 This is what narcissists think of you when you finally leave And I know a lot of you You've been with the narcissist you thought things were bad You thought that they had already Disrespected you bad enough As though it couldn't get any worse as though they couldn't sink any lower But there's really no limits when you're dealing with narcissists Because remember they are all about themselves They are self-absorbed and they lack empathy They don't care about anyone else They don't care about what you're going through The only thing that matters to them is their feelings and when you leave In the beginning they may just think that you are very stupid and foolish They may just see you as an idiot Because they are very arrogant and delusional And they may think that it's just a matter of time until you come back around But as time goes by it starts to sink in They start to realize that you're not coming back and by that point They will be able to get you and to bring you down initially you may not have experienced So much from them It may have seemed like they had calmed down but once you Display And demonstrate your independence At that point they know that there is no going back And at that point they will do whatever it takes To destroy you because when you leave them They're not going to support you They're not going to look at it like that They're going to see it as an attack An insult As though you know something they don't know you're hiding things from them Another life And you're keeping all of these things from them Or you're using it to hurt them And then they're going to want to lash out at you They're going to want to come after you And They're going to try to make you regret your decision The very thing that hurt them You leaving They're going to try and twist it around To try to make it hurt you To make you think that it was the worst decision you ever made As though You should just turn back And give up Maybe go back to them maybe accept their Hoover attempts But if it's already been so much time That's gone by And You've done all of these things without them And they've already gone on their campaign against you Then they know there's no going back after that Because they already know that the things they've done Are harmful damaging Dangerous Yes, they know all of these things And they recognize That that type of behavior Would never warrant the two of you reuniting again They already know that you would never accept them After what they've done to you They already know that Even if despite all of the skeletons they have in their closet They did somehow manage to come and clean They still would not be able to trust you They would be very paranoid and hyper vigilant They would be terrified that You are going to take revenge Yes, they would be terrified of that Because They know and they understand all of the things that they have done to you Yes, they understand that Although they may not always think that that was the reason why you left As I said, they are very arrogant and delusional. They're not going to accept that they did anything wrong They're going to deny it. They're going to project it. They're going to shift the blame onto you They're going to gas like you and everyone else around them So that they can enforce their flying monkeys and continue their campaign against you So they will live in constant denial They're never going to accept it They're just going to try and turn it on you and use it as something to hurt you That's all that they're going to do It's never going to be something that clicks in their mind to where they accept And they take accountability For what they've done They're never going to do that That is never Going to happen Although you may wish that they could just come back and come clean And things will be okay again, but no It's never going to work out that way for you and them That is never Going to happen No matter how much you may wish that it would And could because they've already done so many things wrong They look at it like How can I go back now? After everything that I have done After all of these mistakes that I have made And then they know They can't reverse the damage that they have done They can't undo it And you can't unsee the things that you have seen They know that it's too late So all they can do is Keep walking Continue on their path, their course Even though it may not be incentivized, it may not even be good for them And they may know deep down that it would have been a lot better if they had just cooperated with you from the very beginning Yes, deep down, of course, they know that That is why they are so much In denial That is what initiates A process of denial in their minds. It's the fact that they knew You were right all along You were always right But they just can't accept it They deny the truth and reality because they just don't want it to be true And yet they twisted around in you and try to use it as something to hurt you When they know fully well that something was not right Something does not add up Something Does not make sense And they know that But all they can do is manipulate you and use it to hurt you And try to turn your own independence against you But they're never going to come clean and tell you the truth The reality that yes, of course, it's something they think about It's something that Bothers them deep down Of course, at some point they came to this conclusion Where they thought That If they really were so good to you If they were really treating you right Then why would you want to leave? Why wouldn't you want to stay and try to cooperate with them? Why wouldn't you have done that from the very beginning? Of course, at times Deep down in the back of their minds, they do consider that They would have to But the reality is that Yes, they are in denial And the reason why they're in denial is because they deny Any involvement any accountability And that Is never Going to change It's never going to change They are always going to be that way And there's nothing that you or I can do about it They're always going to be like that But there is one thing that you can do And this is what I advise you to do is to continue on your purpose Continue doing what you know you should do Yes, they will try to take you off their path off your path Because they're in denial. They're very insecure And deep down they doubt themselves They have no purpose of their own so Yes, that's what these types of people do People who have no purpose of their own They want to try and take other people off their purpose But you have to continue doing what you know is right That doesn't mean that you have to isolate yourself And just avoid everyone no That's not what that means You continue doing what you know is right You continue to Love yourself Practice self-care You continue to show empathy for other people You continue to go out and spend time in nature You continue to do all of those things As you were doing before They will try to take you off your path and In some situations there isn't much you can do about that You just have to accept it And if you get taken on your path off your path then that happens And then you've just got to get back on whatever you can And you just continue along like that You go off your path you come back on You go off again you come back on again It may not be how you imagined it to be It may not be the smooth ride that you expected But that's okay You can still get back on It's no excuse. There's no justification for it For you to just walk off your path and do suffer something different To what you originally intended to do Because if you go and do that for a long enough amount of time It will begin to affect you It will begin to bring you down That is the biggest mistake that you will ever make Is going off your purpose in life Your God-given purpose that you know you came here to do Adjust these narcissists These Minions as I like to call them They are also doing what they came here to do To take people off their path Instead of supporting and encouraging them And that's just the way the world is today Just look at it just look around and see What people are doing these days Numbing themselves with alcohol and drugs Going to nightclubs every week Having unprotected sex getting STIs They're doing all of these things And this is what is being promoted in the world This is Some alternative way of living To distract yourself Escape as some Develop these unhealthy coping strategies And deep down I think we all know why The reason why is so that you don't realize the truth And the truth is that yes They are trying to take you off your path You may not fully know where that path leads But that's just it it's not about The destination is it? It's about the journey along the way So yes you must continue along your path I can tell you that you shouldn't let them take you off it As we know when you set a boundary Narcissists do not like boundaries They prefer dysfunctional environments They need all of the doors the gates to be open So that they can roam free And invest and mesh And do whatever they need to do So they can run wild It has to be boundaryless so that they can get supply That's just how it has to work for them As I said To the best of your ability Because you are still a responsible adult To the best of your ability You must try to stay on your path And try to set some form of a boundary the best that you can To maintain a healthy relationship With yourself And the higher power That you believe in Because to them it is all just a game It's a joke They don't take life seriously And they never will Because they genuinely believe that their actions in this life Will not impact the cure after Which of course makes them very dangerous people to be around Anyone with that mindset You should never associate yourself with anyone over a long period of time Who does not believe You should never associate with anyone like that And clearly this person has shown you Time and time again That they do not believe That they do not value The things that should Be valued in life And I think we all know exactly what I'm talking about when I say that But this is just how it is And there's no way that you can get through to them There's no way that you can show them You can't just give them a taste of their own medicine You can't just repeat their actions because then they're just going to accuse you They're going to blame you And they're going to look at you as the bad guy As the bad guy And then they're just going to turn against you even more So like I said just continue on your path They may not like it that you're leaving But what else can you do? Stay around and get beaten down Abused As I said before your body is your temple And your mind Your soul you must protect it from harm That is your duty that is your responsibility Sometimes that may not always be an option and I understand that as well But as I said you must do it to the best of your ability Despite any external sources Despite any external sources That's still no excuse. You must still continue on your path Follow along your journey the best that you can Because this is your mission in life Narcissus they came here to take you off your mission Off your path That is their purpose And the sooner that you recognize that The easier that it will be for you to cut them off and walk away Because once you realize that You will lose all hope in them You really will I hope this message was helpful For those of you who can perceive and understand of it understand it If it resonated with you, please give it a thumbs up down below Let me know your thoughts in the comment section and Subscribe If you'd like to book a one-on-one with me you can do that from my website It is Narcseviver.co.uk And check out my Instagram as well. I have new pictures and videos of my travels every day on there So check that out when you have time. 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