 Hi, I'm Matthew coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and in today's video We're gonna talk about nine signs that he's he just doesn't like you anymore And so if this is your first time to our channel Make sure that you go and hit the subscribe button to get more videos on how to have the relationship that you've always wanted so this might be a video that you might want to take some tequila shots before you watch because of Maybe how it's gonna feel when I talk about these things But if you feel like a guy's kind of pulling away for you from you or he's slipping away from you Or you feel like that attraction or that love really just isn't there anymore Here are some signs that you need to look for to know if a guy's just not into you anymore So sign number one is that he doesn't want to spend time with you anymore So guys that are really into a woman. They'll want to kind of push things aside to go and hang out with her They'll want to go out of their way to hang out with her. They'll make her a priority in their life Sign number two is that he never really remembers anything that you say And so I know there's kind of a truth here where a lot of times guys kind of zone out about certain things when anybody's talking But you know some he'll remember some things about you and if he doesn't remember anything about what you said or What you've talked to him about at all. That's a really bad sign It means that he's not really interested in you or what's going on with you or what you're telling him sign number three Is that he's not jealous at all? So when a guy's into a woman, he Gets jealous, you know, even if it's a little bit even if he doesn't act on that jealousy There's kind of like this protective like I don't want you to You know see that other guy or I don't want you talking to you know that person or whatever And maybe he's not like, you know overly jealous where he's actually telling you that he doesn't want those things But you can tell he kind of gets weird if you even mention another guy around him or mention Spending a lot of time with other people even if they aren't guys But when he literally absolutely doesn't care that's a Or even sometimes encourages you maybe to go and meet other men. That's a that's a big sign that Maybe he's just not into you anymore sign number four is that he treats you like one of the guys So I hear a lot of women that are like, oh, yeah, I want to be like, you know You know one of those guys or whatever But if he has this mindset that you're just like, you know, one of the guys That's actually not a good sign right because a man isn't looking to date another guy unless, you know, he's gay And he wants, you know, maybe he wants, you know, the Kind of the ease of being with you That's like being with the guys, but you don't want him to like Treat you like one of the guys because that's a that's a that's a sign that he's kind of lost this You know, she's this amazing beautiful woman the special woman that I want to be with He's kind of lost that feeling with you sign number five is that he no longer seems curious about who you are So really the what you're looking for here is his request for more information, right? So he You know a guy that's not interested anymore will just you know, you'll tell him things and he'll just be like, yeah Okay, whatever, you know But a guy that's interested in you will want to hear more He'll want to hear more about different things that are going on with you You want you to elaborate on different subjects. You'll want you to Explain things more because he wants to get to know you even deeper. He wants to get to know you better He wants to understand what's going on and kind of how he fits into what's going on with you So sign number six is that he says that he's interested in someone else So one of the things that happens a lot with so when a guy's like really into a woman he'll just mostly have eyes for her right and it'll just be about her and When a guy starts losing interest in a woman, he'll notice that he starts, you know, even Subconsciously like do it doing this in a way that that he's not trying to he'll start to check out other women And you'll start to find himself Developing an interest for other women whereas when he's like really into you He doesn't care about any other women all the other women kind of fade away into the sea of You know people that he doesn't want but he when he starts losing interest You'll notice that he starts becoming interested in other women as well sign number seven is that you have to always Contact him first, right? So a guy that's really into you will want to contact you He'll want to talk to you about nothing, right? He'll just want to talk to you about whatever And if he's losing interest in you, he'll stop trying to contact you and he'll wait for you to contact him For him to interact with you. So sign number eight is that he's always busy, right? And this kind of goes along with one of the other signs that we talked about before where he is He's not making you a priority anymore, you know He's kind of like busy all the time, right? And sometimes there are certain situations that are that justify or warrant this Right, like if he feels like there's some type of crisis or emergency where he really like To him it feels like a life-or-death type of situation where he needs to go and take care of something And he might become really busy because of that and but that's not what we're talking about We're talking about just a normal situation where he He seems like he's constantly doing things and he's never kind of putting those things aside to make room for you Sign number nine is that he flirts with other women, you know If a guy is flirting with other women It means that he's not quite that into you anymore because if he is that into you He'll want to just be like, hey, you know, like I don't want to have that kind of a Relationship with any other type of woman. I just want to have that with the girl that I'm with So if this is really kind of bad like you see all these signs and they're pretty dramatic It might be time to move on, you know It kind of depends on how your relationship was beforehand if you hadn't been seeing each other for very long It might be a good time to kind of move on with your life If you guys are in a relationship and there's a lot of good things that were in a relationship You know, there are ways to kind of rebuild that attraction and develop those feelings with him that that you want to have or that you did have at one point and kind of Reignite that the spark of the relationship and we'll talk about that in other videos and Other materials that we have. Thanks for watching this video If you're ready to know exactly what to say and do to attract the man and the relationship You've always wanted click on the button on the right hand side of this video and go to our website