 How to stop being fake and start living your authentic self. Authentic. It's a word we use to describe when something is real or genuine and not a copy or something false. Many people struggle with showing their authentic selves due to fear, anxiety, and other uncomfortable emotions. So, what does it mean to be your authentic self? Being authentic means you don't change your views, actions, or opinions to please other people. And you answer questions with honesty and consistency. As an authentic person, you know what your core values are, and you make every decision in your life based on those values. As with everything in life, there will be obstacles and bumps along the way. How to start being your authentic self. Learn what your strengths are, whether with language, emotions, physical skills, etc. Don't try to do it all at once. Start with smaller goals like becoming healthier, setting boundaries, and speaking from the heart.