 Hi y'all. Okay, so I know y'all were expecting me to go live and I actually did go live but I put it on the wrong channel. So I will link that channel in the description box and if you're not subscribed to it, you can go subscribe to it and get on it. It's my ASMR channel and I really don't do live video on that but I did it by accident so you guys can just go over there and watch the live video that I did. It's like two hours long but it's funny. There's some trolling in it. We talk about how nice women finish lives, gold digging, dating. So there's a lot of funny stuff in it and good advice. So I'm going to put that channel link to that video down below and y'all go click on it and go find it on the other channel and subscribe to that channel too because I do a lot of product reviews on there like makeup stuff and like just relaxing chewing gum looking at magazine just talking just like conversation. It's just an ASMR channel. It's like you know whatever but y'all go subscribe to that channel. It is called She Ra 7 1 and there's a picture of me with curly hair on that icon so I'm going to link it below so y'all go and subscribe to that. I'm going to cut this short and I'm going to let you guys go watch the live video on that channel and I promise I might go live again tomorrow early just because I missed this channel and all the viewers on this channel. It was my fault so if y'all want to go check that out I'm going to go ahead and yeah two of my channels have the same name that's why I got confused. I need to change that up or something okay. I was confused myself I'm like which okay anyway. Yeah I'm going to change the name of one of them because it gets really confusing. I have to see look at the pictures to see which one is which so yeah so I will see y'all yeah I'm gonna add ASMR on it but it's not all ASMR anymore so I just put ASMR just so I can know but yeah quick before the trolls come. Yeah I actually had a reading in a consultation actually but they weren't ready for it so I can come back on for a few minutes so yeah go check out this can be part two okay y'all gotta go check out part one on the other one this can be part two so I can talk for a few minutes but yeah the audience on that channel might not appreciate that version of me so we'll see. I thought you were a nice young lady. Surprise. Anyways I've done that before accidentally uploaded on that channel and they got a big surprise. Oh thank you for subscribing thank you so yeah y'all. It's funny how people treat you differently by what you believe and how how your standards are so for example if they thought I was this really nice young lady and believed in you know all those nice things and you know in it for love and loyalty and doing the right thing. Oh they love you then but when you stand up for yourself and you're smart and you know how the game works they don't like you like so yeah. Surprise. Anyway so what are y'all doing this Friday? It's Friday what are y'all doing this weekend? Okay hold on what channel is it about to be on? It's already on there. It's it's called Shira7 one and it's just another channel with the exact same name but the picture of me has curly hair on the icon. I'm gonna link it below. Can I even type in here? Let me see if I can type it in. Can I even type in here? I don't I don't know if I can type it in but there are filters. Let's see. I don't think I can type it in but if someone has my other channel link y'all can put it in the comments. If y'all are nice enough to copy and paste for me that'll be cool. If not it's gonna be in the description bar after I finish this. This is not gonna be a very long video I'm just popping in to say I made a mistake and put this on the wrong channel the original one okay um oh that's cool okay so a lot of people found this channel from my ASMR channel so if y'all don't know about my ASMR channel if y'all don't know what ASMR is it's when you talk like this and you make noises and you type and you chew gum and some people hate the gum chew don't click on those videos okay I hate it when you chew gum sometimes when I'm chewing gum and you like ooh I hate it when you chew gum it's cuz I just stopped I just got finished filming an ASMR video and I forgot to spit the gum out that's what that is okay so sorry but yeah it's it's just a lot of tapping like unboxing flipping through magazines just like really relaxing sounds you know how people do hauls and they have all that crinkly paper and unboxing and it sounds really cool that's what ASMR is it's like relaxing like cool sounds the tingles yes like some people have really good ASMR voices and oh my god lipstick right there and some people like it's almost like hypnotic and they can just fall asleep and relax to it like this like I'm talking right now that's one of the reason I like some some youtubers because their voices are enchanting so the name of that ASMR channel is Shira 7 one it's the same as this channel but the picture of me has curly hair okay and I'm looking like this so just type that in and like these two will pop up just pick the one where I have the curly hair and like the tan shirt on that's the other channel and then it says when you click on it the channel art says Shira 7 ASMR okay it's just my picture with curly hair so y'all can find it is okay that's the one I just subscribed to okay yeah that's it it should be uploading on there now it was a two-hour video so I'm pretty sure it's gonna take a little while to get up there let me go look see where we stand I can tell you if it's up or not hey wait am I on the wrong video again oh my gosh I might have done it again let me check okay I am confused okay I'm checking the status of this oh my gosh really am I recording on the wrong channel again I might be y'all I'm not I'm not I'm on the right channel okay so the name of that other video is called other channel preview what why did I rename it that I don't even know y'all I don't know what's going on I'm gonna have to look into it and fix it in a second but let's see is it unlisted oh no it's up there okay what that is oh that's it oh okay never mind it's up there on my other channel okay I didn't mess up again what am SR do you usually listen to I don't really listen to any ASMR artists that much I listen to like normal people who don't know that they have an ASMR voice because I feel like when you're unaware of it it's more profound like you know I like women who like talk like right into the mic and crumple stuff and tap their nails and then I like guys with deep voices that talk quiet and you know they don't even know they're doing ASMR but it's like it's like you know it's kind of like they're unaware of it but the ones that I do have watched before I don't know like they're just random ones that I just go pick no I like I like a lot of unboxing videos because I like the sound of unwrapping stuff like okay the ones that think they are so extra yeah they're like a few videos that I have I don't have it a lot of friends that's why you never see people in my videos my friends are my kids you know with the lifestyle that I have it's very hard to make friends you know plus I don't chose people okay so what does ASMR stand for Google it it's like something sensory something you know what I've been saying ASMR so long I forgot what it actually means that said I'll look it up for you ASMR what does that mean okay it means auto autonomous sensory meridian response like now y'all gotta go look up that it's basically like an experience characterized by static like or tingling sensation on the skin that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the back of the neck and upper spine so any sounds that like make your body tingle and make you feel good there's ASMR you know okay some scientific stuff yeah you think I don't trust other people in there well see I I'll go meet people out you know I'll go meet people out for lunch and stuff like that but I'm very particular on who I bring to my house you know I'm saying and I don't really hang out I'm too old to hang out you know I'm grown of kids so you know if I'm hanging out it's it's very rare do you know what I'm saying my focus is more on me my kids you know what I'm doing online my YouTube channel and I'm mostly at home I'm a homebody or I'm out shopping or doing stuff with my kids I don't hang out like I've hung out since I was what 15 I had a fake ID I've been hanging out since I was 15 I stopped hanging out after my head kids so really hang out with people I have cousins I have a best friend that I see every once in a while and a few friends that I go out to lunch with but that's it like I don't really do friendships because I'm too busy and every time you have like friends they always want you to do stuff go places and it's to me it's almost an inconvenience you know what I mean so I rather keep it simple and kind of into the in the family you know what I mean so yeah I do need a girls night every now and then but see when I get out and about you know in a drink in girls night you know it's okay it's fun but it reminds me of the old version of myself and you know like I've already been there and done that a girls night out for me would be a spa a spa day getting pampered going shopping I don't like going out you know it's like I've already been there and done that besides only people that will like approach me you know I don't like I'm done with all of that you know I'm married and old now I'm done with all that and for me you know sometimes you know I feel like I'm just done like I'm waiting on my kids to get grown so we can go out together like me and my two daughters I'm waiting on them turn 21 so we can hit New Orleans and we're gonna go travel and go out that's who I'm waiting for that way I can teach them the game from the start so I'm pretty sure about time they get older I still I'm still be looking okay yeah I keep telling my kids oh we're gonna have so much fun when we go out like I'm already planning it oh we're gonna go out I'm gonna be one of those mothers who go out with their kids let me show you how I've done yes anyways we're gonna be we're gonna be like the black version of the Kardashians minus Kim okay anyways have I thought about doing hangout chat with loyal subscriber I thought about it I do have Google hangout so maybe we can make that happen okay do you pay for other girls when you go out like buy a drink etc my mom my sister my kids the only women I pay for when I go out I bought a drink for one person I bought I've bought and drinks for like one person I met her out and she found me through YouTube and I met her out for lunch I did pay for her drink but I usually don't make a habit of buying people's drinks unless they're my family you know or someone cool you know but I don't really buy people drinks I try to you know because you don't want to fall into that category where people only call you and talk to you so you can take them out you know I'm saying because I know my cousin fell into that and she's like you know every time my cousins or family call me is cuz they want me to pay for something I take them somewhere so I don't want to fall into that kind of category okay um okay hello Shira I love your videos here from Dubai me and my friends watch you hi in Dubai I want to go to Dubai one day but I don't know you know when that maybe when I get older me and my kids can go how much older is my husband he older he's old he's old but you know black black guys don't age it's fast you know so he doesn't look old he still looks like he's about 40 something but he's in you know he's up there he's over I'm gonna say he's over 50 okay let's see hey girls how do you keep other women away from your men if you want to keep women away from your man um you get ugly man okay what do you think of the gender war between black man and black woman I think it's all foreplay like seriously one minute they're cussing you out next minute they're in somebody's inbox trying to get some okay so I think it's foreplay hi is it Chanel Chanel Harry hi I'll give you a shout out okay okay um let's see I'm trying to read the rest of the comments what do you think about married men who are separating and dating safe to date or not no they're safe to use but not safe to invest your time and effort into unless you see divorce papers I wouldn't get my hopes up just date them for fun they're probably trying to see what else is out there before they go back to their wife if it was it let me tell you okay if you're dating someone who separated in a marriage you got a rock they were or you got to just be like extra on everything if you want him to sign those divorce papers you got to be like look what you missing you know if you just you know regular normal and blah and boring he's like I can get this at home you gotta be extra okay you got to be taking him to strip clubs and buying all the sexy lingerie and you know making him relive his 20s okay anyways what if you've met the wife too well you know scandalous um if you're if you're one of those people that have a lot of guilt and things like that don't do it if you could care less go ahead and do what you got to do you know there's some people out there that hold guilt and some people that don't you know if you don't hold guilt you know have fun how do you feel about bodies girl having sex with a lot of men I feel like women should have sex with a lot of men I said this on the video I thought I put on this channel but it's on the other channel I said they should go out before they get married and experience a lot of things because when they get married and they settle down they're not thinking and wondering what did I miss out on they're not thinking I wonder what it's like to sleep with this person or that type of person or this race or that race and then they're like okay I I'm good like you know I compared it to shoes I'm like if you get a pair of shoes and that's the only pair of shoes you can wear for the rest of your life you can't change it out you don't know what it's like to walk in heels you don't know what it's like to wear a witch and you know you wear all those different type of shoes boots knee highs tennis shoes heels wedges and then when it's time to settle down you put on your orthopedic shoes and you get you're comfortable okay so I don't feel like I just yeah be smart use protection don't get pregnant by nobody broke okay there you go and then lie about how many people you slip with later on okay what do you do if a man gives you things like car but doesn't want to put it on your name um if someone buys you a car and won't put it in your name hmm they didn't buy you a car they bought them a car and they're keeping it in their name to hold you hostage so my my thing if I if that happened to me I would take the car I'm like can I be you know I want to you can be my co-signer that's why you always have to have your a little bit of your own money so that you put the down payment and you just have them co-sign on it okay if you can't have them co-sign and they had to buy the whole thing and they put their name on it what you do is you ride the car you drive the car and in the meantime save up for another down payment to a different car just in case he decides to take it back and you know because you have an argument or something bam you have your down payment to your new car you know be smart what do you do if your friend thinks you want another friend's bum as man you laugh and say I only mess with man who make this much money okay if I was to ever mess with him it would be because I was drunk and forgot my standards okay I don't mess with bums you know just put them down it's like no that's just not me what about man who are overly attached to their mom um I feel like there's not much you can do about that but be the total opposite of his mom like actually it can be a good thing because you can get out of a lot of stuff you know if he likes like oh my mom cooks this just like oh well tell your mom to come over and cook you ain't got to cook oh tell your mom to come do your laundry you ain't got to do laundry oh you know what tell your mom to come babysit you know your mom is gonna become your best friend his mom's gonna become your best friend because she's gonna be doing all the work and you're just gonna be reaping the benefit so whenever he's overly attached to his mom just start saying well you know I maybe your mom can do a better job than me you know I don't really I don't feel comfortable that you know she's you always obviously you know are used to the way she's doing things and so what's that you know tell your mom come over this weekend cook dinner you know we can have Sunday dinner I'll buy the groceries she can cook you know you're getting out of you're getting out of a lot of work and have his laundry out in the laundry room and just act sick like oh I'm too tired to do laundry today oh I'll do it for him don't worry I know how to do his laundry girl you're getting out of housework and everything how do I feel about people saying World War 3 is approaching because World War 3 has been approaching since the 50s okay I ain't seen it yet okay so I don't feel any type of way about that I feel like it's not coming it's not coming I think it's just to make people fear so they can get in line okay what do you think about living together before me or I think it's necessary to live with someone before you marry them so you can know how to live with them because sometimes you fall out a little quick when you move in with somebody and they're just gross and nasty and you just like this is unacceptable this is this is a deal-breaking right here you know so yeah what if they snore what if they leave dirty underwear on the floor what if they just nasty you know you don't want to live with that unless they can afford a maid okay should I worry about not having a lot of sexual experience or should I fake it fake it till you make it you know watch some tea watch some movies you know you can you can live through others experiences you can learn through other people's experience watch some movies how do you stop being fearful about wars and chaos shift your focus on other things that are more positive and that you can actually do like you know better yourself save some money invest make goals I don't really do the fear mongering because it creates negative energy and drains your energy so it's not really smart only people that get caught up in that are low vibrational people okay and then you bring it about if you keep worrying about it so I don't worry about it I can't stop thinking about a man who was bad for me my mind tricks well usually you want what you can't have and you try to impress the people who are never impressed by you that's just human nature so you have to understand it's all psychological and that someone who is bad for you it's almost forbidden so you're attracted to it even more so you have to understand it's psychological and you have to get over it otherwise you're kind of punishing yourself and falling into the trap of you know a victim of manipulation do me and my husband have date night without the girls ever so often yes we do ever so often yes but not often because we like having the kids around like we like seeing them enjoy life like we like watching their faces light up and have fun but yeah we do go out every once in a while or you know sometimes he works from home and we'll go out to lunch and have lunch and margaritas and stuff like that and he'll he'll take a vacation day and we'll just have the whole day to ourselves so it's fun but like we don't really need to do that because we see each other every day and you know we've dated a long time before we got married we went everywhere we did everything we went we traveled we we dated five years before we got married so we lived together we lived in high rises we lived by the ocean we just we had a really good courting date dating life before we got married so it's not like we're we feel like we're missing out we've already been there and done that now we're just like let's it's all about these kids you know anyway my eyeshadow thank you it's still a and beauty bakery okay do you hang out with friends I don't have any friends like I barely have friends like I might go to lunch with someone every once in a while I have a best friend but y'all know how best friends are we see each other like a couple times a year and I just hang out with my kids you know so don't really have too many friends gold digging is thinking ahead I like that Serena that's funny okay Shira is a liar always a liar yes I'm a liar no one ever got ahead by telling the truth yeah in this world okay name one person I said this on my last video that got ahead being 100% honest I'll wait I move the comments y'all can put a name in there okay how to seduce old man be young be young and interested do I have a relationship with my husband's mom no they live in a totally different state she's old and now we don't have any type of relationship I've met her but no don't have to deal with the in-law so I'm lucky like that I'm 27 I've never been a long-term relationship only sexual I just don't feel like dating at this point is that normal um well some people are not you know some people don't need a relationship that's the whole point they feel totally fulfilled within themselves and they don't need a long-term relationship some people don't even need a man some people don't even need a wife some people don't need to be married you know I don't you don't think Oprah is honest if you read Oprah's background story there's you know she done did some shady things to get to where she need to get you know so I don't I don't think anyone's a hundred percent honest no I don't what is considered young anything under 25 is young I like oh thanks thanks my brother don't think do you have you have a big but it's big enough shoot let's see your mean towards your family am I mean towards my family no my family loves me um why am I this strong and confident because I know what I want in life and I don't take anything less it's like you go to the restaurant you have a menu and you know exactly what you want on that menu and you order it and if you don't get it you send it back and say this ain't what I ordered you know you're not gonna question the order you're not gonna say well maybe I ordered something else or maybe I'll just eat this because I don't want to make a big fuss about it and that's being too nice and you order something that ain't it right send it back and be confident in your choice because you know what you want you came in that restaurant for a certain reason and you don't get what you want you leave you're the dumb one okay and you paid no um do you really think that I have to have sex experience to date with an old man if he's really ugly and you're really pretty you probably don't have to have sex with him he just probably want to be seen with you in public okay don't make if you gonna if you want to date an old rich man make sure he's super ugly preferably having a heart problem so where he can't do anything and just being seen with you in public it's good enough okay okay how do you get a man take you on vacation while dating tell him you want to go on vacation um I already act like that's the type of life you live you know I'm used to going on vacation where are we going on vacation this year you know have you thought about take let's going on vacation don't ask suggest that you know we should go on vacation you know I've been looking at places that are really nice you know don't ask tell how do you move on from an ex move on to a new person like get a rebound person quick okay go start dating someone else that that's way better or looks better something way better than your ex that way it be easy to forget okay is it smart to hot money in a secret account yes hide your money okay is it bad to marry at 20 even though the guys it's if the if the guy is offering you financial security and is it bad to marry at 20 if you can't if you can get money from him before you get married and put it in an account so that you can leave anytime you want to yes but if he's lying and saying oh I'll take care of you just marry me he might he might have money he might pay the bills but he's gonna give you spending money are you gonna have a car can you can you leave when you want okay get some money on the side first that way if you don't like it you can be gone okay what about education difference women with a master's degree men dropout you're gonna be the man in the relationship because you're smarter you have more experience and the dropout unless he owns his own business and as an entrepreneur and his business is making more money than your master's degree is letting you make and he can be the man in the relationship it can work but you're always gonna treat him like a child and like he's stupid anyway so if you're dating someone who's less educated than you like when you're arguing you're gonna start using big words he don't understand he gonna get mad and start cussing so I don't know how it's gonna work oh someone says I have way too much makeup and I also have spaced teeth it's called a gap sweetie and I like my gap I was at the dentist one time and they were like can we fix your gap I'm like no I like my gap and I do like makeup okay and I will be wearing makeup Friday is a really good day to go on a date energy wise because that's that day is ruled by Venus okay can a man have money and be stingy yeah most men who date young women who most rich men who date young women they think oh this woman will be happy just cuz she's dating a rich man and they won't try to spend nothing on you if you can't get money out of a rich man it's just like dating a broke man you know keep keep it moving or keep dating other people date other people and they'll be like well you know I wasn't getting what I needed from you so I had to go find it elsewhere don't tell them what it is let them figure that out alright so I think the other video is up now on my other channel so is a woman market value after 26 oh it depends on how you look yeah you know you can be 40 and still be a 10 and look better than some 20 year old so it's just depends on how you take care of yourself and how you look and what you have you know stuff like that anyway good that I'm wearing makeup I really need it I look like an ogre you I'm delusional okay well I'm a good looking over the end baby Fiona ain't got nothing on this you all see my trolls showing their butt I love my trolls do I have a relationship with my mother-in-law no I told y'all earlier in the video someone asked me that same question I don't have a relationship with her she's old and she lives in a whole different state okay education comes from the government they teach you what they want you to know okay so for those little conscious contrast conscious people who don't think education is important you know you're half right you know it's not important if you're smart enough to start your own business and make money without an education you're even more smart you know you're even smarter but if you're trying to get a job and you know it says education is required you can't pull that you can't say well the government is just brainwashing me I don't even know education but I want then you know you're kind of straddling the fence so I feel like it's good to know things and it's also good to study other things on your own like most of the stuff that I know I did not learn in a book so I feel like if you're gonna use having not having an education as some type of you know consciousness and government and control thing you know math is universal okay you don't know math you know how to add your money you don't know how to count your money you uneducated if you can do that if you can run a successful business and count money you you're good to me do you need to lose weight to attract a man no all you gotta do is be confident and find a man who accepts you as you are okay just like look I'm not losing weight for no man okay unless unless it's some money involved you know like oh you know I know this one girl she was one of my clients and this guy told her if she lost this much weight he would marry her he would give her a ring she lost the way he didn't give her no ring then he said well if you do better if you start cooking more if you start acting right like a wife then I'll give you a ring she started doing all he ain't giving a ring and hope I'm not I hope I'm not telling y'all story but you don't do stuff for men you do stuff for yourself they men do stuff for you okay I'll put all my links in the comment section I'm about to get off anyway because I have to go but how long did I wait to have kids after marriage well I waited a year after I got married but I was dating my husband for five years before we married and we lived together so basically we had six years you know of being a couple before we had kids so we had we done everything we traveled have fun okay how old were you when I had my first child I had my first child at 27 years old so yeah 27 let's see would it be wrong to leave your man because he can't provide but you have children with them no okay he's deadweight he's not a man if he can't provide for you and the children he's a boy pretending to be a man so I really wouldn't call him a man don't that's why I say don't have kids with broke man because that's always gonna be the situation like if you're not sleeping with a millionaire you should have condoms birth control sperm aside morning after pill and all of that combined together if you sleeping with a broke man okay that's all I'm saying you sleeping with a broke man unprotected that is your problem that is your problem and I don't know I just I couldn't even think I could never do that like I had like I already knew what I wanted in life when I was young and I knew that if I slept with the wrong man it was all over and it would never work out so I had too many I had my eye on the prize since I was like in high school you know so that's what stopped me from doing making a lot of dumb mistakes because I knew exactly what I wanted why because I saw my sister like my sister shoot y'all think I'm bad my sister married an NFL football player had a mansion three cars you know and I'm like okay I can't mess with nobody broke okay and I it doesn't fit in my lifestyle you know how you gonna have a sister with three cars a mansion married to a football player and you over here dating this broke dude no that don't work out so yeah it just is not it's not cool and it's not something that smart people do you know you're you're in the moment you're saying oh I love him he talks you into it and then the next thing you know you're in a bad situation that you don't want to be in and you regret it automatically you know especially when he tells you that he don't need no education and it's all a conspiracy and the government just want to control you too that's even worse so yeah I'm looking for my shoes shoot I gotta go so anyway my shoes there so if my husband was to go broke would you stay with my husband won't go broke y'all we got insurance aflac we got life insurance his social security 401k stash savings okay that's how you that's how you make know that your man is financially stable when he got a backup plan to the backup plan okay you never go broke if you are financially smart okay anyway so I gotta go to the to the school to pick up my children you know hypothetically speaking my man would tell me to leave if he went broke because he could no longer take care of us he would say you know what I can out long no longer provider take care of you you need to move on do better because I'm only gonna drag you down he wouldn't make me stay and suffer with him because then I would be then I would see how weak he was and he's he's not gonna let me see his weakness he's like here you y'all go on without me you know that's a real man does he won't he ain't gonna lay up in the house and let a woman and he is struggling he ain't gonna do that feels like y'all go and leave and do better and when I when I make it I'll come find you that's what he's gonna say now if he's a punk he's gonna like well why don't you go out and strip and why don't you go out and prostitute or why don't you go get three jobs and I'm laying on this couch okay no ain't gonna do that anyway so I'm gonna see y'all later it's dark in here I'm in my laundry room but I'm gonna see y'all later and y'all go check out my other channel somebody put it in the comments and I'm gonna try to put it below and I'll see y'all later bye y'all bye trolls bye people who love me bye everyone