 Another Narc's Fiver live video for you, The Narcissist never really leaves you. And what do I mean when I say that? They want to create the solution as though they're done with you and they've moved on. But it's just not true. When they met you, they love bombed you. They displayed the solution to you as though they were this ideal character for you. They were so supportive. They displayed to you whatever they think you wanted them to be. And it was believable. You believed in what you were seeing. You believed that that was who they were. But of course time goes by and then this kind, caring character gradually fades away. You don't see it anymore. They devalue you. They make you feel like less of a person. And eventually they just discard you. And then they want you to think that they've moved on. And they're so much happier with someone else. It's just BS. It's just a lie. It's no different to what they displayed to you. These manipulative people, they don't just move on and become authentic and genuine for someone else. No. They cannot do that. They want you to think that they can just move on. That they can be everything that they manipulated you into thinking they were with someone else. But that's just an act again. They manipulated you. When they first met you, they displayed a false character. Someone who was loyal and supportive. Someone who was everything you thought you wanted. And then they devalue and discard you. And they want you to think that they're this false character again with someone else. When it's just a manipulation again, they don't just suddenly become this authentic person for someone else. They're still manipulative. They're still lying. They're still displaying a false impression. And that never changes. They are always the same way with whoever they meet. No matter who it is, it doesn't matter if it's another relationship partner, a family member, a friend. It's just if they get in what they want out of it, the mask might stay on for a bit longer. But underneath that, it's still the same person. Remember all those things they did to you? How they insulted you and put you down? That's still them. Even if they are with someone else, it doesn't make a difference. Because these people don't look within. They never reflect to realize what they've done. They never take accountability. So they never make any changes. Which means that no matter how many times they move on, it's still the same person. It's still the same person. And that is why I say this. The narcissist never really leaves you. They've just found a new toy. And when they get bored of that toy, they put it back on the shelf. Where they left you, and then they go back to the shelf, looking for you. They re-idealize you. They see you as being perfect again. And really, none of that has anything to do with you. It has everything to do with them. And that's quite a tragic thing about these narcissists. Everything in their external world is only based off of their internal experience. They don't interact with you. They don't interact with someone else. There is no actual external interaction at all. It's all coming from their own brains, which they then externalize onto the people around them. And that's why they just see us as objects. As a means to an end. And that's all there really is. But they still come back. They still return to you. But they just see you as an object. It was never about love. They never loved you. It was just a toy. Something to make them feel good in that moment. It was like an act of escapism. It's no different to someone doing drugs, playing video games, or anything else that might relieve their pain. That's really all it was. And they never really leave you. The discard phase is an illusion, which means they could return at any time. It could be a few weeks, a few months, sometimes even a few years. When things aren't going right, they might come back. When some cases, they might be too prideful and arrogant to return. That doesn't mean that they don't wish they could. These narcissists, they want power. They want control. That's what they desire. But if they have to let go of their pride and arrogance, they don't feel so powerful then. They've got to hold on to that false sense of power. And their power either comes from controlling you, or they can't control you. Their power comes from hurting you. It's either one or the other. It's either the manipulation and control or hurting you. Because that's all they really want is the power and control. And that's why they never really leave you because you're their power source. The narcissist never really leaves you. I just had to share that message with you. I'm going to be taking some trips soon. Traveling the world in about six weeks. My first stop is going to be Singapore. And of course, I will be taking you all with me. And I may even be creating another channel. It's going to be a travel vlog. And it's just going to be more about positivity. It's going to be more inspirational, motivational. It's just going to be about enjoying life. I know I've already got the spiritual secrets channel. And this is going to be another addition, another source of positivity. Because I think we need that. There's so much drama in this world today. Especially with the pandemic, sad times. And I just want to bring the light to people. I want to bring the positivity. Because I think we all need that. I think it will be good for all of us. As you may know, I am a naturally positive person. I believe that I do have a natural ability to uplift people and to empower them. I believe that is one of my abilities. And I definitely want to make full use of that. I want to uplift you all. I want to empower you. I want to make you feel good. After everything we've had to go through, is that not what we deserve? Something to think about. One of my quotes, a narc survivor quote to remember. And maybe something to make note of. Life is meant to be enjoyed. Not endured. Narcissists want to make you think that life is about misery and pain. But it doesn't have to be like that. You can enjoy life. You can be happy. They're never going to change. They're always going to be miserable. You don't have to lower yourself to that level. I know that you're all positive, uplifting, inspirational people. That's why the narcissist targeted you. Because you're empathic, you're kind, loving and caring. Even if they do want to make you feel like you're this cold hearted person, you're selfish, all of these things. Don't let that become a part of you. You know yourself. You know who you are. Just don't let go of that. Keep doing you. Don't let anyone take that away from you. You know that energy, that childhood magic that we have inside of us. Many of us lose that. We go through abuse. We go through difficult situations. And it's like they take away our innocence. Often from a very young age. But we are the ones as empaths. For whatever reason, we managed to hold on to that. We've still got that inside of us. And that's what these narcissists gravitate towards. Don't let them take that from you. Hold on to it. Cherish it. But share it with someone who can appreciate it. You can't be vulnerable with these narcissists. You can't be you. You can't just let it go and have fun. Because they sure ain't having fun. Every day is hell for the narcissist. But it doesn't have to be hell for you. You can enjoy your life. And I know that you will. There will be a travel vlog very soon. I will let you know when it's up. Also, check out my blog posts. The support forum. And you can book coaching sessions as well. All available on the website. www.narksurvivor.co.uk And available by email. Coaching at narksurvivor.co.uk And also, there's my Instagram as well. Which is narksurvivor YouTube. So yeah, I'm always here for support. For guidance. I want to be that person for you. That I never had for me. But yeah, I hope you're all finding time to just enjoy life. Despite what you might be going through with a narcissist. Just getting out there doing things that you like to enjoy. It's important. You have to get out there. Make the most of this life. I'd just like to thank you all. For joining this live video. I appreciate you all. I'm very grateful to have you here. Please show your support. Give the video a thumbs up. Leave a comment. Share the video. And click that subscribe button as well. If you haven't yet. Thank you all for joining. And talk to you soon.