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My god This woman is credentialed so Cynthia Clark will be with us in a minute And she gonna be talking about our hands and all the stuff you can look at for palmistry But she does way more and what's so cool that she's doing right now with hands is she's helping people find love There's soulmates as well as a dating and she's kind of dating up that literally uses your hands super smart I can't wait to hear she's gonna say to me. Don't get in the dating game There ain't nobody gonna be for you girl because of this Where it was going on or oh my god, you know, you're gonna have millions of Humans running after you or just a few who might get help quirky and awesome you are I don't know. We're gonna find out and more because she'd be reading my hands in real time and telling you more about yours So I want to start right here at the get-go talking about power, but specifically I want to talk about Soft power. I want to talk about the secret of soft power. Don't you love the sound of that? I do love the energy of soft power. So what is soft power soft power is something that talks about kindness That's about respect That's curiosity That's loving our heart Because soft power acts as a really powerful force and I know because you felt it at times You've had it received it from other people it creates a lot of good as opposed to the hard power that surrounds us all the time hard powers like Powerful. I'm gonna succeed. I'm gonna use force. I'm gonna use intimidation I'm gonna use dominance is all these really temporary advantages and what is that about hard power is really about fear Right. It's not about real power It's about putting on some kind of mantle or identity of power And it doesn't create a lot of good out in the world. God knows it does not feel good in our beings. So Soft power instead can you make a choice right now to exist from that today? And if you love it today to choose that every day, let's talk about soft power because on the other hand Soft power is this ever-present awareness It's an awareness of our being it's awareness of a being that supports and connects all of us If we're all energy and we're all one and we are truly all connected So please stop acting separate because joe ain't You actually are a part of I'm you you're me etc Even this gorgeous water bottle. Thank you bernay musaccio for this crystal water bottle gift with the sacred geometry on it This plant this crystal these you know, I could point out so many things in my space because we come from that place of understanding Compassion receptivity. We remain in our strength We remain empowered and while we can find common ground with each other and mutually agreeable solutions To all of life's conflicts and challenges right now. We can choose Soft power so the thought that I give you for today should you choose to accept it is my strength Lives lies in my being my strength lies in my being It was st. Francis Day cells who said nothing is so strong as gentleness nothing so gentle as real strength Well, dare to dream was nominated for two people's choice podcast awards It's available on over 40 syndicated outlets and again subscribe leave a review And if you would like to donate a dollar or more to keep sustaining this show If you listen and watch and I know a lot of you do go to patreon.com slash dare to dream donate there And we love you in advance for doing it This show is sponsored by dr. Dane here and access consciousness if you're ready for Like that healing check them out. I'm telling you the worldwide their products their services Their workshops any place really, um, it's so incredible. How exponentialized they are right now Dr. Dane here who's a great friend to the show He does beautiful work out in the world and access consciousness dot com So my question to you is what is a palm reading consultant and heart harmonizer We're going to find out today because maybe it's all in your hands Maybe my guest today is Cynthia Clark. She's a palm reading consultant and compatibility expert She's the author of stories in your hands and sythias worked with over 7000 people in the last 10 years to unlock the truth of their highest potential and joy She runs a worldwide dating platform that uses palmistry to help people identify and find their soulmate match You can find out more about sythia at love in your hands Dot com love in your hands dot com and I welcome the beautiful sythia to Dream show sythia Thank you. Yeah, I'm so excited to be here Well, I'm so curious. How did you get into this because You know, I didn't even talk about all of what you do But I have to say I was super blown away by all the modalities that you've Gone after that are part of your wheelhouse that are part of probably the huge soup that you offer people But they're these cool cutting edge modalities. I don't know how you had the time to do all of them But how did you get attracted to specializing in so many things? Well, um, it's fun. You mentioned the access consciousness because that's actually one of the things i'm certified in I noticed and I love that modality It's fantastic, especially for people with mental blocks. It works terrific Um, but yeah, I I think I've been a healer Probably my whole life and I just didn't realize Until I started reading hands That that's what I am. So now I just kind of all clump it together in the term heart harmonizer Because I I do believe that if we can heal our heart And if we can move past all of the subconscious influences and blockages We can open up the life that we want And it's all about that that dare to dream right? It's it's we can we can open up to dreaming a new possibility for ourselves I love that dreaming a new possibility and stepping into a new possibility and especially around love and dating You know for a lot of people that's prevalent. They may have had a relationship or been in a relationship It's not been successful divorces. It's on the up and up. We all know or people are still in relationships We're not really happy there or I know a lot of beautiful articulate people out in the world like I just can't find that person So talk about that. So why for you did dating become your thing in love? well, I've been a palm reader for the last 10 plus years and I would say good 40 percent 30 to 40 percent of my readings Were Relationship oriented or focused So I definitely had that perspective already with all of my clients over the years But how it really happened for me was going through my own relationship traumas I was married for 19 years and then I got divorced And that was incredibly stressful. I ended up with vertigo for nine months And I couldn't drive a car. I I couldn't eat It was horrible I couldn't travel. It was it really just knocked me completely flat on my back And then I got into what I consider a fatal attraction relationship, which was A great lesson. I look back on it now and every I consider everything as a lesson for growth and learning And so I I learned a lot in that that went on enough for about two years And all this time I was healing myself and working on myself And then I eventually found my who I consider one of my soulmate matches And I'm happily remarried now and I've I just had my two-year anniversary Yeah, so now I feel like hey, I have a perspective That I feel like Not only from the hands and all these years of studying hands But now I have a perspective to really Guide people through the whole journey because I've just gone through it all myself Right. Yeah, it's important when you've had your own dark night of the soul I think it makes you a way better teacher And leader in whatever your field is if you have a deep understanding of the dark night of the soul and what your clients go through it makes your Wound become your gift right your mess become your message out into the world So using palmistry then Cynthia How does somebody know what's the right emotional type for me? How would I know that? How would you know that? Yeah, so your the whole system that I came up with Didn't come overnight for sure. It took several years actually to develop and Really figure out. Okay. The hands don't just tell us You know, a lot of people think it's going to tell us how many kids we're going to have or when we're going to die or things like that Which is actually not true Okay, because your hands your hands actually have three different aspects to them So they're very complicated Number one is they have fingerprints Which form five months before you're born and they never change so that represents your soul imprint Okay, so you can think of that like the big overview of looking at this lifetime and what you wanted to experience And that also affects your your relationships Okay, then you've got your hand shape which forms by the time you're about six years old So you you can think about being like a little baby to being about six years old You're completely in your subconscious mind at that time And you're absorbing everything around you and your hand shape isn't set until your personality starts to gel And that's about age five or six. So that's going to show you your subconscious personality traits and your influences that are going to impact you for the rest of your life And then you've got the lines and everything else in your hands that is changeable And so you can think of the lines like rivers of energy They ebb and flow based upon how you are using your free will So for example, if you are really stressed out or if you are struggling with your work That's going to show up in your hands and that's going to reflect Through some of the stress lines in your hands. You're saying that it let's say someone's going through a period of stress So there'll be stress lines that show up But once that event is passed will that go away and leave the hand? Wow It will and I've I've tracked people over the years and I've seen the changes in people's hands and it's amazing You see that So it's it really gives you um hope and empowerment that yes, you can Affect your life and you can change things and things are not set So we have the fingerprints We have the shape of the hand and then we have what's inside of the hand The only thing that never changes is the fingerprints correct Yes, and for the most part also the hand shape that's pretty well set by the time you're about six So it is really interesting to kind of when you do an analysis of the hand you overlay all of these things together And that can really give you a good idea of who you're compatible with every single person by the way has soulmate matches And there is a system And I've I've actually automated the whole system into the dating website So that I don't have to read every single person who comes through They can find out who their archetype is And who their matches. So it's it's pretty cool Okay, so I think we're going to launch into this because now I'm Yeah, I'm even seeing people are writing here Wild and how crazy this is and it's exciting crazy. I love it So we're going to launch into a little bit of this because uh Cynthia asked for my hand prints. I have no idea what she's going to say They'll pray for me y'all And I was so hoping it would come out. It's a weird thing. Like you get that weird ink. I feel like I'm with the fbi You know But I just want folks to know who are just tuning in. This is debbie dashinger. This is an award-winning podcast dare to dream We've been around over 12 and a half years I am speaking with the amazing Cynthia Clark and she's a certified palm reading consultant and founder of palmistry world And a dating app based on on your hands y'all So you can find and evaluate and get your compatible matches So much easier than filling out. I like long walks on the beaches Her website is love in your hands dot com. Okay, so right before we launch into this I just want to get a little background for people Palmistry has been around my darling for over 5 000 years, which I find incredible It's the oldest modality, right because the hands reflect the soul the personality the archetypal Influences it's basically the roadmap of the aspects of who we are Right, absolutely. Yes. You can think of your hands like a mirror And it's looking at you and all the different facets and aspects of you And once you learn how to read it, which I consider Um, I consider palm reading a language It's like learning a foreign language And at first you're just like, whoa, what is this whirl and swirl and you know, what are these lines and where's everything going? It's so confusing And I think that's where a lot of people get tripped up is it's it is confusing when you first start looking at hands But there is a language to it and once you learn that language it starts to make sense And the more hands you look at the more it makes sense and then the hands are talking to you and they They have they take on a life of their own and every single person is unique, which I love And it's like it's the combination of everything that that is you So it's it's truly an amazing science and study So Cynthia, have you ever looked at someone's hand? To give them a reading and suddenly thought oh my god I saw somebody else's hand and you guys would be an incredible match. You could be soulmates and connect them Well, yeah, I suppose that is true That could that could happen for me by the way to let me know That could happen for sure But that's why I try to give people into the dating site so that they can they can actually Have that right there and it'll match people and you can also What's cool about the site is in the membership area you can upload as many hand Pictures as you want so you just take a digital picture It doesn't even have to be good quality And you can determine. Okay, it's this person a match for me or not So you just have to get a picture of their hand How do you do that? I mean so like I'm thinking about a an old it's an old word for me Anywhere the xerox machine or like a printer that has a scanner because I had tried as you know to take pictures in my hand with my My cell phone and it was ridiculous. This hand was shaking. I couldn't get the details We ended up doing the ink prints. But what do you recommend people do? Well, I recommend somebody else take your picture because yeah, that'll keep the camera a little bit steadier And just make sure you get the whole hand. So, you know, it's important here I'll kind of show myself like this. But yeah, you want to have the whole hand Because that what we're looking at is the relative Hand shape so the finger lengths and the palm shape and things like that So that's really all you need for the purposes of the dating application if I'm reading for you Then um, yeah print is perfect like I got for you debbie Or I need a high quality Print so I need either a really good quality digital photo Or a good scan, you know, there's different ways to to get a good copy Yeah, it's all about copy people people whether you're marketing or websites or doing palmistry. It's all about the copy so I'm gonna let you take it away because this will give people a feel for if and when they come to you for a reading or if and when they use your dating site at loveinyourhands.com What this is like what they'll receive so I'm sort of excited and a little trepidatious. I have to be honest to hear what you're going to say But mostly excited, so I'm going to let you take it away Yeah, sure. So so when somebody uploads a digital picture of their hand, it's the computer will take you through Just a few questions not very many And it will determine your archetype. Okay, so there are actually 22 different personality archetypes And so for the purpose of the site, uh, we only have you upload your dominant hand So you have two hands. Okay, you have an active hand And you have a passive hand Your active hand is going to show more of your outer self. You're developing self Your passive hand is going to show more of your inner your subconscious self Also, potentials will show up on your passive hand So just upload one hand for the purpose of the dating site When I read for people, however, I do read both hands Yes, there are things that I like to look at on the two hands Number one being the fingerprints and I do need to see all 10 Fingerprints in order to read the map of the soul Okay, so otherwise I have an incomplete map Okay, but so yeah, so the first thing we look at is the hand shape And debbie you happen to have Short fingers and this is relative to your palm. Okay, so it's it you would never compare your hands to someone else's hands Okay, and also by the way one type is not better than another So some people think oh, I got a little short fingers and that's bad. It's actually not bad. It's just your type. Okay By the way, short fingers are an indication that you're better at seeing the big picture of things Okay, so yeah, you're you're more of a a broad perspective type person when you have shorter fingers Okay, now the second thing we look at is your palm shape. Okay, you've got Actually a pretty square palm So I would categorize you with that combination as an earth hand Okay Now an earth hand person is very practical very busy always stuff going on Can't keep up with earth people too much They they're just super They're very loyal type people They they don't necessarily have a ton of friends But the ones that they have are usually lifelong And they're very loyal and stable in that way So if you happen to If you if you happen to be friends with an earth handed person Chances are they're gonna stick by you when things get rough and you know, you can count on them To back you up. So that's some Excellent qualities of the earth person Now Debbie, I would also recommend for you to balance yourself. You need to connect with nature So, you know, whether even if it's just like closing your eyes and imagining that you're on a beach or you're You know up in the mountain or whatever it is, but even just a few minutes a day can balance you A lot of earth types also like gardening and things like that like they literally get their hands dirty and in the dirt That's a really good easy way to do it Or cooking is another you'll see a lot of chefs who have earth hands because they love to cook So it's a good quality So then we look at your fingers now each finger represents a different aspect of you Okay, so to identify your archetype. We look at what is called the strong finger Okay, so We don't look at the thumb in this case because we consider the thumb actually separate from the fingers The thumb actually represents your willpower Okay, so the bigger and stronger and stiffer your thumb is the more willpower you are going to have And by the way, your thumb looks nice and strong. So very lovely thumb No shocker there Yeah, definitely not And looking at your fingers your index finger also known as the jupiter finger is actually what I would consider your strong finger This is index. Yes the index Okay, your your your trigger finger And it looks like you also have a ring on that finger Which also further adds to the energy of that finger So you're actually augmenting the strength that you already have which I consider that a really good thing Yes, absolutely And in this case jupiter is representing Leadership Okay, this is how you look at yourself It represents your power. So I loved how you started the show with the soft power. I'm like, oh, wow This is so bright in the alignment with her reading I love this um, because this combination of earth and jupiter creates the archetype that I call the emperor Okay, now the emperor is about practical leadership Okay, so it's that earthiness that brings it into the real world and it's that jupiter that brings it outward and it has that bigger vision so in terms of um, every single person has it what I call a relationship genius And so when you embody your archetype what that means is that you have the opportunity to be in balance with Your true nature and you have the ability to share that with others Okay, so in your case as an emperor Your relationship genius is that practical um Just guiding somebody else in that leadership role So you need to be in charge So in terms of a relationship you need to be in charge and you need to be somewhat autonomous So I need to stop you there So as a lead so leader is different than love So as a leader no problem 100% being in charge leading other people guiding. Yes, an autonomy on my word freedoms everything But with love is this also bridging over there or the emperor? We're just talking about career Yes, it bridges into love as well So for you for a best partner for you You need to they need to allow you to be the emperor They need to allow you to be autonomous and kind of take the lead And so you need your best match by the way, it's actually a water hand Okay, because your earth earth and water are Harmonious so that would be somebody with long fingers And a long skinny palm. Okay. So I kind of an arrow hand. That's actually your best match And they would have a strong middle finger Okay, so instead of your index finger, it would be their middle finger would be the strong finger So in other words the two like when you put the fingers together The two fingers next to the middle finger wouldn't come up to the halfway point on the upper flange Okay, so they would just they would be way below Okay You can tell the strength of the middle finger And that is the archetype known as justice Okay, so a justice person is going to be very flexible all water types are very flexible And for you as an earth you bring stability For that person because you're earthy So But their flexibility means that they're not going to try and control you because that's when you get really You know like your your cockles will come up and go I don't want that So they can flow with you and around you and it doesn't bother you And it works harmoniously So that's how the system works And you you would do well with other Water types as well So they don't necessarily just have to have the strong middle finger, but that's your very best Match And that would work. I call that the soulmate match and I consider You know, you can have many different soulmate matches, of course, you don't just have one Because it's a hand shape that we're looking at But when you can connect to that type of partner and you can actually Allow each other to be who they are That's what's important because it's going to open up everything in your life It's going to allow you to be on purpose. It's going to allow you to thrive in your career and in your you know Just everything is going to impact everything else and it works so well And that's what I want for everybody. So there's a Quote actually this is from the bible about palmistry, which I love and this is a Hebrew book of Job And the quote is god caused signs or seals on the hands of all the sons of men that the sons of men might know their works So palmistry is in the bible I'm gonna I can't even do chapter x x x v i i like I can't even anymore But it's verse 7 anybody is interested And so if if it's even in the bible that we have an imprint So we might know our works of what I heard you say earlier was our purpose out in the world Why we're here that our soul had great design for us and it's here I would love you to tell me so If you could just illuminate some important factoids what what am I supposed to be doing? I mean I think I'm doing it, but I also Constantly feel on my life path. It has not been a one and done It has been an unfoldment and I am in the midst of yet another one And so I always feel the energy of it I've got an awareness of it and god knows and literally god knows I am a hell yes, which is a fun thing to say god and hell in the same I'm a heck yes Like I'm being led. I had to do this in order to do that, but I'd love to hear you fill in some specifics So I know way in Yes, I was going to lead into your fingerprints next So yes, I love that So okay, so just so everybody knows about fingerprints. They're actually 14 different types of fingerprints So there's over 10,000 different combinations that can occur on any When you look at the combinations of people's hands Some types of fingerprints are more common than others But it doesn't make them better or worse again. So this is something I like to stress it's like just because you have a common fingerprint doesn't mean you're common or You know, you're less important or whatever. It doesn't work like that It simply is showing the soul's agenda Okay, so debbie in your case you have 10 loops on your hands One of which is what we call a radial loop meaning that it opens up to The thumb side of the hand as opposed to the pinky side of the hand That one is located on your right hand on your ring finger Okay So 10 loops but one radial So this puts you into a category we call the school of love Okay, so on a soul level you came to experience love and closeness And you and that's I love where this again this soft power comes in. It's like the emperor with love It's what I would call you When I look at the combination And so you really are here to connect your soul In many different capacities and facets And you do that through emotional authenticity The loops represent the water element and so yeah, that's where you need to be emotionally authentic In other words not stuffing your feelings not exploding them but actually allowing yourself to feel everything that you are feeling And being okay with whatever comes up Okay, so that's your that's your soul's agenda and what you're working to master And and also I look at this is also what you're demonstrating to a partner to others So professionally and personally You're helping them to open up emotionally authentic energy Okay, this is what you're all about And your purpose is that little Radio loop located on your right Apollo we call that the Apollo finger the ring finger And we this is what we refer to as the master of creativity Okay, so Apollo is like the god of the sun, right? He's the one who carried the the chariot across the sky carried the sun across the sky So when you think about that, it's like okay, your sun energy is tapping into the unique aspect of you and showing it to the world Okay, so it's like your specific contribution so In your case being creative is just part of who you are and That's what you need to do because that's where you feel good. That's what makes you feel good It's your you can think of this like your happy zone Okay And I love that it's a radio loop too because it again it ties right in with that love energy of you You're so open to others Like it's all about helping others and making a connection The key for you is to Make sure that you're also being true to your level of creativity and what you specifically want to contribute That's authentic for you So just asking yourself. Yeah, do I do I want to express this or do I want to tweak it? Or how do I want to do it? And so that's tapping into your emotional authenticity And you know it can change of course it can change like you mentioned over time And it will change over time Because as you learn your lessons and as you go through the the different emotional gamut You're going to learn something from each of those experiences And it's going to push push you right into a new level of creativity Is there anything I need to know that really stands out? Whether it's the shape of the hand what's inside the hand or the fingerprints anything that's Really of import. I don't care if it's love. I don't care if it's my hair. I don't care if it's Where I should be living or anything but something that like This really is indigenous to you and important for you to know As a guiding light or something to watch out for or something you don't even know about yet I'd be interested in that Yes, there were several things that I noticed about your hands. Actually, um, you have square hands Uh, you had three palmer prints as well. You had two loops of productivity, which means again, you need to be busy and productive That's just your nature Um, no escaping that Um, you also you have common sense to which by the way, that's not in everybody's hands So lots of good common sense You have a loop of intuition Tied in with what we call a Persephone headline It's a headline that curves very deeply into the palm and you do not think like most people do So, I mean out of all the hands I looked at, you know, um, this type of Uh headline it's called is not very common So you're you have a headline very similar actually to einstein Who was also a very deep thinker Okay, so that's kind of fun. You have something in common with einstein and Yeah Who would know that but yeah, so a deep thinker Also ties in with your secondary archetype, which is the moon So you need to really tap into that intuitive side because you have a very strong intuitive side And it can apply to you've got these things called rings of Solomon on your passive hand Which wrap around your uh jupiter finger and that represents emotional intelligence So your deep thinking can really lead to an empathy gift Leading to helping people to really get through their emotional stuff And that's something that you naturally embody Um, I do see a little bit of heartbreak trauma your heart line is a little bit broken Which is totally normal and you also have a low set little finger Which means that you would like to have more connection You are seeking more connection and more closeness And it can come from childhood where you may not have gotten that in childhood So the low set little finger is actually pretty common So it just shows that you didn't get that when you were young And then your lifeline is um not having to do with how long you're going to live But it shows that it actually is kind of going over towards the luna mount as well Which is an indication that you are not connected to a specific location Okay in terms of like you may live in a like the same place your whole life or not But emotionally you can connect wherever you go Yes, kind of a great quality. That's very true Yeah, I consider that a positive thing to see in in a in a lifeline So you can just kind of make your home Even when you're on the road Which is kind of fun That is very true. And I thank you that's I I appreciate you saying that You know, I'm a canceran with a Scorpio moon and a Leo rising which is really an interesting combo platter So especially the canceran is a nester a home person a home body And I've always been fascinated. I mean, I have great love for travel and I as you said the busy also manifests and I love going to events and just I love experiences and connections so much So I can easily go someplace and that's home And I've often thought how interesting for a canceran to be able to find a nest In so many different locations and circumstances and I do love that quality And then sometimes it's actually weird to come back home and be like, oh This is what it looks like here. It's like with totally fresh eyes So that's very very true I want to ask you a little deeper about the Persephone line because you said that's very unique And I want to know a little more. What does that indicate? What are the inherent gifts there or indications? What needs to be done with that or how does that manifest? well I find it interesting to see that on an earth hand because those two normally wouldn't go together Because most earthy types are really practical, you know, you know, they're just in their day-to-day physical world But you take it to another level with that Persephone headline. You like to contemplate the deeper meanings of life Come on And that's what you're all about And and you can bring it into the practical That's your beauty. That's your gift of the combination of the earth with the Persephone It's a beautiful combination So whereas if you were all water, for example, you would probably just keep it in your head or you know I don't know how it would come out. It might not come out at all But with you you can kind of go in and you can mine the the gifts of the deep And things that other people would simply not see and you can feel it Like this is how it comes through. It's like that emotional knowing And very instinctive So you've got to trust those instincts more than anything because you have that ability to pull it out And you're going to be right on target I still need to I keep and I don't know the question But I feel it around what you're saying. I'm so grateful. It's so apropos right now With what what feels like it's unfolding with what you're saying And and if you could give me something deeper spiritually about this How might you advise someone like me to go forth and multiply? No, it's a joke How would you recommend somebody like me? Okay, girl Persephone headline Like now's your time. How could I take this forward? How could I? I know it's there. I completely concur with everything you're saying a thousand percent But something else is coming up for me around this at a deeper level than ever before And I love you to speak to that. How could I Allow this to be even more than ever before What exploration what invitation what should I look for me or out there? Yeah, I mean I would suggest as an earth person The best way that you could probably connect to this is through the physical so either through nature or through Connecting with the earth. So maybe going to sacred sites might be really good for you I don't know if you've traveled to some sacred sites, but I feel like you would really tune in When you are in a heightened sacred site Um, I mean I live in Sedona now. So we're surrounded by all these vortexes And I love it But I could see you as this earth person like you could really physically connect Another thing I would recommend for you is crystals Um connecting with crystals. I think would be yeah, there you go That's going to really work for you working water with rose quartz in it right now. So how Perfect and I'm surrounded. I mean I would take you on a tour, but like I have stuff everywhere Now yeah, yeah crystals Yeah crystals are really going to help I think open up that Persephone gift for you And maybe even just holding a crystal and asking it to guide you or give you a message or something like that It might be useful or even putting it under your pillow At night time might be really useful Because Persephone really is the realm of the subconscious the realm of dreams And it's like okay It's sometimes it's not so accessible. We sort of have to allow it to come in And we have to get out of our own way So sometimes you can't force it. You just have to open the door and say okay. I'm available for the message Oh, thank you amazing anything else before we Move to another subject here Um, well those are definitely your big key markers that I'm seeing Yeah, the the important ones Am I easy to date? Just let's get it out of the way Well to be honest, uh, no Um emperors are not always the easiest to date However, um again to me it goes back to quality over quantity And all you need to do is find somebody who's actually just compatible with you and it's and it's going to be a beautiful thing Okay. Yeah, it's true. And I'm I'm disinterested in a lot of people. I mean I get bored so quickly You could tell right away like But yeah, when I do find somebody compatible, it's it is a big thing This is so fun and folks stick around because in a minute I'm going to ask her some stuff that you can do right now pull up your own hands You don't have to buy anything got your own hands ways you can look at what you gots right there And that you can figure out some stuff about you I just want to give you because I thought this was so cool some of her modalities Why I said what I did at the beginning of the show What uh, Cynthia Clark does and is already certified in astrology Feng Shui Trinfinity eight, which I'm beyond this is another show girl because I'm like, what is that? I just like oh my god every energetic pour of me is like I want to experience Trinfinity eight she also does psych k which I do know about Reconnective healing do know about excess consciousness bars darling. I'm also a facilitator. We can trade Plus tarot and oracle reading. 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So if you take a look at your hand, you have these things on your hand called mounts Okay, now when you relax your hand and you kind of tilt it a little bit sideways You can see these little pillows and puffiness sections to your hand Okay, those are called the mounts And if you want to take a look at your venus mount, which is the one that wraps Uh on the inside of your lifeline, okay? The lifeline is the major line that wraps around your thumb ball and that's your venus Okay, that's your giving energy Now this is really big and puffy that shows a lot of giving energy Okay, so That um, you can think of it as your heart chakra energy as well So you can see the quality of your heart chakra And you can also squeeze it and see how much available energy you have. So if it's really Uh, what I call elastic. That's what we want to see In other words, it bounces back. It's got some, you know, it's got some energy to it Um, if it's if you squeeze it and it kind of collapses That means you're tired That means probably you've either been giving too much Or maybe you are You just don't have a lot of energy right now to give And it could be because you're stressed out in work or whatever reason Now if it's too big In other words, if it looks like grossly out of proportion to the rest of your hand Uh, that's it's that's a sign that it's overstimulated and you could be prone to addictions Because this is what we also call like your sex drugs rock and roll mount So if it's really big and puffy and it's like huge, it's like wow your appetite is Too much. Okay For the balance on that section of your hand Now your receiving energy is luna. Okay, so we talked a little bit about luna That's the far side of the hand Which is um at the base of the hand as well And this again you want to look for the puffiness. This is your area of receiving Okay, so if you Yeah, you look puffy you look healthy Is it healthy receiving? I love to receive by the way Debbie I was going to say your hand is very balanced On both your giving and your receiving side. That's amazing. I'm so happy to hear that. You have no idea Yeah, it looks really good So what you want to look out for is droopiness in this mount Sometimes it'll literally drop into the wrist like that's not a good sign And another sign to check for is redness or blotchiness That's the recognition that your receiving energy is spent And I've seen it a lot of times on people who are caregivers They they just they don't they can't receive because they're so busy taking care of somebody else So take a look at that section and you want it again just to be kind of a healthy pinkish color and And puffy but not too puffy now if it's overly puffy again, so we look at the too much side That could be somebody who's not in reality Okay, so that could be somebody like they're very imaginative, but they're not necessarily In a good way like they can't bring it back to you know the reality So that can be problematic obviously So those are two areas that people can check for Pretty darn easily Which is kind of fun So a reading with you when people sign up for reading with you Is that an hour and do you give them? Do they get materials to tell me what that's like? Yeah, so I work with people worldwide So you don't have to be in Sedona to see me Which is Certainly I've got a lovely space here But yeah, so people can sign up for as little as 30 minutes if they want to do you know a shorter reading Or they can sign up for Coaching I do you know some ongoing coaching type work Or if they want to do an hour, they can do that or even a three session It's kind of like the middle ground like do I I do quite a bit in three sessions We look at everything in your hands We may combine a little bit of tarot with it as well And and some coaching so coaching slash healing So I can I can bring in some of the modalities that I that we talked about as well. So that's kind of fun Oh my god Okay, I that is so cool. So this is where your modality is because you can really Give an incredible overview and matrix with people like I'm really feeling the energy of that How powerful I'd like to start with the hands and then I can go into the healing after that because I can see where the blocks are And I can see where the stress is and then everything shows up in the hands What about somebody who's in a relationship because I was thinking even as you were Doing my reading and saying who I should be with and I'm trying to picture my boyfriend's hands and I I'll have to look at them for sure today but Would would we both send you fingerprints handprints, etc. Then you can talk about Yes holes. Sure. Yeah, absolutely. I've done lots of readings for couples And yeah, it gives a whole new insight into what each partner needs And you know what their natural strengths are and it's it's a lot of fun It really and I think awareness brings compassion As well because it's like, oh, wow, it's in their hands. Like I shouldn't be upset about this You know You're not just a but but you know, you're not just a pain in my whatever Oh, you're actually created that way. It makes sense that you are that like, yeah, it's inherent in your hands Your human design your cards. You're this and that, you know, and that's something I want to say that's very interesting about what your what some of what you shared because Down to the freaking cooking in the kitchen. It comes up in my human design Right. Yeah, like idea and it's interesting. I love I'm a certified wine specialist. I love I don't know about the cooking but I love the eating. I love the breaking of bread with people I love the connection over a meal over I don't know. There's just something so delicious and European about it and Yeah, it's beautiful. Look luxurious to me So it's very interesting that these elements show up in so many different places. It feels like check Like this is no accident. You are built like this Absolutely. And so, yeah embrace that because it's a it's a beautiful thing to share food with people I used to own a restaurant. So I have that nurturing aspect in feeding people Oh, yum This is dear to dream What are you next dear to dream? What are your future dreams and goals? Well, I have a pretty big goal that I actually Um expressed recently to one of my clients Because I was doing a reading for her and we were talking about her dreams And she turned around and said well, what about you? And I was kind of surprised by that. So I was sort of like, oh Well, I better come up with something. I'm ready to like think about this and I and I do think about it all the time But I don't always voice it So it was really fun to be able to to express it to her verbally and really claim it And uh my goal my dream Is to impact 10 million people And help them to find their soulmate match So that's my dream And to do that, where did they go? They go to love in your hands.com and they can get started for free Oh, that's so nice. Wow Yeah, so this is your wheelhouse, you know, if you're a new age Metaphysical spiritual like if this resonates and you believe the science Of the hands and palmistry I mean, first of all, obviously you can get your own information on the dating site about you I'm sure it's got your own qualities and then help you connect with somebody and why not if you've been trying other ways of meeting your person Use synthia's method. I said so beautiful that you're offering this for free love in your hands.com I thank you so much for coming on the show today and sharing all this really interesting information and your brilliance Oh, thank you. It was so much fun. 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