 Hey guys, good morning and welcome to above live channel the purpose here is to inspire your spirit and to fill you with hope on this Monday video. Hi, good morning. I'm early today. I'm early today. Aren't you impressed? Come on, you got to be impressed. Good morning. Good morning. So let's get started with our conversation today. I first let's, I got my little altar over here. You guys don't, it's not on camera, but I am going to light an incense to start our day. Hello, Miss Cio. Hello from Tennessee there. We are going to light this. It actually smells, this is a cinnamon twist from Salish Winds. It is various sacral chakra ish and that's a good, let's see if I can light this bad boy up here. There we go. Light it up. You're going to have to just imagine the scent of cinnamon, imagine the scent of cinnamon burning. We're going to talk about some, some stuff related to Valentine's this week. We're going to talk about twin flames and soul mates. We're going to have a conversation about that. Hello Anne. Good morning to you as well. Nice to see you in the chat. I want to make a note that when you are watching this video on the replay, you can check out the description below because I have new links to services there that you might want to partake in. Our inspiring psychic experience group this month is actually meeting on the 29th of February on the leap year. So if you want to join that, it is a small group literally old school kind of psychic question and answer kind of vibe. So it's kind of, it's a fun energetic and interactive experience. So you might want to join that. So anybody can join. It is on Zoom and I record it because when people get like psychic Q&A answered, they want to kind of make sure that they can listen to that back. And so that's, that's what we do. All right. So let me just check to make sure I didn't go down my sound. I have balloons. Although they're, yes, I have balloons in the background. I'm just reminded I have to make note of all my birthday things that I've gotten. Last week, one of my dear, dear friends ordered some cakes for me, some little bunch cakes. And when I went over to my sisters and we had a, had a great old time eating those cakes. And she also got me balloons, beautiful balloons. And then I also showed off my, my snake earrings yesterday that I got also, but I got those from my person in Maine. And so those are awesome. So, and I showed you my, I shared with you my cookies. If you watch me on TikTok above live channel, you've seen some of my extra stuff that I and what I did on my birthday last week. So now we're sliding into Valentine's Day. Valentine's Day isn't always a fun day for people. Okay, let's just legit admit that. I mean, at least there's good chocolate and there'll be Clarence chocolate sales after. So if you like chocolate or candies or whatever, that'll be great or stuffed animals, you know, you can go treat yourself and do that. For me, my thing has been, and again, if you follow me on TikTok above life channel, you know, Dunkin Donuts. This season I have been into the pink velvet macchiato made with almond milk. A small one because it's a lot of sugar, but yummy. Good morning. Hi, Don. Nice to see you. Yes, I am doing well. Thank you. I am actually. Thank you so much. You guys are so sweet. All right. Yeah, I'm back to doing sessions, by the way. I did two. I doubled up last week on Friday. I did two sessions in a day and I've only been doing like one here and there and now I can, I can work again. So I'm like, okay, it's like a switch flipped and all of a sudden, like my brain's back and I'm able to do stuff. It's nice. It's really nice. So I mean, I still have a ways to go. Obviously, like I have to make the six month mark and then I have a doctor appointment and our aortic specialist appointment, checking out some vascular stuff at the end of this month. So hopefully that'll go well. But yeah, I'm doing really well. I'm balancing the medication better and things are going well. So thank you for asking. I really do appreciate that. Thank you. Okay, so let's talk about, and I'm looking around my desk because I know I had, I have a symbol of twin flame energy and I couldn't find it readily and I'm like, okay, this is gonna bug me because I feel like my stuff is off and I don't like that. I don't like how off it is. It feels off. Okay. I feel like crooked. Don't I feel crooked? Okay. There we go. A little bit better. All right. I was looking for a symbol of twin flame energy and I have one, but I could not find it, of course, how it goes. Here's what it is. And there is something coming on this topic of twin flames that I'm going to share with you a special thing that I'm going to share with you that if you are more curious, if you're curious about this or you're curious about my personal story about it, I'm going to, I'm going to, there's going to be an opportunity to connect with me intimately about it and I'm going to share that on Valentine's Day. It's like a service thing that I'm going to do, but you'll have to see on Valentine's when I post that. Yeah. I'm getting teasy on my stuff now, you guys. Come on. Gotta be a little sassy on it. Okay, my friends, let's begin by saying twin flame and soulmate. These are different things. These are not the same things. These are different things. And I know people will lump them together and under this guise of this romantic story and this sweep you off your feet and fantasy like fairy tale energy and who doesn't want some good, you know, kind of fun energy in their love life or attraction energy or that sparkly new relationship energy. Yeah. Like who doesn't, what is this? This is not a good move. Like I'm out at the bar and I'm doing this. I'm a little bit like the she version of Chandler. I'm so cool. We got to use a sense of humor today, my friends, because the twin flame stuff is serious. It's serious business. I'm not kidding you guys. Okay. You don't be playing with the twin flame energy. It fucks you up. And I have the proof for that. Yes, I do. And what is the deal with me showing my scar all the time? I don't know. Like it's a thing. Like, I was like this, like people understand what I'm talking about. They don't understand. I just point nobody knows. It's a personal thing, I guess it gives me like a superpower. But I had a friend of mine recently, I shared this on the Sunday morning coffee yesterday that I had a friend of mine recently that said, nobody can fuck with your energy. She's like, nobody bitch, please. She said, nobody can mess with your energy. You have a whole new heart. Like your aorta was rebuilt. She said, you should be dead. You're not dead. You are like super freaking human. I'm like, okay, well, I wouldn't go that far. However, she's right. And so I'm like, hmm, the metaphysical and the physical come together. And they impact and influence each other, whether you acknowledge it or not. And you as an empath feel both. So stress impacts your heart. And your heart is is your physical heart will then respond and create scenarios for you, maybe tightness in your chest, maybe anxiety, maybe shortness of breath, maybe some blockages kind of a thing. All sorts of all everything you've heard me say this before, everything that happens in your physical body is both a metaphysical thing and a physical thing. There's two parts to all of them. The human and the spiritual, the physical and the metaphysical, you've got to understand this because then when you are healing, you will not be frustrated, regardless of what you're healing from, because you know that you have this other thing, the spiritual component. And that's kind of what the twin flame and the soulmate thing are also. Okay, they're kind of this almost this spiritual fantasy like energy that we place upon these two things. But the truth is they are, they are very different scenarios and ways to understand relationship and our hearts and our loving hearts and how we are connected and attached to other people. I'm not talking attachment theory. I'm not talking are you anxiously attached? I'm not talking, I'm not talking, are you avoiding attachment? No, I'm not talking about attachment styles. I'm talking about the way that our webs and our energies and our grids connect with other people from other lifetimes and also in this once you got double layer, you got like a double decker sandwich there, you got to be taken into account because you have the past life scenario and that's what the soulmates and the twin flame pieces are intertwined with. This is why I say a lot, don't go playing with past lives because past life stuff is a lot of info. You need professional assistance when you do that kind of stuff, because when you remember things, it can totally take you off, off this plane and into another area and if you can't, if you're not fully integrated, you're going to lose your freaking mind and the very least be ADD and really distracted and not understanding what's happening because you will look at a person, a human person and you will see the soul of them that your soul remembers. It's like a reflection of that other lifetime and it and unless you can do things with that information in this timeline, it does not help you, it hurts you. Do you understand me? It doesn't help, it hurts. Okay, I'm going to be very dramatic in this video, not like I'm not anyway, I'm a big ham, I'm all cheesy, right? But I'm going to be dramatic and I'm going to be direct and I'm going to share with you my understanding about this and I've lived it and I'm a psychic person and I'm a clearer by the way. Like years ago, I was trained in clearing, I was attuned to clearing, I had spirit guides help me with it. I actually did physical and person stuff. I have done clearing, I understand energy, okay? And because of the twin flame stuff, I had experienced like psychic attack like I had never had in my lifetime. I was like, oh, people just, oh gosh, please, people just like, that stuff is just so dramatic. And it happened to me because of the twin flame energy. So this is serious. This isn't romantic. This is serious. This is understanding relationship, okay? As humans, we are so desirous of connection with other people and of the sensory experience and expression of what we consider love to be, which is pure at its base foundation, just this connection, the touch, the union with the pairing up of with another person and the being in space with sharing physical space and the sensory, the touch, the holding the hands, the hugs, the kisses and the more intimate expression and the pleasurable experiences bring us to a point of, oh, this is why I came here for this and then we romanticize it. We make it really kind of this big incredible deal and then we start to kind of sometimes get a little blurry on the boundaries of the energy of scenarios where like a twin flame situation or even a soulmate situation can be so overwhelming and it can overload your circuitry and it can create almost especially with the twin flame like an addiction and that's how I would describe it like this this crave like when you have too much coffee and you have so much caffeine and then you go off the caffeine then you get headaches because you have withdrawals. The same kind of thing happens with a twin flame energy. Twin flame, the reason why it's called flame is because it is really hot and intense and that can be passionate but it can also ignite anger and jealousy and lots of insecurity and it can pull you out of your body and into this ethereal connection that you have with this person that's own little ethereal space bubble and that is from another past life so it pulls you off plane so where we're living at here on the earthly plane in a physical body it pulls you off plane so you're in your human body but you're also trying to connect with this person and you're so you become so desperate for that unification the reunion of and so twin flames are constantly being pulled together for the reunion because the reunion releases something that has been agreed to from a past life experience or multiple lifetimes or from a soul expression before coming in so it could be two spirit guides hanging out in the afterlife kind of chilling and they're having a conversation to support each other and they agree they're best friends maybe they're like best friends in soul land and then they come back into bodies and then they agree to find each other to ignite to let something loose let something free set something free the phoenix rising from the ashes is a very good analogy to twin flame energy twin flame energy grabs a hold of you and it does not let go it is hard to break and it literally for me i'm going to just say i'm going to say this i'm going to say the word i'm going to say the word it feels like a curse it feels like a curse i thought i knew what twin flame was i thought it was this deeper devotional connection to a soulmate it kind of is that but it's often tragic it's often trauma filled and comes at a time when you're at a crossroads and so are they and you release each other you trigger each other constantly and you release each other into hopefully the remembrance of being more of who you are and that's what happened for me i did remember more of who i was but it was a very difficult and challenging time the last two years trying to work through that it's been really rough but like i said i thought i knew what twin flame was i didn't i totally misunderstood i think that's normal again i haven't read stuff on this i'm not like i haven't gone to a professional that's told me all about this or whatever i've lived it therefore i'm claiming expertise subject matter expert and so watch for Wednesday when i announce something about twin flame stuff that i can help you with and on my public above live channel i'm not going to share about my personal story directly about twin flame but privately i will so because i know it can help people you know i do know what can so am i trying to scare you yes why is that well because fear motivates people actually i'm not trying to scare you i'm just telling you the truth and i have worked with a couple of other people i have at least two maybe actually i have three clients that have experienced twin flame energies and all of them have ended in tragedy one has never come to fruition up to this point in time they've never actually united and shared the common understanding that they are twin flames the other was a scenario where they got just got together and the person died i'm not kidding true and the third scenario of clients that i've worked with up to this point is somebody who's had this like a cycle with this person that's really whirlwind romantic going on trips together having wonderful times together and just whirlwind whirlwind romantic trips and then not talking for months and then whirlwind trips and not talking for months and whirlwind trips not talking for months and the twin flame is often very either in in about half of the cases that i've experienced or i've or that i have had that i've worked with people and i've also experienced myself about half of the cases the twin flame is so self-absorbed that they don't even know that the other person is so would literally give them a kidney like they just don't know they just don't they're so in their own space and self-absorbed with their lives and maybe it's because they're dealing with trauma or maybe they're coming to terms with something in their own lives twin flame energy is like that and this other person is there just to support them and love them and sometimes it's loving them from afar but you can't get them out of your head it could be that old high school sweetheart that you just can't get them out of your head and there's an energy bond there and so and that can be not just tumultuous but difficult because then it holds you back from real really experiencing kindness and compassion and a loving partner that is equally yoked as a friend of mine said she's like you need to be with someone where you're equally yoked I'm like okay and as empaths we really can forget how much we are giving until all of a sudden we're at our wits end we feel depressed we're sad we're detached we're we're just not ourselves anymore because we've been living for this other person to maybe wake up and remember us to feel the same way and it's not that they don't maybe love you it's that they just don't remember it they don't have the same consciousness in time or they needed something different and the agreement that you had your sole agreement the contract for the twin flame was not to have a happy ending now I have been told that that twin flames can have happy endings I've been told that now I haven't experienced that myself personally but I guess I mean I have what 25 30 years of my life left probably 24 actually years of my life left so maybe I mean it's possible you could reunite with your twin flame but the union is often tragic and very difficult so we're going to talk now about now now that I've depressed you thoroughly on Valentine's week dot dot dot okay I'm just telling you like it is I'm not fluffing it up for you okay I'm not I'm just going to be direct but you do learn things you do learn things you do get some things out of the experience in the situation and you alchemize it and I'm going to talk about that in my little thing coming up on Wednesday I'm still writing the description for it that's why it's not ready today just to be transparent I'm like I have to do this people will want this but it has to be private because I'm not doing it public I'm not gonna I'm not outing anybody publicly I'm not gonna I'm not there's no names gonna be given well maybe privately I'm like no no no no no I'm not gonna do that but I am gonna share because it was really a very um a huge part of my life that I never want to relive again it was a difficult difficult time um but for a purpose right pain has a purpose and so I'm gonna share I'm gonna share we're gonna alchemize that so the energy of the soulmate piece is something that is much more lighthearted and it's much more mate friend a buddy a partner to your soul it's like that and it could be your child oh I should have mentioned to the twin flame that I've seen has often been has been all in romantic partnerships piece like somebody like just like a love that's very imbalanced like one person gives and the other person just takes you know like that kind of thing like just like bad takes not just kind of takes but just really takes and it might not be to their own it might not be on purpose but it really is just such an imbalance in the power dynamic of the love it's just so unhealthy and in a soulmate relationship it's different um and it can be your kids or a neighbor or a friend or somebody you just really connect with or a sibling or maybe a parent even or or your love it could be your love also and soulmates you have more than one I haven't seen somebody that has had more than one twin flame it doesn't mean it's not possible I just haven't seen it yet and in my work in the future I might see that I would I would I would I would suspect I may see that I don't know what this is about I don't know yeah I know I know I've got I know um but I do think that sorry I'm somebody's watching me and texting me will you stop no I'm super distracted I know you're just trying to help um let's see hmm all right I don't know what you mean anyway so soulmates all right so I am gonna also say that I suspect that twin flame energy might also be with a parent or with a sibling or with a child um it's really an imbalance of how it looks on human on the human plane is an imbalance of power but let's remember there was an agreement about this and so understanding what the agreement is is key so it's not that like you blame that person necessarily we do I do I totally do like I got I got some grudges I'm working through layers of clearing and healing it's natural to have that kind of experience but the metaphysical part of it is the place where you grow and where you alchemize and where it's medicine it becomes medicine for you and then like for me I get to help other people now in this arena and I'm bad at it so because I can clear also you know and cut the cords and I can see all that stuff so it really it will really be helpful right and so I couldn't have known that before I had no idea before so let's focus on the soulmates because that seems more fun so let's be clear I am operating under some values personal values and biases that I have which might be different than yours because we're at different places on our spiritual journey and on our human journey and you get to feel and experience and have different values I'm not saying what I'm saying is right for everybody it's not a one size fits all that's not what spirit is there's not rules about that there's not rules you get to decide what fits for you at this point so if you're a very a person that follows a religious doctrine you're welcome here I'm not trying to change your mind or convince you of something different I'm just sharing my experiences based upon my 20 plus years of psychic work and my personal experience the last three years and I hope that it can help people so I'm not telling you what is point blank even though I speak with conviction because I've experienced it and I feel very strongly about it so with the soulmate scenario you kind of got to operate under the assumption that we've been around the block a few times we've orbited the earth and had multiple incarnations so I you you kind of have to understand that I'm operating under the assumption of the premise of reincarnation and that we have the choice to do that or not and how we do that is also a little bit up for negotiation but when we get here we don't remember any of that we don't remember that and this there's a series of trying to reconnect to that little map in your belly that compass that soul light that's why everybody wants to know about intuition because we want that unification within ourselves because that's the first soulmate you got is you and little kids know this little kids are super open and all happy and joyful and that's how the spirit is when it's that pure form and it's entered into the body it's born into the body and then it learns how to acclimate to the surroundings and to kind of you know go with the flow and that kind of thing and it's confusing and that's why little kids probably don't talk and they just observe the first couple years and like what the heck are these people doing and this is why little kids or younger children often will have more paranormal or psychic experiences or see grandma who's crossed over and all that kind of stuff because they're just not they're not as judgmental about things or black and white about things as we are as we get older because we kind of have to be that way to be able to function in the world so don't dig on yourself or not feeling intuitive just know that you are you're an empathic being which means you're you understand energy and your empathy in your heart space is so intuitive it is when it's connected with your or reunified with your solar plexus your spirit your true spirit itself that's when the union happens that's when the soul is mated and you really have so much more access to life the world that the wisdom that you've been looking for is there and it comes through much easier in that regard with less obstacles or barriers okay so soulmate you are your first one and mates are friends right or people that you care about that are your chums that are along for the journey with you so you might have soulmate that is a husband or your wife or a lover or a friend or a child or a parent or a sibling it can be anybody it doesn't have to be and it doesn't have to be you can have lots and lots and lots of soulmates so it could be somebody that you just meet and you just feel connected to you're like I don't know why I feel so connected but I feel connected and this is new so y'all know that above life channel started as a channeling with afterlife celebrity guests which there's still access to all those playlists so you can spend some time on those playlists if you choose to do that and it started with prince in the afterlife when he transitioned in 2016 it was like a year or two years later that I started this channel lots of playlists for that and I was reminded by a good psychic friend of mine last night that I actually did a a video with prince asking about soulmates and twin flames so there is a video about it from the afterlife so it is possible yes that you could have a famous celebrity that is a soulmate and that doesn't mean you get to be together that's not what soulmates mean it means there's a connection between your spirit and their spirit and it doesn't have to be realized in this lifetime okay it doesn't have to be come to fruition or be manifested it doesn't mean romance okay we have to stop projecting this fantasy version of love and mixing it with some alchemical version of metaphysics and projecting it into our human life experience because that is not what it is okay let's be a little more practical about this metaphysics let's be practical about metaphysical concepts because you're dealing with two planes and two things so it doesn't have to be the love of your life but it can be and the chances are if you have been with someone that you just adored and you've had such a deep connection with yeah they're a soulmate and you can have many of them okay many of them and how beautiful that our souls have these groups of tribes of other spirits that sometimes might just come into your life because you guys are hanging out at a workshop and you just meet and you click and you connect but you only see each other for the time of the workshop and that's it and they go along their way but your heart is like oh you got some joy in your heart because of the connection made the reunion made with that person on this plane in this lifetime right so that's that's a sweetness a gift that is awesome that is a feel-good kind of a thing you don't have to make it more than what it is i think we have this natural tendency to want more more more more and make things mean more or we are the opposite end and we don't notice things that's like you guys we have to come into the center and be in alignment when with these experiences because they have some information to give us they have support and sometimes it's just that energetic boost in our heart space of just a wonderful time a pleasant experience okay that's not to say that soulmates can't cause you pain if you got kids that are soulmates they can cause you pain but there's an ups and an up and down kind of an ebb and a flow to things with the soulmate relationship when you're actually in a relationship with the soulmate where there's this like underlying respectful energy or or maybe not respectful energy maybe an honoring of the a deeper understanding and an honoring of the experience and a lot of people will say soulmate soulmate soulmate and i not everybody is a soulmate just because they're in your life doesn't mean they're a soulmate either so it's not black and white it's not black and white it's it's much different than what you have been what we have been taught i think that's what i'll say all right so i want to say hello to the chat good morning watch for what i'm going to share on wednesday about twin flames let's say hello to hey lisa hi there hi and hi and and anna we got two ands and annas in the chat oh deja nice to see you finally caught me live oh yay hey you better be doing your homework girl you better be doing your homework don't be skipping class to be on the live stream okay hi nice to see you hey you guys make sure you catch yesterday the sunday morning coffee was long it was like almost an hour but it was good stuff it was really good stuff and we did some heart healing in the heart we talked about heart flames which is different than twin flame or soulmate but if we talked about heart flames so you'll have to check that out that was a really good one i personally i'm like oh i should use this as a tg one in the future it's a really good one so yeah okay well i feel like i feel like i've shared what i need to share about this topic of twin flame and soulmates so again i'm gonna kind of point you to some of the videos apparently i have one with prince where we talked about soulmates and twin flames so you might want to watch that as well i'm sure i have other content about this topic and it's evolved over time because i didn't have an experience with twin flame i thought i did i thought it was like this romanticized version of a really high level soulmate it's different it's not that it's not that it is not that is very different than that and so i think it's really important to understand the terminology and there's other people that are going to use these terms interchangeably and i'm not saying that they're wrong i'm just saying it's a very different thing and so make sure you know somebody's definition if you're hiring a psychic to like do a reading for you like a romantic reading or something like that then you might want to make sure you know what they're talking about you know if you're on the same page that kind of thing okay okay my lovelies thank you so much for being here on above live channel on our monday video i look forward to connecting with you again and i'm trying to think what else do i have going i don't have any clients today but if you want to be a client take a look at when this is live take a look at the description below because you'll see some new service offerings and there's going to be more bopping up on wednesday so all right i hope i have inspired your spirit today filled you with some hope i hope i haven't like been a big downer here um but i need to tell you what i know like i need to pass that along to you so you can use that with your personal life experience and make sense of things for yourself and decide what what values you have and what understanding you come to because you are the expert on you okay you are the expert on you so trust yourself okay trust yourself and your discernment all right when no matter what kind of relationships you're in trust yourself trust your intuition because you're not wrong you're not wrong all right so i've inspired your spirit filled you with some hope and encouraged you to live your life with your connection to your own wisdom okay because this is your life after all and you get to live it you get to decide how you're going to live it so just live it thanks for being here