some dude that identified as I don't fucking know as a dinosaur whatever he identifies as they're gonna look at his bones and be like this is a male they don't give a fuck how you dressed they don't care about his personality they don't care how many children are in front of children in elementary schools they don't give a fuck they're gonna look at him and be like this bone density his skull depth etc this was a fucking man okay cool male where do you guys go for the shoot children probably canceled but you know they just feel as if that could happen yeah I mean it's possible yeah with our type of content man it's YouTube took down my clips and podcast with Andrew and that as well really? yeah I went up against it and they put it back that's dude and that was over a year ago that was stuff that's crazy and that's a perfect example of what I mean when I say that they're just trying to cancel someone that tells the truth I mean nothing Andrew said is wrong really like it's all based in biological fact but you know but you can keep a guy on like let's say KSI who was talking about raping women and making a joke of it Logan Paul looking at dead people in Japan etc they gave them a second chance and here's the thing that's big on you should know it should be canceled like H3 for example all they do is talk shit about us even though they're losers right L3 I call them L3 podcast and LaSanne Abbey right they should be canceled yeah I'm sure they will because they had Andrew on saying clips but they were saying some fucking nasty shit yeah fucker but I don't wish them to be canceled but those idiots want us to be canceled so it's a whole different mindset when you when you invite cancel culture to come in cancel culture eats itself because you can say the wrong thing even if you're politically correct because you look at someone like I you know shot to 10 boys in front of ours he was considered radically liberal 10 years ago now he's considered radically conservative now times change and views change and what's liberal always gets changed and what's conservative always gets changed so you can always get canceled at any point so like my thing is an injustice for one as an injustice for all and it's so big the term of service is there a it's like for example right I say all the time if I'm in your house right and you have rules I don't follow your rules guess what you can do kick me out social media Instagram Facebook YouTube Twitter you don't follow the rules they can kick you out however it's so big that you could even have the truth on your side because they deem it as not viable or false information you're gone so it's so big that like anybody can be canceled so you might be right but somewhere you might be wrong so how about cancel culture itself it's dangerous because now everyone's a target you might be safe for now but not always yeah what do you think about the matrix Andrew always talks about do you believe that's life's a game do you think we can rig it to what we want to do I believe that we are in a world where there's a game being played here and either you know the rules or you don't know the rules but there's a game being played whether you accept it or not now and I do the same for example we're in a matrix you can compare it to the movie Red Pillow Blue Pill right my thing is we're in some type of game or some type of like programming right you have a choice to make either you follow the rules or you make your own rules at any day there's a game being played it's up to you there's definitely a strong incentive to keep things a certain way because when you can keep people sleepwalking right and in some kind of delusional reality where genders don't matter and men and women are the same and all this other stuff it makes people feel empowered to do stupid shit but what I've said is that we prioritize feelings over real you know it feels before real and that's a very dangerous precedent you know I think for example me saying something controversial like I don't think women should be in combat positions in the military oh that's sexist and fucked up how's it fucked up well I know women are physically inferior to men and if you put a woman in a combat position well you've effectively limited the ability of all the other people because now you're only as strong as your weakest component and women we know most of the time are not physically as strong as men there's a reason why we have to give women standards in the military and male standards in the military does that mean that I don't think women should be in the military no but I don't think they should be in combat positions in the front line whatsoever right because she's not going to be able to drag a 200 pound man to safety efficiently like a 200 pound man can drag another 200 pound man to safety there's just biology but if you say something like this it's considered toxic misogynistic and sexist but again sexism as I said before inherently benefits women because if we didn't have sexism women would have to compete with men and we'd have one standard we'd have one NBA we'd have one sports league and guess what women wouldn't be able to compete because we got high school boys beating the shit out of female national soccer teams who do you think struggles most on this planet male or female male is 100% how so like I said earlier right men have to prove their values to the world out front women on the other hand when they're born they're how they looks their values right there so as a guy you have to work on yourself from the very beginning and if you don't work on yourself what happens is you become a loser become fat and nobody gets the shit about you no matter what you do so it's kind of like as a guy you have to work on your value no matter what a girl you just show up guys come to you you get what you want in life and it's given to you on a platter now on the flip side the last laugh if the guy works on himself and becomes successful becomes some amount of value later on he gets the last laugh but a front women get that last laugh for the most part women get their million dollars a front men have to earn their million dollars you know and a lot of women end up spending all their money and becoming 35 years old with you know $500 in the bank right because they didn't cash in when they had all their money but with men you have to earn that million dollars that's why I always laugh at women and say well why can you have sex with a bunch of girls and I can't and why do I have to be closed and you can't because I'm a self-made millionaire you're a trustman baby a trustman baby cannot tell a self-made millionaire how to spend and make their money because if you earned your million well you're going to know more about finances and how the world works and you have more financial knowledge than someone who's a trustman baby that was given their money but women don't understand that we are not the same when we play by different rules they want to use mail rules when it benefits them then they want to use female rules when it benefits them and that's just not the way the world works you were born with your value up front so men undoubtedly have a far harder existence than women it's shown in all the you look at all the hard manual labor jobs you look at the suicide rates you look at the hours worked you look at all these things women complain and say oh men women get paid less blah blah blah no women get paid less because of personal fucking decisions women don't want to work longer hours women don't want to go ahead and work the jobs that no one wants to work we're not representing the Fortune 500 companies enough well you guys also aren't representing construction and sewage and trash pickups or any of that other stuff either you know so they want to go ahead and get all the benefits without necessarily putting into work a lot of the times well why are you know if you look at like geniuses most geniuses the smartest people in the world from a genius standpoint most of them are men if you look at the bell curve this has been established a million times I don't know why people can't accept this on average more women have a higher IQ than men but if you look at the highest and lowest ends of the spectrum there's a majority of the geniuses that are men but also a majority of the weirdos people with lower IQ are also men so men benefit but they also suffer in the extreme ends of the spectrum women tend to be more in the average range do you believe love exists let your ghetto friends do you love them or is it just how do you block out because I think love exists it's just that I think men and women love vastly differently women love men for what they provide right and we talked about this Rojo Tomasi shout out to him I agree with him 100% on this that women love opportunistically men tend to love idealistically men love a woman for who she is right women love a man for what he provides and there's nothing wrong with that I completely accept that that's just the way that the world works you know women are hard wired to get their needs needs met through men and since that is how they operate they need to be able to quickly move on to another guy that's why women get over breakups sooner that's why women initiate divorce that's why women initiate most of the breakups because if a guy isn't fulfilling a certain need whether security provisioning strength whatever it is she's like this guy is weak I need to go find another guy that can fulfill this so men love the woman women love the man for what he provides do you think people in relationships I don't deny you a lot of time and stay in those relationships even though they're unhappy I think people get comfortable and for example let's say right you're with somebody and you've been with them for like five years four years you used to that person right however you want more you're gonna stay with that person but still do things on the side because you're comfortable and that right there breeds to like discontent it leads to like you know fights and arguments so my thing is if you have options as a guy you're not gonna settle for that but most guys once again like we said earlier don't have options so for example they'll be able to go like that damn it's the one girl I can never get I'm gonna stay with her and that's because you don't have any options you're not working yourself as a man so it's up to the guy to have that standard so you know what as a guy I have options either take it or leave it for anybody that's maybe watching that's stuck in a bubble just now or struggling in life what advice would you have for them I would say offer it understand where you're at deal with it say I'm broke I'm not where I want to be look in the mirror what do you see if I'm not happy with it cool now you acknowledge that you're not where you want to be you're not who you want to be figure out who you want to be get a mentor in that space for example let's say you want to be a accountant you want to be a YouTuber a Twitch streamer doesn't matter the point is like you find a mentor in that space and you can find them on YouTube for free go to their videos watch what they do learn from them and maybe they'll have a book learn from them and then play it to your life and with a mentor you can jump cut a thousand issues because guess what he's really been through those issues himself so you can fast forward your experience his experience and get what you want out of life but my thing is understand who you are get a mentor in that space and move forward because guess what life is short you want to live the best life possible but you have to be be the best man possible to live that lifestyle so that's what it is yeah I think guys gotta understand that there is a permanent performance you know if you're smoking pot all the time you're fat you're a loser you live with your mom you don't have your money on point etc understand that that is unacceptable for you as a man you are based on what you create that is men and women are not the same mediocrity is only accepted from women it is not accepted from men if a girl is pretty enough she could be mediocre find a millionaire and get married and be right off into the sunset you don't get that benefit as a guy okay men must perform and I think once guys understand this uncomfortable reality that you are performance based you cannot rely on your beauty you cannot rely on your handsomeness you can't rely on other people and it's all on you that's when guys need to understand you gotta fucking wake up because the thing is is that these girls are picking and thanks to the deregulated sexual marketplace feminism birth control social media online dating apps all these things working in a perfect storm of tandem it's effectively giving women all the leverage in dating okay and I'm not saying become the best version of yourself for girls fuck no you need to become the best version of yourself so that you don't tolerate the girls that don't deserve you and when you have your value high you're finally in a position where you pick the girls you decide what you want to do so if you do decide I want to be monogamous you're making that decision not some bitch if you decide I want multiple girls you're making that decision you decide you know what I just want to be single for a bit etc you're making that decision I want guys to be able to control their life because if you don't get your shit together someone else is going to control your life for you and worse yet it could be your girlfriend it could be your wife and that's not where you want to be yes guys listen I'm looking forward to seeing the comments when this podcast radical yeah but where can people get to view your YouTube your social media platforms what's all your links so people can come and visit drop your questions argue with you sure yeah I'm sure there's going to be a bunch of people in the comments man probably feminists the guys understand this stuff you want to tell them so fresh fit podcast on YouTube fresh and fit just type it in Spotify everywhere else we're all over the place over the place Instagram my Instagram is unplugged fit his is freshman CEO our main YouTube channel is fresh and fit we also have a clips channel fresh and fit clips you know so if you don't have time to watch full on podcast where I'm arguing girls and losing hair follicles you can go ahead and get the clips we post two to three on there per day and then we go live Monday Wednesday Friday we do money Mondays followed by nighttime show then womanizer Wednesday is followed by nighttime show with the girls the nighttime shows after hours and then Friday we do a calling show or we do a guest show and then we do that also follow up with girls would you like to finish your point anything guys I think this was a good podcast man yeah this was awesome dude a couple of topics got to meet you a person man because I see your videos all the time shout out to you James English thank you brother the interview you did with Tate was fantastic thank you how to be a pimp I had to change it Tate last week though because your trip fucking took it down wow and I like your your diversity of people that you've interviewed you know what I mean me coming from a long force in the background I saw that you interviewed someone from the area of brotherhood who testified against the Hells Angels you know me being a former fed I was like oh yeah this is crazy stuff so you know I love that type of content so it's always great to collaborate with other concert critters from different spectrums and get different takes on it that's what it's all about is to just let people tell their story how they see the world we all see it differently who says it's right or wrong we're just all going through a little fucking journey we just we don't know what the fuck we're doing we talk a good game but we're just all trying to get through life as happy as we can as best as we can absolutely man in my opinion but for coming on a day brother for a long time again can't wait to see the comments can't wait to drop this wish is all the best I hope your trip in the UK is safer than it was the first minute you got here God bless you oh my days thank you man I appreciate it