 us before while driving with toxic people them directly trying to speak to them you'll realize that the conversation just goes around in circles and never really goes anywhere because the thing with toxic people is that they just don't want to hear it they don't really care about what you have to say they expect everything to revolve around their point of view their perspective thanks for the donation so they really don't require any input from you they don't validate your experience and I think that's really what makes them toxic that's what gives you that feeling inside that something is not right because when you're dealing with someone who is mature at least a moderately healthy functional person even if they don't agree with you they can still see where you're coming from you can see how you got to that conclusion but toxic people cannot see that they just see it as though anything that is different to their point of view is bad wrong and you're only doing it to hurt them or you're trying to manipulate to exploit them because that's what they're trying to do so they just assume that everyone is the same so how do you deal with toxic people I would recommend limiting your contact with them it doesn't matter who it is even if it's family I know people look at it like how can you stop talking to your parents or even your own children how can you just stop talking to them like that and of course I can understand that point of view I can see how someone would get to that conclusion but then on the other hand it's like yeah exactly if your family then how can they treat you that way that's how people should also be looking at it because if someone's your family then they should respect you they should at least try to understand you it's not always about focusing on the effect the result the consequence of something rather than the actual cause of what brought that into manifestation but that's just what toxic people do they tend to focus more on your reaction to what they're doing toxic people don't like to look at themselves or their actions you could go grey rock but what I really recommend is just to not deal with them at all to deal with toxic people you don't deal with them it's kind of a catch-22 it's a paradox but I think it's true because I've never heard of anyone dealing with a toxic person or a narcissist I'm feeling validated feeling understood feeling like something is actually being resolved without it coming up again in the next few days just doesn't happen so there's really no evidence to just to suggest that working with these people and trying to deal with them is going to help anyone in any way and actually it doesn't even help the toxic person it's just enabling their bad behavior it's not making them better people so it really doesn't help anyone anyway so yeah to deal with toxic people the only thing you can really do is just leave them alone because they're never gonna see things your way they're never really gonna understand you just have to let them go focus on yourself focus on recovering from the traumas that you've endured from being around them and then when you start getting back to yourself you've then got something to give to those who can receive it those who can digest your qualities but toxic people all you can do is avoid them that's really the only way to deal with them you cannot work with them you're wasting your time by trying to cooperate because they just see that as a weakness anyway just see it as though you're a fool and of course they will continue to play you to exploit you to exploit what they see as your stupidity your naivety because that's all they're gonna see it as when you try to cooperate with them because they already know that they're not to be cooperated with if you try to cooperate with them they just see you as though you're completely stupid that's really how they look at it they just see us as fools for trying to cooperate so don't cooperate with them just let them go and you just carry on with your own thing just focus on yourself protecting yourself being the best person that you can be and yeah you'll find that guides you to a happier healthier life anyway I'm just driving to the hot springs in Krabi in Thailand I've been here for over a year and a half now but yeah it's nice to be back in Krabi I really like it here it's quite quiet it's driving along so yeah just on the way to the hot springs now I think I will do a video there on my other channel spiritual secrets