 Okay. Good morning, everybody. Welcome to week two of our class of Marriage and Family. I'd like to thank all of you for coming on time. Also, welcome to all the e-learning students who would be watching this at a later point of time. I hope it's discussion and what we're learning in class is truly blessing you all. So, welcome everybody. I think we're yet to have a few more students to come, but I think we'll get started. Okay. Great. All right. So, we are on week two of our class, and we're looking at how we can establish a biblical foundation for marriage. And last week, we looked at understanding marriage in the way God has designed it. So, we looked at different biblical perspectives of what the Bible talks about marriage is and what God designed marriage to be. So, today we will... So, but maybe just before we get started, just a quick recap. So, could you all kindly unmute and maybe share a few of the perspectives that we learned last week, some biblical perspectives that we learned last week. You can just quickly unmute or if you want to use the chat, you could do that as well. Okay. I just need to call out some... Okay. God is the one who designed marriage. Thank you, Anthony. Yes. God is the designer of marriage. He's the one who solemnized the very first marriage between Adam and Eve. So, he is the designer. Thank you. Right. What are the other perspectives? Okay. I think that's covered. God designed marriage. What are the other perspectives about marriage we learned about? It is a covenant. Okay. Marriage is between one man and one woman. Thank you, Anthony. Anand says marriage is a covenant. Yes. It is a solemn covenant. It's a promise made as God being witness. Nikhil says marriage is a good thing. Yes. That's what God designed marriage to be for it to be a good thing. Okay. Anyone? One or two more? We learned, I think, around six or seven perspectives, right? Publical perspectives. One or two more? Anybody else? It's being united as one. Yes. Being united together as one flesh. We looked at different words that really relate to a man and being one flesh. We had spoken about companionship, agreement, unity, relationship, connection, all of that. Excellent. Wonderful. Marriage is an institution to be honored. Yes. Thank you, Nina. Great. Wonderful. So just glad that all of you were paying attention or at least looked through your notes to understand what the Bible talks about marriage. Now, today we are going to be looking at chapter two. This is again another foundation of marriage that we want to really focus on. And this entire chapter talks about how a couple, the two individuals who are joining together in marriage, an important task for them is to prepare themselves for marriage. So when we look at marriage, we know that there are two people. It is two people coming together and becoming one. And so when you're looking at a man and a woman coming together, you do see that the man and the woman have come from different, maybe their own personalities or they've had different experiences. Their entire framework is very different when they walk into marriage, right? So they come from two different frameworks. And this could mean so many things to them, the way that they see life, the way that their personal walk with God or their personal experiences that they've gone through, their upbringing, their personalities, their temperaments, all of this, there are two different things that come. So when you are, when there are two people uniting together, there is a chance that it can become something very united and can progress into something really, really wonderful in God's eyes. Or it can also be something that creates a lot of pain. Because of the fact that two people come from different worlds and trying to join together as one, there is an opportunity of it being made beautiful, but there could be possibilities of it going the other way as well. So that's why it's so important that both individuals in the marriage needs to be well prepared, needs to be well equipped and ensure that when they come together, they make something good about the marriage, right? So that they can become one as scripture suggests they can together become one. So often, very often we do see that people get into marriage for wrong reasons, right? It could be because of the pressure of parents or it could be a social expectation. It could be to eliminate, you know, for someone to take care of the business or it could be some kind of gain that they're getting out of money or it could be sexual gratification. All of these are wrong reasons for marriage and that's what often can break or devastate a marriage. So this sense of preparation, we want to take an example of what actually happens in a Jewish wedding. A Jewish wedding, like we said, it portrays or it pictures the coming wedding of Jesus and the church, right? And it's a custom that they follow even in their marriages at this point of time. So once the arrangement of marriage has taken place between two families and there is the ceremony or the engagement or the betrothal ceremony that takes place. There is often a year waiting for the wedding ceremony. So once the engagement of the betrothal takes place, there is one year of waiting before the marriage. Now this waiting period is basically meant for two purposes. One, it is to prepare them to prepare. So how is the groom actually goes back and prepares a place for his bride, a place to stay a home or makes a dwelling place for the bride, whereas the bride is making herself ready, is preparing herself. So the first purpose is a preparation. The second purpose that you would see in a Jewish wedding is the testing. So that one year period is a period of testing, one for the bride to prove her devotion to the groom or the fact that she is waiting for the groom in devotion and impurity. Whereas it's for the groom, he demonstrates that he's tested while he demonstrates the responsibility of making or getting the place ready for the bride to come. So it's a good lesson to learn. Although, you know, we're not advocating the fact that, you know, we should follow these traditions, but nevertheless, we are taking the meat out of this, which means, you know, having a period of preparation is something that is highly recommended. So here at church, we often take a couple through a six month period of preparation, where a couple desiring to be married and having the permission of their family members. We take them through an entire six month period of preparation and taking them through these lessons and through important discussions, both biblical, spiritual, as well as practical discussions on how to lead a family. So, and this is something that's extremely important and really recommended for couples getting married. So even as we are addressing this chapter, we're going to be looking at seven important areas that really need to be addressed and which is a spot of preparation for anyone, for any couple who is preparing to get married. So we're going to look at seven important areas, and I hope to cover this in the next two hours. And, you know, for those of you who aren't married, the encouragement is to actually deeply look into these seven areas, have a quick insight and evaluation of yourselves and work towards improving some of those areas. And for that, for some of us who are already married, it is to really align ourselves to work towards preparing ourselves and being the best for our spouse. Okay. So the first part that we're going to be looking at is how do when you're preparing yourself, it is to become the best person or becoming the best you are often, you know, when we consider marriage or when we're thinking about marriage, the focus is always finding Mr. Right or Miss Right. Who is that right person that we can find? Well, although that's important and that's what we're going to be looking at the chapter next. It's important that we also pay attention to what we are bringing into marriage as a person. What part of preparation are we personally doing as we enter into marriage? So how am I working on myself so that I can have, I can be a good partner or a good spouse to my future spouse or to my or to the family or or to the marriage in itself. Okay. So the best thing that you can give into marriage is you yourself is a prepared version of you yourself. So more than, you know, you would have probably heard of that, you know, when you point one finger to someone else that are three pointing back to you. So it's always best to look at yourself and understand how you can prepare yourself. Okay. Now, remember that that even as we're looking at this at this parallel, remember that, you know, Jesus did die to purchase us as his bride so that he would redeem. He has redeemed us because of what he's done on the cross. So he is preparing a place for his bride. Right. And right now the Spirit of God, the Holy Spirit is working in our midst to prepare us as blameless, to prepare us as pure, to prepare us as faultless without, without any blemish, right to him. So we are a church that is being made ready. So when the church is made made ready, we are and you guys, it speaks in Revelation 22 17, we're calling out an expectation said even though Spirit come, come. So what is it that we have a takeaway from this is that we need to become what God wants us to be even when we are looking at marriage. So as part of your preparation, you know, tell yourself that you will work on yourself before, before you get into marriage and you have the help of the Holy Spirit, you have the help of the Word and he is the one who is going to partner alongside you to make you a best, a good person, a best person for your spouse, even in this institution of marriage. Okay. So when we look at becoming the best you, we're looking at different areas of it. So we're looking at it collectively. Now think of it like a wheel. Okay. Now when you think of a wheel, you see that there are different slices or compartments of that wheel, which are separated by the spokes, you know, by those are rods that you see on the wheel. There are spokes that separates the entire wheel. Now imagine if these spokes on the wheel operated only at, let's say a 30 or a 40%. Okay. All the spokes operated only at the 30%, which means instead of having the full length of the spoke, you have only half of it or you have only 30% of it. What would happen? The entire wheel will collapse, right? Or if you have some spokes that are at 100% and some spokes that are at 20, 30%, the wheel will run, but it's very, very unstable. It will wobble. It is, it's not going to have its life. So similarly, when we're looking at ourselves and becoming the best you, we look at us as ourselves in different compartments or in different ways. So either physically, how are we taking care of our physical bodies? How are we taking care of our emotions? What are the kind of reactions and responses that we give in emotional interactions? How are we socially? How do we connect with other people? Do we withdraw from other people? Are we friendly? Are we kind? Are we compassionate? Or are we aggressive? Or are we always in a bad mood? Right? How are we professionally? What are we doing in intellectually? What is God, what the kind of abilities that God has given us? How are we using it for his kingdom? How are we using it for the benefit of others so professionally or through our career? Financially, are we always in debt? Are we always short of money? Or are we wise in the way that we deal with money? And of course spiritually, what is our walk with God like? What is our relationship with God? How much of time do we invest in reading scripture? How much of time do we invest in in praying, in getting together as a community of believers? So when you look at this entire thing, there is that look at it as a wheel and see that, you know, in every area of your life, go back to assess to see if there are some areas that really require you to work on to be prepared before you get into marriage. Because when we get into marriage, half baked or when we get into marriage, when we're not equally ready, we are going to be throwing a lot of burden on the other individual, on the other, on your spouse. And, and as a result, there can be conflicts and issues of surprise. So the first part is becoming the best view. Is are there any questions? Okay, I think that there is a question here by Sean with what mindset should we enter marriage in? Okay, that's a good question, Sean. And I would want to bring that up to back to the group because I think a lot of that should be enter marriage. So I'd like some responses. Yes. This is an interactive class. Okay. So you, you can talk a pure mindset. What would you mean by that? When you say a pure mindset, what would it mean? Thank you, Rin. That is that's good. If you could elaborate. Like when you have pure mindset, very, very, like, similar to, like what you said, becoming the best view. So like, you have, like, just, just type yourself with that person. You have, like, I think you have your idea what's right. Okay, sorry, Rin. I don't think I heard you. Well, your audio wasn't very clear. But I think you said something like being the best to you. Okay, so all right. Okay, I think she'll come out, said an open mind to accept the person. So I think I want to add over here. Okay, thank you, Anthony. So Anthony said with the mindset of Christ, you shall leave your mother and father and leave to your wife. So you shall become one. Thank you so much. So when marriage is, is not for fun, right? Marriage is something that God has taken extremely seriously, so much so that he's actually written so much about it. There are so many scripture that talks about marriage that talks about how we relate to, to one another. Okay, so as we said, when marriage is to be seen as a divine covenant, it's, it's something that is a promise that you take, you keep till, till death do you part. It's something that you, you choose and you decide to work on, no matter what your difficulties are. Because when God brings two people together, you know, he knows best as, as he's bought these two people together. And he's the one who gives the power and the ability to work. So we don't, don't look at marriage flippantly, like maybe the world sees it. When it is inconvenient, you can walk out. When there is, when there is hardship, you can walk out. When there are disagreements, you can walk out. Now all, all of that shows, I think an immature response, but a mature response is knowing that the person that you have shared your vows with, where God has been the witness in your marriage, you decide that no matter what, you know, with the help of God, you will continue to live through that and in the midst of it to become one, to become unified, to become distinctly together so that, you know, the purposes of God can be, can be fulfilled. Okay. So it's, I think someone's written, I think Jack in is written, it is not for a social or parental pressure. Yes, that's not the mindset. I'm not getting married because my daddy and mommy asked me to, or because there's no one to look after the business or because if I don't get married, my sexual appetites are not going to be, are not, are not going to be fulfilled. Those are, those are not valid reasons for marriage. This is a coming together of two people for a godly purpose, for something that God wants to see. So we, so we are to look at it just like the way God designed marriage to be, to be together, to, to work together, to be one together till death do us part. Okay. I think Nina's written, preparing for it in every way possible, keeping in mind that it is compared to the union between Christ and the church. Absolutely. Yeah. So the fact that, you know, I thank you for bringing up that point for the fact that marriage is looked upon as a relationship just like crisis to the church, which means marriage was meant to be something extremely, in God's heart. It was out of God's heart that, that it was, it came about. Okay. Thank you. All right. So let's move on to, to the second, to the second one. It is the next one for preparation is your emotional health. Okay. Now this part of us, the emotional part of us is what makes up a large part of our being. So I'm sure in probably in your first year class, you have looked at how man is a tri, tripartite being where there is body, where there is soul and where there is spirit. Right. So the part of your emotions fall in the part of your soul. Your soul is that which actually expresses who you are. So your soul is made out of your mind, your will and your emotions. So all of what you are is expressed by your soul and one of the key aspects of that is your emotional health. Okay. Now when two people come together in marriage, it is always important. What are they bringing in? They are not just bringing in their experiences or they're upbringing, but they are bringing, they are also bringing in their attitudes, their emotions, their personalities into the marriage. So when, when there are two people in good emotional health or in healthy, a very healthy emotional space, there is, it is definitely going to pay off. It is going to be a lot more easier and a lot more, then there's a lot more engaging and togetherness that happens. So being in emotional, good emotional health not only helps you, but it helps your spouse. It helps others around you, your children and your family. It helps others around you. So remember that often, you know, because in, in, even in the field of counseling, we do see that people decide to get married because they feel if they are married, then this, the sense of loneliness and this emotional trauma that they feel will be cured. But marriage is not a cure for emotional problems. Okay. On the, the fact is that marriage will only blow up some of those weaknesses that there are. And so what, and once that happens, it can be very difficult for the relationship in itself. So it is good to evaluate and identify, be aware of your negative emotions or the space of how, what your attitudes are like, right? Because before you enter marriage, so that when you're entering into marriage, you're not taking the burden of your emotional difficulty onto, onto your partner, onto your spouse. Okay. So if you look at page 12 and that's in the book, but I think it is in the ebook it is in page, page 12. Yeah. That's also in page 12. Okay. So on the ebook, it's in page 12 and there are a list of I think around 17, 17 odd unhealthy emotions and behaviors that have been listed. Okay. And I'm just going to read out these, give you all some time to really evaluate and find out where you all are in, in these spaces. Now remember, we, each of us may have some areas of difficulty or some areas of weakness and, and that is okay. It's, it's good to own up. It's good to identify and recognize that we are there rather than denying or blaming or justifying that we are like this because of something else. Right. It is important for us to, to know that our emotions will not just impact us, but it impacts others. So let me just read out some of these emotions. If you have your books, you can follow through. There is outbursts of anger. There is depressive and emotionally vacillating a demeanor as opposed to being joyful, unable to handle stressful situations, being critical and judgmental, having negativity and pessimism, guilt and shame, being insecure, inadequate and having a sense of lack of self-worth or self-esteem, being emotionally dependent on other individuals or on parents, being self-centered and and not being willing to take on the ideas of others or, or, you know, respect the ideas of others, jealousy, pride, being controlling, demanding assertive, always wanting to have your own way, being manipulative or cunning, unforgiving and calculative, being selfish or stingy, being deceptive or secret, secretive, being suspicious or untrusting. Okay. So these are some of the negative emotions that we've just kind of highlighted for us to be aware. It's, it's always important that we are aware of this. Some, some additional ones could also be being very sensitive to criticism or being extremely sensitive to some kind of feedback. Right. So what do we see? Our emotions are, you know, our emotions are just not something that comes up and then it dies down. Like it's not, it's, think of, think of a sea with a wave, with a high tide wave. What does it do? It destroys things around like a tsunami destroys things around. So similarly, our emotions affect our behaviors. It affects the way that we respond to others. It affects our actions. It affects our some of our decisions. So, you know, while, while these probably are things that we recognize, we must learn how, first of all, to identify it and recognize it, learn how to manage it, learn how to regulate our emotions and also learn of how we could eliminate or work through some of these emotions. And as, as a, and instead of that, being able to walk in, in a place of strong, healthy emotions, being in a place of, of walking in right emotions. Now, this is not that we'll take place in a day or two, especially since, you know, you've been carrying some kind of a negative emotion or a behavior or a negative thought process over very many years. It takes, it takes patience. It takes just a yielding, yielding of your own emotions to God and asking for help, you know, through every moment, through every situation to deal with this. Okay. So we also need to know that these emotional problems or emotional situations do not just occur just like that, but it can sometimes have some background. It can, it can come from some problems in the past that has not been addressed, you know, certain situations that has caused this, which is, which does not get addressed. Like for example, when there's insecurity or when there's inadequacy, that leads to a suspicious behavior of the spouse, right? Maybe there's been some issues of low self esteem. So every time, maybe the spouse goes out or is in conversation with somebody that is a sense of extreme suspicious behavior. So all of that it can stem from some emotional problems, which is something that requires healing. Okay. So these emotional issues are something that needs to be, needs to be assessed. So we're going to be looking at some part of this in chapter five, where we're going to be looking at attitudes, behavior and temperament and how to develop more Christ like attitudes or more temperament that is controlled by the spirit and the behavior that is, that is led by the word. Okay. So that's what we would, we would like to do. Okay. Now, even as we, we, we work through the this part of emotions, remember that generally the way that, that two people may, may respond to a certain situation can be very, very different and it is a way to understand and grow and respect each, each other even as they move forward. So learning how to support and understand and react in a way that is helpful for your marriage is something that really works well. Okay. So that's at the second one. So dealing with your emotional health. Is there any question here before we move to the third point? Any question? Okay. All right, then we'll move on to the third point, which is personal management. Okay. Now personal management, it's important to know that, you know, you're not just, when you're entering into marriage, you are entering in with all of that you are, right? So as scripture says, let's just look at problems 25 28. It says, whoever has no rule over his own spirit is like a city broken down without walls. So what, what does personal management really entail? Personal manage, personal management is basically checking to see whether the different aspects of your life is in place or is in order, you know, being able to manage your own life and your own responsibilities are important skills that we need to develop. Okay. And some of them that we have kind of focused on are just for them. And it is a comprehensive list of one, your personal responsibility of your own career, your finances, your time and your ability to manage your household. Okay. So there are four areas of your career, your, your finances, your time, and your skills of how you manage your household, because each of us have to need to be responsible for things that concern us. Okay. So let's look at each one in detail. So when we look at career, the question that we often need to check back is to see that with whatever I'm doing, is there some purpose in what I'm doing? Do I have, have I been able to work on something that I know is God's purpose for me? So that could be in some way a job or a profession that you are involved in. So looking back to see whether you are fulfilling the responsibility of holding a job or keeping to a profession and thus being able to provide for your larger family. Okay. So that's, that's the probably the first thing that you, the area for marriage. There may be certain questions that that is important to understand is just getting into marriage. Would that be a time that you may be changing here when you're just married, because the initial times and months maybe first year is something that really builds connection together. So to be able to discuss some of these things and because there shouldn't be any surprises later, right, that after marriage, you tell your spouse that you know, you've got an offsite in a different country that would be unfair for the relationship. Right. So it is important to have any kind of an of what you see would happen as changes or promotions or you know, even, even, even maybe you want to do a business of your own in the next one. Yeah. These are things that that is important for you to understand and know and prepare not just yourself, but the person you're going to get married to so that they will understand. Okay. Also certain guidelines that you look for when, when you're looking at the specific option of career is in the last two, three years, a lot of people work from home, which means there is no space between home and work. The home is an office and so people get up, get into work, you know, just come to the dinner table for meals and then then go to bed. So and as a result of which that can be detrimental to the, to the family. So setting some guidelines to, to see how that can be worked at. So if that's a change that you need to make, that's something that you need to look deeply into. Also a guideline, guidelines for separation. That is in case your work takes you to relocate or to live, live separately after your marriage. There is a general recommendation that you know, as husband and wife, you should not be living separately for more than maybe, you know, for, for a certain period of time, maybe for a, for beyond three months or at a stretch, because that in itself impacts the, the connection, the, the relationship and it can, can lead to certain other, other issues like affairs or, or extramarital friendships. So it is, it's a guideline to avoid being away from each other immediately after marriage and to, to keep together to add to the focus on the marriage. Okay. So that's the first part of career. The second part is on finances. So when we look at finances, we all have different, we may have different ideas about finances depending on what we saw growing up. Okay. So it is, it is good to know and evaluate for yourself how one, what is your idea and your thoughts about finances, about money. Okay. What do you do with the money, with the income that you get? How do you manage your income? Is it, do you see that your expenses usually go way, your expenditure is usually way above your income? You know, what, how, how are you able to work within the means of your, of your finances? Again, with the money that you have, how, how are you committed in honoring God with your finances and being faithful in giving offerings or tides to, to the church? Okay. So that's again, another thing that you will need to look at. Also, what are your financial goals going ahead? What would you, what, what is the kind of living that you would like to make? What are some of your plans that you may have? Maybe it's a five year or a 10 year plan. What are the ways that you have learned to save or invest? What are the things that you're actually doing that helps you to build an invest something for your marriage and for your future? Okay. Apart from this also, what is your attitude towards money? Often, you know, people are in this attitude of this, this is my money and your money. And so when it comes to even finances, there should be a more, it should be a more single unified approach in dealing with money so that there is transparency in sharing these financial details and sharing the responsibilities around the home. So these are some things and additional also debt. What is your attitude towards debt? You know, so, so that there are, there could be people who are okay to take debts at all times, right? Or for those or there may be others who, who completely do not take loans or thing and they live within that means. So it is always recommended that, you know, before, before marriage, the you know, debts are generally cleared off or if that isn't a possibility, then to be transparent of the fact that there are debts that need to be cleared off even after marriage because often we see that debts can affect personal relationships and you know, it could affect the entire marriage in itself. So the, so finances in itself is something that we need to look at. The next is time management. When we look at time management, it's to have a clear evaluation and insight into the way you yourself manage your time. What are your schedules like? How do you, how do you lead your schedules on a daily basis or on a monthly basis or an annual, annual basis? So you keep to, keep to understanding what do you do to invest? What do you, how do you spend your time? You know, right from the time you wake up in the morning till the time you sleep. What, how much, how industrious are you? How much of time goes and maybe daydreaming or how much of time goes and doing things that really add no value? Also looking at how much of time do you really spend for your spiritual growth, for your spiritual maturity to be able to come to a place to see and understand if you're consistently maintaining that time for the Lord. Right? Also looking at how, how, how punctual you may be and whether you're able to fix time, plot out your time in such a way that you respect others and respect the way that you keep certain commitments. Also in time it matters of how you balance all your work, you balance your family, you balance ministry, other kind of hobbies that you're doing and being able to work through different kinds of aspects that you are involved in. So time management again becomes a huge, sometimes can become a huge area of conflict because of the way how two different people work. So, so this is again another place of evaluation and the last one is household skills. How do you develop certain skills to maintain your home? And, and here let me, let me bring this out that skills are needed for both the man and the woman, right? To take care of a home and family. House owned skills doesn't just mean it's for one person to do it, but for both to jointly hold the responsibility of working at a home because there are so many things that need to be done, especially now because both the husband and the wife work professionally. It would be unfair to ensure that just one person sticks to doing the household chores, but have both people work together in working through these areas. Okay. Now it's, it's a good thing to to start preparing like for example, if you don't know how to cook or if you've never washed clothes before, or if you've never taken up a mop or a, or a, or a, or a broom, it's time that you probably began to learn those skills because it is always useful for you as well as in your marriage. Okay. So we've come to three areas. I'll, I'll just stop in case we have some questions. I think there is a, there is a comment, I think, okay, from Nina, she's written, while we take time to prepare emotionally, we would still need to be prepared for things that might crop up in the areas mentioned. And so we will need to be dependent on God to be able to handle sought out differences and keep things going the right way to honor God. Thank you. Yes. Yeah, that's true. Right. Any other, any questions, any questions before I start on the fourth point, like to maybe have some continuum. So we have around five minutes and leave it open for questions or for some comments, no questions or no comments. It's, it's a good time to just reflect maybe on the first three points and probably maybe what, what really made sense to you. What stood out for you that you could know, I was just thinking that while I was getting married, I didn't have these sessions and you know, just going through these sessions like I'm just thinking like how much I could have avoided and now it's good thing that I can prepare for, I can pray and prepare for my daughter and nieces, nephews and all those things. The course is going to be really beneficial for me. Thank you. One point of, you know, just, I know I'm just thinking that, you know, God has just helped my marriage. It's nothing. And when I go through these things, maybe like 10% of what I'm learning now, at 42 years is what I would have known when I got married, but so thankful God for this course at this point in time. It's really a lot of things and God is the one who does things this way. Thank you. Thank you, Jacqueline, for sharing. Thank you. Yeah, so Rin said regarding the household skills, it's something that I did not know that both should work and share together. Okay, wonderful. Then, yes, it's a responsibility of all of us to be industrious and make use of what what we have. It's a responsibility of the husband as well as the wife. Yeah, there may be certain skills one person may be more stronger in and that's okay, but yet to to encourage your spouse to get useful in the house and do things makes it's a it's great meaning because it will it also communicates responsibility. It communicates that the space that you're living in is your own, right? So it's a good thing. So men, women on this call. It's your responsibility to take care of your own home. Okay, Rin also said I also like that we should see from each other's perspectives and look for the welfare of each other. Yes. Yes. Okay. All right. So the next couple next point is about relationship skills. Now, even when we go through this, we're going to be expanding some of this in the chapters to come. Okay. And here we're just we're just looking at an overall framework. But we're going to be looking at these specific relationship skills in length in the chapters to come. So but this is just an overview. But if you've gone through the general notes, you will find that each of these points have been expanded later, we will get into the depth of that. Okay. All right. Shall we break? I know we're two minutes early, but it's okay. Let's break for a 10 minute break. We will come back at 1058 and on my clock it's 1048 right now. Let's come back at 1058 after a break.