 Nobody can change you because you won't change. You know what to do, but you don't do what you know. What value is it to try to teach somebody who's uncoachable? And you can have different things in your life that you've always wanted. And some of you are like, dude, I can get more things. You don't get more things. You become a different person. And that different person is capable of getting different things. The same you will get the same s*** you got now. Dude, you don't shift on me. I can't get you anything different. I can't get you a better relationship with your wife. I can't make your kids look at you differently. I can't make you look in the mirror at yourself and see yourself differently. And you think someone else is going to f*** you differently and they're going to pay you more money. You're an idiot. See, there's a lot of fake s*** people in this world that try to teach people bull s*** science, say this word, do that. No. You change. You change. Everything changes. A man changes. His whole household changes. A husband changes. His wife follows next. She changes. She can't go tell her, hey, you need to change. You need to change, dude. You change first. You have no idea how dangerous you are. You know what? I cared what everybody thought about me. Everybody. I see so many of you in here that don't believe in yourself. I see some of you in here right now when we say like seven figures, eight figures, nine figures, you don't f***ing believe that. You don't believe that you're capable of that. Dude, why would you ever not believe in yourself? My life, which was what makes me happy, I was giving up to try to be successful. And I want to tell you this, you guys can have it all. You guys get that? But you got to totally recreate and you got to understand this. There's only one thing in this life you got to manage and that's you. It's the only thing you got to freaking manage. And if you can pull this off and you can do this in your life, then you can show millions of other people how to do this in their life. And you'll die a legend, guaranteed. But you know why people can't pull this off? Because you're going to find problems that you have in your life and it's going to be hard to fix those problems. But you'd rather choose that problem and just stay in that hard instead of going to war to try to fix that. I went to war. I went to war. I got sick in the head and I went crazy. What was the last time I was going to let her down? Last time. Who in here wants to be successful? Raise your hand. Okay, but who in here can be successful if you don't take action when you know you need to take action? None of you. The difference between average people and successful people is successful people do what it takes when they get an opportunity to do something, okay? Dude, a lot of you in here right now, you're consuming, you're not a contributor. You're not contributing to your own life. You're literally a consumer. If it's easy, you'll do it. If it's complicated, you won't. You've got to change. If you don't change, nothing will change. I wanted to be a different man to my wife. So you know what I did? I looked at myself in the mirror and I said I'm going to totally recreate. I wanted to take my mind, my mind, which is the most important thing in this world, and I wanted to make it the strongest thing ever. And I wanted to make sure my foundation was clear what I wanted. I wanted the best family in the world. I wanted to fight for myself. Listen, some of you guys ain't ready to fight, okay? I was ready to die and ready to fight that life. I was never going to feel devastated again by having her tell me that I let her down again. And I knew I was letting my kids down. And some of you guys, you're younger, so you haven't let anybody down yet, but you're letting yourself down. And I looked at it and everything, single thing that I seemed to get, it just would fall through my fingers, right? Because my shit was all wrong. I was all so lost up here. And I was chasing a bunch of people that were teaching me just to chase money. Listen, we're going to make you guys rich. But in order to get rich first, you're going to have to get this strong. Really strong. And you're going to have to become you and no one else can change you. No one. You can't be influenced by anyone else. You're the influencer for you. The strongest influencer in your life will always be you because you talk to yourself all day every day. And what I realized is that I was being a coward inside. And I was listening to other people that were telling me I couldn't do that. I couldn't do that. That idea is stupid. You can't make that. And I'm just telling you, dude, I was so lost. So I decided to never be lost again. And I totally recruited.