 So we are waiting for marriage to do, but in the Bible, sex is considered penetration, so we don't do anything relating to penetration. So if you want to use your imagination and decide what we do and do not do, you go right ahead. Is this a biblical statement? To find out, let's go to Matthew 5, 28. But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. To lust is to think sexually about someone that you're not married to. Believe it or not, there's no exception given to boyfriends or girlfriends. Jesus is not just concerned with your physical activity, he's concerned with your thought life. For this is the will of God, your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God. Seek to develop godly boundaries with your significant other. This isn't God just trying to ruin your fun. He truly has your best interest in mind.