 The narcissist wants this more than anything. This is what the narcissist wants from you. This is the reason why they loved Bombed You in the beginning and the reason why they later devalued and discarded you. This is the reason why they have to be so impressive and opposing. This is the reason why they care so much about their image and reputation. They want this more than money. They want this more than sex. It is more valuable to them than anything else. What the narcissist wants more than anything is attention. They want you to take notice of them. They want you to regard them as something interesting or important. They want you to pay close attention to them and attend to their comfort or wishes. They want you to emotionally react to them. They want you to feel or think something in response to a situational event and the reason why they need your attention so desperately is because they cannot attend to themselves. They abandoned their true character and personality a long time ago and created a false self. Their false self has to be externally validated. It needs constant emotional reactions. They need to feel seen at all times. They need to feel hued and if at any time they don't feel seen or hued they will throw a fit. They will have temper tantrums because they're like big babies. They need constant emotional support. They need to feel like they exist and nothing makes their false self feel more real than when you emotionally react to them which is why the narcissist wants attention more than anything else. They will go to any length to get their target's attention even at the expense of other areas in their life. It's like a drug and they will do whatever it takes to get it but while they may look silly or crazy to you as they're trying to get their next fix they can't see how ridiculous they look because all they can think about is satisfying their addiction satisfying their cream for attention and they will do whatever it takes to get your attention they will do whatever it takes to impress you they will do whatever it takes to excite you or make you mad whatever it takes to get the reaction that they are looking for because your attention is the only thing that makes them feel alive. Thank you for watching. I hope this video earns it with you. Please like, comment, share and subscribe. Click the bell icon to receive notifications for my future videos. If you would like to donate my PayPal link is in the video description. Couching and inquiries, you can email me at narksforevercoaching at gmail.com Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon.