 Boom! Howdy fam! Anthony Johnson here today, founder of 21 Studios, 21 Summit, the 21 Convention, the 22 Convention, Patriarch Connect Convention, 21 University, the Under 21 Convention, and co-founder of the Redman Group. Here's a special episode of 21 Live and right out of Orlando, Florida, live from my house. Not usually we do these in person, but today I got Allende up from authentic Alfa's, excuse me, from Miami, Florida. He's visiting here in Orlando for a couple days. I got him on the way out, said no to Miami in a few hours. Appreciate you coming by man. Yeah, man. Thanks for having me. Yeah, I'm not sure if I should look at you or look at the camera. You can do either one. Either one. I'll do a combination of both and make sure my mic is here. So what's up guys? Happy to be here. I have a lot of respect and appreciation for this guy. So thanks. Just here trying to learn, you know. Yep. Yeah, try to get the mic a bit closer to you. A little bit closer for you. Yeah, I'm over here taking note of the mic. I need something like this myself. So we've talked a couple times before on the Red Man Group remotely. We've had like audio issues and like all this bullshit. So finally we could talk in person about issues and just 100% clear back and forth. So first of all, like, what's your history in the Manusphere and why did you start a YouTube channel? Authentic Alfa is link in the description guys. Check it out and subscribe. Well, that's an interesting story. So we'll try to make it short. But I'm probably one of those guys that was always determined to kind of find a way, you know. I never was a fan of no. You know what I mean? I always had this belief in my head that like rules were for the majority. You know, no was for everyone who was willing to accept no. So I kind of always finagled my own way. And that's like in life or with women specifically? Just with everything. You know, it's like, you know, you're sitting on the bench and you want to start. You start building a better relationship with the starting players. You start finding ways to get the coach's attention so that you can get that extra attention as far as helping you improve enough. So maybe you get a shot and maybe you're not even that deserving of it, say, athletic wise, but you're getting that shot because of your social relationship with the star players and maybe the coach. You know what I mean? So I was always looking for that extra angle. You know, you ask your mom for something and she says, no, we don't got money for that. All I'm raking leaves in the fall and I'm shoveling snow in the winter. And the next time we have this conversation, I'm going to be giving my mom money. You know what I'm saying? So not being willing to accept no, I think is what has defined to me character wise. And I think a lot of guys don't have that element to them. And they don't have to have it to the extent that I maybe feel that I need to have it. But it, for me, it's difficult to look at someone that I think has had better opportunities than me. Maybe they had a leg up. Maybe they came from money. Maybe they're six foot tall. You know, they could have had something that they kind of came in the game with and then they're less ambitious than me. And I feel like, you know, that's ridiculous. You know what I mean? If I could do it from my starting point, then you must could. So that's kind of something I see more and more of every generation. And I had a cousin who told me in 2005, you need to get a YouTube channel. This is before I even really knew what YouTube was. Let's see. Our YouTube is founded, I think. Yeah. And I had no interest in it. Like I had no interest in social media. Like every form of social media that I've had, it had to be pushed on me by someone close to me. I got Instagram because like my best friend in New York just made me one. He's like, you don't have Instagram. I'm like, I don't know what that is. I don't care what that is, you know, because I was always like a real life type of person. I can't have put so much interest in say like Madden, I'd rather go out and play football. I'd rather be the guy that's like rallying everybody in the neighborhood. Let's play football next Sunday. Let's go to the park. You know, so I like the real life hands-on kind of thing. Same. So that's why I was late to social media because I felt like, why would I be at home doing that when I could like be on the real world being social with people? It's been the same for me. Like I've been, I was a very slow adopter to like Instagram and TikTok and Twitter and all this bullshit. Like I made a Twitter like 13 years ago, but I never used it. I didn't use it for seven years. It just sat there. I never used mine. I have one, but I sent like one tweet and I was like, I don't like this. Yeah. I get into it now because Trump kind of, you know, the way he used it before he got banned, that really inspired me to just go off on people and issues and feminism and whatever. And even just like screenshotting it and then dumping it on the YouTube community tab, stuff like that. But for me, it's fun these days, but it's, it's a shithole or it's a shithole intellectual cesspool stuff. We had the barbershop. So for me, like that was, that was Twitter, the barbershop. You're from New York, right? Yeah. So you kind of talk about those type of issues. That you would take to Twitter with those little type of things we would talk about in the barbershop, just men amongst men. So I, I kind of felt robbed at times because when I was younger, I was always looking at the older men and thinking, oh, okay, when I'm that age, I'm going to be able to do that. I'm going to have access to that. That's going to happen. And then you kind of get older and it's gone now. And you're like, well, where are the cigar lounges? Like where do the guys play dominoes now? You know what I mean? Where's the beautiful women that were cast all this time? That's going to be my, my wife, my main chick. Now that I've been out here playing the field and enjoying myself, where's the Jackie Brown for me that hasn't been sleeping around? So there was a lot of things that I think weren't there when I turned the age that I thought that was supposed to be waiting for me because I was watching the older guys. Yeah. You know what I mean? So I think the generations are missing so much. And all we can do is kind of try to describe it to them because they can't grasp it. They're like, well, we have no idea what you're talking about. It's like, wow, this is how it used to be. It reminds me of Tate. You know, recently, our buddy Andrew Tate, we both met him and interviewed him. He's like been so popular not only across generations and age groups. A lot of young kids are reading, are reading news articles like in major headlines about, you know, middle school kids and even elementary school kids eight, 10 years old, and they're in school talking about Andrew Tate, Andrew Tate. And these teachers are freaking out. You know, they're like, Miss Audrey, whatever bullshit they pick up. But he reached like kids, man, inadvertently or unintentionally. But yeah, to me, they must be looking at this old generation and Tate must be like a dinosaur to them. He's going to have to be their father in some cases. I think a lot of these teachers and coaches and instructors or whatever adults are complaining about his presence, I don't think they can even relate either to whatever the magic is or whatever is the element that young people are grabbing or gravitating towards. And I think it's real simple. I think what's happening is he's telling them very basic, not even ideas, just basic understandings that they're long overdue for. Somebody should have told them that in their childhood. So I think that's why the children are grasping or gravitating towards it because some of the kids are probably thinking to themselves, well, that makes more sense to me than the explanation that I'm getting from all these PC adults that are oblivious because you got to understand kids kind of come into the world seeing things, you know, very, very, it's very simple. This equals this, that equals that, you know, why am I getting bullied? Kids understand it. It's when you start getting an explanation from an adult, they start getting confused because they feel like, well, that isn't kind of really making sense with what I'm experiencing or what I inherently would think or understand. So they kind of talk them out of reason that makes any sense. They talk them out of that common sense logic. And then they get confused because like, well, I thought this was supposed to equal this. And a lot of people are experiencing that with money, education, women, friends, purpose. So it's like every area of your life were confused. While even they're going to kids now, like, you know, these 12-year-old kids, they grew up, you know, you see boys, you see girls at school, but it's only adults that tell them there's 500 genders and you can be gender fluid and non-gender binary. Or that boys and girls are the same. Or they're the same. Right. They're like, we don't feel the same. Yeah, they don't look the same. We don't feel the same. We don't look the same. But yeah, you're telling me my differences are a behavioral issue. They're minimal and, you know, don't even exist the differences. Right. And I will see, like, a lot of the things that we're dealing with in this community. I didn't, I wasn't necessarily experiencing them like firsthand. What it was is that I was observing these things from a distance. So it's like, I might not be the married guy that the wife is cheating on me, but I'm the single guy who's meeting all these married women. They don't give a damn about their commitment. And I'm just like, wow, what's going on? So I know that there's an issue here. I know that it's not right. I know that it's not fair. But I'm experienced from the other side. So maybe I don't have children, but I'm dealing with single mothers that keep telling me, oh, my kid is getting picked on at school and this is how I want to handle it. You know, I'm having problems with the coach. I have to go down to the school and talk to the coach. And I was like, well, what happened? I'm curious. I got 10 minutes to listen to you before I, you know, pound you out in the bedroom. Go ahead and tell me, you know, let me act interested. You know, it's good conversation for the ride home or to the hotel. Oh, well, you know, he's yelling at my son and telling him all these mean things. Really? What type of things is he telling him? Johnson, you're too slow. And I'm thinking to myself, sounds like good coach. That's how coaches. Yeah. Sounds like good coaching to me. Yeah, go get off your ass. Right. If you're too slow, then you need to speed up. If you're too weak, wait room. You know what I'm saying? I remember the coach being like, you wait room, wait room, wait room, you get on the track. You get that's the coach's job. Or did you play football in New York? Yeah, I played for, well, we did some things in middle school. I got a concussion and my mom got all scared in middle school. Yeah. I don't want to play football anymore. But, you know, I was able to get back playing football by high school. So that was awesome. Nice. It wasn't the fastest, but fast enough to play basketball. I wasn't tall, but good enough to play. So that was kind of the experience. And I enjoyed it and it took it for what it was worth. I was always athletic enough to be on the team to play track and field. It was like I was fast enough to beat everybody on the other team, but I wasn't fast enough to beat my teammate. I'm always coming in second place to the guy on my team. But I learned so much from playing sports as far as the camaraderie, as far as the coaches. Yeah, I learned a lot from the coaches. And the type of relationships and the bonds that you build with other guys. And I'm just looking and I'm seeing like all of these things are missing. I had this too grown up. I played middle school football in the high school as well. The super positive relationships of the coaches, they were, you know, aggressive sometimes, you know, mean according to like a single mom or some shit, but this is what I needed at that age. And the camaraderie you built too was amazing, the team building. But you see, this is the thing. As boys, we know that if this male adult is being hard on us, there's a couple of reasons why. Number one, they care. So as a little boy, you understand this person isn't being mean to me because they mean me harm. It's actually the opposite. This person putting in that effort because they care. And as a little boy that matters to you, that you're visible. They're a father figure in a way. Right. I exist to this person. So I'm getting this extra attention because this person cares. Right. And the next thing is because that person wants you to be to be better or that person sees a potential in you that you're not quite getting. So you learn that from men, you have to earn the validation. Whereas women, it's, oh, you know, you're my little baby. And like you're always getting the same level of love. There's a trophy. Right. You get the same level of attention, the same level of love, regardless of your output. So I think as boys, we value that attention from the male figures more because it cost us something. We have to earn that. Right. And that's why fathers are so important. And they help children to develop self-esteem and confidence because you have to earn your father's praises, so to speak. And then also he kind of puts a consequence on everything. So the consequence on being lazy to the consequence on failure because you run the risk of disappointing him which is like the worst thing that you can do. But when you have this single mother thing going on and then she's going to the school and she's complaining about the coach and now the coach is under question. And then the coach starts to feel like, well, if I care and I'm passionate and I coach these kids passionately, I'm running a risk. I could bitch that. Right. I could lose my job. Yeah. And nobody understands, but yet they're not coaches. Yeah. So I have all these other people with different positions in the school criticizing me and critiquing how I coach but none of you, none of you coach. I think it's like men basically have positive reinforcement, you know, for kids or for students or whatever players and negative reinforcement. And then like what you're saying is that basically these women, this feminity or this hyper feminine stuff, there's only positive reinforcement. And then they minimize all the negative reinforcement which fucks kids up, whether it's single moms or in school or whatever. And it's taking away this competitive element. Yeah. And then you have someone like Andrew Tate that says, life for a man is player on player. And everybody says, oh, that's genius. Yeah. And I'm not taking anything away from Andrew. You know, I love and have a lot of respect from Andrew. But at the end of the day, I feel like a lot of the things that he's saying are things that some grown man should have pulled you to the side and told you that when you were seven, when you were eight, and you would have understood, I have to apply myself. I have to be better than the kid next to me. You know what I mean? Or else I'm not going to get picked. Yeah. I can't go to a new neighborhood and go to the park and all these kids are playing and they know each other. And I want to play too. Well, there's a cost to play. You have to be good. Yeah. So when you call them next, they're like, yo, we don't know this because you don't get on this kid. Well, there's a difference between first string and second string. That's your only first string. You got to fuck them win. You got to compete. You got to outcompete the other guy. And you learn that at a young age. Yeah. And it has nothing. See, the problem is a lot of the women, they sit back, you know, these moms and stuff. They sit back and they interpret that as boys fighting or boys not liking each other. Or my son's getting rejected. And it's like, no, you're competitive with your friends. You're competitive with your teammates. We're friends, but we're still competitive. When it comes to talking to girls, oh man, you can't get her number. Watch me. You're friends regardless. You both like the same girl. We're still friends. But you're going to get out there and you're going to compete. You're going to try. So now if your friend gets the girl, if your homeboy gets the girl, you already know. You don't take it personally. You brush it off. You say, oh, man, you got that one. But nowadays we have grown men that are pissed at strangers for getting the girl. Oh, they just like to add to Tyrone's and like, whoa, his name is not Tyrone. That guy's name is not Chad. That's in respect. But because she likes him and doesn't like you, you're salty about. You're resentful. Yeah. When in all actuality, if it was your best friend that got the girl, you weren't supposed to be salty. You're supposed to say, all right, let me get the next one. There's only cartoon characters people building their heads that you're saying. Right. They're building up this type of this, this nemesis, this, this boogie, this boogie man. Yeah. Right. And you have young kids that are at this impressionable age and that's the time to either make them weak or make them strong. We either going to make them a bunch of pussies or we're going to, we're going to make them bigger, better, stronger. And even from that, somebody's going to be stronger. Right. So I was having a conversation and the guy was like his whole point of questioning, right? Was basically what I think about alpha and how can guys be alpha? I handed this out and I just was like, wait a minute, time out. What is with this fascination about being alpha or alpha? Everybody can't be alpha. Well, I wanted to talk about that actually. I mean, your channel is named authentic alphas. I mean, obviously we talked about it a little bit. I think I'm one of the early ones, but I don't, you know, honestly remember the, what went into actually defining the channel name like that. Right. I'm assuming you tend to keep it too. Well, let's see. Let's see if I can say it like this, if I can use this to kind of as an analogy. They will say to you, hey, listen, don't even participate in this competition. Don't even prep for this. Don't even, don't even compete. If you don't plan on winning, if your aim and your goal is to win and to beat everybody, you might as well stay home. Right. So you're, you're, you're entering into this with a winner mindset. Okay. Let's say 10 guys are going to compete, whatever this is, 10, 10 guys are getting ready for a competition. Right. And let's say eight or nine of them come in there with a winner's mindset. That doesn't change how many winners there's going to be. Still only one guy is going to win. Yeah. But they all had a winner mindset though. They all went in there with that attitude and they all went in there with that type of determination and willing to put in that type of work and sacrifice. So when I say authentic alphas, what I want guys to take from that is that you're coming into this conversation with an alpha mindset. Maybe you're not going to be the alpha dog, but you damn sure need to come in here with that mindset. So if we're on a team, there's only going to be one captain. That doesn't mean the rest of my teammates are useless. That doesn't mean they're weak. That doesn't mean they're not valuable. That doesn't mean that they're not respectable. So where's this fixation on this alpha as if only the alpha wins, only the alpha is important, only the alpha is valuable. No, no, no, no. Everybody that comes with a mindset to win, to be strong, to be resilient, and to be determined, we all win with that mindset. So the guys that lose are the guys that stay home and give up. They don't even try. And it's all beta, beta. It's like, whoa, whoa. You're running around calling everybody beta. So let's pause on this because I saw a YouTube video just a couple of days ago. Some guy, it was from video on your channel, and I think you're intentionally posting like failed to cold approaches or something like that. Exactly, yeah. They're posting URLs. And this guy was trying to roast you and attack you, some YouTuber. I don't think he was that big, some guy. And just looking at the guy, I could tell him like, all right, man, when have you gone out and approached any women at all? Well, he has to leave the country to get a girl. He has to leave the country to get an angle, right? If that even, it just doesn't even, won't even do that, just stay home. I mean, literally won't leave the house, you know? Live them with their mama or whatever. So that just comes to mind. These guys who bitch and bitch and bitch and they'll attack anybody that says, you can get game, you can be better with women, you should go out, you should talk to women. They try to make it this endless black hole of it'll never work. And it's like, man, you're fucking crazy. What they are as people, I like to accuse them of being afraid of mirrors. Of mirrors? They're afraid of their own reflection. Yeah. Because they don't want someone to take away their luxury of saying, you can't win. This can't be done, right? The women are unrealistic is the problem, right? The system is unfair, the system is rigged. And it's too hard to do this, it's too hard to do that. So the argument now that I'm trying to dispel is that short guys shouldn't bother to try and date. If you're short, it's no point in dating. Well, I'm going to tell you how that's ridiculous on face value. If dating for short guys was futile, short guys would, they would cease to exist. Yeah, good point. Because they'd be no short dads. Yep. So that's how ridiculous that argument is. It's a ridiculous argument. And then when you look at the percentage of the population that's considered to have a great face, that's a small population. So you're trying to tell me those are the only guys getting laid, guys that have amazingly, amazingly good-looking faces. And then it's like, oh, these women only want tall guys. You're confusing what women want with what women actually get, what women actually settle for. That's the mistake you're making. So when women say they want nice guys, right, you believe that they're full of shit because of their dating history. Okay. So why wouldn't they say they only date guys that are six foot and over? All of a sudden, it's believe all women. Yeah. Do you see the ridiculousness of it? This is a good point in hypocrisy. This is like black pill, a little bit of McDowell stuff too, but it's a very black pill mindset. There's no logic in it. And then also we have to be careful with how accurate women's claims are. Because a woman can say, oh, I dated several guys that are over six, five. And then we really get into it and you really take a closer look. What she means is, oh, I've slept. I've slept with four guys that are over six, five. Well, it's even like how many guys that they banged. You know, they answer some questionnaire anonymously, 25 really is like 35 for 40. All right, they're just downplaying this number for whatever reason. That's what I'm saying. I had a girl once tell me she banged this, she's like asked her her number, she's like 25. I think it was actually 25 many years ago. Am I really like, am I in that too? She's like, yeah, you know, Mike, what about, you know, she's like, well, there was this guy on the cruise, but I didn't count him because, you know, it was a cruise. And I'm like, what do you mean it was a cruise? Like, this is the kind of stuff they make up, right? If it was on a cruise, it was just one time on one cruise that didn't count. Girls do this dumb, this goofy bullshit all day long. You gotta be careful with how they use words. That's what I mean, because when you say date, you're talking about a relationship. The guy was with you when they answer your question, they just simply mean that they've been involved with a guy that was 65. So they've never gotten a guy that was 65 to compete. Yet you've already accepted that, well, if I'm not over 62, she'll never give me a chance. Really? Because the guys that she actually dated, not that she deserved girlfriend status, that's a whole other conversation. But the guys that actually were in a relationship with any time frame with her were guys all under six foot. Yeah. So all she's telling you is what she ideally would like. That's what she's telling you, her feelings, basically, about these issues. I feel I deserve a guy over 62. Exactly. So I'm looking to debate this guy, Wheat Waffles. And guys are asking me, like, what do you think about Wheat Waffles? Like, guys would be surprised who I listened to, because I've been listening to Wheat Waffles long before I had a chance. Is he on video, too? Or is he anonymous? No, he doesn't show his face. OK. So it's not like I'm not familiar with this guy's content. And I have to go look at it and say, this is what I think. So when it comes to these black pill guys, my argument is not with their logic. My argument is with their conclusion. You can show me all the stats you want. You can show me all the data that you want to show me. And you can tell me dating is dead and marriage is dead. You can tell me all of these things, right? But you are operating with the same logic as feminists. I'm going to tell you why. Because when you ask feminists about their views and how they see the world present day, it's heavily influenced by a time frame in which they didn't exist, which means you're misinterpreting the past. You're going to tell me about how men were abusive to their wives. You're going to tell me how marriage was slavery to women in the past. You're going to tell me all these things about a time frame when you did not exist. You weren't dating in the 30s. You weren't dating before women had the vote. So what are you basing this on? Oh, what you've been told. Not a great-great-grandmother. Not a great-great-grandaunt. Not a woman from that time period's diary. Not the love letters that she would write back and forth with her husband that was often some war fighting for his country. So you're not basing it on anything that's an actual person's account. You're basing it on what some talking piece, some talking heads are telling you, who also didn't exist in that time frame. Now, when you talk to these black fillers, they're telling you about how much harder it is to date for men today. And I'm thinking to myself, really. So you're saying 50 years ago, it wasn't hard for men to get laid. The same time frame when men had to actually marry a woman to get access to the vagina. And by marry, I mean, they had to go and make something of themselves by like 18 or 19 to even be considered eligible to ask another man, hey, can I sort of kind of possibly get permission to court your daughter? Please. I'm a great guy. It's like Coach Greg was talking about. We'll watch a video beforehand. Yeah. This is how hard I've been working, sir. Yeah. I'm a virgin. I've been doing nothing but working. You know, can I please take your daughter out? So you're telling me that it was harder now than it was then to get a date? You got to be kidding me. Imagine 100 years ago, 150. That's my point. So all of this talk about it's so hard to be a man today, stop it. It's always been hard to be a man. The difference is back in the day, men were willing to pay the price of masculinity today, you're not. That's the difference. The difference is back in the day, men were willing to compete against the worst possible odds. They still were willing to go build that bridge. You might die because, you know, 30% of the crew is going to die this year. But I'm still going to go out there and work. I'm still going to try to put some food on the table for my family. Well, let me play devil's advocate though. So I get what you're saying and I agree with most of it by long shot, but some things have fundamentally changed. That's the laws of the political system. So I was going there next. Okay. I don't think it's any harder today to be a man. I think the difference is today masculinity is not celebrated because it's not a necessity. That's the difference. The difference is nobody's patting you on the back for being a man. Nobody's encouraging it in our voice. Nobody's encouraging you to be strong or resilient because we don't need you to be. In fact, we'd rather you be passive so that we can control you. But 50, 60, 70, 80, 100 years ago, we need you to be strong because we need you to build this nation. We need you to build stuff. We need you to maintain the infrastructure. To fight and die. Right. We didn't have automation to do it. We didn't have computers to do it. Before, we didn't have a use for you sitting at a desk behind a computer screen because now a man or a woman can do that. That's why we're telling women, hey, come into the workforce now because the grit that it requires to do the work today, it's not much grit. So yeah, a woman could do it. But in the past, we needed the women at home. Because we need you making babies so that we can now get those babies to grow up and go work. So the powers that be had a different use for females in the past and they had a different use for men. So they needed the women to be submissive to their husbands because the husbands were kind of like the management level. We need you to manage these women while we control you. So we'll control you as the man, but we need you to manage your woman. And then when your son is like 18, we need him to. We need him to go fight or we need him to go built. So in my opinion, that's the differences today is that they're not going to encourage you to be the man today. In the past, they were going to encourage you to be it because they needed them. Well, you mentioned they're going to like downplay it, but they're also going to make it legally dangerous. Of course. Me too is a more unusual version of that, but family court is not. And then you can think of the fatherhood and family court and marriage and divorce. I mean, you get fucked like hard. Of course. But I mean. And that's since about I think no fault divorce is from the early 80s. So that's a recent change over the past 40 years. Yeah. So I mean, I agree with you with all of these changes that are basically demonizing men, right? And they're they're setting men up to now be enslaved by the women. Yeah. All right. So we'll give the women that ability and we're not informing them in until it's too late. So that's why, of course, you know, your type of content is not going to be welcome because we don't want anybody giving young guys a heads up. We don't want anybody telling young guys, hey, if you get a girl pregnant or she accuses you of getting her pregnant, she just put your name on the birth certificate and that's your kid. Paternity fraud. Yeah. And you know, the kid, you know, the guy, every time I tell a young guy that, you know what they say? Oh, well, I'll just get a test and prove that the kid's not mine. Don't work like that. I say, oh, that's illegal. You need her permission to have that done. We have a guy, Cardinal Smith on our channel. He spoke last year. He's speaking this year too out of he's from Georgia. And he's famous for this stuff because he got laws changed in 10 states because he went to court in Georgia. He was a victim of paternity fraud for 10 years. Even though he remarried and had new kids with new chick, he got two DNA tests that were admissible in court, proving that he was not the father of this kid that he'd been paying child support on. And he's still got the fuckers. Even though he could prove he wasn't there like, no, we don't care. It's in the best interest of the child. You keep paying. It ain't his kid. Right. So then he says, if the genes don't fit, you must quit. That's like, it's a little thing for it. So many young guys don't know the system is set up like that. Yeah, it's crazy. But if they did, they take a lot more precaution. And I hear so much talk in the hemisphere about women are terrible people and women are dangerous and women are gold diggers and all these type of things. And I'm just sitting here thinking to myself as a guy that's been in the field so much, I feel like there's a lot more valuable information and warnings that we can be giving guys. And we could be talking more about accountability than victimization. Like, I don't want to tell guys that they're victims. I want to tell guys, hey, look out for these things. Be cautious. I want to tell guys, hey, listen, when you're out there partying and having a good time and you're meeting girls and they've been drinking and you're thinking, oh man, I could take this girl home and stop. Stop and think for a second. It'd make a great story to tell the guys. But let's talk about the level of risk that you're running here. What are you talking about? Oh, what am I talking about? Well, suppose somebody else put something in this girl's drink. Yeah, she likes you. But some guy that she didn't like so much bought her two drinks and he put something in one of them. So she goes home with you by choice. That guy wasted some good drugs, but now she goes home with you. Something happens. They do a toxology test. They find something in her system. Who is she with? This stunningly handsome young man. Huh, did you buy her a drink? I bought her one drink. Oh, put your hands behind your back and put these bracelets on. Wait, wait, what bracelets? I don't wear jewelry. No, no, you're coming with us. For what? Oh, you put this date rape drug in her drink. No, I absolutely did not. Oh, but she left with you. You bought her a drink. We found this in her system. One plus one equals two. But if you had given the Aayinde answer, which is, listen, I'm having a great time with you. You're wonderful. You're beautiful. I really want to go home with you. But you know what? You've been drinking. I've been drinking. I don't want to forget anything. Why don't we exchange contacts and we'll go out another time. Just me and you. I want the night. I want the night to be mine. When you're getting dressed and you're putting on your makeup, I want you to be getting ready for me. Yeah. Oh my God, what are you talking about? No, no, no, you look amazing. But you came here to party. So have a good time. And if you really are interested in me, you remember me when you sober up. We'll do this another time. Now you have text messages. I have all kind of receipts. You're creating some type of safety for yourself. You're using delayed gratification for risk management. Exactly. Yeah. And if you're that guy, or at least you're operating like you're that guy, at least you have the mindset of that guy, you will be able to do that. You'll be able to risk it because chances are she won't call you. She won't answer your message. You'll never see her again. That's a chance you've got to be willing to take because I'd rather take that chance and take the chance of me being in jail because I hoped up with a stranger and when the police are pulling us over, I'm like, hey, man, hey, look, look, look, looks over, you want to get your seat belt on? Look, tighten up. You know when the police come over to the car and they asked for the license and they asked for her ID and it turns out she's only 20. Now I'm like, officer, I thought she was at least 21. I met her in the club office. Like, you want to step out of the car. At that moment, you know, he fucked up. There's a wide variety of this kind of shit that can happen. It's this, it's like all kinds of false accusations, paternity fraud. I'm saying. And if anything happens, guess what the woman is going to put the onus on you You just met her She has no loyalty to you. She doesn't give two shits Before she has to face everyone and admit that she's a slut She's gonna say well, I didn't want anything to happen. That wasn't my intention And then people are gonna say well, then why did something happen? And she's gonna blame it on the alcohol like jamie fox and when she blames it on the alcohol they're gonna say so you were drunk and He took advantage of you They're gonna fill in the blends for her guys. Yeah, they're gonna finish the sentence for her So she didn't say you you you assaulted her they said it and she didn't deny. She was like, well Because I don't want my parents to know that I'm out here just sleeping with random strangers And drinking at 20 So, all right, put it on this this this guy I just met And now your future is ruined So I just want guys to be a little bit more Um, what's the world? What's the word responsible? If you know something is dangerous Then it's on you to be responsible motorcycles are dangerous if you follow for motorcycle. Are you gonna blame are you gonna blame the bike? So you can't blame women When we know that they're dangerous Something that came to mind too and you mentioned guys is bitching about women not terrible They are you know all this kind of stuff that's been around the monastery for a long time Women today certainly I think have changed. They're not their grandmas And we're not our grandfathers so things have changed But one thing that came to mind is in specifically to the monastery these guys will say this stuff all day long But most of them not all not all not not all Jesse Lee would say right not all not all but most They will they get they will not only say nothing about mana sphere frauds and these fakes They will get angry when anyone does it's like everybody's legit Nobody's a fraud everybody's in it You know for the mission and the the purpose and the message and all the red pill and all the shit And it's like but women are all liars and frauds and con artists And they're going to fuck you over as soon as they can it's like man Do you think you think these dudes are all just angels these fakes like condom and sharp You know someone I like to pick on a lot This is a punching bag, but there's also jack murphy. There's jesse lee peterson and there's a predator out in california There's a lot of nasty stuff in the mana sphere, and that's not new if anything. It's gotten worse. I think the past couple years Well see for me, I think I have a very But it's the contrast between that is what i'm saying It's like women are all frauds and they're all predators and these guys right they're all angels And I mean that's that's the part about a lot of guys messages that that I didn't necessarily like But at the same time I'm kind of very comfortable Um using my own discernment like I'm comfortable with kind of Listening to someone and saying you know what I like 80 percent of this I agree with like 80 percent of this and without letting the 20 that I don't agree would really be a big deal with me I kind of omitted from my mind. So The problem is a lot of these guys they take it they take it all Right they take all 100 percent of it Uh, and then it becomes a problem because Then it becomes almost like a cult like Yeah, uh type of relationship called the personality right and they're not really they're not really taking The useful elements of this person and applying it to themselves They're just taking all of it and just listening to it And that's it they have no filter right not only is there no filter, but they're They're they're they're also not um apply applying themselves, right? They're not saying well, hey, uh What what do I plan to do with this information because all this girls or bad type stuff? What are we doing with this information is the question? You see what I mean? And we're just getting upset with women or are we somehow using this to better ourselves as what I think is missing from the Manusphere Whereas youtube or whatever it's full of information that men can use To improve themselves. I mean you can figure out how to build an engine on youtube you can figure out how I mean almost anything Is that your buddy? I have no idea. We've got to pause guys. Hang on Oh Sorry guys sounds like it's a roofer You need a do not disturb sign I thought it was your buddy like it was raining or something. No, he wouldn't have did that. That's why I was a little surprised I was like he wouldn't have did that he would have just he would have shot me a message Sorry guys roof bullshit. They fixed it. They repair the roof like we built half of it recently Yeah, but I mean definitely obviously there are going to be some people who um you know they have some nefarious intentions or whatever and um for me it was interesting because obviously I kind of was Viewing and watching this type of content and that's like a realistic view on the Manusphere though You got content creators. You got money involved. Some people are going to be legit some people are going to be fake You got people in between. That's everything. I mean, that's the same thing like in the fitness industry Yeah, I'm sure you got people that really want to help people and then you got people are like, okay How many people can I sell the same diet? You know what I'm saying? How many people can I trick into Hiring me as an online coach and they'll be working with my assistant. They don't even know it Yeah, that's who's emailing them or whatever. So Guys anytime there's money involved there's going to be corruption That's just that's just life Um, that seems to be missing though from the Manusphere like these guys really don't want to hear it It's like the minute, you know, just me I do it all the time obviously So I see a higher volume of this kind of stuff But it's like if I go after anybody for any reason no matter what evidence is available There's always this aggressive cult like pushback and that that can vary per individual depending on how close Or how tight the attachment is the from the following to the guy But it's just uh, it's bizarre to see Let's tell you all day long women are frauds and the predators and this and their vampires and shit And then these dudes are just innocent angels. They're here to help us no matter what I mean, I get a little of both though because I get a lot of guys that are like, uh, like a guy messaged me the other day and was just like um He was like, I guess I guess I ending only exposes uh content creators that he doesn't like Oh, no, no, no scammers that he doesn't like because other scammers he supports them And I just was like listen grab a dictionary Look up the definition of support and then tell me what content creator I'm doing that for Because the last time I checked I'm not supporting anyone. What? Here's a good example though. Like I love Andrew Tate. I think he's legit as fuck People for years have bitched at me to get away from Tate Feminists trad cons, you know all kinds of across the political spectrum or whatever People have told me get away from get away from him. He's evil. He's toxic all the misogyny I'm like not Tates Tates fucking awesome. Fuck all you. Yeah. Yeah, but have you gotten this too? Like this people like all Tates of fraud you're stupid for supporting I haven't been getting that lately Okay, and I'm starting to start covering Tate a lot more frequently Really because he kind of told me to you know, you know, he kind of played go go ahead You know, so I was like, all right. I guess I should be responding to your stuff Um, because usually I don't usually I don't respond to anything that's happening anything that's current But the more I try to like learn the algorithm and kind of study Um, like why is it my channel growing faster? What why my view is going down like what's going on? And then it's like, you know what you're not talking about what is trending You're not talking about what youtube wants to put in front of people because it's already proven subject matter So it's like well if everybody's talking about Tate right now Part of me feels like that's what I don't need to talk about because everyone else is talking about Tate So I say to myself, okay, I mean they you're not a you know left right up down black white kind of guy You're a middle gray area type of person So figure out what's the compromise you can make to kind of like get the best of both So I had to kind of stop and think all right. How can I incorporate Tate without feeling like I'm in some type of echo chamber So what I decided to do was start interviewing women Um and allowing them to give feedback and respond to a particular Tate clip. So what I'm doing is I'm selecting a clip and saying Watch this And let's get your natural organic response to this I don't want you to talk about Tate, you know in general. I don't want you to you know, I'm saying Let's not do too much. Let's just focus on this one particular thing that he said And then how do you feel about it? Do you agree with him or disagree with him? Was it offensive or not offensive, you know and just kind of simplify it like that And I'm meeting girls who have never heard of Andrew Tate, which I think is awesome And then I'm meeting girls who also have heard of him, but they've only heard negative things Yeah, and but these are like street interviews. I think I've seen you do a couple of those in the past I've been doing it mostly like um Over schoon yard Okay, I'm on right. So I'm reaching out to girls like over social media But I will you know Make some time to actually try to get some people like out in the streets and stuff also I think that'd be powerful man street interviews, especially Miami But the idea is I'm not trying to influence or alter their view in any way It's not about my opinion because we all know I don't really disagree with Tate on anything in particular But I want to kind of just hear what they have to say And just create the opportunity for them to kind of be non-bias about Because a lot of the girls tell me oh, I've heard of him and I've heard all these negative things It's like whoa, but have you ever watched a Tate interview? No, I haven't it's like well you know what I mean, let's let's Listen to a clip in its full context. Yeah, right not not 50 seconds Of the most offensive part of that clip maybe Right. I don't want you to hear him just say spider-man's a pussy I want him to explain why he feels like spider-man's a pussy. You know what I mean? and Usually I get some pretty balanced responses and I just felt like that's a cool fun interesting way to kind of talk about Tate because It's like why did he get banned? Oh, well, he's offensive. He's a misogynist So that's one of the the questions that it's like, all right. Well, I want to ask women Do they do they think that Andrew Tate is a misogynist? because every time I've been around him and women at the same time He's charmed the hell out of these women While still saying Exactly what he thinks and believes in And he's gotten these women to actually agree But they like him overall and this is and this is what people, you know This is what guys think because the guys are familiar with Tate So the guys think yeah, that's because he's tall and that's because he's handsome. That's because he's rich Let me stop you right there Because the women will often go out of their way to say He's not my type Looks wise A lot of these women they don't find them attractive as you know, just being tall and light-skinned guy. No And they don't know how much money he has They don't know that this guy said has money. They have no idea But it's the charisma the personality the confidence and the intellect the intelligence But a lot of guys They just assume that women fall into the arms of Andrew Tate because he's this rich guy And I'm telling you right now. He doesn't lead with his money like that guys Yeah, he's not some beta some right. He doesn't leave with his money like that. He doesn't feel like he needs to He's very persuasive and aggressive very persuasive So he's he doesn't have an issue with with being likable. He has no issue whatsoever with being likable So I think the controversy Is intended. I believe that I think He doesn't mind certain people getting the wrong impression of him or misinterpreting him because it actually gives him an opportunity now To say what it is that he wants to say to people who normally wouldn't have been listening Listening otherwise. Well, it's also. Yeah, it's letting him stir the pot and win in the attention economy I mean, he has really the internet has changed so much in the past 20 25 years But now it's like all about attention attention attention His ability to command that you know recently has just been amazing And you know it results in the band for now, but it's been probably really impressive to uh to see. I'm very proud of him in a way Like this is awesome. I think it's good for Society Because I mean think about it. He's basically a threat to the status quo because He's someone where technically speaking they can't control them Yeah, right they can't control and they cannot control how people react to him either Yes, so that is terrifying to the powers that be because they want to be able to call this person a name Accuse this person of this or that and silence them Yeah, and it not be questioned and nobody support it nobody follow them So for one man to be able to say i'm gonna have my way with this algorithm I'm gonna make the algorithm my bitch. Yep, right and he went from being banned to being on fox five So technically speaking He's more influential now than he was prior to the band I mean he got billionaires to react to him. That's what he did multiple. So that was genius I think that was I think that was genius what what he did and um at this point They really they really can't win because First of all, they can't remove him now because other people are Putting out his content. Yeah, that's number one number two tate has been so vocal That trying to scrub the internet of the things that he said is going to be almost impossible because he's been saying things for so long And he's been so accommodating To anyone who would like to interview him. He hasn't been the type of person that won't have the conversation so the conversations Exists an abundance. So good luck trying to Get rid of them and then every time he's in front of a microphone. He says something memorable Yeah, every single time he says something memorable without it even being the same thing Usually when someone is polarizing It's usually for saying the same damn thing and maybe they go other places and say basically the same thing It's like a shtick they call it right like punish bad behavior It's like, okay. Well, how many times are you gonna say that and politics is common too I go to the c-pack events and I was very disappointed that it's like the man's fear of the fitness industry It's like mostly frauds There's some legit people that don't really care about these different issues and conservative politics or freedom or whatever Ian Smith one of her speakers is a guy who's an example of that legit But most of them at these events these all these interviewers and reporters and shit and even a lot of the Elected officials are just like, you know, they're they're typical slimy politicians They just happen to be red or republican or they support trump exactly for now And it's sick and this morning. They can't be trusted because yeah, what's the motive? What's the you know, what's the agenda? So, um, I mean like even your convention that's coming up, you know, in my head I'm just thinking okay. What can I bring that's Valuable yet unique Yeah, right because there's gonna be guys there who will obviously have a vested interest in Men in general these days or manhood in general um, and I think That's what we have to kind of look for and be able to differentiate the guys that are kind of coming in with this like You know this monetary agenda. How do I monetize this? Yeah, um, as opposed to the guys that are coming in that that that truly have An issue With what's going on with masculinity today? Like it's it's irking them You know what I mean? Like I tried to take my girl to disney And I wasn't even saying anything but she could tell like she was just looking at my face if she was like Like you can't even just enjoy this and just be in the moment Because I'm looking around and all I see is soy boys. All I see is grown ass men wearing mickey mouse caps and You know looking exactly looking all weak and pathetic and they're actually interested in this They don't have any kids or they don't have a woman. Why are you here? The amount of grown men I saw wearing crocs And and you know what I mean goofy t-shirts and I'm like dude, you're like six two You're supposed to be you know Chopping down trees somewhere. You're supposed to be like building cabins. You're supposed to be doing something Useful you're supposed to be making a contribution to society to women and children And now he's taking a selfie with goofy exactly now. You're over here playing and and basking You know what I mean in this childish? atmosphere like a woman or child. Yeah, and It was like I was seeing two, you know polar opposites I was seeing these type of Weak men that I can tell like you grew up with your mom and your auntie and she just kind of like let you Sit at home and play with toys and and and like watch star wars over and over and over again Like she just let you kind of just be a big kid for the rest of your life. Mom's boy Right, like like the other kids didn't like you. They didn't let you play with them You were getting bullied. So her solution was to Distance you from children that might bully you So you were overly sheltered, right? And you grew up Taking game of thrones a little too seriously You grew up liking the hobbit a little too much where you didn't like actually go out and live real life So it's like I was seeing that extreme over and over again, but then I was seeing the other extreme I went to work Hard like a man I built something. I'm a provider. I'm a father. I'm a husband And I'm here with this stone cold face Holding this baby While while my other kid is here playing you see what I mean and my wife is over there, you know waiting in line for that and I'm finally getting some Quality time with my kids. I can enjoy disney because I've been you know working so hard to be able to Provide this experience for my children and I felt like I was seeing less of that than these grown man babies And it was pissing me off. I'm surprised he was irritating the hell out of me. Um, because I was once that little kid That was so happy, you know, and I mean that I could be at disney You know what I mean with my with my cousins with my uncle with my grandpa And and I knew that this is special and limited because these men are always working Yeah, you know, I mean they're always working and they promise that we were going to go to disney And now we're here now. We're here Who knows how long it's going to be before we could do this again Right and even for me to be able to spend time with my nieces and nephews and do something like that It's very very special to me, right? How hard do we have to work to be able to do that as a man? You get what I'm trying to say. Yeah, so the last thing I want to see is some Some guy that went And be a slave to the system to save his money to go to disney by himself and go on all the rides Because he doesn't have any friends And he can't get a girlfriend He doesn't have any kids But yeah, I imagine the star wars things by the worst you went to hallowed studios. They call it went to all of them I bought all the access passes that we could go to spend the whole day and um You know, I mean, I enjoy, you know going on the rides. I wanted to go on the things that I wanted to do I'm not being on roller coasters, but I really was just out there people watching Yeah, and I was trying to wrap my head around how I'm going to go out this debate Um You mentioned uh 21 convention, obviously a few minutes ago I want to talk about that a little bit. Definitely. So it's your first time speaking this year It's coming up in about 38 days a little bit over a month October 14th 17th 2022 and get your tickets now 21studios.com But uh, what are you looking forward to at the event in terms of maybe the other speakers or the experience Coach Greg will be there. Richard granon jack donovan Jeff younger a lot of famous people Well, I mean, I'm definitely interested in meeting As many, uh, you know different creators as possible and getting getting to know them Uh, kind of man-to-man personal kind of thing. Yeah, because it's so different getting to know someone from their content And getting to know them in real life Yep, uh, like I'm a big fan of uh, coach Greg Adams Like his work. I love his work and same and then meeting him. I was just like I was really not not surprised the maze was shocked, but I was very Grateful to see that he's like He's more coach Greg Adams in real life than he is On the screen. Did you meet him in Miami? I met him in Miami but then I also Ran it to him again at the CME Invades So I'm looking forward To the convention because I feel like it's my opportunity to Speak at the real the real deal when I was cock blocked on the You know on the on the on the copy, right? Yeah, so Donovan actually asked me to speak at the CME not the not the one that I went to but Basically, hey the next one you're you're on the roster already and um, you know, so I said, okay I'm gonna go I'm gonna learn and you know, I'm willing to add value I mean if you need me to mop up out for I got you if you need me to help you with this, you know I'm always trying to add value, right? I'm a team player and um You know kind of the people that he's running with and the relationship that I have with them So basically he was told hey listen, you can't work with this guy if you give this guy any opportunities We're not gonna do this this and that so he ended up having to renege on me, which was interesting because I I uh You know, I kind of Mentioned that concern from the beginning. I said well, you know that you know, I'm not getting along with these guys And you know, he's like, oh no, no, I nobody tells me what to do Nobody tells me who to have on my show and nobody tells me what to have at my at my uh, um event and boss like All bullshit. I said, okay. I mean at the time I it made sense to me Um And I was black bald, right? Yeah, so Many content creators were told hey listen. You can't work with this guy and I'm not saying like Like they were told preemptively because then it just sounds like I'm making stuff up. No, no, no These people were told this after already agreeing. Yeah that they to work with me that they wanted to work with me I'm talking about we already decided what we were gonna do So I want to I want to pause this real quick. I'm going to show you when we get off uh live here in a bit I recently had a big youtuber very big in the monastery one of the biggest uh around And he hasn't spoken to 21 yet, you know, we've been talking for a couple years about it He was ready to pull the trigger recently Except that the last minute he demanded that I make peace with uh fed and shit as I call them for him to speak So the last minute he put this condition this demand of my behavior of my relationships I'm going to conduct myself in my event I'll let you read and you can imagine how I responded to this This bullshit that kind of in Spongebob nobody tells me what to do at my event blah blah blah That's all just uh masquerading bs. His wife tells him what to do miss piggy, you know, 47 year old single mom But this guy actually tried the shit with me and man, that's that's the fastest way to fucking piss me off It's really dictate to me my relationships, you know, put special conditions for speaking at my event Who you don't work with? Yeah, exactly when I extend an honest invitation. There is no conditions It's just you want to speak or no? Yes or no, you can here's the deal you the speeches, you know, just the standard stuff But this was it's very unusual and even tries out these days But this guy actually tried that shit and I'm like man, you're gonna get fucked up bro You want to get memed you're gonna get memed shrub down your fucking throat and you just shit him out your ass that's even worse than like saying Because I mean because that To me that's worse than you going to the other person and saying hey, I don't like this person So don't work with this person to me. That's very feminine because that's what women do They try to assassinate your character. Yes when they have a disagreement with them And they're willing to lie about you. They're willing to say whatever whatever happened Or they're willing to just simply say if you talk to this person that you don't talk to me anymore Right, and this is exactly. Oh, no, you didn't yeah To me, that's the exact same thing. Yeah, because you could have simply just said because because because in my mind And I could be wrong guys I could be wrong right but me personally I would never like that would never even cross my mind because my logic would be I respect this person as a man. Yeah, so they decide who they do and don't work with and if they come to me and they say Hey, listen, I know you having problems with so-and-so So I'm not going to work with them Out of respect for you I'm not going to collaborate with this person that you have a problem with But that's that person's decision is my point as a man. They could very well say that Because they don't want they don't want to offend you. They don't want there to be any misunderstanding You respect their autonomy and you expect it in return. Right exactly But to be the one to tell them Hey, you don't work with this person and you don't know to me that's that's that's it's puppet master shit, too I think it's feminine. I don't think it's a power play I don't think that's a power play because are you acquiring power by doing that? No, you're just being grudge-full and bitter Yeah, and feminine you're being bitchy bitchy. Yeah, so you're being like what a girl would be because a girl is looking for the What's the what's the word she's looking for like I don't know how to describe the element that she's looking for But she's like I don't like that person. You can't like that person. It's like Huh? If it's business, you should be letting that man choose what's best for his Business, but to penalize him. Yeah, what that means is that you and that man don't even have any type of real mutual respect Or a like for each other What it means is that you're simply leveraging what you could do for that person Over their head. Yes. That's what that means. Like I owe them something Right, you're not trying to help them because you want to see their business flourish You're not trying to help them because you feel like hey, I owe you one and we're doing things for each other You're basically trying to to to exert a power play on that very same person That's supposed to be on your team. Yeah, that's what you're exerting the power on it's corrupt, too Right. See this dude tried to assert the power on you. Yeah by saying you do this this this and that right? So either way, I mean, I don't like that type of behavior And I think that that's some of the things that's missing in masculinity today that we don't understand what is and isn't acceptable as Men right so like one more thing like that about like Tate that Tate has said that I felt was kind of like common sense. At least it was when I was growing up And someone asked him a question and this is the type of question that these guys today ask Because they're very very lost when it comes to not only women But how to conduct themselves with other guys and he says well, what if you break up with a girl and then she sleeps with your best friend? And Tate's response was confusion because he was like, what do you mean? Like what best friend? He's like, no, no, no Like if the girl sleeps with with your best friend and Tate is still confused because he's like, where's the best friend in this equation? Yeah, because if the guy slept with the girl, that's not your best friend So the question isn't what do you do about the girl? The question is why would you be considering that dude? A friend it was all bullshit Yeah, but it went over that young guy's head Because he wasn't taught how to pick his friends basically and he wasn't taught. What's the code amongst? Guys how to manage boundaries and enforce them right and we should we should both know that as guys We should already know because my whole thing wasn't that the problem was that he slept with the chick The problem was is that the niche the initial guy Was the last to know How that conversation was supposed to go is yo, what's up with you in this chick? I don't know man. Fuck that bitch. We broke up. What? Yeah, man. I ain't messing with her no more Yo, bro You mind if I smash that? Like you wouldn't you wouldn't hit that. I'm listening. No disrespect to you, but if you don't care, you know what I'm saying I'll revenge fucker. What's up, bro? Go ahead man. I don't care. You sure? Man, I don't give a damn about her man pros over hoes That's how that conversation should have went if at all you see what I'm saying if at all because If if this guy's finding out in that way that means your boy is keeping something from So therefore he's not your friend, but he's quick to keep something from you with her It should be the other way around your friend should be keeping your secrets for you not keeping secrets From you Yeah, so I feel like even though we have content creators and they're supposed to know it all right There's they're supposed to know everything about this type of stuff They can't be wrong right because they have a microphone and they have a hundred thousand subscribers They can't possibly be wrong because they've had phones. They can't be wrong Exactly. So and I think a lot of these young guys. They just don't know how to tell The real from bullshit. Yeah, right and I guess that kind of puts a little bit of responsibility on us But at the end of the day Do we have to tell the truth? It's a choice Yeah, and it's an integrity. It's a question of integrity character and character and and that's what I think One of the things we need to be talking about a little bit more And let's take the focus off of the character of women a little bit And put it more on us because I feel like we should be the ones that have the influence over the women When I'm training someone in the gym I'm trying to teach this person How to have influence over the weight Not the weight have influence over them. I want them to manipulate the weight I don't want the weight to manipulate them I want them to adjust and move the weight how they see fit Not them have to adjust to the existence of the weight So I feel like when we're giving women this much power, we're basically saying that they Dictate to us. They're the arbiters of us. They change us. They make us adjust And they're making certain guys give up And I don't want to see society women The internet whatever I don't want to see anybody I don't want to see anything make men give up on themselves Because if you say to me, oh, I'm black pill and you know If you're not a six foot chad and there's no point Yeah, that's stupid. Well, is that what you wanted? Is that what you wanted? No, you wanted a girlfriend You wanted to get married one day You wanted to have a family And then they're gonna say to me, oh, but I hear today, you know, you can't because because of this law and divorce court And all these other type of things I said, whoa, whoa, whoa That just sounds like things to be aware of to me. That sounds like hurdles That sounds like things to take precaution It doesn't sound like you give up on what you want in life Because of the the barriers that are put up I say it all the time this comment though what you're saying It's it's the most ridiculous comment one of the most I see on youtube on my channel is, you know, we can't I'm not doing anything I'm not getting married. I'm not building a family until the laws change It's like dude, you're 35 the laws aren't gonna change. They're gonna take 10 20 30 40 50 years to change What the fuck are you talking about? You're gonna build a family when you're 85 This is that like it's it's really Overtly delusional Yeah, the laws are gonna I mean the laws might change. Yes granted, but it's not gonna change What is still required of you to get the Cooperation that you want so they could change the rules, but is it gonna change the women? Is it gonna change how they think how they act how they behave? That's a good point because yeah, there's other fundamentals of play that they're not even accounting for The laws being bad are one fundamental But women are another fundamental female nature is another one that has never changed You know, it's never changed and I try to tell guys that all the time women are the same women have always been the same Only thing that's different Is the environment? So yeah, you can change the environment. I'm all for that. I'm all for that the guys that are like Yo, I'm getting my passport and all of that. That's cool But just do realize that you still have to do all the same fundamental shit Well, even the internet has changed the environment, you know tiktok instagram, you know tinder all the shit has changed the environment Right, but you still you still would have to have these these fundamental things going on for yourself You would have to some guys say is it better to meet a girl on tinder or is it better to cold approach? Is it better and I'm just so confused. I'm like, why are you over here weighing one against the other? No, they're just different tools in your arsenal. You're asking me as a school driver better than a ranch or better than a Hammer, I don't get it. They're all different ways To carry out a job to carry out a task. So how skilled are you at using these tools are the question So you're gonna be great with a hammer or terrible with a screwdriver What's going on? Why don't you try to get as good with with each tool as as possible? And then at the end of the day, no matter Which way you meet this individual You're still gonna have to be This guy you're still gonna have to be that guy So it's not like oh, I met her on tinder so I don't have to be this this and that Oh, no, I since I cold approach. I don't have to no, bro You would still have to be whatever you would have to be right? That's just how you meet her Um, and it's like oh, well this guy's does well with women because he's six foot Okay, he might stand out to women because he's six foot once he meets her It's still how he talks how he acts how he you know, all of that's still gonna come into play at some point in time Anyway, so what I'm saying is there's many different ways that you can get an opportunity But you still have to be who you are to carry out that opportunity You get that job because of nepotism Did you get that job because you have a friend that referred you did you get that job because you found it in the yellow pages Either way when you get there, they still expect you to do this job and do it well Is all I'm saying guys, so I still expect you to be a man always At the end of the day, you still gotta be a man regardless, bro Well, we've been going for a little over an hour. So I'm gonna wrap it up. Appreciate your time coming over We'll do another interview in a minute. Yeah, we'll do something from my channel. Um, cool You know actually a couple questions and Appreciate you coming by always. Thanks for having me. I know it took long enough from you get the actual invite But yeah, you know, it's gonna happen eventually. We're in the state now worked out. Yeah, exactly Guys, thanks for tuning in. Make sure you subscribe to authentic alphas on youtube There's a link in the description. You can also search authentic alphas I believe you're also on tiktok instagram facebook stuff like that. I'm yeah I'm working on those other platforms guys. Give me give me a minute. 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