 It's a nice phrase, victim mentality, but what is it that lies behind that? That is also a human being undergoing something. So when you move into that state of compassion, it diffuses everything, it quiets everything down, it brings a sense of balance and a sense of equanimity and a sense of clarity and a sense of peace into that whole moment and then things quiet down. You can try it out and see. It is actually like that, it works like that.