 And I hope you're all welcome back to my channel or if you're new here, my name is Cepi and in today's video I asked you guys basically on Instagram to send me in some of your questions. If you don't follow me on Instagram, stop right now, go on the app, type in Persian Bunny, it's across the screen, hit that follow button, I do lives and I talk to you guys through my stories and DMs and all of that stuff plus those pictures of me. So if you guys want to keep up with me, follow me there. But yeah, I asked you guys on my Instagram story to ask me some questions and I said that they can be as general as possible, it could be asking me about advice, you could ask me questions about my life or your life, relationships, boys, anything and I've got a bunch of questions back and we're just going to work our way through it, peeps. We're going to talk it through, let's see if I can, I don't know, dish out some advice or talk about my life and yeah, I feel like we haven't done this in ages, so the question is how old does your boyfriend have to be? I don't know why I went through this phase where I really felt like I needed to be, like if I was talking to a guy that he needed to be at least four or five years older than me because I felt like the guys that were my age just weren't, I don't know, not that they weren't serious or anything like that but I just feel like the way I thought was just a completely different way to the way that they think and mentality but anyway, time a few months has shown me that actually it's got nothing to do with age and it's really to do with like where that person's at that moment in time so there's no age I think so long as you're my age or older that's fine I feel like if I date someone who's like much younger than me that would just be like not okay because I feel like I would be much more like mentally mature than them so yeah will you be filming any makeup tutorials in the future? yes I will I've gotten so many requests for makeup tutorials recently so I really want to film like one apparently like you guys are really liking my makeup in like the past couple weeks it's really weird like as in it's only been in the past couple weeks I don't know I've changed but I'll try and film it so that it doesn't change by the time I film that video so yeah that'll probably be my next video that you guys will see how old do you love you so much love you too I'm 23 a lot of people are asking do you have a boyfriend I don't have a boyfriend yeah that seems to be the thing that stays the same with these cute nays as I don't have a boyfriend and that's not to say by the way that like I do or don't want a boyfriend it just means like I haven't met someone who I feel like is someone who I want to be with like in a long time and I don't see the point in like did I have something on my lips this whole time I'm sorry I don't see the point in like just seeing someone if there's like no future so yeah I'd want if I have a boyfriend I'd want it to be someone who I can like introduce to my family maybe even introduce to my YouTube family I don't know but yeah so that's why I'm not really in like a rush to be like yeah like let me just date you and see how it goes or whatever next question how to cut off a toxic friend trust me I've dealt with my fair share of these sis what you need to do is you need to phase them out so like don't just cut them off instantly like you need to slowly slowly like stop like just don't reply to their text messages as quickly don't answer their phone calls straight away and stuff and like don't make yourself as available to them if you go to school with them I guess it's more difficult I don't know how I'll do well or if you work with with the toxic person but yeah just like change your group of friends like let's say if like the person is like who you used to spend like all of your time with find a new person or go to like the library and read some books trust me those books will get you further in life than those toxic friends any bad breakups no touch wood nope what do you eat in a day well I pretty much just stuff my face with pasta right now because I'm having a bit of a meh day and obviously that always like can happen to anyone so don't forget that you can have like bad days and good days and you shouldn't eat your feelings I took my dog for a walk which was good and I had some pasta and for breakfast I had toast and yeah I'm gonna go Jim because I feel like Jim always makes me feel good and seeing my friends always makes me feel good so yeah if any of you guys this was kind of a joint what do you eat in a day with how to get over about a listen to positive energy tapes and read positive energy books go to the gym see your friends and yeah distract yourself that is how I get over a bad day would you ever do a meet up in London I don't know like as in is there enough people in London who want to see me I would love to the other day someone said hi to me on the train hi if you're watching this and that like literally made my whole morning but she said hi to me at like 7.30 in the morning I was like you've made the whole day great now so yeah thanks so much yeah I would love to do a meet up but I don't know how many people come so let me let me know guys if you're interested were you ever bullied as a kid being Middle Eastern or bilingual I was bullied but not for being Middle Eastern or bilingual I remember when I was in year three I joined a new school and the kids all already had their friends and stuff and they said believe me say my eyes were too big and like I was actually like the only Iranian like my school was a lot of like it wasn't really as multicultural like as you would expect to like a British school to be actually to be fair I'm lying because there was a lot of kids like in my area from like Japan and like they're like some Turkish people what many like Arabi Middle Eastern but yeah so anyway I got bullied for having big eyes and but then I found my best friend and that's where I kind of became confident but yeah oh I also got re-bullied again in secondary school and and then again I found my best friend and that's where I became really confident so there's like a silver lining with everything like being bullied is actually horrible and the people who bullied you they don't end up happy trust me I'm 23 now I've seen the lives of the people who bullied me a most of them beg friend me now like beg friend me I'm not even joking with you and I'm just like if you're an evil as a child or as a teenager do I want to be your friend now but second well they have a lot of life issues themselves they have stuff going on that you don't have any idea about everyone does so you know don't be mean to people but yeah beliefs are just you know that's just so much worse off so yeah don't don't think that like just because they look like the cool kids now that they're gonna be the cool kids they really really never ever ever end up being the cool kids I promise you I like I remember my sister used to tell me this when I was like younger she was like I promise you like these people will beg to be your friend when you're older or like they'll like wish that like you know they could hang out with you and I'd be like oh my god sharp like no they weren't and I'd be crying and all this and like I swear to God it's true so yeah it's all about the energy and vibe you give off most important thing to look for in a potential man any views on long-distance relationships hmm okay so I think three most important things for me and like this is my cardinal rule is you've got to have trust respect and loyalty and you have to see that in the person too so if they respect you like they treat you like a lady or they treat like a gentleman and they are like respect like if they're trusting like you know they don't question where are you going who you're going out with like not like in a like obviously it's normal to ask why you're going out with but you know what I mean like if they don't seem like they're constantly just like distrusting and whatever and also if they show loyalty to you you know just if someone pays them attention they're not exactly gonna like just go with the attention then yeah that's the three best qualities you can find not just in a partner but also in friends as well but yeah I think for me there's a three most important things to look for in a potential man and on top of all that you have to gel like you have to have a vibe when the two of you together like you need to feel like oh my god there is no one else I would be having this much fun with or be this happy with or be this comfortable with then I am with you right now so that's what I think as for long-distance relationships I've never like had one or like never yeah it's not pretty come up for me so I don't know like if it would like I can't I don't feel like I can say like oh it's good or it's bad if I haven't haven't got any experience on it I feel like it depends on the scenario like how long were you guys together and then were you like you know separated because one of you moved or like were you separate from the start how long until you decide to like join up and like live together like have you made plans of that have you spoken about that because I feel like those are the things that's important rather than like the trusting and stuff like that because that should have been a given from the start so yeah do you know any Albanian I really like Persian people mostly guys lol they're so hot I don't know any Albanian and I'm glad you think Persian guys are hot I will pass that note on to a lot of my friends yeah sorry I don't know any any Albanian oh my god there's so many questions and I lost my space next question what A levels have you done I did biology chemistry economics maths and Persian I got four A's and B's this question is good have you ever considered going vegan Kim and I did a vegan food trying thing video challenge watch that link down below I don't think I could go vegan as in I get like loads of people do it for like ethical reasons and this and that and I feel like it's everyone's own choice personally and now I don't think I could go vegan but never say never what's the best way to stay positive I think I just answered that before when I was saying about how I'm having like a blur day and I like to distract myself so right now I'm like filming my YouTube video I took my dog for a walk like going out to work and everything and then listening to positive energy tapes I like listening to music sometimes it's even like good to like let's say let your feelings out let's say if someone's made you really mad and you're angry like you know let that anger out not at someone but you know me like or if you're feeling sad and you want to cry it's okay to cry but like don't hold on to the negativity once you've let it out let it go and like start like you know being positive and going back to like distracting yourself seeing your friends going to the gym and doing all the things that you like and enjoy best tips on staying organized and balancing uni knife struggles of the law student xx good on you girl keep studying keep going and achieving your goals so like balancing is all about like splitting your time well so knowing how many hours you have in a day and if you need to wake up earlier wake up earlier if you need to go to bed earlier or later go to bed earlier or later make sure you make time to like see your friends and go out because if you just stay at home and study all the time then you're gonna get depressed so you know give yourself a solid like two three hours every evening to go and whether that's what's your favorite Netflix show or go and see your friends or whatever because so long as you're not in exam season you know you deserve that free time to relax I'd say like when you're not in exam season only aim to study like two hours a day not more because you know it's about work-life balance if you've had a full day of going to work and then you're studying two hours on top I think you've done enough but that's just my way of thinking about it yeah and go with what you think is right as well I remember when I was in my third year and I was vlogging or was I my fourth year people used to message me and be like oh my god how do you study medicine and you have time to go out all the time and vlog on YouTube and upload it and like you know do all of this like how and I remember I literally sat down at one point and I was like oh my god how am I doing all of this like crap and then I kind of open my eyes and realize wait a second girl you made it this far to get into med school get all the way through to third year or fourth year whatever I was at that point some of my final year now and you do all these other things and you're gonna let other people who can't figure out how you made it here question and doubt yourself so don't ever doubt yourself you know what's best for you don't let other people tell you how to manage your time or do what's best or blah blah you'll know yourself and yeah go with your gut also I think it's gonna sound so bad but like boys can be distracting or girls can be distracting so like make sure if someone is like in your life that they're not like distracting you from what's important because I know what it's like where like you could be like in a lecture or something like that and like you're just thinking about why did he message me this or why hasn't she text me back and they went out last night and this and that and so don't let like if you have that sort of toxicity like around you where like you're just constantly thinking like someone's on your mind for the wrong reasons you got to cut them out too because that gets in the way of your studying and at the end of the day you're still like young and you still want to get to places and you if people are already getting in your way then what's gonna happen when you have even bigger goals and dreams so don't let anyone get in the way and don't let anything distract you sometimes I feel like when I answer these questions like I'm giving so much input once like I'm jumping like I have flight of ideas oh my god guys literally hit me okay ooh this one's a long one hi seppy my questions long so I need to send it through DM okay that's fine I know a boy for two years and both of us are med students but he is three years older than me during the last two years we've been chatting a lot in the beginning we used to chat every day but as time goes on we chat a bit less maybe three times a week and when we have exams we chat at least once a week he mentions me as one of his best friends as sometimes he's so flirting calls me baby on the other hand sometimes he acts like we're just friends and I told him as I'm not officially his girlfriend he must not call me baby and it bothers me last year Valentine's Day he got me a gift I love him but I really don't know how he feels about me I'm confused and can't concentrate and I'm sick and tired of this situation I don't want to lose him but at the same time I don't want to fool myself and waste my time on him if he really doesn't love me what should I do I don't want to make the first move should I leave him okay so let me give it to real sis with guys if they're into you then they will show you that into you and usually you'll notice that at first when you know that they're on the chase they text you good night they text you good morning they'll send you memes they'll want to come pick you up from wherever on earth you are like clearly I sound like I'm coming from the blaze of experience but what I'm trying to say is if they're into you like in the beginning or whenever then they'll show you and if you're questioning if they're into you or not they're probably not into enough and it's because maybe they think they already have you maybe they've got their eyes on someone else I don't know and I know that's not something that you want to hear it's not something that all of us want to hear but any of us want to hear but if you're not sure if they like you enough you've got one of two options you can either tell them this is how I feel about you and I just feel like it's kind of obvious so you should know and yeah like what we're gonna do about it or be you can just ignore him because clearly he's not giving you all the attention that you want and when he does come back to you just you know be like well you can't pick and choose so you're either in or you're out I think that's the best two scenarios that are out there and plus when you kind of leave him to it and you'll be like sad for the first few days but then you actually feel a sense of relief like now I'm not sitting here every night wondering like oh my god is he talking to another girl like is he gonna message me are we gonna meet up blah blah am I gonna be disappointed you actually get a sense of relief so yeah that's my advice by the way guys feel free to like chime in on the advice in the comments like if you hear a question that you feel like you can give advice to I love when like all of my little Persian bunnies all talk to each other I don't know if I'm gonna call my father was Persian bunnies I don't know why I came up with that but yeah where do you see yourself in five years PS love your videos exo thank you so much in five years time I would like to think that I'm quite ahead of my career so I'd like to think I'm still on YouTube I don't know I like making videos I do it as like my hobby and I really really enjoy it and I've managed to meet so many of you guys like through it and talk to so many of you guys through it and people all over the world so I feel so special so yeah I hope to still be on YouTube and I'd like to be progressed in my medical career so hopefully specializing and this isn't the one that's not gonna be new to like a lot of you was ears but I might want to move out of the UK I'm not sure it's still just like a thought that's come to me but I'm really sitting down and thinking like what's stopping me from like moving away and like what's really keeping me here kind of thing and I'm quite young I'm 23 so I have room to you know experiment and don't know explore the world so yeah we'll see if you are stuck in an elevator and was forced to listen to only one song which would it be this is the most epic question I've been sent I actually like that one something without any words so maybe like one of like Beethoven's like symphonies or something and because then you can't get bored during if you constantly have the same lyrics going over and over and over again you'd go mad so yeah I'd pick something like that like Beethoven what are your secret skills well if I told you it wouldn't be a secret would they what's your take on the meaning of life oh my god I feel like that is like so intense for me to think about on a Tuesday afternoon but I think I don't know what I think on the meaning of life I have to come back to you on that one are you hoping to end up with a Persian man or you don't mind what nationality so like generally speaking from like people that I've spoken to like I realized I'm more like attracted to guys who are from like let's say like Middle Eastern background or even like so like Arabic, Iranian, Greek, Turkish because I feel like we have a lot of similarities like in terms of like culture but then we also a bit slightly different so I can learn new things as well so yeah that's kind of the vibe that I've always been like attracted to not to say that I will never be attracted to someone from like a different background but from my past experience I feel like that's what I've liked so far but you never know never know who you end up with oh how do you and your sisters deal with arguments with one another so have you seen those memes when they're like when you argue and then you come back and just you don't apologize that you just continue like nothing happened sometimes it's like that sometimes like it will be like we're arguing over like for example like oh I don't think you should do this it's not good for you and like the other person be like it's not your choice it's not your life and then we'll sit down and we'll actually like talk about it after and like we'll have a discussion in a heart-to-heart and all of that we actually have one of those this weekend so yeah it happens frequently I think the best thing is to be like open and like talk to one another like with your family and like always just like you know be comfortable enough to chat to them about anything and like talk through your problems don't just kind of brush it under the carpet if you get mad at each other don't stay stubborn because that's not good either how do you keep yourself away or focus from guys who want to have fun and not date I think the most important thing is first you have to realize like a hundred percent that the person is only after you to have fun and not want to date so you don't want to brush them off really quickly and so just suss them out there and then if you see that you know they're just kind of not serious then you have to cut them out I feel like with boys you have to be really this is not just boys actually this is just like in general whether it's like fake friends boys whatever if you don't want someone in your life anymore then you need to really like diplomatically like phase them out of your life so like don't reply to their well I guess with boys that it didn't work out you don't really owe them much so just kind of like be really dead on text and don't answer their phone calls but like yeah with fake friends just phase them out slowly and yeah that's the way but don't don't get caught up in the whole like your feelings at first because it's so easy to be like oh my god we talk all the time he wants to take me here we've been out there blah blah and then when he starts ghosting you like oh my god but I remember when we went here and he spoke till 4 a.m. about that's like get over it so he probably does it to loads of girls if he's really good at it then you know you don't want to be just one of the 10 millions of girls that he's done this to and you'll just move on and find someone who just wants to talk to you celeb crush okay so my recent obsession I last month started watching power and surprise surprise I'm on the final season season 6 and I am obsessed like obsessed with Tommy Egan and so I was telling my dad and my mom about this and they're like you're actually crazy because I was like he's so loyal like he's just so loyal that there's nothing more attractive than that like he's so loyal to that ghost that like if anyone like fucks over ghosts he's like you're dead literally I mean I think that's a bit much but like I didn't I think that that's such an attractive character is to have and like when he was like with like Holly and like she was like he's like a one-woman man I like that as well like he doesn't mess about even though he easily could so that's my celeb crush but he's kind of like a fake character isn't he so for like physical looks crush it's got to be be young like he is a beautiful be it's for beautiful and be young I really hope he doesn't watch my videos or I'm just so frickin cringe last question I would make it a fun one what is your dream date so this is so easy hands down for me and my dream day would be to go watch Harry Potter in theater I'm gonna sound like a weirdo online but I frickin love Harry Potter so if I could go see it in theater that would be my dream date and then like the next level of that like let's say that was a like a date like just standard with dating or whatever then like the next level dream date of that would be to go to New York to the top of the Empire State Building like Chuck Bass and Blair did in gossip girl so those are my two like dream dates in my life I have to have at some point well I don't have to but as in I'd love to have at some point so yeah I hope that you guys enjoyed this kind of sit-down chit chat if you enjoyed it then please give it a thumbs up and if you want to see more videos like this tell me in the comments because I read all of your comment and I try to reply to as many as I can so yeah get chatting with me I would love to hear from you don't forget to check out my socials they're always linked down below but my Instagram is pageantbunny and my snap is sepi samai I love you all so so so so so much and I'll see you next time bye