 Hello, and welcome to this episode of Healing with Tony. Healing is a journey that we take, and we can seek healing for many reasons, everything from physical, emotional, psychological, mental, financial, to many different areas of life. In the physical realm, we can seek healing from a broken bone to an ailment within us. And there are many different reasons why we would want to seek healing, not only because there's something wrong, but because we want something to be more right or to evolve further in this life. I am a very, very strong believer that if you are on a healing journey, and I believe our whole life is a healing journey, it's a journey of healing and learning and growing, evolving, that you seek out every method that you possibly can and work with them to get to where you want to be in your body, mind, and spirit. Now I do believe in alternative modalities of healing. My friend Jimmy Mack is an amazing healer that does my liquid fish. I also do that. He was kind enough to teach me that. I'm a hypnotist. I do other energy healing modalities, but today we're going to focus on hypnosis and my very, very brave and absolutely amazing guest, Alisa, is volunteered to be hypnotized on air for you. So she is going to be going into a state of hypnosis, and we are probably going to clear something away today. How do you feel about that? I feel great about that. There's a lot I feel needs to be cleared. It's been a while. Good. Excellent. Now, is there a specific area you would like to work on today? We could work on relationships, finances, career, career and finances. I pretty much know how those are going. Relationships would be nice just in general, not just romantic part, but like all across the board. Okay. I think I need to get back to me. Okay. So there's two different things there. You feel stuck in relationships? I feel stuck. Period. Stuck. Oh, well, maybe we could, let's do that. Let's work on that because that one's making you emotional. Okay. It's weird that I get excited when I'm emotional hanging out with you. Yes. I always say, if I don't make you cry, I have not done my job. Done your job and then 10 times over. Yay me. No, seriously, we're going to do a hypnosis today on getting you unstuck and I'm already starting to get a lot of visuals. No, I want you to be running forward with everything that life has to offer you, not only in the area of relationships, but in the area of finances and career and love. So today I'm going to count you and we're going to do a progressive hypnosis session and I am a certified hypnotist. I've been for years and years. I take continuing education, so I'm not just like playing here. I actually kind of know what I'm doing with you and Alisa, you have had hypnosis in the past. I help with you. Yeah. Every time you go in, you go a little bit deeper and you go into hypnosis a little bit more quickly. So I'm going to get started today and I can already see like shackles around your ankles and chains. So that's going to be one of the first things we're going to release because I can tell, like I'm seeing them so clearly, it's crazy. So if you would like to close your eyes and I want you to know that any noises you hear, any noises at all will simply take you deeper and deeper into that state of hypnosis. People talking, phones ringing, doors opening and closing will simply take you deeper and deeper down. In a moment, I'm going to count from three, down, two, one. When I reach one, you'll be in a very relaxed, very comfortable state of hypnosis. With each count, you'll simply go a thousand times deeper. As a matter of fact, each and every time I count from three, down, two, one. With each count, you'll simply go a thousand times deeper. Let's try that now just to see how it feels. Three, two, one, beautiful. Now I'm going to count from three, down, two, one again. This time when I reach one, we will heal, release. Let go of anything stopping or blocking you from moving forward. Three, two, one. We heal and release as you go deeper and deeper and deeper in. And as you go deeper and deeper in, I want you to know that each and every word I speak will simply take you, allow you to drift further and further into relaxation. I would like you to use your imagination now. And I would like you to see yourself standing. And the first area that I would like you to look at is your ankles. And I would like you to notice or see if there are shackles and chains there in your mind, in your imagination, do you see that? Yes. Now, on that person that you see, that version of you that you see with the shackles and the chains, there's a necklace around your neck and there's a key on it. I need that person in your imagination to take that key and unlock the shackles and walk away. She may have a question for you, something she needs to ask you, if she does, and you can answer that, please answer it. If not, let me know what the question is and I'll help you answer it. But in the meantime, allow her to remove that necklace and unlock the shackles. Once that's done, just let me know. But take all the time you need. It's done. There's no question though. Excellent. Perfect. Now I need you to hold that person and I need you to tell her that you love her. And I need you to tell her that none of this was her fault. She didn't do anything wrong. And as you do this, you're going to notice her evolving to your current age and look. I need you to tell her how amazing she is, how strong she is, and most of all, I need you to let her know that she is completely amazing. And once she has evolved to your current age and look, please let me know. But take all the time you need. And if she doesn't believe you, if she's not evolving, you need to look her in the eyes and you need to tell her this. And you need to make her understand that other people's actions are not her responsibility and they're not her fault. And once she is your current age, just please let me know. She's my age. Now I need you to hug and merge into one. We're going to move forward now. And as you move forward, I want you to notice if there is a wall in front of you stopping you from going forward. No, it's a glass, like a glass door, like an office. Okay. Can you open the door? The door has been opened. Oh, good. So we're walking away from this. We're walking out of this, correct? Yes. So let's walk out of this now. And as you walk out, I want you to know about a hundred feet. There's a pole with a red button on it. And I need you to go up to that pole and in a moment you're going to press that red button. And when you do, that office, that glass room is going to implode into dust, taking with it all that has caused it. So let me know when you get to the red button and let's push that button. Okay. Excellent. The room implodes, all that has caused this dissolves, dissipates, and goes with it. And you're going to notice a light breeze that takes any remaining dust, any remaining bits or particles of this far, far away. Now I want you to notice there's a huge blackboard. And on this blackboard are descriptors or words. These are past descriptors that you or other people have used to describe you. They're erroneous. Below the blackboard there's a sponge type mop and a huge bucket full of soapy water. I want you to dunk that mop and I want you to clear all those words off of that blackboard. Just clean them all away. And as you do this, I want you to notice that in place of those old erroneous words are going to come the truth. Words like amazing, confident, loved. Make sure you get all of the old descriptors, false, inaccurate descriptors off of that blackboard. And as you're doing that, I want you to know that wherever those came from, it was a place of falseness and insecurity. It was not true. So take all the time you need and once all the old descriptors are gone, let me know. They're gone. Good. And all the new, accurate, true ones are coming in now. And as they come in, I want you to look off in your mind to your right. And I want you to notice there are new people, people you've not met before, people you've not known before stepping into your life now. Some of these are business associates. Some of them are new friends, but one of them is very special. One of them is someone that you will have a very special relationship with. I just want you to go up and stand in this energy. It's a new energy. It's a higher energy, if you will. And I want you to tell me, does this feel comfortable to you? It does. I want you to take a moment, just a quick moment to tell everybody high and how excited you are that they're going to be in your life. And you're ready to move forward now. And as you look down this new path, you see there are no blocks, nothing stopping you or prohibiting you from moving forward. I want you to know that every day, in every way, everything is getting better and better. Just each and every day, you're stronger, healthier, and happier. You move forward with confidence and love, knowing that every day in every way, everything is getting better and better. In a moment, not quite yet, but in a moment, I'm going to count from one to five. When I reach five, you'll be right back here with me, feeling absolutely wonderful, very proud of all of the work that you've done here, knowing that there is nothing stopping you, nothing blocking you from moving forward in a very powerful way. One. Your awareness is coming back to the room now. Two. Your awareness is coming back to your body as your body starts to wake up. Three. Stretching out your arms and your legs as your eyes start to open. Four. Eyes completely opening. Five. Eyes wide open, wide awake. Back here with me. How are you? I'm good. Thank you. Good. How was that? It was good. Excellent. Watching may have never experienced hypnosis in the past. I would like you just to briefly say what that felt like. Was it like a state of sleep? Was it like a dream? For me, doing hypnosis, and I've seen you do it on another person too, my mother, she goes really deep and she's like, she explained it to me. She felt like she was dreaming, like living out a dream. For me, it's more of kind of like a day nap or something. You're day dreaming, but you're still there. But when you're telling me to visualize things, then because I'm a creative person too, my mind does visualize those things where for her, you said, I need you to visualize, and boom, she was doing clockwork where subconscious just made it happen. Where mine is, my subconscious and you and I, and my subconscious play a little dance and we make it happen. So mine isn't as deep as hers, but it's kind of more like a light day dream where hers is a deep slumber. And I will tell you, I'm going to say, it doesn't matter how deep you go. It matters how determined you are. Hypnosis works on what you want. I could never hypnotize somebody for something they don't want. But if it's something you want, it's going to be very powerful. It's going to be very effective and it is going to help you. It feels like a therapy session in a way. Yeah, absolutely. But I don't have to talk. You're helping me through it because you, we've already discussed where my things are lying and so you're pinpointing those and helping guide me through it. And all the feelings I feel while I'm in that light day dream are very warm and positive. Absolutely. And one of the most beautiful things is that session was probably less than 10 minutes. Yeah, which is unusual. Yeah, because usually I take somebody in and it takes 10 minutes to go in. Yes, it's progressive. We're going deeper and deeper and deeper and really working out a lot of details. But on air and for the sake of the time of this show, it shows that you can go in, get it, and get out too. Like get that one or two things that really need to be done. Now, another thing about hypnosis is you're the one doing the work. I'm the coach. I'm putting you in the game, letting you take charge and do the things that you need to do to get there. You have to let yourself be open because we're the only ones who can block it. Exactly. So if you're getting a session, you really want to be ready for that. And you want to be in that space where you're ready to let go of. Although I've had people who were not ready to let go of things. They were a little bit hesitant or afraid to let something go. But with hypnosis, they were able to just beautifully let it go and move on in their life. So that's really important too. Now, the other thing I want to say, like when you're in and you're releasing the opening the locks, can you feel that? Well, I don't know if you noticed, but my eyes were closed, but I was still tearing and showing emotion during the time period. So yes, it's absolutely emotional while you're doing those things. Because, and the one thing that I want to stress that I cannot stress enough is that some of these things that we're releasing were caused by something emotional, were caused by a past hurt or a past experience that has not yet healed. Now, I talk therapy for some people. It's amazing and it's good and it works for some people. But it lets you talk about a situation and talking about a situation doesn't always heal it. Where going in and doing this work, I cannot tell you the number of people that have told me, I've been in talk therapy for 10 years, 20 years, 30 years, and one session with you was more effective than all of my talk therapy put together. Because they actually went in and did some work on it, let something go. I've done talk therapy my whole life and I met you three years ago and I've never been to therapy since I come to you. Because I do believe in it and I believe in you. And it does make a difference when you're, the difference between just talking about something and fixing it, monumental, monumental. I mean, talk therapy of course has its place and it's good to a certain extent. But if you can get in there and release the emotions involved, release the incident. You're forcing us to do work on ourselves in the moment. I'm sorry, I mean for ourselves. So I don't have a choice if I want to feel better, like you're helping me feel better and you're bringing that out of me. So I'm forcing myself whether I want to or not to do the work in the moment where if you go to a therapist, you can choose to do the work or not when you leave that room. That's what I meant. Exactly. Thank you. No, no, it's okay, it's okay. So the other thing that I would want to touch on is, you know, having you and the person in shackles merge as one. When we go through an emotional trauma, there is a part of us that can get stuck at that point in that age and feel trapped and we can't move forward from it until we release that and we allow that movement forward. So in having that happen during a session, you're really embracing and being able to allow that part of you to get out of that trap, grow up and then move on helpfully. And in the past we've done this. It's easier to have the self-negative talk to yourself than to do all the warm and nice and sweet, so those sweet things to yourself. Like you said, now I want you to say this and this to yourself. Well, it's so much easier to be in the comfort zone and just, oh, you haven't done a good enough job or beat yourself up emotionally. Oh my goodness, yeah. And that's how we get stuck too. Like we blame our thing, we blame ourselves for things that happen to us or things that other people do to us, especially if we're a child when it happens. We instinctively and automatically, especially children, believe everything is their fault, that they were naughty, they were bad. And so helping them, going in as the adult and telling them you weren't wrong, you didn't do anything wrong, and helping that part of you join you today or getting that validation, hearing the things we wish we would have heard at that point is so, so important. Right, because the adult me sees different and the child me didn't know any different because they hadn't lived enough life. Oh my gosh, yeah, that little five-year-old or six-year-old, they had no idea. They only knew what they knew, so the adult can absolutely come in and say, no, you were good. Yeah. And I love you and you're awesome. So I think that's such a powerful experience to have in a state of hypnosis or in any state, any state at all. Absolutely, one of the most powerful things you can do to help yourself progress and evolve and let go of past hurts and incidences. You are one brave person, by the way, to come on and allow me to hypnotize you and allow me to help you move forward from any area of being stuck. I never lived in denial about what I would like to work on or become better at or so. Yeah, which is... Thank you. Oh, you know what? It's such an honor. You're a good team. Yes, absolutely. And it's an honor for me and a blessing to be able to help people and especially you because I know you're such an amazing woman and you're kind and you're loving. And I cannot stress how much I love when people wanna heal things that have happened to them. And they get to shine and know how just magnificent they are. And you truly are just such a magnificent person and such an amazing person. And thank you. Thank you so much. See, it's even hard to hear from other people let alone telling yourself. It is, but you truly are. You're on so many levels in so many ways. You are just such a good person and so amazing and kind and loving and just wanna help other people too. So to me, if I can help you see that in you that's everything to me. But more importantly, it's absolutely everything to you. I don't let others help me very often but you're one of them. Well, I'm honored to be that person for you. I absolutely am, I am. So thank you, Elise, for being here. It's absolutely my pleasure, absolutely. And thank you for joining us today. If you would like, you can re-watch this episode and sit back and lie back and join in on the hypnosis if you feel like it might be helpful for you. Past episodes have featured other hypnosises that have worked on other areas. So go back and watch the other episodes also of Healing with Tony that will help you in whatever way they can help you. And I believe we're here to grow and to thrive and to have lives that are amazing without being blocked. So please, you can reach out to me or somebody who is certified and trained in your area and just start evolving in that way that you would like to evolve. Thanks again for watching this episode. Until the next one, have an absolutely amazing day.