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Published on Aug 3, 2010

Hello Mrs. Nina. I have watched your videos and you are such an inspiration to me. You help me on days that I feel completely weak so I Thank you for your videos.

Well I am in a dilemma. I am 25 years old and I have a 4 year old son. Me and his father are still together. Right now I am unemployed. I used to work for Humana (in Louisville, KY) for a liitle over a year then I was fired. Well a little over a month ago I came across my boyfriends Facebook page. I seen where he had been sending a girl some messages. So yes like any other person it hurt cause he was trying to get to know this woman. Well I didnt say anything to him. Well on Father's Day, I figured out the password to his Myspace page and seen where he had been sending girls messages since last year, asking them what their favorite sex positions are and everything. Telling them they are beautiful. I am not conceited, but I am not ugly either! So I started to kinda suffer from depression and low self esteem because I gained weight since my pregnancy and havent lost but 30 pounds of the 60 pounds I gained. Well I did talk to him about it and told him that I was hurt and everything. He said he wouldn't do it anymore, blah blah blah. Well I look at his stuff yesterday and I see that he sent 2 girls friend request from Myspace. He doesn't know these females or anything. I deleted it cause he dont need no friend but me! We been together for 5 years and he is 33. And these woman be younger then me. They aren't in the same state as us, but that doesn't matter to me. I feel as is he doesn't want to grow up or have a committed relationship.
I really need some advice. I told him that the next time I will just pack my stuff up and move in with my momma even though this my house and I pay ALL the bills with unemployment. I am a GOOD woman to him. I been unemployed since Oct. 2009 but before then I took care of all of us, bills, EVERYTHING. It's now that he got a job. And he trys to make me feel bad now cause of it. I don't know what else to do. I feel as if he does it over the Internet, he must be doing it in real life. I know that maybe I shouldnt meddle in his stuff, but I cant help it. I feel as if I cant trust him, and these last 2 days for me have been hell cause I cant take it anymore. All I do is cry cause I feel betrayed. His dream is be a rapper and be rich. Well if you doing shit while we broke, what would happen when you got money and chicks around you all the time? I support him in everyway, but he's 33 and I feel it's time to just focus on getting a GED first and then a better job, then your drivers license. I know I deserve better. I just dont know what to do! Please muchlove help a young sista out.


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