 This is why Narcissists ghost you. It's really quite simple. Of course, I can understand many of you Are confused When they ghost you but that's because you don't have much knowledge about it Maybe you don't have the experience of being ghosted before and that's why you find my channel you find my videos And then you start to learn more about this And it does become a lot more predictable With time you start to figure things out you start to understand the way their mind works Because of course They don't think like normal Logical reasonable people Their thoughts stem from their emotions and their emotions can change from one minute to the next Which is how it's so easy for them to ghost you and Just disappear and the reason why it's because you're not an easy target. I can tell you right now if they have The type of target that they're looking for and it's right in front of them. They are gonna pursue that very hard They're gonna do whatever it takes to secure that source But then with everyone else it's like They don't even notice them They don't even bat an eyelid They don't care but then they They know when they found Well, most of the time they think they know when they found the suitable source They think they do and that's basically someone who's an easy target When they say jump this person says how high They're down for whatever they're willing to do Whatever the narcissist wants So pretty much it's a fool a Dormat Sometimes even an emotional punching bag and emotional tampon They're all of these things Someone who's gonna be at their beck and call Now that is What we call gray day supply It's someone who Bows down to the narcissist Kisses their feet Sometimes even literally this type of person never says no This type of person is Always there for the narcissist the narcissist becomes their main priority It's like everything else is has to be Not important to them because that's exactly what the narcissist wants And they think that they deserve that they feel entitled to it because in their minds are the best things in slight bread Literally in their minds you may not see it that way, but they really think that they're perfect They can't see anything wrong with them at all And not just in their physical appearance, but also in their actions their behaviors They think everything they do is right correct And if anyone disagrees if anyone opposes them they're bad. They're wrong. They're stupid is something wrong with them It's never then and if you oppose that if you criticize them if you question or confront them Automatically it doesn't matter how you try to portray it. It doesn't matter what you're trying to do Instantly there's something wrong with you their mindset is If you Don't like me If you think there's something wrong with me Then there's something wrong with you And the reason why they think that way is because Most of them have had a lot of success in the past with other sources, so they're so used to it When they walk into a room, they just expect everyone to fall to their feet Everyone to put them first Because they think they're the best and they expect you to see it that way and if you don't They're just gonna ghost you. They'll just forget about you. It'll be like they never even knew you like you never even existed because In their minds, they're looking for something better It's better to them I'm not saying that it is better, but it's their idea that this person who will submit to them and Be whatever they want them to be that person is Perfect in their eyes as well If you've been that person, you'll know it when they first met you they idealized you you put you on the pedestal In that moment you were perfect You were everything that they had been waiting for But then it's like they put you on the pedestal just to kick you off and Then you just left alone You're left to deal with it on your own Because that's what they do to you They call you up and then they kick you off and that's Why they ghost you because you You might have seemed like the perfect supply in the moment I mean people can pull it off in the moment. Yes, of course But for a longer period of time Then it's very different once you've been with them for a couple of weeks couple of months They start to think very differently of you then Then things start to change Because it's very difficult to Maintain and be What they want you to be for a long period of time It is an impossible expectation It really is and that's why They're always they're never really alone What narcissists any social paths and psychopaths they could be alone for a very long time Unless they have the best but with narcissists this more They will settle for something That's not really what they want something easy Only if they don't have any other options If their option is I settle for this Beneath my standards not what I really want, but the other option is to be alone They're not gonna choose to be alone. They can't be alone for a day But the difference is with the sociopath psychopath They can Unless they have That picture perfect ideal Version of what they're looking for Then they're ready to Commit to something more long-term But even then it still doesn't last So that's really why they will ghost you And it's really just a matter of time I mean it all depends on how big of a fool you are How much you're willing to be their door mats That's what determines how long you're gonna be with them as crazy as that sounds that's really how it is. You have to Abandon yourself I mean that's really what it is. That's the difference Between that grade a supply and someone who they will ghost The grade a supply Chooses the narcissist Over themselves So they're pretty much a robot a slave and the person who gets ghosted They're the ones who choose themselves first If you're with a narcissist and you choose yourself They will drop you like a hot potato You cannot have an identity around them. You cannot be yourself You cannot choose yourself over them Because that will cause an injury And I'm sure Many of you who have narcissistic parents will have experienced that You have to be what they want you to be Otherwise They will abandon you They will disown you That's just how it is when you're dealing with a narcissist You either choose them or it's nothing Because that's just what they're looking for It's someone who's all for them Someone who has no identity of their own Someone who can they can mold Into what they want them to be Someone who they can mold into what they want them to be That's what a narcissist wants And if you're not going to be that Oh well it's on to the next It's how they see it It's on to the next person Because they're pretty confident that they're going to find what they're looking for Remember they think they're amazing They think they're the best thing since life's bread So if it's not going to be you It's going to be someone else They're not bothered They might set a few at the moment If they can't find a better option And they'll lie to you and tell you You mean the world to them They love you, they're going to be with you forever As soon as they find it and better they're gone They've ghosted you And you're wondering what's going on It's because they found a better option They found someone who's Stupid An idiot, a fool Because like I said that's all they're looking for I hope this video was helpful for you I hope now you understand the reason Why a narcissist Or even just a player will ghost you Because it's not just narcissists who do this There are Other personality disorders as well And they do ghost If this video was helpful Please give it a thumbs up down below It helps to support our community Share your thoughts in the comment section I'd like to know if you agree with this or not From your own experiences And hit that subscribe button Then you will receive the notifications for my future videos And if you'd like to book a one-on-one session with me You can do that from my website It is Narxa5 at the Codoo UK And available anytime for you And also check out my Instagram I've got new pictures of videos on my travels on there It is Narxa5 at YouTube on Instagram Thank you all for joining me And I will talk to you in another one very soon