 Some of the people you need boundaries for the most are the ones you keep telling yourself are well-meaning people. When we decide someone's nice or well-meaning, we choose to suffer it out. We suffer it out. Stop suffering it out. Because you've said this person's well-meaning when what the truth is, they are a boundary violating human in your life. And you just stop suffering it out, draw a line and cut that energy out of your life.