 Some people deliberately misunderstand you in the service of their own dysfunction. It is their inaccurate narrative about you that allows them to avoid having to deal with their own stuff. They have to missee you on purpose to keep that narrative about you alive in their mind. It is their defence mechanism that limits their capacity to see you and experience you in the way that you should be seen and experienced by them. Who are these people in your life? Take note of them and be careful around them. Cheers!