 There's no hierarchy with pain, okay? Pain has no hierarchy. Suffering cannot be and shouldn't be ranked. Pain isn't a contest. So when comparers start talking to us, we feel they just dragged us into a contest and a hierarchy and our pain somewhat is lower down than the story they're about to tell us. So what it does is when pain is diminished by comparison, it doesn't remove your pain. It makes it go underground because when we feel our pain is diminished, we feel embarrassed about how well off we clearly are compared to someone else you just told us about. So we kind of go quiet and our pain goes underground and you can't deal with pain that goes underground and humans carry pain around with us all of our life. We carry what's called pain bodies and these pain bodies are pain that perhaps was diminished or shoved when we shared it, which didn't deal with it. It went underground.