 Hi everyone Welcome to another live video. I'd just like to let you know That I am now on tiktok So you can follow me on tiktok just search for Nox survivor YouTube and You will see me on there Anyway in this video We're going to be talking about How the narcissist will plunge you into darkness. It's like You could be having a great day Everything is going your way You're happy Everything's going fine That there's no problems You're not over thinking about anything No negative thoughts And then suddenly Here comes the narcissist Out of nowhere and they just bring you down They just plunge you into darkness and it's like a minute ago You were having such a great day Everything was going great You had no worries in your life and Suddenly they just appear out of nowhere and they just seem to notice All of these things that are wrong which You weren't aware of and if it's not something that's just imagined in their own minds It's just a little thing that's blown up out of proportion It's not something you are really concerned about But they just exaggerate it They just plunge you into darkness They make you feel bad about something that you weren't even concerned about Until they came around you and that's what they do they bring you into their misery Misery loves company and when a narcissist is miserable Which as we know is most of the time They do not want to be alone. They have to share that misery with someone and they usually Like to give it to whoever's nearest and dearest to them Especially if you're in a good mood if you're happy then It just makes them feel like they're the problem So then they have to bring you down. They have to plunge you into darkness when they do this You have to try to not get pulled into it don't go to them for validation Stop trusting their perceptions of the situation and Start trusting yourself start validating yourself because up until You were around them You were fine. You didn't have all of these Problems that they're now complaining about all of these things that they've blown up out of proportion You didn't have to worry about any of that But when a narcissist comes into your life, they just pick everything apart It's like suddenly nothing's right and the reason for that is because they feel miserable on the inside And they just can't cope When the outer world doesn't match there in a reality So they'll create drama and chaos They'll point out all of these things that are wrong No matter how irrelevant or insignificant they may be They can turn a molehill into a mountain because inside They're suffering They're full of pain and shame But of course They can't deal with that so they have to project it onto you. But yeah, that's what these narcissists will do When they get around you, they will plunge you into darkness They always have to bring you down to their level so that they can feel more comfortable We choose to be brought down with a narcissist Because when they bring all of this stuff to us at some level We agree with it and that's why we have to be indifferent to it You have to see it as though Imagine if someone came to you and You're wearing a white vest and they say to you I Don't like your black vest You would just look down and think It's not even black. It's white It wouldn't make any sense to you It would be completely irrelevant And that's how you have to see it when they bring this chaos into your life It's not relevant to you. You feel good You're happy with yourself They might be miserable, but that's on them. That's their reality It doesn't have to be a part of you Anyway, I hope this message has been helpful for you As I said earlier, I am now on tiktok You can follow me on there at Narc Survivor YouTube That's my account name and I'm also posting videos now on Instagram as well My username again is Narc Survivor YouTube So follow me on there as well Thank you all for joining this live video. I Appreciate you all and I will talk to you in another video very soon